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Hi guys. So the topic of this episode is,

Betrayal isn't a sliding scale. Cheating is cheating. So what prompted this episode is I was

getting something done the other day, just a regular appointment. And the topic of

relationships came up in conversation.

And the way it unfolded, I was thinking, ding, ding, ding, this is a great topic for an

episode. So thank you for the material. Anyway, long story short, he tells me that his ex slept

with another guy before their breakup, his ex being a woman.

And after digging a little deeper, because I know there's always two sides to every story,

he was saying that he only flirted with women online, you know, dating apps or whatever,

as though it was some kind of moral upgrade. Like I mean totally downplaying it, talking nonchalantly, and not even giving it a second thought,

as though I would hand him a medal for best, almost faithful boyfriend,

just fully expecting me to co-side and crown his ex, the villain.

And I do want to say he's a nice enough guy and everything,

but I feel bad kind of talking about this, but kind of not. I'm not giving any other details,

so like, whatever. I'm just taking the meat of what the topic is and branching out from there. Okay.

So anyway, little did he know who he was talking to. Uh, listen, nobody wants to be with someone who's sleeping around.

I get it.

But flirting with other women online and being on dating apps?

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