Brown Girl Self-Care

Brown Girl Self-Care is where Black women reclaim our wholeness and power in a world that demands our labor but denies our humanity. Here, the care of ourselves—and the care for each other—become sacred acts of justice, powerful ways of honoring our humanity in a world that doesn’t. Let’s take this journey together—we are worthy of this care.First things first! I want to invite you to join me on May 14th at 7pm CDT for the "Take The Mic, Take up Space!" Podcasting 101 Workshop for Black women. You can sign up right here. This is a virtual event, being held on Zoom, that I'm hosting where I'll teach you how to get your podcast started, no more excuses. If you've been looking for a sign to start using your voice, this is it.Now, onto todays episode. Have you ever been called boring or even a square? I have been several times and I allowed that to shame me into trying to be someone that i was never intended to be. I realized that the idea that I was too boring to show up or share parts of my life online (parts that I deem aren't too private or sacred) had a huge impact on my business and and even how I felt about myself. If this is you too, I'm sharing some takeaways I want you to consider. Our Sponsors: * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code SELFCARE for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com * Check out Wonderful Pistachios: https://WonderfulPistachios.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 5 May 2025

Brown Girl Self-Care is where Black women reclaim our wholeness and power in a world that demands our labor but denies our humanity. Here, the care of ourselves—and the care for each other—become sacred acts of justice, powerful ways of honoring our humanity in a world that doesn’t.First things first! I want to invite you to join me on May 14th at 7pm CDT for the "Take The Mic, Take up Space!" Podcasting 101 Workshop for Black women. You can sign up right here. This is a virtual event, being held on Zoom, that I'm hosting where I'll teach you how to get your podcast started, no more excuses. If you've been looking for a sign to start using your voice, this is it.Now, on to todays episode. I decided to let chatgpt give me a prompt that would help me do some self-reflection and it didn't disappoint. I wasn't sure that I would share this when I hit record because this was a personal note that I created for myself to process my thoughts on fear + self-worth. I'm sharing this because I want YOU to trust your voice. It's hard to trust your voice if you are searching for the perfect thing to say or the perfect thing to feel. Healing is not about an aesthetic, it's about being real, raw and unfiltered. Using your voice can be a great step to becoming a place of safety for yourself and this is so important. Don't be afraid to use the prompt in todays episode to see what comes up for you.Let’s take this journey together—we are worthy of this care. Our Sponsors: * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code SELFCARE for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com * Check out Quince: https://quince.com/selfcare * Check out Wonderful Pistachios: https://WonderfulPistachios.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 28 April 2025

Brown Girl Self-Care is where Black women reclaim our wholeness and power in a world that demands our labor but denies our humanity. Here, the care of ourselves—and the care for each other—become sacred acts of justice, powerful ways of honoring our humanity in a world that doesn’t.In this episode I want to remind Black women of the importance of giving themselves their best. We have got to stop reserving our 'pretty' for others or future occasions. Black women have done enough, we have given enough, it's beyond time we utilize our best for our benefit before it is given away to others. On top of that, I'm tired of playing the supporting character in life so I share a bit about that, too. 2025 is about shaking tables and no longer hiding ourselves. Let’s take this journey together—we are worthy of this care. Our Sponsors: * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code SELFCARE for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com * Check out Quince: https://quince.com/selfcare * Check out Wonderful Pistachios: https://WonderfulPistachios.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 21 April 2025

Brown Girl Self-Care is where Black women reclaim our wholeness and power in a world that demands our labor but denies our humanity. Here, the care of ourselves—and the care for each other—become sacred acts of justice, powerful ways of honoring our humanity in a world that doesn’t.Overconsumption can be tearing down your self-identity and self-worth, instead of helping us take action on our inherent abilities and knowledge. You were put here to lead but your conditioning tells you that you need to consume more before you can take action. No matter your purpose, this episode is for you.Let’s take this journey together—we are worthy of this care. Our Sponsors: * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code SELFCARE for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com * Check out Quince: https://quince.com/selfcare * Check out SKIMS: https://skims.com * Check out Wonderful Pistachios: https://WonderfulPistachios.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 14 April 2025

Brown Girl Self-Care is where Black women reclaim our wholeness and power in a world that demands our labor but denies our humanity. Here, the care of ourselves—and the care for each other—become sacred acts of justice, powerful ways of honoring our humanity in a world that doesn’t.2025 is a pivotal year for me and for many other Black women who are sick of these systems and sick of laboring at jobs that deplete and exhaust us. Black women deal with societal systems every day that are not designed for us to thrive and I've come to realize that I have to break free from fear, perfectionism and imposter syndrome so that I can reject traditional 9-5 labor and instead do things that tap into my purpose and joy. Sound like you too? Press play!Let’s take this journey together—we are worthy of this care. Our Sponsors: * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code SELFCARE for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com * Check out Quince: https://quince.com/selfcare * Check out SKIMS: https://skims.com * Check out Wonderful Pistachios: https://WonderfulPistachios.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 7 April 2025

