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Breakup Boost: Advice to Get Over Heartbreak

Breakup Boost: Advice to Get Over Heartbreak

Trina Leckie

Comedy, Society & Culture, Relationships

4.81.2K Ratings

Overview

Breakup Boost is your golden ticket to healing heartbreak, raising your standards, and dating smarter. Hosted by Trina Leckie (breakup coach & author), this podcast dishes out honest talk, sharp insights, and no-nonsense advice to help you reclaim your power and turn the page with purpose. Your bounce-back era starts here. Grab your copy of "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon. This book will shift your mindset, rebuild your confidence, and set you up for a fresh start. Before you know it, you'll be wondering, "What was I thinking?!" For breakup & relationship coaching, visit breakupboost.com. Follow on TikTok @breakupboost. Subscribe on YouTube "breakup boost"

425 Episodes

#413: Do You Miss Your Ex - or - Do You Miss Having "Someone"? (breakup questions that can help you move on)

You may assume that because you're still thinking about your ex, it must mean you're not over them. But is that REALLY the case?! The answer may reveal more than you expect. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get personalized help: breakupBOOST.com YouTube & TikTok @breakupBOOST Check out Trina's breakup & dating merch: blockandshop.com

Transcribed - Published: 1 June 2026

#412: 5 Reasons People Refuse to Take Accountability After Hurting You

Few things are more aggravating than being hurt by someone who refuses to simply own it. Instead of taking accountability, they make excuses, deflect, blame-shift, or act like YOU'RE somehow the problem. Huh??!! In this episode, I break down 5 reasons some people refuse to take accountability after hurting you. If you've ever thought, "How is this person seriously justifying this right now?" ... or been made to feel like you're going crazy, this one's for you. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get personalized help: breakupBOOST.com YouTube & TikTok @breakupBOOST Check out Trina's breakup & dating merch: blockandshop.com

Transcribed - Published: 23 May 2026

#411: I'm Not Being Negative. You Just Don't Like What I'm Saying.

Have you ever been told you're "being negative" just because you expressed a concern, had a different opinion, or didn't automatically go along with something? Yeah… we need to talk. In this episode, I'm getting into a communication pattern that can quietly create anxiety, resentment, and emotional distance in relationships of all kinds. Because there's a big difference between negativity and simply having a mind of your own. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get personalized help: breakupBOOST.com YouTube & TikTok @breakupBOOST Check out Trina's breakup & dating merch: blockandshop.com

Transcribed - Published: 18 May 2026

#411: MARIO Retired from the Breadcrumb Buffet + 10 Lessons from His Breakup Breakthrough

When someone reaches out to tell you that your words genuinely changed their life… yeah, that hits. In this episode, I'm sharing a voice note from someone who found my content during a really difficult time and used it to finally stop accepting breadcrumbs, break unhealthy patterns, and start choosing self-respect over emotional chaos. But this episode isn't just about the kind message (though trust me, it's a good one ;) It's about what happens when you actually apply the advice instead of just nodding along to it while continuing to make the same questionable choices. If you've been stuck obsessing over someone, making excuses, chasing "closure," or treating potential like reality… this episode is your reminder that your life can change fast, when your mindset does. Sometimes what you really need isn't comfort. You need clarity. Want to talk to me 1:1 about your specific situation? Head to breakupboost.com and book a coaching call. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get personalized help: breakupBOOST.com YouTube & TikTok @breakupBOOST Check out Trina's breakup & dating merch: blockandshop.com

Transcribed - Published: 15 May 2026

#410: 10 Signs You're Acting Desperate in Dating or Post-Breakup (And Need to Stop)

When emotions take over, people can start doing things that feel justified in the moment… but usually lead to more pain, more confusion, and less self-respect. The first way to avoid desperation in dating situations or after a breakup is to call yourself out on it.  LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get personalized help: breakupBOOST.com YouTube & TikTok @breakupBOOST Check out Trina's breakup & dating merch: blockandshop.com

Transcribed - Published: 12 May 2026

#409: Stop Pouring Into People Who Are Just Drinking It Up (Overgiving, Boundaries, One-Sided Relationships)

If you're tired of feeling drained, confused about someone's effort, or stuck in a situation where you're doing way more than your share - hello - this is your wake-up call... LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get personalized help: breakupBOOST.com YouTube & TikTok @breakupBOOST Check out Trina's breakup & dating merch: blockandshop.com

