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Love Life With Matthew Hussey

Love Life With Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

Relationships, 971900, Self-improvement, Education, Society & Culture

4.82.9K Ratings

Overview

Modern dating doesn’t have to be confusing! Join Matthew Hussey—New York Times bestselling author, world-renowned dating coach, and host of the #1 YouTube channel for relationship advice—for deep, funny, and brutally honest conversations on everything love, confidence, and relationships. He dives deep into helping people transform the three most important relationships we have in life: the relationship with others, with ourselves, and with life itself.


Every Wednesday, Matthew is joined by his cohosts: his wife and collaborator Audrey Hussey, who brings her signature warmth, wit, and insight; his brother Stephen Hussey, a New York Times bestselling author with a PhD in Philosophy; and Producer David, who adds his unique perspective and humor to the mix. In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and strategies to navigate finding a lasting relationship. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are.


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1584 Episodes

3 Reasons Why He Won’t Commit (And What You Can Do) | Rewind

Does it sometimes feel like men are afraid of commitment? You could be dating someone for a few months—and have a ton of chemistry and a great emotional connection—and yet, like clockwork, you hit a wall the moment the relationship gets to a stage where it feels like it should be progressing to the next level. Just when you start to feel that this could be something real, he puts his guard up and isn’t ready to commit. Situations like these can be unbelievably painful, and they can leave you feeling crazy as you analyze the situation to death, wondering if you’re somehow not good enough. Well, in this brand-new episode, I’ll share with you 3 of the main reasons why a lot of men are afraid of commitment and what you can do to turn things around by circumventing those fears. --- ►► Find the Beautiful & LASTING Relationship You Want. Watch My Masterclass, From Casual to Committed for FREE: GetCommitment.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Transcribed - Published: 12 December 2025

If the Breakup Hurts Too Much, Listen to This

There are breakups that hurt . . . and then there are the ones that feel like they’re splitting your life in two. In this episode, the Love Life Podcast team unpacks the kind of pain that’s so shocking and overwhelming that you can barely make sense of it—the heartbreak that leaves you questioning everything you thought was real. If you’ve ever been blindsided by a breakup, this conversation is for you. You’ll learn what you can do when the pain feels unbearable and what your greatest power can be right now. Whether you want to know how to steady yourself, who to trust with your heart, or how to begin rebuilding, this episode will help you find your footing again. --- ►► A gift for Love Life Podcast listeners: Get 14 days of FREE access to the Love Life coaching program and explore masterclasses, live coaching, real tools (including Matthew AI, for those moments when you can’t stop spiraling), and a community that can help you heal: LoveLifeClub.com ►► Our go-to holiday gift for anyone we love: Check out Cozy Earth’s unbelievably soft bamboo pajamas and the blanket Matthew and Audrey keep on their sofa year-round. Use code LOVELIFE for up to 40% off at CozyEarth.com before December 12 (or 20% off anytime)! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Transcribed - Published: 10 December 2025

4 Levels to Love: Which One Are You Chasing? (w/ Lisa Bilyeu) | Matt Monday

If you’ve ever found yourself obsessing over someone who barely knows you exist, or clinging to a connection that’s all spark but no substance, this video with Lisa Bilyeu is going to hit home. In it, I break down the four levels of attraction . . . and reveal which ones matter most. You’ll learn how to stop overinvesting in situations that aren’t going anywhere, how to recognize when you’re confusing impact with character, and how to stop grieving someone who was never your person to begin with. If you’re done wasting time and ready to build something real, don’t miss this. --- ►► Find the Beautiful & LASTING Relationship You Want. Watch My Masterclass, From Casual to Committed for FREE at GetCommitment.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Transcribed - Published: 8 December 2025

What to Do When Someone Breaks Your Trust | Rewind

When someone’s betrayed or hurt us—especially when we didn’t see it coming—it’s hard to avoid the lack of trust that latches on to us and shadows us into our next relationship. Is there an antidote to this? Is it possible to regain trust after heartbreak? In this episode, I share 8 rules you’ll want to write on sticky notes and keep handy whenever you need a reminder. --- ►► Every Friday, Matthew Hussey writes a personal letter to help you strengthen the three most important relationships in your life—with others, with yourself, and with life itself. Sign up for free at TheThreeRelationships.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Transcribed - Published: 5 December 2025

Why Your Relationship Needs Better Arguments

What if the first “fight” in a new relationship isn’t a red flag at all? Maybe it’s your first real chance to see how you both show up when things get real . . . and whether you can grow together on the other side of it.  This week on the Love Life Podcast, Matthew breaks down the early conflicts most of us dread, why attachment styles hijack our reactions, and how a moment that feels like the end of chemistry can be the beginning of something deeper. You’ll walk away with tools for arguing in ways that build respect and actually bring you closer. If you’re dating, in a relationship, or hoping to be one day . . . today’s podcast may be your new secret weapon. --- ►► Last chance to grab our Black Friday special: 14 days of FREE access to Matthew AI, your personal coach for navigating love and relationships (seriously, this is like having Matthew Hussey in your pocket 24/7!) Sign up now at Askmh.com ►► Hunker down in your coziest PJs with a warm, snuggly blanket. Treat yourself and your loved ones by going to cozyearth.com and use code LOVELIFE for 40% off before December 12. Your holiday list: complete. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Transcribed - Published: 3 December 2025

