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Stop obsessing over your ex and finally close the door on half-ass relationships.

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Well, hello there.

Did absence make the heart grow fonder?

Okay, guys, I am back with an episode all about how women say,

He doesn't know how to love me, or he doesn't know how to love.

Oh, really? Oh, that's too bad. I'm so sorry to hear that. No, no, no, no, no, no. Oh my God, no. When a woman says he doesn't know how to love, that's basically like her taking out a huge floodlight and shining it on the reality of the

situation as well as on her self-esteem. Because no woman in a healthy reciprocal dynamic

would ever say that. There would be no reason to ever say that. Saying he doesn't know how to love makes it sound like this poor guy

is just like I picture this creature in the woods on a dark and stormy night, you know, what's that

word I'm looking for? I don't know what the word is, but like digging in the ground looking for food.

Right? He's got no water. He's got no map. Oh, poor little fella. He just can't figure it out.

Let's cut the bullshit, ladies. Let's cut the bullshit.

I'll pass you a good sharp knife, okay?

If a guy isn't loving you and making you feel loved, it's because

he doesn't actually love you. It's because he doesn't actually love you. He doesn't want to love

you. That's not to make you feel bad. That's so you stop wasting your time and stop looking stupid,

okay? I don't want you out there looking stupid. Because when

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