Could you ask a few key questions to say, people always ask, is this the right person for me?

How do I know? Do I just need to intuitively feel the butterflies, or is there something I should think about with this person?

How many questions do you need to ask, Steve?

Four, according to my article. Very good. I haven't seen this article, Steve, in a long time. So I'm very

curious to see whether I still agree with the questions. This is going to be good. So what you think

of this one? First of all, do you feel a unique sexual attraction to this person?

So I remember reading way back in, I think it was like an old Steve Pavlina article,

but it was just a fact that, look, couples get into a lot of trouble.

If you don't choose someone who turns you on

physically, who gives you some feeling of animalistic pull towards them, is very hard to get

that flame going later on. So you want to start with some kind of unique sexual chemistry

with that person.

Do you feel, Steve, that some people don't experience the sexual chemistry that they could with another person on a date, not because those two people don't have it,

but because nerves have gotten in the way,

because a kind of over-uptight,

the feeling of that stuffiness of a first date

has got in the way of the kind of loose, playful energy

that allows sexual chemistry to flourish.

Sure.

There are environments where you'll be more sexy.

There are environments where you'll feel more sexy and you'll be your, you know, more relaxed,

playful, fun self.

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