How to Stop Being Disrespected, Ignored, or Violated in Dating | Matt Monday

Brave enough to date? Then you’ve almost definitely run into ghosting, inconsistency, or someone who disappears then pops back like nothing happened. It hurts the most when hope runs low, and love feels like a race everyone else got a head start in. The issue? We obsess over “Do they like me?” when the real power question is “Do they respect me?” Standards aren’t just defense—they’re offense. Delivered with warmth and a bit of humor, they spark attraction instead of shutting it down. And in this episode, you’ll learn how to do just that. --- ►► Never Face Your Love Life Alone Again. Try Matthew AI for FREE: AskMH.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Transcribed - Published: 1 December 2025

What to Do When He Won’t Commit | Rewind

You’ve been seeing someone for months. They give you attention, consistency, and intimacy—but when it comes to commitment, they always have a reason why “now isn’t the right time.” Sound familiar? In this episode, Matthew Hussey coaches a listener through one of the hardest situations in dating: when someone gives you just enough to keep you hooked, but never enough to move things forward. You’ll learn how to separate reasons from reality, protect your time and energy, and finally stop waiting for someone who isn’t ready to say yes to you. If you’ve ever felt stuck in a relationship that’s “almost” something real, this conversation will give you the clarity—and confidence—to move forward without regret. --- ►► Unlock the secrets to transforming your dating life with our free "Casual to Committed" training. Discover practical strategies to move from casual encounters to meaningful relationships. Don't wait—start your journey to commitment today at GetCommitment.com ►► Never Face Your Love Life Alone Again. Try Matthew AI for FREE at AskMH.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Transcribed - Published: 28 November 2025

Q&A Episode: Male Psychology, Stoicism, and Choosing to Stay Single

In this week’s Love Life Podcast episode, Matthew and Producer David dig into a big question: Is stoicism helping modern relationships . . . or shutting them down?  They unpack how the pressure to stay “strong” can make men harder on themselves for having emotions, why vulnerability creates deeper connection, and how anxious impulses in early dating can quietly sabotage attraction. They also break down what helps couples grow together instead of drifting apart, and how sharing what you want—without turning it into a demand—can actually bring you closer.---- ►► Get 14 days of FREE access to Matthew AI with Matthew’s Black Friday offer! Ask unlimited dating and relationship questions, any time of day. Sign up at AskMH.com ►► Join the waitlist for Sync, Matthew’s AI-supported matchmaking app for intentional daters, at TalkToSync.com ►► Comfort that lasts well beyond the holidays: Treat yourself and your loved ones by going to cozyearth.com and using the code LOVELIFE for 40% off before December 12. Holiday shopping, sorted. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Transcribed - Published: 26 November 2025

Men Reveal the 5 Compliments They Can’t Resist | Matt Monday

Most people think attraction is all about chemistry or confidence, but they overlook one of the simplest tools we have: a well-placed compliment. One genuine line, said at the right moment, can dissolve tension, spark a real connection, and make someone feel truly noticed in a way they haven’t in a long time. In this episode, I’m talking about why compliments hit so deeply—especially for men—and how they can completely change the way someone experiences you. If you’ve ever wondered what actually sticks with someone or how to close the gap with a person you like, this is going to give you a totally new way of thinking about attraction. --- ►► Never Face Your Love Life Alone Again. Try Matthew AI for FREE at AskMH.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Transcribed - Published: 24 November 2025

Will Your Relationship Last? 3 Questions You Need to Ask | Rewind

When you’re deep in a relationship, it can be hard to tell if you’re fighting for something worth saving—or holding on to something that’s slowly breaking you down. In this episode, Matthew shares 3 powerful questions that will help you see your relationship more clearly and know whether it’s time to stay or walk away. You’ll also learn the “dark pairing” traits that quietly erode your confidence and happiness over time—and how to spot them before it’s too late. If you’ve ever felt stuck in the fog of confusion, this episode will give you the clarity and confidence to make the right choice for your peace of mind and self-respect. --- ►► Matthew Hussey’s free Three Relationships newsletter isn’t just about dating—it’s about creating a life you love. Get practical advice and heartfelt wisdom delivered to your inbox every Friday. Sign up for free at TheThreeRelationships.com ►► Get access to my Black Friday special TODAY: 14 days of FREE access to Matthew AI, where you can get your specific dating and relationship questions answered 24/7! Sign up now at AskMH.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Transcribed - Published: 21 November 2025

Powerful Micro-Habits to Change Your Love Life

What if tiny habits could completely change your love life? In this week’s Love Life Podcast, we break down the small, everyday actions that quietly create more confidence, more connection, and way more opportunity. You’ll learn about “micro missions” that can lead to new friendships, relationships, or simply a more fulfilling day, plus other simple shifts that make dating feel lighter and more intentional. We also answer a Love Life Line question about knowing when a relationship is genuinely right for you, followed by a new round of “Steve’s Sleeves” on the bad habits that can hold us back. --- ►► Get access to my Black Friday special TODAY: 14 days of FREE access to Matthew AI, where you can get your specific dating and relationship questions answered 24/7! Sign up now at AskMH.com ►► Join the waitlist for Sync, our AI-driven matchmaking app for intentional daters, at TalkToSync.com ►► For Love Life listeners, Cure is offering 20% off your first order! Stay hydrated and feel your best by visiting curehydration.com/LOVELIFE and using promo code LOVELIFE at checkout! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Transcribed - Published: 19 November 2025

A Dark Way to Predict If Someone Will Cheat | Matt Monday

This week’s episode looks at why even highly intuitive people can miss the signs of a partner living a double life. I share the story of a woman who spent 17 years in a marriage without suspecting a thing—not because she wasn’t perceptive, but because love can dull the very instincts meant to protect us. I also break down the psychological trapdoors that make us overlook what’s right in front of us. The goal isn’t to make you suspicious; it’s to help you trust those moments of quiet discomfort instead of dismissing them. If something has ever felt “off,” this video will help you understand why. --- ►► Answers Tailored to You, In Real Time, When You Need Them Most. Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question Now at AskMH.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Transcribed - Published: 17 November 2025

