Why Self-Love Is the Key to Healthy Relationships | Rewind
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey
4.7 • 3.1K Ratings
🗓️ 13 March 2026
⏱️ 48 minutes
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Summary
Many people believe that finding the right partner will finally make them feel complete. But what if the real work begins before the relationship even starts?
In this conversation, Matthew sits down with Humble the Poet and shares the lessons that changed the way they understand love, attraction, and self-worth. They dive deep into: why we often chase the wrong people, how childhood patterns influence who we’re attracted to, and why the ability to receive love may be just as important as the ability to give it.
Whether you're single, dating, or trying to build healthier connections, this conversation will help you understand why you keep repeating the same relationship patterns.
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| 0:00.0 | Today we have a guest, a friend of mine, humble the poet, an author, an MC, a spoken word artist, and an |
| 0:15.5 | incredible thinker who has just written a book on love. And so I invited him along today to talk about |
| 0:23.1 | self-love, healing, the patterns that we engage in in early dating that sabotage us. And I think |
| 0:31.2 | what you're going to find in listening to this conversation is not just really valuable insights |
| 0:35.2 | on men and bridging the gap between men and women |
| 0:41.2 | and understanding why men do the things they do, it's also going to be a really amazing |
| 0:47.0 | insight into the patterns that keep us from finding real love. |
| 0:52.9 | So I think the best word I can use to describe this conversation is |
| 0:57.1 | healing. If you're single right now, I think you're going to come away from this conversation |
| 1:02.2 | feeling better about being single right now and also feeling like you have more hope |
| 1:09.2 | for the future in finding someone. |
| 1:11.9 | So I present to you, Humble the Poet. |
| 1:20.1 | I'm so excited about this because it's speaking of being vulnerable. |
| 1:23.9 | I read somewhere that you wrote this book, which is called How to Be Love. |
| 1:28.8 | Are you saying how to be love or how to be loved? |
| 1:31.1 | So you inspired this title because... |
| 1:34.0 | I didn't know that. |
| 1:34.8 | Yeah, you inspired the title because you told me to meet the audience where they're at. |
| 1:40.2 | And I think, you know, one of the references you made was, you can make a video about self-love, |
| 1:44.4 | the title to video, something a little bit more surface level, like why he won't text back. |
| 1:49.7 | And I really thought about that. |
| 1:51.1 | And I was thinking about that, you know, catching myself, even what was catching my eye. |
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