4 Ways To Spot Somebody Who's Right For You | Matt Monday
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey
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🗓️ 4 May 2026
⏱️ 17 minutes
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Summary
In a world of endless dating options, it’s never been harder to know if you’re choosing the right person.
If you’ve ever found yourself overthinking signals, questioning compatibility, or wondering whether early dating challenges are a red flag or normal speed bumps, then this episode is for you.
Instead of focusing on surface-level traits, we explore the deeper patterns that actually determine whether a relationship has real potential. These are the kinds of things you can feel but can’t always put into words.
In the early dating stages, where everything feels uncertain, it's easy to get overwhelmed. In this video, I highlight 4 ways to figure out if somebody you're seeing is right for you.
So if you’re tired of guessing and want a clearer sense of direction in your love life, this will give you a new lens to look through.
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| 0:00.0 | One of the most torturous debates we have inside our own head in our love lives is whether the person we have started dating is right for us. |
| 0:12.0 | What if we already have too much friction for two people who are more physically to be right to someone else? |
| 0:16.0 | What if there isn't enough of a spark? |
| 0:18.0 | What if there's too much of a spot? |
| 0:19.0 | They love to dance. |
| 0:20.0 | They love mountain climbing. What if they judge me God? You know what? If we're even thinking about this, |
| 0:24.2 | we should just dump them and get it over. No. That's enough because in this video, I want to give |
| 0:30.3 | you four useful tips that I have learned from 18 years of coaching people in their love lives |
| 0:36.3 | that you can use to identify if the person |
| 0:38.7 | you're seeing right now is right for you. And my hope is that this video will both provide |
| 0:43.4 | comfort and be a necessary pressure valve for what you are feeling right now. As always, |
| 0:48.8 | like this video and if you are new here, subscribe to this channel. Let's get started. |
| 0:56.7 | Number one, you know someone is right if they close the investment gap. The investment gap is when the potential of a relationship |
| 1:02.9 | is never realized because one person isn't willing to try and the other person is too scared to. But you're left wondering, what the hell is this? |
| 1:14.7 | But you don't really feel like you can bring that up and have clarity because they've not really |
| 1:19.7 | made you feel comfortable to be able to bring something up and have clarity. With the right |
| 1:24.6 | person, you feel like you can communicate. You know where you stand. |
| 1:29.3 | And if you don't, you actually feel like it's okay to broach the subject. |
| 1:34.3 | It flows. |
| 1:36.3 | So ask yourself, is the person I'm dating someone I actually feel I can communicate with? |
| 1:42.3 | The wrong person, directly or or indirectly gives you these little |
| 1:46.6 | cues that it's not safe to bring things up. How do they do that? They might say an offhand comment. |
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