16 Red Flags You Should Never Ignore in Dating | Rewind
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey
4.7 • 3.1K Ratings
🗓️ 7 June 2026
⏱️ 29 minutes
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Summary
Red flags get all the attention in dating—but what about the warning signs that aren't dealbreakers?
In this episode, Matthew and Stephen break down the difference between red flags and "amber lights" (or yellow flags), and why knowing the difference can save you from making a costly mistake.
Some warning signs reveal a serious compatibility issue that shouldn't be ignored. Others may point to challenges that, when handled well, can actually strengthen a relationship.
Join Matthew and Stephen as they put common dating scenarios to the test and explore how to tell the difference between a relationship that's worth investing in and one that's likely to cause heartache down the road.
If you're dating someone new and trying to separate genuine concerns from normal relationship challenges, this episode is for you.
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| 0:00.0 | Should we do this as like overrated, underrated, but on what people say are red flags? |
| 0:09.0 | Yeah, a bit like that. |
| 0:10.0 | I mean, some of these are ridiculous. |
| 0:11.9 | Okay. |
| 0:12.5 | But yeah. |
| 0:13.3 | Go on. |
| 0:13.6 | Well, then let's see. |
| 0:16.4 | Okay. |
| 0:17.0 | So this is a very popular one, but it's people who are rude to service workers. |
| 0:22.6 | So I can't stand it. |
| 0:24.9 | Yes, okay. |
| 0:26.2 | I agree with that. |
| 0:27.5 | Appropriately rated. |
| 0:28.8 | Yeah. |
| 0:29.6 | You've got to pay attention to how people treat those who they feel can do nothing for them. |
| 0:37.8 | Yeah, yeah. |
| 0:39.3 | Waiters, it always seems, the focus always seems to be waiters. |
| 0:43.1 | Yeah, I know it's always waiters. |
| 0:44.4 | I do feel like we should be talking, you know, let's talk about, let's include everyone |
| 0:47.9 | in the mix. |
| 0:49.4 | But I, it's always, you know, there's a very, very defensive about waiters in particular. |
| 0:53.6 | But I do, I do agree. |
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