Healing Broken Trust In Your Marriage After Infidelity

Join me, Brad Robinson, LMFT as I dive into the complex emotions and challenges faced by betrayed partners in the aftermath of infidelity. In this episode, I explore why those who have been betrayed often struggle without answers and how the quest for truth is crucial for healing. Discover the common patterns and needs of betrayed partners, and learn why understanding the details of an affair is not about punishment but about restoring safety and rebuilding trust. Whether you're healing from broken trust or supporting someone who is, this episode offers valuable insights into the journey towards recovery and the importance of honest communication. Speak with us about your situation Schedule a Discovery Call Couples Program:  https://healingbrokentrust.com/contact-us Stop My Divorce: https://healingbrokentrust.com/stop-my-divorce Podcast Resources and the Core24 Episodes everyone needs to lay the foundation for healing completely: https://healingbrokentrust.com/podcast About Us: Brad Robinson, LMFT Brad lost his own family to divorce as a child. That early heartbreak didn't just shape him, it propelled him into a lifetime of helping others heal theirs. A licensed marriage and family therapist based in Tulsa, OK, Brad is an internationally recognized expert in affair recovery and a TEDx speaker. He has personally guided over 6,000 couples in one-on-one work and developed a multi-layered healing approach that integrates trauma, attachment, and relational repair. Morgan Robinson, MA Morgan brings both personal insight and professional training to the work. She knows what it's like to enter marriage carrying deep wounds — and what it takes to build confidence, connection, and resilience. A trauma-informed coach grounded in attachment theory, Morgan leads with empathy, clarity, and a commitment to transforming pain into growth.

Transcribed - Published: 11 February 2026

Why do they shut down when you're falling apart? Why do they say the exact wrong thing when you need comfort the most? In this episode, we step inside the aftermath of infidelity and unpack a question many betrayed partners silently ask: Why does the person who hurt me seem incapable of showing up now? We explore the emotional paralysis that often overtakes the unfaithful partner — the freezing, defensiveness, and withdrawal that can feel like a second betrayal. You'll hear what's really happening beneath the surface: crushing shame, terror of losing everything, and guilt so overwhelming it shuts down connection instead of repairing it. This conversation sheds light on why boundaries become confusing, why accountability feels inconsistent, and why your pain can feel unbearable for the person who caused it — even when they want to fix things. Most importantly, we discuss what actually helps move conversations forward, rebuild safety, and interrupt the painful cycles that keep couples stuck. If you're a betrayed spouse searching for clarity, validation, and a path toward healing — whether together or on your own — this episode offers insight you won't want to miss. Speak with us about your situation Schedule a Discovery Call Couples Program:  https://healingbrokentrust.com/contact-us Stop My Divorce: https://healingbrokentrust.com/stop-my-divorce Podcast Resources: https://healingbrokentrust.com/podcast

Transcribed - Published: 4 February 2026

In this episode, we delve into the profound challenges faced by partners who have been betrayed. Discover the ten most significant pain points that arise after infidelity, from feeling unsafe and grappling with trickle truths to dealing with intrusive thoughts and the loss of self-worth. We share insights and practical steps to help you navigate these emotional hurdles and find a path to healing. Whether you're struggling with anger, grief, or the loneliness that betrayal brings, this episode offers a roadmap to reclaiming your life and rebuilding trust. Join us as we explore the complexities of betrayal and provide guidance for those seeking to heal and move forward. Speak with us about your situation Schedule a Discovery Call Couples Workshops:  https://healingbrokentrust.com/hbtworkshop Stop My Divorce: https://healingbrokentrust.com/stop-my-divorce Podcast Resources: https://healingbrokentrust.com/podcast