Brown Girl Self-Care is where Black women reclaim our wholeness and power in a world that demands our labor but denies our humanity. Here, the care of ourselves—and the care for each other—become sacred acts of justice, powerful ways of honoring our humanity in a world that doesn’t.I've got a listener question today that came from my Instagram dm's. She wanted to know how I hancled/am handling my IRS debt. Listen in and I'll share the simple steps I took for my 13k of IRS debt as well as the mindset shifts I finally made regarding financial/struggle cycles.Let’s take this journey together—we are worthy of this care. Our Sponsors: * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code SELFCARE for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com * Check out SKIMS: https://skims.com * Check out Wonderful Pistachios: https://WonderfulPistachios.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 31 March 2025

Brown Girl Self-Care is where Black women reclaim our wholeness and power in a world that demands our labor but denies our humanity. Here, the care of ourselves—and the care for each other—become sacred acts of justice, powerful ways of honoring our humanity in a world that doesn’t.This episode is specifically for those of us who grew up believing that we were "bad" or too flawed to be loved due to how we were treated as children/the conditioning we received in our childhood years. I've been thinking about my identity a lot as of late and once I learned that our identities were perfect when we were born, it made a profound shift in my life. Instead of grasping blindly at trying to be someone I'm not, I'm more focused on nurturing my "soil."Let’s take this journey together—we are worthy of this care. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 24 March 2025

Brown Girl Self-Care is where Black women reclaim our wholeness and power in a world that demands our labor but denies our humanity. Here, the care of ourselves—and the care for each other—become sacred acts of justice, powerful ways of honoring our humanity in a world that doesn’t.In this episode I'm getting real about my financial struggles, personal growth, and the steps I'm taking to break free from generational cycles of trauma and lack. I talk about my decision to leave corporate life in 2019 for my mental health, the challenges I faced thereafter, and my ongoing battle with debt. I want to STRESS the importance of shedding shame and guilt tied to financial hardships while discussing the conditioning and societal expectations that often plague Black women. My hope is that other 'cycle breakers' will continue to prioritize healing, make intentional choices, and reframe their mindset around money and self-worth as they navigate their unique journeys in 2025 alongside me.Let’s take this journey together—we are worthy of this care. Our Sponsors: * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code SELFCARE for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com * Check out SKIMS: https://skims.com * Check out Wonderful Pistachios: https://WonderfulPistachios.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 17 March 2025

Brown Girl Self-Care is where Black women reclaim our wholeness and power in a world that demands our labor but denies our humanity. Here, the care of ourselves—and the care for each other—become sacred acts of justice, powerful ways of honoring our humanity in a world that doesn’tSometimes we need to ask for grace, and there is no shame in that. Whether it’s adjusting a financial commitment, backing out of a purchase, or simply admitting that we don’t have the capacity for something right now—giving ourselves permission to be honest is an act of self-care.In this episode, I share two real-life moments this week where I had to step back and say, “I can’t do this right now.” It wasn’t easy. It felt a little embarrassing. But I let that go because the reality is this: Being honest about what you need is responsible, not shameful.Come get this reminder that we are all human and that self-preservation is a must.Let’s take this journey together—we are worthy of this care. Our Sponsors: * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code SELFCARE for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com * Check out SKIMS: https://skims.com * Check out Wonderful Pistachios: https://WonderfulPistachios.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 10 March 2025

Brown Girl Self-Care is where Black women reclaim our wholeness and power in a world that demands our labor but denies our humanity. Here, the care of ourselves—and the care for each other—become sacred acts of justice, powerful ways of honoring our humanity in a world that doesn’tI had big plans for this season—new episodes, a bold rebrand, coming back stronger than ever. But the truth? This might not be the season for big things. And that’s okay.In this episode, I’m sitting with that truth and letting go of the pressure to force momentum. If you’ve been feeling stuck, unsure, or like you should be doing more, let’s breathe through that together. Sometimes, the most radical thing we can do is honor where we are.Let’s take this journey together—we are worthy of this care. Our Sponsors: * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code SELFCARE for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com * Check out SKIMS: https://skims.com * Check out Wonderful Pistachios: https://WonderfulPistachios.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 3 March 2025

Brown Girl Self-Care is where Black women reclaim our wholeness and power in a world that demands our labor but denies our humanity. Here, the care of ourselves—and the care for each other—become sacred acts of justice, powerful ways of honoring our humanity in a world that doesn’t.In this episode of the Brown Girl Self-Care podcast, I’m opening up about what I learned from taking an unplanned break. After moving and needing time to settle in, I found myself sitting in the discomfort of not producing—of not showing up in the ways I usually do. And even though I knew I needed the rest, there was still that lingering feeling that I should be doing more.I’ll share how this experience reminded me that we are often more tired than we realize, how the pressure to always be productive is deeply tied to colonization and capitalism, and why it’s so important to give ourselves permission to pause before burnout forces us to stop.In this episode, I’m sharing five key things to keep in mind when you’re struggling to rest:You’re probably more tired than you even realize. We’ve been conditioned to run on empty for so long that exhaustion can feel normal—until we finally stop.Resting will make you uncomfortable at first. When we’re used to equating our worth with productivity, stepping back can feel unnatural. That’s colonization talking.The world won’t fall apart because you take a break. We carry so much on our shoulders, but the truth is, things will keep moving even when we pause.You don’t have to feel “ready” to rest. If you’re waiting for a perfect moment to slow down, it’ll never come. Your body, mind, and spirit need care now.You have permission to pause. You don’t have to earn your rest. You don’t have to justify it. Rest is your birthright.If you’ve ever felt uneasy about slowing down—like you’re somehow falling behind or not doing enough—this episode is for you. Let’s take this journey together—we are worthy of this care. Our Sponsors: * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code SELFCARE for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com * Check out Wonderful Pistachios: https://WonderfulPistachios.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 24 February 2025