Transcribed - Published: 5 May 2026

#408: ASK TRINA: "I've Lost Respect for a Friend Who Won't Move On" (+ The Truth About Friends Who Don't Actually Want Advice)

We've all had THAT friend - and / or - BEEN that friend who won't move on, but also won't stop complaining.  At what point does it drive too big of a wedge between two people? Also, what you want to keep in mind when it comes to giving friends advice... LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get personalized help: breakupBOOST.com YouTube & TikTok @breakupBOOST Check out Trina's breakup & dating merch: blockandshop.com

Transcribed - Published: 18 April 2026

#407: 5 Reasons Why Your Ex Moved On Quickly After The Breakup

After a breakup, nothing messes with your head more than seeing your ex move on fast. One minute you're still processing what happened… the next, THEY'RE posting, dating, or already acting like they've upgraded their entire life. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get personalized help: breakupBOOST.com YouTube & TikTok @breakupBOOST Check out Trina's breakup & dating merch: blockandshop.com

Transcribed - Published: 25 March 2026

#406: The Hidden Danger of Giving a Relationship / Your Ex a Second Chance

Have you ever reconnected with someone from your past and convinced yourself that things will be different this time?  Second chances can feel hopeful… even exciting. But they can also come with a hidden risk that many people don't realize until they're already back in the dynamic. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get personalized help: breakupBOOST.com YouTube & TikTok @breakupBOOST Check out Trina's breakup & dating merch: blockandshop.com

Transcribed - Published: 17 March 2026

#405: 5 Reasons to Stop Keeping the Door Open for Your Ex "Just in Case" (wanting your ex to come back, basically)

You may not be actively pursuing your ex, but if you're still leaving the door open "just in case," it can quietly keep you stuck in the past... and that's not a good place to be...  LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get personalized help: breakupBOOST.com YouTube & TikTok @breakupBOOST Check out Trina's breakup & dating merch: blockandshop.com

Transcribed - Published: 13 March 2026

#404: Why Do Your Friends Still Have Your Ex on Their Social Media??

Sometimes it's not just the romantic relationship that needs boundaries - it's the others around it. In this episode, I talk about a dynamic that can create problems before and after a breakup. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get personalized help: breakupBOOST.com YouTube & TikTok @breakupBOOST Check out Trina's breakup & dating merch: blockandshop.com

Transcribed - Published: 5 March 2026

#403: TWIN FLAMES Relationship?! More Like Cosmic Excuses for Crappy Men

This episode has been a long time coming... I break down the delusion, dismantle the excuses, and expose the "twin flames" fantasy you're worshipping - so you can stop embarrassing yourself and start reclaiming your dignity. A MUST-LISTEN! Common sense, baby... common sense... LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get personalized help: breakupBOOST.com YouTube & TikTok @breakupBOOST Check out Trina's breakup & dating merch: blockandshop.com

Transcribed - Published: 24 February 2026

#402: Why Saying "Their Loss" Can Keep You Stuck (breakup clarity and moving forward)

In this episode, I'm talking straight to YOU about the mindset you may jump into after a breakup and how it can quietly keep you stuck without you even realizing it.  LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get personalized help: breakupBOOST.com YouTube & TikTok @breakupBOOST Check out Trina's breakup & dating merch: blockandshop.com

Transcribed - Published: 20 February 2026

#401: The Truth Behind "He Doesn't Know How to Love" (relationship reality check for women)

This episode exposes a painful reality… and you'll know pretty quickly if it hits a little too close to home. That's a GOOD thing though. As they say... the truth will set you free. xo  LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get personalized help: breakupBOOST.com YouTube & TikTok @breakupBOOST Check out Trina's breakup & dating merch: blockandshop.com

Transcribed - Published: 10 February 2026

#400: What's YOUR "Word of the Year" Going to Be for 2026?

Forget resolutions - - - this is about choosing ONE WORD to help you stay focused, accountable, and aligned in how you think, decide, and move through the year. I also share the word I chose and "the why." LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get personalized help: breakupBOOST.com YouTube & TikTok @breakupBOOST Check out Trina's breakup & dating merch: blockandshop.com    

Transcribed - Published: 31 December 2025

#399: ASK TRINA: 20 Random Breakup & Relationship Questions!