Transcribed - Published: 28 January 2026

In this episode we delve into the complexities of healing after betrayal. Discover how couples can break free from the negative cycles that hinder recovery and learn the importance of shifting from defensiveness to responsibility. We explore the dynamics of pursuers and distancers, the dangers of minimizing behaviors, and the critical role of interpretation in the healing process. Whether you're seeking to rebuild trust or understand the journey of affair recovery, this episode offers valuable insights and practical advice to help you and your partner move forward. Tune in to learn how real healing begins when both partners can hold the truths of damage and repair simultaneously, paving the way for lasting forgiveness and trust. Speak with us about your situation Schedule a Discovery Call Couples Workshops:  https://healingbrokentrust.com/hbtworkshop Stop My Divorce: https://healingbrokentrust.com/stop-my-divorce Podcast Resources: https://healingbrokentrust.com/podcast

Transcribed - Published: 21 January 2026

In this episode of Healing Broken Trust, we tackle the complex issue of affair nostalgia, a significant emotional roadblock in the journey to reconciliation after infidelity. We explore the listener's question about dealing with a partner who still holds an affair in a positive light, making reconciliation challenging. The discussion delves into the emotional struggles of both the betrayed and the unfaithful, offering insights into the need for genuine remorse, the importance of feeling chosen, and strategies for dismantling the idealized view of an affair partner. Join us as we navigate the winding road to healing and rebuilding a stronger, more authentic relationship. Speak with us about your situation Schedule a Discovery Call Couples Workshops:  https://healingbrokentrust.com/hbtworkshop Stop My Divorce: https://healingbrokentrust.com/stop-my-divorce Podcast Resources: https://healingbrokentrust.com/podcast If you're new to this podcast make sure to visit episode 1 of season 1.  That's the best way to listen to the program.  CLICK HERE to go to that episode.

Transcribed - Published: 17 January 2026

In this podcast, we break down a powerful research-based model for how trust gets rebuilt after it's been broken—and why "just apologize" often isn't enough. The research we reference explains trust repair as a two-way, back-and-forth process between the person who was hurt (the trustor) and the person who caused the damage (the trustee), where repair happens when efforts to prove trustworthiness outweigh the injured person's need to protect themselves. You'll learn the three questions people move through after a breach—Did you do it? (guilty vs. innocent), Why did it happen? (you vs. the situation), and Can you change? (fixable vs. fixed)—and how different repair attempts land differently depending on which question is still unanswered. We'll also cover why integrity-based betrayals are harder to repair than competence mistakes, why mixed messages (denial + apology) backfire, and what "stuck" patterns like avoidance, escalation, or hardened mistrust look like—so you can map what's happening and take smarter next steps toward real trust repair. Speak with us about your situation Schedule a Discovery Call Couples Workshops:  https://healingbrokentrust.com/hbtworkshop Stop My Divorce: https://healingbrokentrust.com/stop-my-divorce Podcast Resources: https://healingbrokentrust.com/podcast

Transcribed - Published: 9 January 2026

In this episode, we delve into the complex dynamics of apologies following intentional betrayal in relationships. Discover why apologies often fail after deliberate choices and learn what constitutes a healing apology. We explore the emotional disconnect between partners, the impact of guilt and anger, and the psychological needs driving reconciliation.  Join us as we break down the needs-based model of reconciliation and offer practical advice for rebuilding trust and fostering genuine remorse.  Whether you're navigating the aftermath of infidelity, or seeking to understand the intricacies of your partner's behavior, this episode provides valuable perspectives and actionable steps for healing and growth. Get the Apology Template mentioned in the episode HERE Speak with us about your situation Schedule a Discovery Call Couples Workshops:  https://healingbrokentrust.com/hbtworkshop Stop My Divorce: https://healingbrokentrust.com/stop-my-divorce Podcast Resources: https://healingbrokentrust.com/podcast

Transcribed - Published: 6 January 2026

In this episode, Brad and Morgan Robinson delve into the complex dynamics of memory and betrayal in relationships. Discover why both partners remember infidelity differently and how these memory gaps can impact healing and reconciliation. Explore the roles of victim and perpetrator, and learn about the psychological and emotional processes that occur after trust is broken. With insights from historical truth commissions and personal anecdotes, this episode offers valuable perspectives on navigating the aftermath of betrayal. Whether you're seeking to understand your own experiences or support a loved one, this episode provides essential tools and strategies for healing broken trust. Speak with us about your situation Schedule a Discovery Call Couples Workshops:  https://healingbrokentrust.com/hbtworkshop Stop My Divorce: https://healingbrokentrust.com/stop-my-divorce Podcast Resources: https://healingbrokentrust.com/podcast