Brown Girl Self-Care is where Black women reclaim our wholeness and power in a world that demands our labor but denies our humanity. Here, the care of ourselves—and the care for each other—become sacred acts of justice, powerful ways of honoring our humanity in a world that doesn’t.In this episode of the Brown Girl Self-Care podcast, I’m sharing an intimate life update as I prepare to move from California to Arkansas. I’m opening up about the emotional and practical challenges I’ve faced along the way, including letting go of 95% of my possessions due to financial constraints.I’ll share how deeply rooted scarcity and self-worth struggles have shaped my life and why this move represents more than just a physical transition—it’s a journey of healing, grief, and reclaiming intentionality.I’ll also introduce my upcoming collaboration with Yolanda, founder of Parenting Decolonized, as we work together to create a sustainable living community for single Black mothers and their children. This episode is about resilience, community, and embracing change, even when it feels hard.Let’s take this journey together—we are worthy of this care. Our Sponsors: * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code SELFCARE for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com * Check out SKIMS: https://skims.com * Check out Wonderful Pistachios: https://WonderfulPistachios.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 3 February 2025

Brown Girl Self-Care is a space where Black women come to honor our humanity and reclaim our power in a world that takes us for granted. Here, choosing ourselves—our healing, our joy, and our rest—is an act of radical resistance and deep self-love.In this episode, we’re exploring the emotional toll that masking takes on Black women. We’ll start with a few deep breaths to create a calming space and then dive into my journey of setting boundaries and acknowledging my emotions, reminding us that healing can bring up some friction.We’ll also unpack the societal pressures Black women face to mask their true feelings, using Angela Bassett’s reaction at the Oscars as an example. This conversation critiques cultural expectations that demand we hide our pain to keep others comfortable, and instead encourages us to embrace our humanity, honor our emotions, and create spaces where we can be authentic.Let’s take this journey together—we are worthy of this care. Our Sponsors: * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code SELFCARE for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 27 January 2025

Brown Girl Self-Care is where Black women reclaim our wholeness and power in a world that demands our labor but denies our worth. Here, the care of ourselves—and the care for each other—become radical acts of love and justice, profound ways of honoring our humanity in a world that doesn’t.In this episode, we unpack the discomfort and stigma that Black women often feel when it comes to asking for and receiving help. Cultural, familial, and societal influences can make vulnerability feel unsafe, but learning to receive is essential for our healing, growth, and liberation.I’ll share personal reflections, practical tips for practicing vulnerability (including how to accept compliments!), and encouragement to embrace the abundance and support that divine resources offer us.Let’s walk this path together—you are deserving of a life where you feel supported, held, and whole. Our Sponsors: * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code SELFCARE for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 20 January 2025

Brown Girl Self-Care is where Black women reclaim our wholeness and power in a world that demands our labor but denies our worth. Here, the care of ourselves—and the care for each other—become radical acts of love and justice, profound ways of honoring our humanity in a world that doesn’t.In this episode, we explore what it means to listen deeply to the signals our bodies send us and how that listening is a practice of love and liberation. When survival mode has been our default, it’s easy to overlook these signals, but they are key to protecting our peace and reclaiming a life of wholeness and joy.I’ll share personal reflections, wisdom from my therapist, and reflective journal prompts to support you in reconnecting with yourself and creating a life that centers care, liberation, and joy.Let’s walk this path together—you are deserving of radical love and care. Our Sponsors: * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code SELFCARE for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 13 January 2025

In this quick episode, let's talk about the idea of breaking free from legalism and embracing grace as a foundation for personal growth in this new season. Legalism is the strict adherence to moral codes that kept me stuck for years until I realized how important it was for me to unlearn the harm of this kind of mindset. If you are moving towards more self-love, acceptance, and peace, your daily practice of life has got to include allowing for more grace and less strictness. Our Sponsors: * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code SELFCARE for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 6 January 2025

In honor of the new year ahead, let's talk about being in a place where we want to allow change into our lives to align with personal growth and abundance. You weren't put here to live, struggle and die so, prepare yourself for the changes ahead. In this episode I'm giving you a few simple steps to get you started. Our Sponsors: * Get 15% off on your entire first order at happymammoth.com with code SELFCARE at checkout! Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 30 December 2024

This year has had some amazing things come to fruition, but it was also hard in some ways. too. When you are the one in your family or circle breaking generational cycles, or if you are blooming into some life changes right now, it's easy for our minds to feel like it's always going to stay hard or that you will struggle forever. Choosing peace as I'm talking about in this episode isn't about bypassing your feelings or pretending that everything is cool. Instead it's deciding that you are doing the best you can and that it is ok to lay claim to peace instead of chaos.I wanted to share a quick insight from the book 'The Four Pivots' by Shawn A. Ginwright, PhD. Specifically I'm highlighting a powerful quote from the book: 'I choose peace of mind instead of this.' It brought me so much clarity as I continue working through some challenges that my hope is that it's a powerful affirmation for you as well. Our Sponsors: * Get 15% off on your entire first order at happymammoth.com with code SELFCARE at checkout! Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 23 December 2024