Why You Keep Attracting Emotionally Unavailable People | Rewind

Ever feel like you’re stuck dating people who never fully show up? Maybe they’re avoidant, inconsistent, or just not ready for real commitment—yet somehow, you keep holding on, hoping things will change. In this episode, Matthew unpacks why we get attached to people who can’t give us what we need and how to break free from that pattern for good. You’ll learn how to reconnect with your self-worth, spot emotional unavailability early, and start saying “no” faster—so you can finally say “yes” to something real. --- ►► Find the Beautiful & LASTING Relationship You Want. Watch My Masterclass, From Casual to Committed, for FREE at GetCommitment.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Transcribed - Published: 14 November 2025

The Best vs. Worst Cities for Dating RANKED

Is love really easier to find in Chicago than in Los Angeles? Or is it all in how you show up? In this week’s all-new Love Life episode, we unpack the myths and realities of dating in different cities—and what your zip code might (or might not) have to do with your love life. Plus, we tackle a Love Life Line question from a listener in her 50s who’s navigating the tricky waters of dating men who prefer much younger partners. Is this a red flag, or should she keep an open mind? --- ►► If you’ve ever felt like you’re giving more than you’re getting, this free Masterclass is for you. Discover how to turn something casual into something real at getcommitment.com   ►► Give the gift of comfort that lasts well beyond the holidays. Head to cozyearth.com and use code LOVELIFE to get 40% off before December 12 . . . the perfect time for holiday shopping! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Transcribed - Published: 12 November 2025

Should You Stop Taking Dating Advice From Good-Looking People? | Matt Monday

This episode tackles a topic that’s as raw as it is real: “I no longer want to hear dating advice from conventionally attractive people.” That line, from a recent British Vogue article, struck a chord with many people, and for good reason. So much dating advice comes from people who’ve never had to face what it’s like to be overlooked or rejected again and again. When you’ve never had to climb from the bottom of the mountain, “just be confident” isn’t advice . . . it’s a reminder of how far the gap really is. This week, we’ll explore what dating looks like when the playing field isn’t level, and how rejection shapes our self-worth. It’s not about bitterness—it’s about honesty, empathy, and finding strength in our own story. --- ►► Find Your Person WITHOUT Having to Go Through All the Wrong People to Get There. Save Your Spot in My Free 60-Minute Training, Dating With Results at DatingWithResults.com ►► Get Stephanie's Books at amazon.com/Fattily-Ever-After-Living-Unapologetically/dp/1784883441 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Transcribed - Published: 10 November 2025

The Biggest Fears in Dating (and How to Overcome Them) | Rewind

Why do we get so in our heads when we start dating someone new? In this episode, we dive deep into the most common fears people face in early dating — from getting too invested too soon, to navigating intimacy and exclusivity when someone’s seeing multiple people. With over 1,300 comments from listeners sharing their biggest dating anxieties, we unpack the most relatable ones and offer real, practical ways to reframe them. You’ll hear us talk about: What it really means when someone wants intimacy but avoids emotional connectionHow to slow down without feeling like you’re “falling behind”Why obsession isn’t chemistry — and how to trust yourself more in the processThe mindset shift that turns “what if I get hurt?” into “what if I stay grounded?” If you’ve ever found yourself overthinking a text, reading too much into mixed signals, or getting attached too fast — this one’s for you. --- ►► Looking for love, clarity, or a fresh perspective? Matthew’s weekly newsletter dives into insights that transform not just your relationships, but your entire life. Sign up for free at TheThreeRelationships.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Transcribed - Published: 7 November 2025

Are Long-Distance Relationships Viable? Our Personal Experience

Long-distance love can be beautiful . . . or it can slowly drive you insane. In this week’s Love Life Podcast episode, we talk about how to know the difference. Are you in something real, or just filling a void? We’ll unpack what makes distance work: from actually planning to see each other to noticing when communication starts feeling one-sided. You’ll learn the signs your relationship is moving forward with real intention vs. when you’re being kept around for comfort or convenience. You’ll also hear from a caller on setting boundaries without feeling needy, plus a hilarious round of “Steve’s Sleeves” on what’s essential, nice to have, or totally unhinged in long-distance love. --- ►► Try Matthew AI for 24/7 coaching and advice anytime at AskMH.com ►► Join the Love Life community and get monthly coaching at LoveLifeClub.com ►► Love the podcast? Leave us a review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts to help spread the word! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Transcribed - Published: 5 November 2025

The #1 Mistake People Make When They Like Someone | Matt Monday

Here’s a really tricky part about dating: The moment you realize you like someone, it can feel like everything’s riding on winning them over. But what really makes you magnetic isn’t trying harder . . . it’s showing up as your confident, authentic self, and bringing your own value to the table without overthinking. In this episode, I break down how to shift your mindset so you stay grounded and relaxed, even when your feelings feel super strong. Don’t miss this key to creating a real connection that lasts! --- ►► Find the Beautiful & LASTING Relationship You Want. Watch My Masterclass, From Casual to Committed for FREE at GetCommitment.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at LoveLifeBook.com ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in One Powerful Weekend. Learn More About my Weekend Retreat at MHWeekendRetreat.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Transcribed - Published: 3 November 2025