Transcribed - Published: 30 December 2025

In this episode of "Healing Broken Trust," Brad and Morgan Robinson discuss the concept of "pre-assurance," a proactive approach to offering reassurance to a partner before they are triggered, especially during the holiday season. They explore how pre-assurance can help partners feel emotionally safe and valued, emphasizing the importance of understanding and discussing each other's triggers. The episode provides practical advice on offering pre-assurance in various situations, such as during holidays, social gatherings, before going out, and before physical intimacy. They also discuss the significance of patience, transparency, and communication in rebuilding trust after infidelity. Additionally, they touch on the role of trauma treatment, specifically EMDR, in the healing process and mention their workshop program that includes a trauma component.   We are available to help you heal broken trust.  We have several ways to get help.  Speak with us about your situation Schedule a Discovery Call Couples Workshops:  https://healingbrokentrust.com/hbtworkshop Stop My Divorce: https://healingbrokentrust.com/stop-my-divorce Podcast Resources: https://healingbrokentrust.com/podcast   You can call our office at 918-281-6060 Monday-Friday 9AM-6PM CST.  Contact us on the web at healingbrokentrust.com.

Transcribed - Published: 23 December 2025

Brad Robinson, LMFT delves into the complexities of supporting a betrayed spouse during the emotionally charged holiday season. Discover ten actionable strategies to help navigate the festive period with empathy and understanding. From initiating open conversations and creating new traditions to offering reassurance and protecting boundaries, this episode provides a comprehensive guide to turning negative cycles into positive ones. Whether you're dealing with emotional triggers or seeking to build a supportive environment, these tips aim to foster healing and connection. Join us as we explore how to be a proactive emotional ally and create a safe space for healing during the holidays.   We are available to help you heal broken trust.  We have several ways to get help.  Speak with us about your situation Schedule a Discovery Call Couples Workshops:  https://healingbrokentrust.com/hbtworkshop Stop My Divorce: https://healingbrokentrust.com/stop-my-divorce Podcast Resources: https://healingbrokentrust.com/podcast   You can call our office at 918-281-6060 Monday-Friday 9AM-6PM CST.  Contact us on the web at healingbrokentrust.com.

Transcribed - Published: 26 November 2025

In this episode we discuss the differences between "fantasy love" or "limerence" and "companionship love" or "real love".  We explain how limerence is an intense, emotionally volatile form of love driven by attraction and fantasy, while companionship love is a deeper, more stable form of love built on mutual commitment, trust, and shared values.  The speakers emphasize that companionship love, while less flashy, is ultimately more sustainable and fulfilling in the long run.   We are available to help you heal broken trust.  We have several ways to get help.  Couples Workshops:  https://healingbrokentrust.com/hbtworkshop Stop My Divorce: https://healingbrokentrust.com/stop-my-divorce Help for the Betrayed: https://healingbrokentrust.com/betrayed-spouse-masterclass Help for the Unfaithful: https://healingbrokentrust.com/healers-workshop Podcast Resources: https://healingbrokentrust.com/podcast   You can call our office at 918-281-6060 Monday-Friday 9AM-6PM CST.  Contact us on the web at healingbrokentrust.com.  