Hey, hey! In this episode I'm talking about 4 things we all need, even if on occassion: silence, stillness, solitude, and surrender. These elements are essential for holistic self-care, especially for us, Black women who deserve to prioritize well-being as we resist cycles of stress and dysfunction.If you are thinking about tuning into your intuition, embracing vulnerability, and practicing self-care this episode is for you. Our Sponsors: * Get 15% off on your entire first order at happymammoth.com with code SELFCARE at checkout! Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 16 December 2024

In this episode of the Brown Girls Self Care Podcast, I'm sharing three critical actions Black women can take in 2025 to transform their lives with more healing and joy. The episode emphasizes the importance of dating oneself regularly, undertaking solo trips to foster self-reliance and personal growth, and implementing 'think weeks' or days for deep reflection and planning. These are practices we can use to validate ourselves, embrace our humanity, and prioritize our comfort, ease, and liberation. Our Sponsors: * Get 15% off on your entire first order at happymammoth.com with code SELFCARE at checkout! Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 9 December 2024

Hey y’all, it’s Bre, and I’ve got something important to share with you today. After reflecting on the constant hustle culture we’re all caught up in and seeing a powerful confirmation in an unexpected place—a video of Macy Gray, no less—I’ve decided to take a sabbatical for the month of December.In this episode, I’m sharing:Why rest is a necessaryHow I knew it was time to pause and honor my intuition.What you can expect when I return in January with fresh, intentional episodes.If you’ve been feeling like you need permission to pause, this is it. Rest is a way to honor your humanity and sometimes, the most powerful thing we can do is nothing.Thank you for being part of this beautiful community, for listening, and for holding space. I’ll see you in January—until then, take care of yourself, rest deeply, and know that you’re already enough.Connect with Me:Join the email list for updates: Join Here!Follow me on Instagram and Threads: @browngirlselfcare on both Our Sponsors: * Get 15% off on your entire first order at happymammoth.com with code SELFCARE at checkout! Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 2 December 2024

Hey, sis. Let this episode be your reminder that the work you’re doing—yes, even the small stuff—is working. Whether it’s pausing to take a deep breath, setting a boundary, or speaking to yourself with more kindness, these small shifts are creating big changes.Today, I’m sharing personal reflections and encouragement to remind you that you are making progress, even when it doesn’t feel obvious. I’ll talk about a recent experience where I noticed my own growth, celebrate the small wins that often go unnoticed, and offer journal prompts to help you reflect on your own journey.The work is working, sis—so keep going. Let’s celebrate the small victories together.Journal Prompts to Explore:What’s one small shift I’ve noticed in myself lately?Where can I show myself more grace today? Let’s Connect:Did this episode resonate with you? DM me or share your reflections on Instagram (@browngirlselfcare)—I’d love to hear how the work is working in your life. Our Sponsors: * Get 15% off on your entire first order at happymammoth.com with code SELFCARE at checkout! Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 25 November 2024

In this very transparent episode, I share the challenges of staying true to the mission of Brown Girl Self-Care while navigating the harsh realities of capitalism. As a one-woman operation, I discuss how sponsorships have helped sustain this platform but also created inner conflict when values clash with business opportunities.You'll hear:Why I’m reimagining the future of Brown Girl Self-CareThe struggles of centering Black women in a capitalist systemHow I’m leaning into faith, community, and creativity to move forwardMy thoughts on Black women creating sustainable spaces for joy, healing, and liberationPlus, I touch on what’s next for the platform, including a free Podcasting 101 workshop and a fresh approach to community-building through my new minimalist website.If you’ve ever wrestled with balancing authenticity and survival in your work, this episode is for you.💌 Stay connected by joining the Brown Girl Self-Care newsletter at browngirlselfcare.com and become part of the 92% who are thriving unapologetically. Our Sponsors: * Get 15% off on your entire first order at happymammoth.com with code SELFCARE at checkout! Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 18 November 2024

Hey y’all, it’s Bre here, and this week, I’m pulling back the curtain to let you in on the big changes happening with Brown Girl Self-Care as well as with me. I recently made the decision to close down the newsletter, and today, I’m talking about why—and what’s coming next.I’ll be sharing how this next chapter of Brown Girl Self-Care will include three areas that are deeply important to me and, I think, to you too:Black Women’s Health: Taking care of our mental, physical, and emotional well-being, because health is part of our freedom.Building Businesses That Honor Rest: Talking about how we can make a living on our own terms without grinding ourselves down or having to feel fake as we do it.Living Sustainably and Bucking Norms: I'm going all in on a lifestyle that aligns with my values and supports Black women, roots keeping, our community, and my peace. So more us and less capitalism and consumerism. Our Sponsors: * Get 15% off on your entire first order at happymammoth.com with code SELFCARE at checkout! Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 11 November 2024