ASK TRINA is back... tackling 20 random questions with zero fluff and maximum honesty. Grab some snacks and get comfy! LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get personalized help: breakupBOOST.com YouTube & TikTok @breakupBOOST Check out Trina's breakup & dating merch: blockandshop.com  

Transcribed - Published: 15 November 2025

#398: Stop Saying Your Ex RUINED Your Life (They're Not That Important)

You keep saying your ex ruined your life - but you've got to stop giving them so much power. I get it... after a breakup, you're hurt, you're angry, you're replaying everything in your head… but calling your life "ruined" doesn't just flatter them - it makes it sound like you don't even have an identity without them. Come on now.... it's time to flip this script! LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get personalized help: breakupBOOST.com YouTube & TikTok @breakupBOOST Check out Trina's breakup & dating merch: blockandshop.com  

Transcribed - Published: 5 November 2025

#397: Misusing The Term "Trauma Bonding" & How It May Be Keeping You Stuck

You've probably seen people throw around the term "trauma bonding" like confetti on social media… but are they using this term correctly?! In this episode, we're breaking down what trauma bonding actually is, how people misuse it, and why calling every messy relationship by that name might be keeping you stuck. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get personalized help: breakupBOOST.com YouTube & TikTok @breakupBOOST Check out Trina's breakup & dating merch: blockandshop.com

Transcribed - Published: 23 October 2025

#396: Self-Respect Pep Talk: You're Not a Bargain Bin Deal (dating advice & self-worth motivation)

This one's your wake-up call. If you keep discounting yourself for people who don't even pay full attention, that's on you. Self-respect isn't arrogance - it's knowing you're not a clearance-rack find. The moment you start acting like you're the prize, your whole energy changes. Stop begging to be chosen and start choosing better. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get personalized help: breakupBOOST.com YouTube & TikTok @breakupBOOST Check out Trina's breakup & dating merch: blockandshop.com  

Transcribed - Published: 10 October 2025

#395: Betrayal in Relationships Isn't a Sliding Scale: CHEATING IS CHEATING!

Sure, you can try to convince yourself (or someone else) it was just a "mistake," a "drunken slip," or "not really cheating," but for anyone with integrity... betrayal is betrayal. Period. If you've been downplaying what happened to you - or what you did - this episode is here to show you why you need to cut through the excuses and keep it real. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get personalized help: breakupBOOST.com YouTube & TikTok @breakupBOOST Check out Trina's breakup & dating merch: blockandshop.com

Transcribed - Published: 29 September 2025

#394: 7 Social Media Moves That Look a Lil Unhinged (online drama post breakup & in relationships)

Whether you're reeling from a breakup or tangled in relationship drama, your social media can speak louder than you realize. This episode is your reminder to pump the brakes so you don't end up looking back, wishing you had. Think of this episode as a friendly wake-up call to stay classy, stay mysterious, and keep moving forward - on and off screen. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz YouTube & TikTok @breakupBOOST Get personalized help: breakupBOOST.com Check out Trina's breakup & dating merch: blockandshop.com

Transcribed - Published: 23 September 2025

#393: 6 Reasons You Ignore Red Flags (and Pretend They Magically Appear AFTER the Breakup)

Red flags aren't just cute little quirks you should "wait and see" about - they're WARNINGS. And ignoring them? That's how you end up in relationship quicksand. Not fun. If you've ever second-guessed your gut or brushed off a behavior because you didn't want to "make a big deal out of it," this one's for you.  LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get personalized help: breakupBOOST.com YouTube & TikTok @breakupBOOST Check out Trina's breakup & dating merch: blockandshop.com

Transcribed - Published: 10 September 2025

BIG NEWS: Trina Created a Spin-Off Podcast ... FOR MEN!!!

FOLLOW NOW on the Apple Podcasts App or Spotify to keep up with the new episodes: justcalltrina.libsyn.com Get personalized help too: breakupadviceformen.com

Transcribed - Published: 1 September 2025

#392: Weekend Loneliness After a Breakup - Don't Text Your Ex!!! xo

Weekends are supposed to feel exciting. But when you're fresh out of a breakup, they can feel like extra days of torture. Everyone else seems busy, happy, and coupled up - and you're stuck fighting the urge to reach out to your ex. This episode is your reminder of why that's the worst idea you could have right now… and what to do instead.  LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz YouTube & TikTok @breakupBOOST Get personalized help: breakupBOOST.com Check out Trina's breakup & dating merch: blockandshop.com