How to Heal When Your Ex Moves On | Rewind

Few things hurt more than watching someone you love move on. When the person you thought was “the one” starts building a new life without you, it can feel impossible to breathe, let alone imagine loving again. In this episode, Matthew shares a powerful step-by-step approach to healing after heartbreak—especially when your ex has found someone new. You’ll learn how to stop comparing, regain your confidence, and rebuild your sense of worth so you can open your heart again when the time is right. --- ►► Talk to Matthew AI anytime for coaching, strategies, and support. Try it for free at AskMH.com ►► Join the Love Life Club at JoinLoveLife.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Transcribed - Published: 31 October 2025

Q&A With Matthew: When to Chase in Relationships, Matthew’s Family, and Modern Dating Problems

This week on the Love Life Podcast, Matthew Hussey and Producer David dive into some of the most-asked questions about modern relationships. Should you ever chase someone in love, or does persistence risk crossing the line?  The conversation also takes a personal turn as Matthew reflects on the strong women in his family who shaped his perspective on relationships and life. This episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating the complexities of love and connection today. --- ►► Ready to go from casual to committed? Join the free training that shows you how to create the relationship you deserve. Watch now at GetCommitment.com ►► Love is hard. Sync makes it easier. Join the waitlist now at TalkToSync.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Transcribed - Published: 29 October 2025

How to Heal and Open Your Heart Again After a Toxic Relationship | Rewind

In the aftermath of a toxic or narcissistic relationship, we can lose all sense of self. Whether our partner tried to steal our joy at every opportunity, or they wore down our self-esteem with endless arguments and cold-shoulder treatments . . . the end of a relationship like this will leave us feeling disoriented and lost, and it can be hard to rewire our brains and resume normal life once we’re free. At this point, it can be unbelievably hard to trust other people again. Logically, we may understand that not everyone’s like our ex . . . but emotionally, we see danger at every turn. But there is a way we can heal—so we can move on and learn to trust ourselves again. And in today’s episode, I share 3 mindsets that can help you do just that. --- ►► Looking for love, clarity, or a fresh perspective? Matthew’s weekly newsletter dives into insights that transform not just your relationships, but your entire life. Sign up for free at TheThreeRelationships.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Transcribed - Published: 24 October 2025

“Did Millennials Ruin Dating for Gen Z?”

In this week’s episode of the Love Life Podcast, we’re exploring how Gen Z is rewriting the playbook on love and relationships. Is romance really taking a back seat to mental health and ambition, or is the story more complicated than that? We talk about: • Why Gen Z might be stepping away from traditional dating norms, and whether it’s a pushback against toxic dating culture or something deeper. • The rise of “situationships,” “explorationships,” and other modern takes on connection. • How social media and dating apps have shaped (and sometimes distorted) our ideas about love. • The surprising ways Millennials and Gen Z approach dating, and the lessons any generation can draw from them. The episode also dives into the emotional toll of modern dating, the fear of rejection, and why vulnerability feels tougher than ever. Don’t miss it! --- ►► Love is hard. Sync makes it easier. Join the waitlist now at TalkToSync.com ►► Invest in your space and comfort for added joy with Cozy Earth. Get 20% off at CozyEarth.com/LoveLife ►► Have you tried Matthew AI yet? It’s like having Matthew as your personal coach 24/7. Whether you’re decoding someone’s behavior, crafting the perfect text, or working through a tough moment, Matthew AI is here for you 24/7. Learn more at JoinLoveLife.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Transcribed - Published: 22 October 2025

“The Text Message That Made Me Commit . . .” | Matt Monday

This week’s episode with bestselling author and entrepreneur Marie Forleo is about one of the toughest parts of relationships: those hard conversations you’d rather avoid. You know the ones—where you’re afraid to say the wrong thing, or you’re worried it’ll turn into an argument.  In this episode, you’ll learn how to face those conversations with more confidence and care . . . so you can speak your truth without losing connection or respect. If you’ve ever frozen up trying to find the right words, or held back because you feared the fallout, this one’s for you. --- ►► Talk to Matthew AI anytime for coaching, strategies, and support. Try it for free at: AskMH.com ►► Looking for love, clarity, or a fresh perspective? Matthew’s weekly newsletter dives into insights that transform not just your relationships, but your entire life. Sign up for free at The3Relationships.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Transcribed - Published: 20 October 2025

The Only Dating App You Should Be Using in 2026 | Matt Monday

Dating apps can feel like their own toxic relationship. We swear them off, only to come back because life is busy and meeting strangers in the real world feels nearly impossible. A Pew Research survey even found that more than a third of app users walk away feeling more pessimistic about dating than before. So why do we still cling to them, even when the experience leaves us drained? In this episode, I share the hidden truth that restores optimism in love, plus the one “dating app” I actually recommend if you’re serious about finding a real connection. (Spoiler alert: It’s not what you think.) If you’ve ever felt exhausted by swipes, ghosting, and endless options that lead nowhere, what I reveal in this video may be the missing piece between frustration and finally finding your person. --- ►► Love is Hard. Sync Makes it Easier. Join the Waitlist Now at TalkToSync.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Transcribed - Published: 20 October 2025

How to Stop Choosing Unavailable People (7 Steps) | Rewind

Do you attract emotionally unavailable people? Or maybe you have a pattern of meeting good people and pushing them away because “something doesn’t feel right.” If this sounds familiar, you may struggle to trust your own decisions when it comes to love. This often leads to us looking to others to validate our choices and tell us we’re doing the right thing (which can be dangerous for many reasons). So how can you get out of this cycle? In today’s episode, I share 7 simple steps you can take to make better decisions in love and start building self-trust again. --- ►► Don’t miss your chance to join the October 18-19 Matthew Hussey Weekend Retreat THIS weekend from anywhere in the world. Plus get two weeks of replay access and 30 days of Matthew AI for follow-up coaching—all for just $195. Grab your ticket now at RetreatAccess.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Transcribed - Published: 17 October 2025

What's Behind the Male Fear That Women Only Care About Money?

