Will They Lose Interest After You Sleep Together? | Rewind
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey
4.7 • 3.1K Ratings
🗓️ 10 July 2026
⏱️ 18 minutes
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Summary
Worried that sleeping with someone will change the way they feel about you?
In this episode, I tackle one of the biggest sources of anxiety in dating: when to have sex, how to bring up the conversation beforehand, and what to do if you're afraid of being rejected or ghosted afterward.
I also share a simple script you can adapt to make that conversation feel more natural, along with the mindset that will help you stop feeling like your happiness depends on someone else's response.
My hope is that, by the end of this episode, you'll feel more confident making decisions that are right for you, not out of fear of losing someone, but from a place of self-respect and clarity. Because when you know you'll be okay no matter the outcome, you stop worrying about "losing your power" and start dating with much more confidence.
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| 0:00.0 | In this video, we're going to talk in very raw ways about when to have sex with someone |
| 0:09.9 | you're dating, how to have the conversation about sex before having it, and I even give you |
| 0:15.4 | an exact script for doing that, and how to handle it if after sex someone disappears. Let's get into it. |
| 0:23.4 | The decision for so many women about when to have sex with a guy is fraught with complexity |
| 0:32.6 | in so many people's minds and potential emotional consequences. If I really like this person, when is the right |
| 0:40.7 | time to have sex with them? How will I feel if after sex this person goes cold? If they reject me, |
| 0:48.2 | if they ghost me and just disappear without an explanation, what is that going to do to my self-esteem? |
| 0:55.2 | Am I going to feel shame? Am I going to feel used? Am I going to feel like a regret that I wish I hadn't done that? |
| 1:01.8 | Then beyond even knowing that you really like someone, if you have sex with them, do you run the |
| 1:08.0 | risk of feeling more bonded to them chemically after that? |
| 1:12.4 | And this, as a result, now I am almost certain to feel like I'm in a more vulnerable place |
| 1:19.6 | after this. |
| 1:20.7 | This is a difficult thing for a lot of people who want to enjoy the early stages of dating, want to enjoy the romance of it, |
| 1:30.4 | the excitement of it, want to enjoy the organic progression of things, but can't help but place |
| 1:40.1 | a lot of emphasis and importance and even a symbolism around the moment of sex and then throw into |
| 1:50.1 | that the idea that so many people feel like I've given up power after that act and you have a |
| 1:57.6 | recipe for something that feels like a minefield to so many women. |
| 2:02.1 | I think that this can be made simple in the sense that any conversations that are happening in your |
| 2:15.4 | head about what someone's intentions are or what you feel around sex |
| 2:24.3 | can be and should be in an elegant way aired out loud before going to that place of intimacy with someone. |
| 2:35.0 | Why? |
| 2:36.0 | Well, firstly, it forces you to be conscious about that act. |
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