Transcribed - Published: 31 August 2025

#391: "Maybe One Day We Can Get Back Together…" (breakup help for the DUMPED)

Have you ever been dumped and hit with the classic, "Maybe one day we can get back together..."? In this episode, I'm breaking down why that line is more insulting than comforting... and what it REALLY means. If you've been holding onto a "maybe," after a breakup situation, this is your wake-up call to change course, remember your worth, and get your life back on track. You're welcome ;) LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

Transcribed - Published: 22 August 2025

#390: 6 Types of People Who Say, "The Cheating Made Us So Much Stronger" (Dealing with Infidelity)

You've heard it. Maybe you've even said it. But today I'm ripping that phrase apart and exposing the truth behind it. I'm breaking down the 6 types of people who claim cheating somehow helped their relationship - and trust me, it's not the "flex" they think it is. If you've ever tried to justify staying with someone who betrayed you - or if someone you know is deep in denial - this one's probably gonna hit hard. Are you ready to hear what's really going on behind the scenes of these "stronger than ever" love stories? LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

Transcribed - Published: 8 August 2025

#389: DATING DECODED: He Says He's NOT READY for a Relationship (Dating Advice for Women)

It's once again time to KEEP IT REAL. When a man says he's "not ready for a relationship," what does he really mean? In this episode, I break down the truth behind this all-too-common phrase, why women keep holding onto it as though it signifies "hope" ... and what's actually going on beneath the surface. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

Transcribed - Published: 24 July 2025

#388: 10 Brutal Truths Re: Cheating - COLDPLAY COUPLE KISS CAM (Andy Byron & Kristin Cabot)

Introducing the very first Peeling Back the Layers Special Edition of breakup BOOST - where I spotlight breakup, dating, and relationship headlines... pulling out the real-life lessons for YOU. Unless you've been living under a rock (or a concert speaker), you've probably seen the Coldplay Couple caught mid-affair on a kiss cam. I'm not here to rehash the play-by-play - I'm here to deliver 10 brutal truths about cheating inspired by the mess. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

Transcribed - Published: 22 July 2025

#388: 10 Brutal Truths Re: Cheating - COLDPLAY COUPLE KISS CAM (Andy Byron & Kristin Cabot)

Introducing the very first Peeling Back the Layers Special Edition of breakup BOOST - where I spotlight breakup, dating, and relationship headlines... pulling out the real-life lessons for YOU. Unless you've been living under a rock (or a concert speaker), you've probably seen the Coldplay Couple caught mid-affair on a kiss cam. I'm not here to rehash the play-by-play - I'm here to deliver 10 brutal truths about cheating inspired by the mess. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

Transcribed - Published: 22 July 2025

#387: If You Use AI to Communicate in Dating & Relationships, Please Stay Single :)

Let's be real: if you're using AI to write love notes, apologies, or breakup texts… this episode is about YOU. And yeah, it might sting a little - - - because it should. I'm diving into the sad, weird, and honestly CORNY new trend of people outsourcing their emotional communication to chatbots. You say you want real love and authenticity, but you can't even send a text without help from a robot?!?! Make it make sense!!! LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

Transcribed - Published: 15 July 2025

#386: "Why Is My Narcissist Ex Doing This or That?!" (breakup advice that cuts the BS & provides clarity)

Tired of analyzing your narcissist ex? So many questions, so much confusion. You think you want answers - but trust me, you need to hear THIS before you ask again. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

Transcribed - Published: 24 June 2025

#385: 5 Mistakes That Make You Look Like a CLOWN in Dating and Relationships

So, today I'm talking about a handful of moments in dating and relationships where you look back and just cringe. You know the ones - where you ask yourself, "What was I thinking?!" Awareness is everything... and once you have awareness... you can't keep making the same bad choices. So, if you're determined to walk away from clown behavior for good, LISTEN NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

Transcribed - Published: 6 June 2025

#384: The 1 Thing You ACTUALLY Want When You Say You Want "Closure" ... Post-Breakup REAL TALK Advice

You say you want closure - but is that really what you're after??? Hmmmm.... In this episode, I'm pulling back the curtain on what's really behind that phrase. It's not about a neat ending or a final conversation. There's something else going on - and understanding it is the first step to FINALLY moving on. LISTEN NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

Transcribed - Published: 4 June 2025

#383: Groveling After a Breakup Is the Death of Your Dignity (The "please just talk to me" texts gotta go!)

