I recently became a dad and one of the crucial things, one of the many crucial things

it taught me is how extraordinarily important it is to pick the right partner in life.

Picking the partner that you spend the rest of your life with might be the most important

decision you make because it shapes everything that comes

after it, your finances, the way you parent, how well you overcome or manage illness, and so much more.

This is not a decision we should take lightly, especially if you have a pretty good life right now

as a single person. Why would you rock your peace and your routine and put your future on the

line for just anybody? And yet modern dating and social media have made this decision more

difficult than ever. There is conflicting advice online. There are too many cliches that fall

apart under the complexities of real life and there are seemingly an endless buffet of options

that paralyzes us into indecision when it comes to picking who is right for us. In this video,

I want to give you a framework that I have developed to help you cut through the noise. For everyone

new here, I am Matthew Hussey. I have spent the last two decades coaching hundreds of thousands of people about love and relationships.

My latest book, Love Life, was an international bestseller on this subject.

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A lot of people are bad judges of what will make them happy long term.

Myself included. I struggled with this for a long time.

That whole, when you know, you know, schick, didn't sit right with me.

Because I don't know about you, but as someone who struggled with anxiety for a lot of life,

I had a habit of overthinking and questioning my decisions when it came to love.

And ironically, any time I did feel certain about someone,

it had nothing to do with how right that person was for me

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