Join the Love Life Podcast crew for this new episode as they examine the tricky link between money and self-worth in dating, answering questions like: • Do most men feel their value is connected to their income?• How big of a role does money actually play when choosing a partner?• In what ways do money expectations affect our relationships?• How has social media distorted our sense of what’s “enough”? You’ll also learn about the fears and insecurities both men and women face when it comes to finances and relationships, and why confidence and teamwork matter far more than the size of your bank account. --- ►► Don’t miss your chance to join the October 18-19 Matthew Hussey Weekend Retreat THIS weekend from anywhere in the world. Plus get two weeks of replay access and 30 days of Matthew AI for follow-up coaching—all for just $195. Grab your ticket now at RetreatAccess.com ►► For Love Life listeners, Cure is offering 20% off your first order! Stay hydrated and feel your best by visiting curehydration.com/LOVELIFE and using promo code LOVELIFE at checkout! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Transcribed - Published: 15 October 2025

Honest Advice to Anyone Wanting Marriage (I’m Two Years in) | Matt Monday

Marriage is one of the most important decisions you’ll ever make—but it’s also one of the riskiest if you’re not careful. In this week’s episode, I’m sharing the lessons I’ve learned about what makes a marriage work, why rushing into it can lead to heartbreak, and how to know if you’re choosing the right person for the right reasons. (Plus, I share the one question you must ask yourself before saying “I do.”)  --- ►► Transform your confidence and your relationship with yourself, others, and life itself during my Weekend Retreat next week, October 18-19 (which you can watch from the comfort of home if you can’t make it to Miami). Plus receive a limited-time Matthew AI bonus if you book now! Get all the details at RetreatAccess.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Transcribed - Published: 13 October 2025

If You Feel Like You LOST The One, LISTEN TO THIS! | Rewind

Whether your breakup was two days or two decades ago, you find yourself looking back and wondering how things could’ve turned out had you acted differently. Had you known then what you know today. Pretty soon, you’re living in the timeline where you didn’t “ruin everything” with that person . . . ultimately punishing yourself over a parallel universe you’ve created in your mind. In this episode, my brother Stephen and I answer the question, “Is it possible to ‘blow it’ with the right person?” and share how you can turn self-loathing into a better relationship with yourself (and your future partner). --- ►► Protect your privacy and stream your favorite shows with NordVPN. Get an exclusive deal with 4 months free at NordVPN.com/LoveLife ►► Transform your confidence and your relationship with yourself, others, and life itself during my Weekend Retreat next week, October 18-19 (which you can watch from the comfort of home if you can’t make it to Miami). Plus receive a limited-time Matthew AI bonus if you book now! Get all the details at RetreatAccess.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Transcribed - Published: 10 October 2025

When You Don’t Feel Attractive Enough for Modern Dating

Confidence touches every part of our lives. When it’s lacking, it can hold us back in ways we don’t even realize. If you’ve ever: • Caught yourself thinking, “I’m not attractive enough”• Felt stuck in a cycle of self-doubt• Or can’t seem to overcome your fear of rejection . . . this episode is for you. Whether you’ve lost your confidence because of something that happened in the past, or you feel like you’ve never truly felt confident, the Love Life Podcast crew is here to show you how to build (or rebuild) it step by step. You’ll hear practical strategies to help you feel more secure in your own skin and start taking real steps toward the life and love you deserve. --- ►► Transform your confidence and your relationship with yourself, others, and life itself during my Weekend Retreat next week, October 18-19 (which you can watch from the comfort of home if you can’t make it to Miami). Plus receive a limited-time Matthew AI bonus if you book now! Get all the details at RetreatAccess.com ►► Invest in your space and comfort for added joy with Cozy Earth. Get 20% off at CozyEarth.com/LoveLife ►► Protect your privacy and stream your favorite shows with NordVPN. Get an exclusive deal with 4 months free at NordVPN.com/LoveLife Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Transcribed - Published: 8 October 2025

5 Tips for Meeting People (From a Guy Who Couldn’t Use the Apps) | Matt Mondays

If dating apps have left you feeling drained, you’re not alone. Nearly half of U.S. adults say dating is harder now than it was a decade ago, and for good reason: ghosting, endless swiping, and dead-end chats can make anyone feel cynical. Even though it may not feel like it, more than half of us still meet our future partner the old-fashioned way: crossing paths in everyday life. In this week’s episode, you’ll learn five easy and actionable ways to meet people offline. Whether you want to expand your world, get some effective conversation-starters, or simply exchange contact information without it feeling awkward, these simple shifts could change everything . . . just like they did for me. -- ►► Protect your data and stream your favorite shows with NordVPN (and get four extra months here): NordVPN.com/LoveLife ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in One Powerful Weekend. Learn More About my Weekend Retreat at RetreatAccess.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Transcribed - Published: 6 October 2025

How to Make Them Call and Text You Every Day | Rewind

What do you do when someone is great on dates but goes radio silent in between? With only three dates in, it’s easy to feel confused and crave clarity, but early dating rarely provides the closure we seek. Instead of getting stuck in overanalyzing their behavior, we explore how to take control of the dynamic by modeling the kind of communication and connection you want to see. If you’ve ever felt unsure about whether to reach out or how to navigate inconsistent communication, this episode will give you the tools to approach dating with confidence and intention. --- ►► Take back your personal data with Incogni! Use code LOVELIFE and get 60% off annual plans at incogni.com/lovelife ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in One Powerful Weekend. Learn More About my Weekend Retreat at RetreatAccess.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Transcribed - Published: 3 October 2025