Meet me on Zoom for "Gather and Be" on Monday, November 4th @ 5pm Pacific / 8pm Eastern. Link Here In this episode of the Brown Girl Self-Care Podcast, I'm talking about 'creasing the page' as a way to engage fully with life especially for those of us that are afraid to step out and be seen or make mistakes. I sill struggle with perfectionism, the fear of making mistakes, and in the past these fears have held me back from leaving my mark.I want to encourage you to embrace imperfection, show up authentically and take small steps towards your goals while aligning yourself with curiousity and the willingness to step out of your comfort zone. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 4 November 2024

Hey y’all, it’s Bre here with a special check-in episode of Brown Girl Self-Care. With election season in full swing and November 5th quickly approaching, I’m holding space for Black women who are feeling overwhelmed, stressed, or even terrified by the current climate. In this episode, I share responses from our Threads community and offer practical tips to stay grounded, empowered, and resilient during this time. We discuss taking things one step at a time, preparing for uncertainty, decentering men, and prioritizing our well-being above all. Remember, you are not alone—we’re in this together. Tune in for a moment of support, reflection, and solidarity. Our Sponsors: * Check out NPR: npr.org * Check out The Wonderful Company: https://www.wonderfulpistachios.com/ Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 28 October 2024

As the end of the year approaches, it's time to talk about something crucial: taking time off. In this episode of Brown Girl Self-Care, Bre is breaking down why Black women need to prioritize their health by using their personal time off (PTO), Family and Medical Leave Act (FMLA), and short-term disability. Many of us let our PTO go unused or feel guilty about asking for time away from work—but not taking time for yourself has real consequences. In 2024 we are going to lay claim toL the time we are leaving on the table. Our Sponsors: * Check out NPR: npr.org * Check out The Wonderful Company: https://www.wonderfulpistachios.com/ * Check out Thrive Causemetics: https://thrivecausemetics.com/SELFCARE Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 21 October 2024

In this episode, let's chat about the delicate line between protecting your peace and speaking up for yourself, especially as a Black woman navigating a world shaped by trauma. I'm sharing my thoughts on when speaking up is necessary and how to distinguish between fear and empowerment. We are reclaiming our voices, healing with compassion, and balancing self-care in a society that often tries to silence us so let's go. Our Sponsors: * Check out The Wonderful Company: https://www.wonderfulpistachios.com/ * Check out Thrive Causemetics: https://thrivecausemetics.com/SELFCARE Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 14 October 2024

It's going to be one of those episodes, today. I'm sharing about my perimenopause/menopause journey, signs that I'm actually in perimenopause so that you can have a "heads up" as well as giving you a few tips to help get you through when it comes for you. Our Sponsors: * Check out The Wonderful Company: https://www.wonderfulpistachios.com/ * Check out Thrive Causemetics: https://thrivecausemetics.com/SELFCARE Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 7 October 2024

In this episode of the podcast, Bre is sharing a reminder straight from "corporate life." Our Sponsors: * Check out The Wonderful Company: https://www.wonderfulpistachios.com/ * Check out Thrive Causemetics: https://thrivecausemetics.com/SELFCARE * Check out Thrive Causemetics: thrivecausemetics.com/SELFCARE Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 30 September 2024

Hey, hey! There is a ton of talk out there about narcissists but what does it really mean to possibly be one, or be in relationship with one? What the heck even really is a narcissist? If you've ever wondered, or want to learn more about what you can do to protect yourself, this is the episode for you.If you haven't already, be sure to follow Dr. Nic on Instagram as well as check out his podcast Untherapeutic for insight on relationships that "everyday" people can benefit from. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 23 September 2024

(This is a rewind episode from 2023)In this episode of the Brown Girl Self Care Podcast, Bre delves into the importance of Black women showing up for themselves. Sharing her personal experiences and thoughts, Bre discusses what it means to prioritize self-care and healing, despite the societal and personal hurdles faced. She offers practical ways to reclaim self-worth, set boundaries, and practice compassion. Bre also provides journal prompts to help listeners reflect on their early memories of feeling neglected and find ways to honor their needs and emotions. This episode is a heartfelt guide for Black women seeking to navigate their path towards healing and self-empowerment. Our Sponsors: * Check out The Wonderful Company: https://www.wonderfulpistachios.com/ * Check out Thrive Causemetics: thrivecausemetics.com/SELFCARE Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 16 September 2024

In this episode of the Brown Girl Self Care Podcast, host Bre is giving you insights on the importance of not having everything figured out in life. She discusses the societal pressures to achieve certain milestones by specific ages and encourages listeners, especially Black women, to give themselves grace and compassion. You are allowed to have space for self-reflection, healing, and allowing yourself to grow organically.This episode is a reminder to rest, celebrate your wins, take a beat, and remember that your journey will have uncertainties and doesn't have to be perfect. Our Sponsors: * Check out The Wonderful Company: https://www.wonderfulpistachios.com/ * Check out Thrive Causemetics: thrivecausemetics.com/SELFCARE Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 9 September 2024

It's Labor Day, plus my birthday was just a few days ago so I have been taking time to REST. With that said, I have an amazing REWIND episode for you that is perfect for the seasonal change that's coming.I'm sharing my personal strategies for transitioning from summer into the fall and winter months. Through the end of the year this includes prioritizing my mental health, getting sunlight, taking care of my skin plus some other practical advice you don't want to miss. Our Sponsors: * Check out The Wonderful Company: https://www.wonderfulpistachios.com/ * Check out Thrive Causemetics: thrivecausemetics.com/SELFCARE Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 2 September 2024