Let's be honest - groveling is straight up cringe. Every text, every "please just talk to me" moment? It's not helping. It's eating away at your dignity. In this episode, I'm giving you the tough love you need to stop chasing someone who clearly isn't chasing you. LISTEN NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

Transcribed - Published: 24 May 2025

#382: 6 Truth Bombs For Cheaters That'll Make Them Squirm (And Validation For Those Who Were Cheated On)

Dear Cheaters: Don't get too cozy. This episode's got your name written all over it! And to everyone who's ever been cheated on, gaslit, or made to feel crazy... you're about to get the validation you deserve. I'm dropping 6 truth bombs cheaters desperately try to avoid. No sugar. No spin. Just the raw, uncomfortable truth about what cheating says about you. And as for the person you hurt? They won't stay broken... but YOU'LL carry the stain of that choice for a long a$$ time. LISTEN NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

Transcribed - Published: 21 May 2025

#381: How to Cope When It Feels Like Your Ex Doesn't Miss You After Your Breakup (Advice for Heartbreak)

Breakups mess with your head - and one of the most painful thoughts you can spiral into is: "Do they even miss me?!" If you've been obsessing over their silence, stalking their social media, or searching for any sign that they still care… this episode is for you. Listen NOW!   Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

Transcribed - Published: 14 May 2025

#380: The "Block-Unblock Your Ex" Olympics Will Win You a Gold Medal in Desperation (No contact rule is key)

Let's get real - blocking and unblocking your ex or situationship isn't a power move - it's a hot mess. A cycle that hurts you WAY more than it helps. It's time to stop giving away your power and start standing by your decisions. If you're ready to ditch the drama and step into your confident era, this one's for you. Listen NOW!   Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

Transcribed - Published: 8 May 2025

#379: Dear Men Who Date Women Young Enough to Be Their Daughter:

In this episode, I unpack the real story behind those "age is just a number" relationships. Whether you've dated significantly older, younger, or just sat back watching this type of slow-motion trainwreck... you don't want to miss this! Listen NOW!   Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

Transcribed - Published: 24 April 2025

#378: 10 Types of Men to NEVER Have a Baby With - Because Parenthood Is PERMANENT (life advice for women)

Let's get real: too many women end up tied to the wrong man for life because of pressure, fear, or straight-up wishful thinking. In this episode, I'm breaking down the types of men you should never have a baby with (let alone date lol)... The men who'll charm you into chaos and leave you holding the bag - diaper bag included! Girl... it doesn't matter if he looks good in a selfie if he can't even grasp the word "responsibility," ok??!! Listen NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

Transcribed - Published: 11 April 2025

#377: Are You Missing Your Ex OR THE HIGH They Gave You? (Post-Breakup Reality Check)

Let's dig into the truth about post-breakup grief. Sometimes, it's not the person you're grieving — it's the rush. The attention. The chaos. The illusion of connection. If you've ever felt addicted to someone who wasn't actually good for you, this one's going to hit hard (in the best way).  Listen NOW!  Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

Transcribed - Published: 7 April 2025

#376: "What's Your Body Count?" is the Dumbest Question You Can Ask (dating advice for men & women)

Thanks for stopping by for the latest "tiny talk" ... bite-sized episodes, packed with punch! In this tiny talk, I explain... (in great detail)... why you NEVER want to ask someone what their body count is.  Quick, straight to the point, and filled with REAL TALK. Don't miss this one!  Listen NOW!  Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST

Transcribed - Published: 4 April 2025

#375: The Bachelor S29 E9 FINALE: Safe Pick or the Fun, Alluring Gamble? (Episode 9 After Show)

Season 29 Finale is HERE! Listen now for my insights and full breakdown - plus I give my take on where this relationship may be headed now that the show is over. Oh, and PS... I also spotted a RED FLAG on a social media video of Grant & Juliana that was uploaded this morning about their "next steps." Hmmm...   Breakup & Dating Merch: https://blockandshop.com Coaching: https://www.breakupboost.com Don't Be DESPERATE: https://amzn.to/3Q5IPfZ Trina 

Transcribed - Published: 25 March 2025

#375: "LISTEN IN" w/ PATRICIA: He Was My Peace... Then I Saw His Internet History