Transcribed - Published: 8 May 2025

Friendships are a normal and healthy part of life. We all need people outside of our romantic relationships who support us, make us laugh, and share our interests. But sometimes, a close friendship can slowly turn into something more—even without us realizing it. Emotional affairs don't happen overnight. They start off innocent—just good conversations, just inside jokes, just feeling understood. But over time, the emotional connection deepens, secrets start forming, and the lines get blurry. The trcky part? Emotional affairs don't always involve physical intimacy, making them harder to recognize—and even harder to admit. You might tell yourself it's nothing, even as you hide texts, crave their attention, or feel guilty about how much you think about them. So, how do you know if your friendship is just a friendship or if it's damaging your relationship? The key is spotting the differences between the two. Check out our blog HERE: https://healingbrokentrust.com/blog/friendship-or-emotional-affair-how-to-tell-the-difference   We are available to help you heal broken trust.  We have several ways to get help.    Couples Workshops:  https://healingbrokentrust.com/hbtworkshop   Stop My Divorce: https://healingbrokentrust.com/stop-my-divorce   Help for the Betrayed: https://healingbrokentrust.com/betrayed-spouse-masterclass   Help for the Unfaithful: https://healingbrokentrust.com/healers-workshop   Podcast Resources: https://healingbrokentrust.com/podcast   You can call our office at 918-281-6060 Monday-Friday 9AM-6PM CST.  Contact us on the web at healingbrokentrust.com.  If you live out of the US talk to our staff about

Transcribed - Published: 26 March 2025

Trigger warning: this episode can be difficult to hear especially for those who are still raw after discovery.   If that is you consider reading the transcript on our blog here: EPISODE TRANSCRIPT >>>   Get the podcast downloads here: PODCAST DOWNLOADS >>>   Join us for the next couple's workshop here: SIGN UP FOR THE COUPLE'S PROGRAM >>>

Transcribed - Published: 11 March 2025

A person gets caught in an affair. They see the devastation it wreaks on their spouse—the betrayed partner—and, wracked with guilt, they make a solemn vow. They promise themselves, often in a moment of raw honesty, “Never again.” It feels earnest, weighty, even unbreakable. But is a vow enough to prevent them from straying again? https://healingbrokentrust.com/hbtworkshop  

Transcribed - Published: 9 January 2025

In episode 76 Brad and Morgan discuss a new way to look at negative cycles.  If you haven't yet listened to episode 3 called "Why Do We Fight and Avoid Difficult Topics" that episode will help you understand negative cycles. You can check that out HERE: https://healingbrokentrust.com/podcast-blog/ep-3-why-do-we-fight-or-avoid-talking-about-the-affair   We are available to help you heal broken trust.  We have several ways to get help.  Couples Workshops:  https://healingbrokentrust.com/hbtworkshop   Trauma Intensives: https://marriagesolutions.as.me/trauma-intensives   Stop My Divorce: https://healingbrokentrust.com/stop-my-divorce   Help for the Unfaithful: https://healingbrokentrust.com/healers-workshop   1-on-1 coaching/therapy: https://healingbrokentrust.com/coaching   Podcast Resources: https://healingbrokentrust.com/podcast   You can call our office at 918-281-6060 Monday-Friday 9AM-6PM CST.  Contact us on the web at healingbrokentrust.com.  If you live out of the US talk to our staff about discussing options via zoom.

Transcribed - Published: 3 October 2024

Every couple I've encountered as a relationship therapist has been dealing with this specific issue, but they didn't have a concept for it to describe or explain it.  This episode will help you do that. Before we jump into our episode I wanted to take a moment to speak to those of you who are looking for resources. Some of you are in therapy or coaching and you're finding: Your therapist is nice but the issue of betrayal or trauma isn't being addressed.  You run out of time in your sessions A lot happens in between sessions which can feel like progress is stunted.  It takes way too long to get somewhere in therapy or coaching. In fact, if the average couple needs around 15-30 sessions that works out to about 4-8 months if nothing big happens in between sessions.  And then there are the individual needs that will often require more time. That's why we host monthly workshops.  You can join us in person here in Tulsa, OK, or online via zoom from anywhere in the world, and you'll even have access to a pre-recorded version as well as the master classes and small group meetings. This workshop provides you with actionable steps you can take immediately to see huge changes in your relationship AND in how you feel. It's the jump start you need.  We take what would be months of therapy or coaching, pull out the most useful and important parts, and deliver it to you in 2.5 days. It is truly transformative. But don't take my word for it, at the end of this episode you will have the opportunity to hear from a couple who came to one of the workshops.  You can also see some here>>> These workshops allow you to get what you need without the frustration of lost time and resources. They are private and no one has to share anything with the group to see results if you don't want to.  Although we find that many couples love that they can make new and supportive friends if they want to. Check it out at healingbrokentrust.com Also download "21 Things the Unfaithful Want to Tell You But Don't Know How to Say" Here>>>