Why Women Are Giving Up on Men in 2025

From the rise of financial independence to the rejection of outdated gender roles, we discuss why many women are redefining what fulfillment looks like and why some men are struggling to adapt to these changes.  In this week’s episode, we dive into a topic that’s sparked heated debates and fascinating insights in our community: Why are so many women choosing to stay single? With stats predicting that 50% of women will be single by 2035, we explore the cultural shifts, personal priorities, and evolving dynamics that are reshaping relationships today. Whether you’re single, dating, or in a relationship, this episode offers a fresh perspective on what it takes to build meaningful connections in a rapidly changing world.  --- ►► Take back your personal data with Incogni! Use code LOVELIFE and get 60% off annual plans: incogni.com/lovelife ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in One Powerful Weekend. Learn More About my Weekend Retreat at MHWeekendRetreat.com ►► Talk to Matthew AI anytime for coaching, strategies, and support. Try it for free at: AskMH.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Transcribed - Published: 1 October 2025

The Psychology of Why We Chase People Who Are WRONG for Us | Matt Monday

What if the reason your relationships haven’t worked isn’t about who you’ve been with, but about what’s been missing? In this episode with journalist and author Liz Moody, we explore why finding someone who truly understands you is far more important than a checklist of traits. We also talk about why we’re drawn to the wrong people, and how to break free from those patterns. If you’ve ever felt stuck in love or wondered why you keep ending up in the same painful cycles, this is the episode for you. --- ►► Take back your personal data with Incogni! Use code LOVELIFE and get 60% off annual plans: incogni.com/lovelife ►► Limited-time bonus: Get 90 days of free Love Life Coaching when you purchase an in-person or virtual Retreat ticket before midnight Pacific time on September 30: RetreatAccess.com ►► Talk to Matthew AI anytime for coaching, strategies, and support. Try it for free at: AskMH.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Transcribed - Published: 29 September 2025

6 Ways to Heal Your Broken Heart | Rewind

Whether you’re getting over a fresh breakup or are still having a hard time moving on from a past one, I hope today’s episode will give you what you need to finally feel like yourself again. --- ►► Limited-time bonus: Get 90 days of free Love Life Coaching when you purchase an in-person or virtual Retreat ticket before midnight Pacific time on September 30: RetreatAccess.com ►► Talk to Matthew AI anytime for coaching, strategies, and support. Try it for free at: AskMH.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Transcribed - Published: 26 September 2025

The “Ex Effect”: Why Your Brain Can’t Let Them Go

Do you feel stuck on an ex . . . convinced you’ll never feel that way again? In this week’s episode, Matthew, Audrey, and Stephen reframe “I’ll never be as happy” as an anxious thought, not a prophecy. They unpack nostalgia traps, why we over-glorify past relationships, and how to reclaim your power. You’ll hear practical ways to create new meaning (even at old places), how to stop social media stalking, and change the story you’re telling yourself. Plus, a Love Life Line caller asks whether it’s OK to date while ending a long marriage, and the Love Life podcast crew plays a rapid-fire game looking at post-breakup behaviors that help or hurt healing. --- ►► Limited-time bonus: Get 90 days of free Love Life Coaching when you purchase an in-person or virtual Retreat ticket before midnight Pacific time on September 30: RetreatAccess.com ►► Talk to Matthew AI anytime for coaching, strategies, and support. Try it for free at: AskMH.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Transcribed - Published: 24 September 2025

The Subtle Signs They’ll Commit Forever | Matt Monday

Why does it feel so hard to find someone who will actually commit? These days, it’s easy to get caught up in someone’s curated image: their Instagram-perfect life, charm, and seemingly deep qualities. But having great qualities doesn’t automatically make someone a great partner. And that’s where we often get stuck. In this week’s episode, I break down why we idealize people based on what they project, and how it distracts us from seeing what really matters. I also share the subtle signs to look for in someone who’s truly capable of long-term commitment. (Also: This is your last chance to watch my final free event of the year and discover the one crucial step to reclaim the power in your love life—fast! Visit lovelifereset.com today.) --- ►► Ready to upgrade your sleep? Support your holistic health and save 40% on Cozy Earth sheets with code LOVELIFE at CozyEarth.com ►► Join the 2-day Matthew Hussey Retreat Oct. 18-19 (in person in Miami or virtual): MHRetreat.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Transcribed - Published: 22 September 2025

Want To Keep Their Attention? DO NOT CHASE; Do THIS Instead | Rewind

We all know we won’t connect with everyone we meet . . . but one of the most frustrating situations we can find ourselves in is one where we feel an initial spark and a connection, but things just don’t seem to progress. And in the end, they end up fading as we feel a lack of momentum. Rather than giving in to our desire to double down on communication, there’s a simple shift we can make on a date that allows unique attraction to grow. And it’s the kind of thing that will leave them thinking of us long after the date has ended . . . If you’d like to learn what this ingredient is and how you can add it to your next date, don’t miss this week’s brand-new video. --- ►► Join the 2-day Matthew Hussey Retreat Oct. 18-19 (in person in Miami or virtual): MHRetreat.com ►► Join the Love Life Club: JoinLoveLife.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Published: 19 September 2025

They’ve Stopped Trying? Don’t Chase Do THIS Instead!