In this episode of the Brown Girls Self Care Podcast, host Bre explores the benefits of five holistic supplements she uses daily to manage stress, anxiety, and improve focus. The supplements discussed include CBD, L-theanine, Lemon Balm, Holy Basil, and Magnesium. Bre shares her personal experiences with each supplement, emphasizing the importance of doing your own research and consulting with healthcare professionals. She also provides detailed insights on how to incorporate these supplements into a daily wellness routine for optimal benefits. This episode is a valuable guide for Black women looking to embrace a more natural approach to self-care and well-being.Products mentioned *CBD - Alliant HempL-theanine - Mary Ruth'sLemon Balm - Mary Ruth'sMagnesium - Mega FoodsHoly Basil - Mary Ruth's*As an Amazon AssociateI earn from qualifying purchases Our Sponsors: * Check out The Wonderful Company: https://www.wonderfulpistachios.com/ * Check out Thrive Causemetics: thrivecausemetics.com/SELFCARE Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 26 August 2024

In this episode of the Brown Girl Self Care podcast, I'm sharing about my upcoming move from Los Angeles to rural Arkansas. Yes, you heard that right! There are several reasons for this move including the fact that California is just too expensive. In this episode I'm also going to give you personal insights and tips to consider if you are wanting to deprioritize a 9-5 life and instead prioritize a journey that is more in alignment with your values and well-being. Our Sponsors: * Check out OSEA and use my code SELFCARE for a great deal: oseamalibu.com * Check out The Wonderful Company: https://www.wonderfulpistachios.com/ * Check out Thrive Causemetics: thrivecausemetics.com/SELFCARE Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 19 August 2024

Yeesss!! It feels so good to be back with a solo episode. I've missed this so much. In case you didn't know (and how could you not?!) I talk. Alot! I did some reflecting and figured out why I talk so much to myself and if you are healing from childhood trauma/systemic trauma, you may do this as well for a very similar reason. Also, I'm sharing my love for a book that you gotta add to your healing toolkit/resources. *Language of Letting Go - Melody Beattie - https://amzn.to/3WJhlQg*I am an amazon affiliate so any purchases you make from the above link might earn me a little change/commission to help keep Brown Girl Self-Care going. Our Sponsors: * Check out OSEA and use my code SELFCARE for a great deal: oseamalibu.com * Check out The Wonderful Company: https://www.wonderfulpistachios.com/ * Check out Thrive Causemetics: thrivecausemetics.com/SELFCARE Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 12 August 2024

**TW: This episode discusses sexual abuse/assaultIn this episode of the Brown Girl Self-Care Podcast, I'm speaking with therapist and wellness expert Candyce "CE". Anderson, MS, LPC, Founder, and CEO of Revita Therapy and Wellness. We planned this conversation ahead of the Diddy debacle but conversations that center the pressing issue of trauma/harm culture in Hollywood and the pervasive nature of sexual assault are ALWAYS relevant. Key topics:The focus on men’s behaviors and accountabilityThe impact of societal conditioning on women's responses to trauma Coercive sexual assaultThe importance of self-care, intuition, and recognizing one's worthThe critical need for men to hold each other accountable. This episode is a must-listen for black women seeking healing, empowerment, and validation in their journey toward self-care and well-being. It is also a must-listen for MEN as well. Guest information:CE AndersonWebsite revitatherapyandwellness.com/Keep up with CE on Instagram, Twitter and Facebook Our Sponsors: * Check out OSEA and use my code SELFCARE for a great deal: oseamalibu.com * Check out The Wonderful Company: https://www.wonderfulpistachios.com/ * Check out Thrive Causemetics: thrivecausemetics.com/SELFCARE Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 5 August 2024

It is time for us to be centered in corporate spaces so that we can WIN. Today I'm speaking with Dr. Ella Washington, an organizational psychologist and founder of Elevate Solutions. Together we are tackling the challenges many of us face in corporate environments, including feelings of alienation, the necessity of navigating biases, and the importance of authentic self-presentation. In this conversation we touch on several themes including:Key Topics:Challenges in Corporate Spaces:Experiences of feeling like an outsider in corporate environments.Struggles with authenticity and masking one's true self to fit in.The emotional and financial burdens of not being compensated fairly for one's labor.boundaries.Personal Identity and Professional Life:The importance of knowing oneself and setting personal standards of excellence.Overcoming pressures to meet biased expectations and embracing one's unique strengths.Negotiation Skills:Broad aspect of negotiations beyond salary discussions, including continuous negotiation within one's career for roles, responsibilities, and workplace benefits.Strategies for introverts in building connections and developing influence. Make sure that you share this episode and tag BGSC for your chance to get a copy of Dr Ella's Book (Unspoken: A Guide To Cracking the Hidden Corporate Code)*Take the quiz Dr. Ella mentioned on her websiteConnect with Dr. Ella on Linkedin*As an Amazon Affiliate Brown Girl Self-Care earns a commission on qualified purchases. Our Sponsors: * Check out OSEA and use my code SELFCARE for a great deal: oseamalibu.com * Check out The Wonderful Company: https://www.wonderfulpistachios.com/ * Check out Thrive Causemetics: thrivecausemetics.com/SELFCARE Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 29 July 2024

