I feel conflicted making this video. I love what I do. I have been doing it a long time,

nearly 20 years now, but there is a problem. I can illustrate this problem with something that

used to happen at my live events when I was touring. I would begin with a question. And that question was this.

How many new men do you meet in an average week?

That was back when it was almost all women. Now my audience is much more mixed. By the way,

shout out to all of the guys watching this video. I would start with the number 10 and almost no hands would go up.

And I'd keep working my

way down to 8, 7, 6, 5, 4. When I got to zero, meaning zero new people a week, 80% of the hands

went up. And this was from a group of people who were actually trying to find love. That's why they were there.

And therein lies the problem. Watching videos and getting advice cannot be the only thing we do to make

progress in our lives. Watching my videos can't be the only thing you do to make progress in your love life.

Watching Matt DiAvella videos about him on a one-mile run for 30 days straight

is not me going on a run?

Annoyingly.

If you're watching this video and you are looking for love,

but you can't tell me one clear thing you've done this week to make that happen,

please stick around for this video and watch till the

end. There's no judgment in this video. We all do it, but the message is deeply important,

and I promise you it has the potential to completely change your trajectory in life. Now, the reason

that so many people don't even know they've fallen into this trap is because the danger is silent. In fact, the dopamine

hit that we get from watching a helpful video feels really good. It makes us feel like we're

doing something towards our goals, even though our lives are the exact same way by the time we're

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