Do you ever feel like you’re giving too much in your relationships? In this week’s episode, Matthew, Audrey, and Stephen tackle the exhausting cycle of overgiving and people-pleasing in love. You’ll discover why so many people feel the need to be “perfect” to keep someone around, and how this mindset can actually sabotage connection and attraction. Learn how to break free from this pattern, create space for others to invest in you, and build relationships rooted in mutual effort and respect. If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing all the work in your relationships or struggling to trust that you’re enough just as you are, this episode can help you reclaim your confidence. --- ►► Don’t miss Matthew’s final free live event of the year tomorrow, September 18. In the Love Life Reset, you’ll learn how to take back control of your emotions and your love life, whether you’re single or in a relationship. Save your free seat now at LoveLifeReset.com ►► Join the Matthew Hussey Retreat in Miami this October 18-19 (in-person or virtually): MHRetreat.com ►► Become a Love Life member for exclusive coaching and courses: Get access to live coaching, a full library of content, and unlimited Matthew AI access at JoinLoveLife.com ►► Stay cozy! Get your 40% Cozy Earth discount using the code LOVELIFE at CozyEarth.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Transcribed - Published: 17 September 2025

The Subtle Signs a Narcissistic Partner Is Destroying Your Life | Matt Monday

What happens when the person you trust most becomes the source of your deepest betrayal? In this week’s new video, we explore the shocking Netflix documentary Unknown Number: The High School Catfish, where a young girl discovers her relentless bully is someone she never expected. Using this real-life story, we unpack the concept of “betrayal blindness” and the devastating effects of narcissistic behavior. If you’ve ever struggled with betrayal or felt trapped in a toxic dynamic, this video is for you. Together, we’ll unpack the emotional fallout, the tactics used by narcissists, and how to reclaim your power when someone close to you has caused deep pain. --- ►► Don’t miss the Love Life Reset next week: It only takes 5 seconds to sign up for Matthew’s final live online training of 2025! Discover the one crucial step to reclaim your confidence in love. Save your free seat now at LoveLifeReset.com ►► Join the 2-day Matthew Hussey Retreat Oct. 18-19 (in person in Miami or virtual): MHRetreat.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Transcribed - Published: 15 September 2025

The UNEXPECTED Way to Make Someone Want MORE With You | Rewind

We’ve been told from a very young age to “play it cool”... But as we grow up, we realize that when we feel we need to “play it cool” to keep someone interested, that often means we’re feeling anything but cool... and it usually comes from a place of insecurity or a fear of being rejected. Pretty soon, we find ourselves calibrating our conversations and contorting ourselves to meet the other person’s needs so we don’t come off as needy or a nuisance, and little by little, we start to show them that our needs can be ignored with no repercussions... In today’s episode, you’ll learn the best way to increase attraction and investment in a way that doesn’t diminish your value or make you feel like a nuisance simply for stating your needs. --- ►► Don’t miss the Love Life Reset next week: It only takes 5 seconds to sign up for Matthew’s final live online training of 2025! Discover the one crucial step to reclaim your confidence in love. Save your free seat now at LoveLifeReset.com ►► Join the 2-day Matthew Hussey Retreat Oct. 18-19 (in person in Miami or virtual): MHRetreat.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Transcribed - Published: 12 September 2025

“Nearly 50% of Women will Be Single by 2035”

Have you ever felt like the dating world is rigged against you? In this week’s episode, Matthew, Audrey, and Stephen dive into why finding love feels harder than ever and explore the recent shifts that have left so many people feeling stuck and isolated.  They also share practical tools to help you expand your social circle and build meaningful connections without burning out. If you’ve ever wondered how to take back control of your love life and create the relationship you actually want, this episode is packed with actionable advice to make that happen. --- ►► Don’t miss the Love Life Reset next week: It only takes 5 seconds to sign up for Matthew’s final live online training of 2025! Discover the one crucial step to reclaim your confidence in love. Save your free seat now at LoveLifeReset.com ►► Try Matthew AI for free and get personalized coaching anytime: AskMH.com ►► Join the 2-day Matthew Hussey Retreat Oct. 18-19 (in person in Miami or virtual): MHRetreat.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Transcribed - Published: 10 September 2025

The Simple Mindset Shift That Will Save You YEARS in Dating | Matt Monday

Tired of putting in all the effort while others barely try? In this week’s episode, I share how to stop wasting energy on people who aren’t serious, and focus instead on connecting with people who are ready to meet you halfway. We’ll talk about how the story you’re telling (through your words and energy) can either inspire connection or hold you back. If dating feels frustrating right now, this is what you need . . .  --- ►► Try Huel with 15% off for new customers using my code LOVELIFE at huel.com/lovelife. Fuel your best performance with Huel today! ►► Warning: Once you wrap up in a Cozy Earth blanket, you might never give it back 😅 — snag yours for 40% off with code LOVELIFE at cozyearth.com ►► Grab your in-person or virtual ticket to the Weekend Retreat: MHRetreat.com ►► Join the Love Life Club: JoinLoveLife.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Transcribed - Published: 8 September 2025

How to Stop Obsessing Over Someone You Want | Rewind

Have you ever created an entire relationship in your head before going on a date with someone? Perhaps you’ve been texting with them for weeks and have already deduced they could be “The One,” or maybe you live for the two minutes of conversation you have with them before spin class. Unfortunately, living in our heads in this way can turn into obsessing, and render us incapable of feeling excited about anything other than seeing or hearing from that person. In other words, they occupy a space in our minds they’ve not yet earned! In this week’s episode, I share with you the mindsets that can both help and hurt you in dating, as well as the best way to determine if you and this person could really work out. Tell me what you think in the comments. --- ►► Discover the ONE Crucial Step to Reclaim the Power in Your Love Life FAST Join the Love Life Reset Now for Free at. . . → LoveLifeReset.com ►► Grab your in-person or virtual ticket to the Weekend Retreat: MHRetreat.com ►► Join the Love Life Club: JoinLoveLife.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Transcribed - Published: 5 September 2025