Transcribed - Published: 1 July 2024

Erik Rasmussen shares with Brad Robinson how he found hope after discovering his wife's infidelity. Erik shares what those early days were like and what he did that created the transformation he was looking for.  Get the 21 Things the Unfaithful Want to Tell You But Don't Know How to Say free download here: https://healingbrokentrust.com/21-things-the-unfaithful-want-to-tell-you Attend a 3 day Healing Broken Trust couple's workshop register here: https://healingbrokentrust.com/hbtworkshop Listen to the free podcast here: https://healingbrokentrust.com/podcast Already participated in our workshop? Consider 1-on-1 help here: https://healingbrokentrust.com/coaching  

Transcribed - Published: 20 May 2024

This episode sheds light on what your spouse was thinking about you and your relationship during their affair.  Did they love you?  Did they love the affair partner?  Could they have loved you both?   Enroll in our 3 day workshop here: https://healingbrokentrust.com/hbtworkshop  

Transcribed - Published: 11 April 2024

Brad and Morgan outline 20 things the unfaithful partner want the betrayed partner to know but don't know how to say it.  We can help you find your voice and that is the goal of this episode.  To help you find the words you've been looking for.  Listen to the very end because you'll have a chance to hear from other couples. Look for more resources at healingbrokentrust.com Start your transformation by joining our workshop and program at healingbrokentrust.com/hbtworkshop

Transcribed - Published: 13 October 2022

This episode is like a mini-letter to the unfaithful spouse.  Our goal is to help you articulate many of the things you might be feeling but can't seem to put your finger on. Also, you may have heard about our workshops and master class programs… You may be listening to this wondering why would we join the Healing Broken Trust workshop and program? "We're already in counseling, or something else, and I mean Brad and Morgan cover everything they have to say in the podcast anyways, right?" Well not quite. First of all, if you're in counseling right now you still need the workshop. Individual counseling doesn't solve marriage issues.  And I bet your marriage counselor is working on the marriage and missing all the glaring affair recovery issues you haven't yet dealt with. In addition to that…we deal with so much more in the program that we've never covered on the podcast. Such as: When sharing emotions is not enough, When being the healer doesn't solve the trust issues, Or when your spouse isn't helping you heal at all, When cutting off the affair partner isn't simple or straightforward in your situation, When you've decided to re-engage and work on the relationship but the underlying causes for the affair aren't dealt with, When you think you know why the affair happened and then you are given new information, When you have blind spots and can't see what you're missing, When you're not used to sadness so you do everything not to experience it, but in the process, you loose all access to intimacy. You're super positive, sure of the solution, thinking everything is explainable, but do you really understand why your spouse decided to look outside the relationship for some need to be met?  What need were they trying to meet? These are just some of what we help couples deal with in our workshop and program. So go to healingbrokentrust.com now and join us for the next workshop before it fills up.

Transcribed - Published: 28 September 2022

Dan and Lynn are participants in the Healing Broken Trust program and they talk about their experience healing after infidelity.  A memorable moment in the conversation was when Lynn talked about how people comment on how others are noticing the changes in them.   Speak with us about your situation Schedule a Discovery Call Couples Program:  https://healingbrokentrust.com/contact-us Stop My Divorce: https://healingbrokentrust.com/stop-my-divorce Podcast Resources and the Core24 Episodes everyone needs to lay the foundation for healing completely: https://healingbrokentrust.com/podcast About Us: Brad Robinson, LMFT Brad lost his own family to divorce as a child. That early heartbreak didn't just shape him, it propelled him into a lifetime of helping others heal theirs. A licensed marriage and family therapist based in Tulsa, OK, Brad is an internationally recognized expert in affair recovery and a TEDx speaker. He has personally guided over 6,000 couples in one-on-one work and developed a multi-layered healing approach that integrates trauma, attachment, and relational repair. Morgan Robinson, MA Morgan brings both personal insight and professional training to the work. She knows what it's like to enter marriage carrying deep wounds — and what it takes to build confidence, connection, and resilience. A trauma-informed coach grounded in attachment theory, Morgan leads with empathy, clarity, and a commitment to transforming pain into growth.  