In this episode of the Brown Girl Self Care Podcast, Bre welcomes special guest Chika Uwazie, an expert in psychology, feminine energy and self-love coaching. In this episode Chika shares insights on how to balance masculine and feminine energy, drawing from her own journey as a former tech founder who transitioned into a life of flow and ease. She discusses the significance of tapping into feminine energy for better overall well-being, the impact on relationships, and the power of intuition. The conversation also explores how self-awareness, gratitude, and affirmations can help women reconnect with their inner wisdom and creativity. This episode is an inspiring reminder of the importance of embracing our softer sides and prioritizing self-care. Tune in for an enlightening discussion on finding balance and achieving a fulfilling life in harmony with your true self.Key Topics:The significance of leaning into feminine energyTransitioning from a hustle mindset to a flow stateThe role of intuition and self-awareness in decision-makingBalancing masculine and feminine energies in daily life and relationshipsThe impact of societal and cultural expectations on Black womenPractical steps for embracing and nurturing your feminine side Guest Information:Chika UwazieWebsite: thesoftnest.comCheck out Chika's gems on Instagram Chika's podcast The Flow Era Our Sponsors: * Check out Kikoff: getkikoff.com/SELFCARE * Check out OSEA and use my code SELFCARE for a great deal: oseamalibu.com * Check out The Wonderful Company: https://www.wonderfulpistachios.com/ Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 22 July 2024

Trigger Warning: This episode touches on childhood trauma and also incudes strong language.In this episode of the Brown Girl Self Care Podcast, host Bre discusses the journey towards personal freedom and healing from childhood trauma. She emphasizes the importance of black women reclaiming their lives and identities. Bre shares her experiences growing up under the restrictive norms of white-centered Christianity, dealing with childhood abuse, and the struggle to meet her family's expectations. She highlights the significance of setting boundaries, self-love, and breaking generational cycles of trauma and shame. Ultimately, Bre encourages listeners to seek their own definitions of freedom and to take actionable steps toward achieving it, even if it means confronting difficult truths and letting go of toxic relationships. Our Sponsors: * Check out Kikoff: getkikoff.com/SELFCARE * Check out OSEA and use my code SELFCARE for a great deal: oseamalibu.com * Check out The Wonderful Company: https://www.wonderfulpistachios.com/ Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 15 July 2024

In this episode of the Brown Girl Self Care podcast, host Bre speaks with Deesha Dyer, author of 'Undiplomatic: How My Attitude Created the Best Kind of Trouble.*' Deesha shares her journey from humble beginnings to interning at the White House while learning how to overcome imposter syndrome, build self-worth, navigate single-hood in her 40's and practice self-love with a huge portion of grace. We also discuss the impact of constant self-doubt and how deep-rooted childhood experiences shape adult insecurities.Spoiler alert, for Black women it's important to have access to community support, therapy, genuine self-reflection in overcoming negative self-perceptions, play and curiosity in finding joy and balance. Black women deserve to recognize their worth and pursue their aspirations despite societal challenges, so press "play" on this episode and get these soul gems!Ways to keep up w/ Deesha:Pick up her book Undiplomatic: How My Attitude Created the Best Kind of Trouble *Connect with her on Instagram!*As an Amazon Associate, I earn a small amount from qualifying purchases. Our Sponsors: * Check out Kikoff: getkikoff.com/SELFCARE * Check out OSEA and use my code SELFCARE for a great deal: oseamalibu.com * Check out The Wonderful Company: https://www.wonderfulpistachios.com/ Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 8 July 2024

In this episode I'm in the "studio" with my friend and guest Yolanda Williams, founder of Parenting Decolonized. We get real about a range of topics for Black women, including divesting from capitalism, redefining success, and embracing simpler, community-oriented lifestyles. Yolanda also shares her journey from California to Central Arkansas, detailing her experiences with homesteading, land ownership, and growing her own food. This conversation will hopefully help cement the importance of community support, trust, and redefining wealth beyond monetary terms. Black women deserve to reclaim their time, seek ease, and build sustainable, supportive communities so we highlight some practical steps to start living a more intentional life, including gardening, supporting local farmers, and practicing mutual aid.We both want you to live a life of abundance, rest, and joy outside the confines of traditional capitalist structures so press "play" and let's go!Learn more about Yolanda (and her work) here:Parenting DecolonizedInstagramYoutubeInstagram for Wild N Free Farm Our Sponsors: * Check out Kikoff: getkikoff.com/SELFCARE * Check out OSEA and use my code SELFCARE for a great deal: oseamalibu.com * Check out The Wonderful Company: https://www.wonderfulpistachios.com/ Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 4 July 2024