The #1 Reason They Keep Losing Interest in You After 3 Months

Have you ever wondered why so many relationships seem to fizzle out around the three-month mark? In this week’s episode, Matthew, Audrey, and Stephen tackle the infamous “three-month curse” in dating. They explore why this milestone often becomes a breaking point, the hidden dynamics that lead to early breakups, and how unspoken needs or mismatched intentions can derail even the most promising connections. Plus, they share actionable advice to help you navigate this tricky phase and build relationships that last. If you’ve ever felt stuck in a cycle of short-lived relationships, this episode will give you the clarity and tools to break free. --- ►► Try Matthew AI for free and get personalized coaching anytime: AskMH.com ►► Join the Matthew Hussey Weekend Retreat (in person in Miami or virtual): MHRetreat.com ►► Use our link at WeNatal.com/LoveLife for a free month’s supply of WeNatal’s Magnesium with your first subscription (worth $35!) It’s a premium magnesium supplement designed to support relaxation, digestion, and overall well-being. Formulated with four bioavailable forms of magnesium.  ►► Best sleep of your life? Yes, please. Support your mental health AND snag 40% off Cozy Earth sheets with code LOVELIFE at CozyEarth.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Transcribed - Published: 3 September 2025

The #1 Reason You Feel Powerless in Dating (and How to Fix It) | Matt Monday

What if the way you view your past is quietly shaping your present in ways you don’t even realize? In this week’s video, I explore a book that has completely shifted how I think about dating and life. It challenges some deeply-held beliefs and the stories we tell ourselves. This video also uncovers how hidden goals might be influencing your choices, and shares the key to unlocking a more fulfilling love life. This one will leave you questioning everything . . . in the very best way! --- ►► Grab your in-person or virtual ticket to the Weekend Retreat: MHRetreat.com ►► Join the Love Life Club: JoinLoveLife.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Transcribed - Published: 1 September 2025

The #1 Way to Respond to Flirty or Sexual Texts | Rewind

Picture this. A guy sends you a sexual text. How do you respond in a way that gets him to slow down without sending him running away?Check out this ONE ridiculously simple but powerful text to deal with the situation. And be sure to watch until the end. --- ►► Grab your in-person or virtual ticket to the Weekend Retreat: MHRetreat.com ►► Join the Love Life Club: JoinLoveLife.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Published: 29 August 2025

(Rewind): The #1 Way to Respond to Flirty or Sexual Texts

Picture this. A guy sends you a sexual text. How do you respond in a way that gets him to slow down without sending him running away? Check out this ONE ridiculously simple but powerful text to deal with the situation. And be sure to watch until the end. --  ►►  Grab your in-person or virtual ticket to the Weekend Retreat: MHRetreat.com   ►► Join the Love Life Club: JoinLoveLife.com

Transcribed - Published: 29 August 2025

This Psychology Model Will Transform Your Love Life

What if the things you’ve been blaming for where you are in life—your past, your heartbreaks, your fears—aren’t actually what’s holding you back? In this week’s episode, Matthew, Audrey, and Stephen explore a bold idea from Adlerian psychology: that your life isn’t determined as much by your trauma as by the goals you’ve set for yourself. The Love Life Podcast crew breaks down how this flips the script on what we think we know about change, self-sabotage, and why we stay stuck. If you’ve ever felt like you’re spinning your wheels in love or life, this episode will challenge you to see your patterns in a whole new way. Are you ready to uncover the hidden goals that could be keeping you from moving forward? --- ►► Try Matthew AI for free and get personalized coaching anytime: AskMH.com ►► Join the Matthew Hussey Weekend Retreat (in person in Miami or virtual): MHRetreat.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Published: 27 August 2025

311: This Psychology Model Will Transform Your Love Life

What if the things you’ve been blaming for where you are in life—your past, your heartbreaks, your fears—aren’t actually what’s holding you back? In this week’s episode, Matthew, Audrey, and Stephen explore a bold idea from Adlerian psychology: that your life isn’t determined as much by your trauma as by the goals you’ve set for yourself. The Love Life Podcast crew breaks down how this flips the script on what we think we know about change, self-sabotage, and why we stay stuck. If you’ve ever felt like you’re spinning your wheels in love or life, this episode will challenge you to see your patterns in a whole new way. Are you ready to uncover the hidden goals that could be keeping you from moving forward?   Links: ►► Try Matthew AI for free and get personalized coaching anytime: AskMH.com ►► Join the Matthew Hussey Weekend Retreat (in person in Miami or virtual): MHRetreat.com

Transcribed - Published: 27 August 2025

How to Know When to Leave a Relationship | Matt Monday

What do you do when you love someone deeply, but something still feels off in the relationship? In this week’s episode, I sit down with TV and podcast host Kamie Crawford to tackle one of the hardest situations in love: how to walk away from a relationship that’s full of love but missing the compatibility needed to really thrive. We break down why love—while powerful—isn’t always enough to sustain a happy, fulfilling partnership. We also share the key questions you need to ask yourself when deciding whether to stay or go. Whether you’re questioning your current relationship or seeking guidance for the future, you can’t miss this conversation. --  ►► Grab your in-person or virtual ticket to the Weekend Retreat: MHRetreat.com ►► Join the Love Life Club: JoinLoveLife.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Published: 25 August 2025

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