I love connecting with people on "LISTEN IN." If YOU are interested in being a guest, here's how: https://www.breakupboost.com/be-a-guest/  In this episode, I’m thrilled to be joined by Patricia! From charming first impressions to jaw-dropping betrayals, she thought she’d found "the one"... well, until she uncovered the shocking truth lurking behind his facade. Tune in for a story of deception, red flags, and what happens when the "perfect" guy isn’t who he seems. Lots of lessons to digest here. LISTEN NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

Transcribed - Published: 20 March 2025

#375: "LISTEN IN" w/ PATRICIA: He Was So Peaceful & Perfect... Then I Saw His Internet History

I love connecting with people on "LISTEN IN." If YOU are interested in being a guest, here's how: https://www.breakupboost.com/be-a-guest/  In this episode, I’m thrilled to be joined by Patricia! From charming first impressions to jaw-dropping betrayals, she thought she’d found "the one"... well, until she uncovered the shocking truth lurking behind his facade. Tune in for a story of deception, red flags, and what happens when the "perfect" guy isn’t who he seems. Lots of lessons to digest here. LISTEN NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

Transcribed - Published: 20 March 2025

#374: The Bachelor S29 E8: THREE Room Keys… TWO Mysteries (Episode 8 After Show)

I'm breaking down the Season 29 of The Bachelor... What can we learn from THIS episode?! Come back every Tuesday for weekly recaps of all the romance, rivalries, ridiculousness... and breakups! I'll point out the red flags and cringeworthy moments... plus the things you DON'T want to replicate in your own dating life, if you get what I'm sayin... Breakup & Dating Merch: https://blockandshop.com Coaching: https://www.breakupboost.com Don't Be DESPERATE: https://amzn.to/3Q5IPfZ Trina 

Transcribed - Published: 18 March 2025

#373: Common Thought after a Breakup: Did They Ever Really Love You?? (post-breakup advice)

One of the hardest parts of a breakup is wondering: Did they ever actually love me? Was it real, or was I just convenient? In this episode, we're cutting through the confusion and getting honest about what real love looks like. I'll break down key red flags that will hopefully give you some insight for your personal situation, share relatable analogies, and help you stop overanalyzing whether they loved you - so you can start focusing on loving yourself the way you deserve.... and MOVING FORWARD in peace. Listen NOW!  Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

Transcribed - Published: 13 March 2025

#372: The Bachelor S29 E6: Hometowns! So Little Drama, It's Almost Suspicious (Episode 6 After Show)

I'm breaking down the Season 29 of The Bachelor... What can we learn from THIS episode?! Come back every Tuesday for weekly recaps of all the romance, rivalries, ridiculousness... and breakups! I'll point out the red flags and cringeworthy moments... plus the things you DON'T want to replicate in your own dating life, if you get what I'm sayin... Breakup & Dating Merch: https://blockandshop.com Coaching: https://www.breakupboost.com Don't Be DESPERATE: https://amzn.to/3Q5IPfZ Trina 

Transcribed - Published: 4 March 2025

#371: Stop Explaining to Someone Why The Two of You Should Be Together (relationship advice)

Welcome to another episode of "Trina's tiny talks" - bite-sized episodes, packed with punch.  In this episode I cover why you never want to be in a position where you're trying to convince someone to be in a relationship with you. 

Transcribed - Published: 4 March 2025

#370: The Bachelor S29 E5 Recap: Sulking, Sabotage & Scottish Dates (Episode 5 After Show)

I'm breaking down the Season 29 of The Bachelor... What can we learn from THIS episode?! Come back every Tuesday for weekly recaps of all the romance, rivalries, ridiculousness... and breakups! I'll point out the red flags and cringeworthy moments... plus the things you DON'T want to replicate in your own dating life, if you get what I'm sayin... Breakup & Dating Merch: https://blockandshop.com Coaching: https://www.breakupboost.com Don't Be DESPERATE: https://amzn.to/3Q5IPfZ Trina 

Transcribed - Published: 25 February 2025

#369: Cut the Melodrama: Breakups Are a Reset, Not a Tragedy (mindset shift post-breakup advice)

Breakups can feel like the end of the world, but they're really just the beginning of something better (even though you may not see that light at the end of the tunnel yet). In this episode, I break down why turning your breakup into a dramatic, life-ending event only makes it harder to move on. Instead of wallowing in sadness and replaying the past, it's time to treat your breakup like a reset - a chance to reassess, rebuild, and create a new version of yourself.  Listen NOW!  Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

Transcribed - Published: 24 February 2025

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