In this episode of the Brown Girls Self Care podcast, host Bre discusses inner child work, reparenting, and boundaries with therapist Rikki Clark McCoy, founder of Flourishing Minds. They explore the significance of addressing childhood trauma, the impact of dysfunctional families, and the importance of self-care for Black women. They also emphasize the value of learning to trust oneself, building healthy relationships, and setting boundaries. Additionally, Rikki details her holistic approach to therapy and promotes her wellness retreats aimed at helping Black women reconnect with their inner selves and foster healing.Keep up with Rikki three ways right now:Rikki hosts amazing retreats! Check out her next one in Sedona, AZ right here.Follow Rikki on Instagram to learn more about holistic healing for Black women.Listen to Rikki's podcast - The Therapy w/ Rikki Podcast Our Sponsors: * Check out Kikoff: getkikoff.com/SELFCARE * Check out OSEA and use my code SELFCARE for a great deal: oseamalibu.com * Check out The Wonderful Company: https://www.wonderfulpistachios.com/ Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 1 July 2024

Hey, hey!Today is a "rewind" episode that originally aired back in 2022. As someone who strongly believes in the power of an abundant mindset (versus poverty/scarcity based beliefs) i wanted to share this gem of an episode again as a reminder that we can create the lives we want. Now, I guess I need to say this...obviously, we still face strong systemic oppression. So I'm not saying that we can control every outcome. What I am saying though, is that the mindset (and energy) we hold can be a powerful way for us to get into the flow of the lives we deserve. Our Sponsors: * Check out Kikoff: getkikoff.com/SELFCARE * Check out NPR: npr.org * Check out OSEA and use my code SELFCARE for a great deal: oseamalibu.com * Check out OUAI and use my code SELFCARE for a great deal: theouai.com * Check out The Wonderful Company: https://www.wonderfulpistachios.com/ Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 24 June 2024

Hey, hey!!So excited to be in community today. In this solo episode I'm helping you get serious about being in relationship with yourself as you bloom while also being mindful that it can feel hard if "struggle" is looming right ahead. Let's talk about it. Leave a comment on Spotify under this episode or send an email here! Our Sponsors: * Check out Kikoff: getkikoff.com/SELFCARE * Check out NPR: npr.org * Check out OSEA and use my code SELFCARE for a great deal: oseamalibu.com * Check out OUAI and use my code SELFCARE for a great deal: theouai.com * Check out The Wonderful Company: https://www.wonderfulpistachios.com/ Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 17 June 2024

My guest today is Youtuber Jerri Cherry who is a Senior Citizen Advocate. In this episode she shares her journey from retiring with only three thousand dollars in the bank, her move to a retirement community, and the moment that inspired her to reevaluate her life which resulted in starting her Youtube channel "What Nobody Told Me After 65." This episode is rich w/ Jerri's personal anecdotes, reflections on societal issues, and her journey towards building a secure future through faith, investment and creating online content. Follow Jerri on her Youtube Channel - What Nobody Told Me After 65 Our Sponsors: * Check out Kikoff: getkikoff.com/SELFCARE * Check out NPR: npr.org * Check out OUAI and use my code SELFCARE for a great deal: theouai.com * Check out The Wonderful Company: https://www.wonderfulpistachios.com/ Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 10 June 2024

In this empowering episode of the Brown Girls Self Care Podcast, host Bre Mitchell sits down with Dr. Traci Lynn, a trailblazing entrepreneur who turned $200 into a $100 million empire. Dr. Traci Lynn shares her remarkable journey, overcoming setbacks, faith in God and the power of resilience. She discusses the importance of self-care, building a supportive network, and empowering Black women in business. Whether you're an aspiring entrepreneur or seeking inspiration to fuel your self-care journey, this episode is a must-listen.Dr. Traci has promised to come back to continue the conversation! Be sure to get your questions in before it's too late by emailing [email protected] to connect w/ Dr. Traci Lynn:Her InstagramHer FacebookBig Dog Academy Our Sponsors: * Check out Kikoff: getkikoff.com/SELFCARE * Check out NPR: npr.org * Check out OUAI and use my code SELFCARE for a great deal: theouai.com * Check out The Wonderful Company: https://www.wonderfulpistachios.com/ Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 3 June 2024

This is a rewind episode that you may have missed. Let's continue to fight for our peace because there aren't too many things more important than that.Today I've got a solo episode for yout. I'm getting real about my recent experience with "comparison-itis: and how a quote from Shawn A. Ginwrights book The 4 Pivots inspired me to choose peace of mind over a harmful spiral. If things are spiraling for you too and you need permission to stress less, this episode is definitely for you. Our Sponsors: * Check out Kikoff: getkikoff.com/SELFCARE * Check out NPR: npr.org * Check out OUAI and use my code SELFCARE for a great deal: theouai.com * Check out Recess and use my code SELFCARE for a great deal: www.takearecess.com * Check out The Wonderful Company: https://www.wonderfulpistachios.com/ Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 27 May 2024

In this weeks episode I'm sharing "raw and real" details about my journey to being debt free to help you avoid some of the pitfalls I've had along the way. You will leave this episode feeling inspire to keep going as well as feeling like you are seen and supported. If fear around debt is keeping you stuck, this episode is definitely for you! Our Sponsors: * Check out NPR: npr.org * Check out OUAI and use my code SELFCARE for a great deal: theouai.com * Check out Recess and use my code SELFCARE for a great deal: www.takearecess.com * Check out The Wonderful Company: https://www.wonderfulpistachios.com/ Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 20 May 2024