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Hi guys, today I've got a tiny talk for you on the hidden danger of giving a relationship a second chance.

And this is something that most people don't even think about.

But when you reconnect with someone from your past,

it's natural to assure yourself that things are going to be different this time, right?

You tell yourself things like, well, enough time has passed, both of us have grown. The timing is a lot better now.

Basically, you tell yourself these things to calm down about any uncertainties or anxieties.

Because let's face it, in most cases, if you allow someone to pop back up from the past,

you're probably in a place where you've been

feeling lonely or haven't had much luck in dating, you know how it goes. So when you have an opportunity

to kind of rekindle things with an ex, you think, well, what have I got to lose? I'm not doing

anything else anyway. And you're more inclined to then

convince yourself that maybe nothing else has been working out because, well, you were meant to be

with your ex. But what happens is your expectations start to change. So the first time around,

you knew what you wanted, right? Like, I want this and I want

the relationship to be like that and on and on. A person knows what they want at the end of the day.

But as time goes on, there's things that come up that bother you, probably straight up pissed you

off, things that made you question whether the relationship was

actually right for you. I mean, let's face it, this led to a breakup, right? But what happens is

when an ex comes back into your life and you get in the headspace where you're determined to

make it work, especially because like I was saying, you haven't met anyone else,

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