#385: 5 Mistakes That Make You Look Like a CLOWN in Dating and Relationships

breakup BOOST Advice to Get Over Your Ex & More

Trina Leckie

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🗓️ 6 June 2025

⏱️ 11 minutes

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Summary

So, today I'm talking about a handful of moments in dating and relationships where you look back and just cringe. You know the ones - where you ask yourself, “What was I thinking?!" Awareness is everything... and once you have awareness... you can't keep making the same bad choices. So, if you're determined to walk away from clown behavior for good, LISTEN NOW!

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Transcript

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0:00.0	You're listening to Breakup Boost, honest and logical advice with the sprinkle of bluntness.
0:06.7	Trina keeps it real.
0:08.0	She'll help you navigate the craziness of the modern dating world.
0:11.0	Stop obsessing over your ex and finally close the door on half-ass relationships.
0:15.4	This girl's got your back.
0:16.9	Here's Trina.
0:19.7	Hey guys.
0:20.6	So today we're going to talk about those moments in dating and relationships where you
0:26.5	look back and cringe, where you just want to basically dig a hole and crawl into it.
0:33.6	You know, the ones where you seriously ask yourself, what the actual fuck was I thinking?
0:38.1	Why did I stay?
0:39.9	Why was I even into this person?
0:42.3	Why did I chase them?
0:43.9	Why did I let that slide?
0:46.0	We've all got a few clown moments in our past.
0:48.6	Okay, but the good news is you're not repeating that mess again.
0:53.2	Okay, because once you see it for
0:54.8	what it was a whole circus you can't unsee it so let's get into the five
1:01.2	clown moves that you're officially done making in dating and relationships
1:06.0	okay so number one believing the I've just been so busy excuse I've just been so busy. Excuse. I've just been so busy.
1:16.3	No one is ever too busy for someone that they're crazy about. So if they're telling you that
1:22.5	they're too busy, they aren't into you. They aren't into you. So you need to stop co-signing on the bullshit.
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