Transcribed - Published: 14 February 2022

Missing this one thing could mean you stay stuck unable to repair the negative cycle. Check out our website for info about the workshop, blog, coaching, and other helpful tools: Healingbrokentrust.com

Transcribed - Published: 11 January 2022

From feeling hopeless and defeated to a completely new and fresh take on the relationship.  Cody and Chaisley attended our healing broken trust workshop and now they have something to share with you about what they discovered.  Learn more at healingbrokentrust.com

Transcribed - Published: 22 December 2021

We hit pause on the podcast but not on the practice of helping couples heal broken trust.  Since the last episode we had another baby.  We call him our pandemic baby.   While we've been away from recording new content we haven't taken a break from helping couples.  In fact, we counted the number of couples Brad has worked with 1-on-1 in just the last 10 years and we found the number to be a staggering 5,800 couples! That's not in a large group...that's FACE TO FACE, 1-on-1.  That's unheard of in the counseling profession. During this time we've developed a new way to help our couples.  We've tested in out over the last few months and the results have exceeded our expectations.  This new way to heal is what Brad is sharing in this episode.   So if you're looking to heal yourself and your relationship look no further.  Visit our website at healingbrokentrust.com.

Transcribed - Published: 14 December 2021

This episode Brad and Morgan talk about Brad's recent TEDx Talk about what makes love last.  We're so excited to share this with you! If you're ready to take the next step in healing your relationship check out our healing broken trust workshop HERE: https://healingbrokentrustworkshop.com/ You can do it in person or from home.  We hope to see you soon!

Transcribed - Published: 24 April 2020

Discovering that your partner has been unfaithful or needing to reveal unfaithfulness to your partner is beyond STRESSFUL.  But this episode doesn't ignore the very real truth that it can still cause the coolest cucumber to wilt.  Listen in as Brad and Morgan talk about managing stress incredibly difficult circumstances. At the time of this episode, we are experiencing a pandemic and we're all quarantined and practicing social distancing. We are all so stressed and now we're in close quarters with our spouse. This can make healing broken trust so difficult. If you're ready to take the next step in healing your relationship check out our healing broken trust workshop HERE: https://healingbrokentrustworkshop.com/ You can do it in person or from home.  We hope to see you soon!

Transcribed - Published: 9 April 2020

Brad discusses what happens when the betrayer opens up and is vulnerable with the partner they've hurt.  How this can affect the future of the relationship. If you're ready to take the next step in healing your relationship check out our healing broken trust workshop HERE: https://healingbrokentrustworkshop.com/ You can do it in person or from home.  We hope to see you soon!

Transcribed - Published: 26 February 2019

After an affair is discovered many people find it difficult to understand why the betrayal happened.  In Episode 63 Brad and Morgan discuss some of the challenges to healing.  They outline how shock and trauma affects the way understanding the affair is interpreted.  How the big why and little whys make a difference in healing after the affair is discovered.  How the level of pain affects the number of questions asked.  If you're ready to take the next step in healing your relationship check out our healing broken trust workshop HERE: https://healingbrokentrustworkshop.com/ You can do it in person or from home.  We hope to see you soon!

Transcribed - Published: 15 January 2019

People make so many mistakes after the affair is discovered.  You can avoid all the most common issues.  This episode begins the discussion of what you can do to avoid the pitfalls and make sure you come out on top. If you're tired of feeling stuck, and you're ready to take the next step, and you're ready to take the next step in healing your relationship check out our healing broken trust workshop HERE: https://healingbrokentrustworkshop.com/ You can do it in person or from home.  We hope to see you soon!

Transcribed - Published: 8 May 2018

This episode we have a real "come to Jesus meeting" as we say in the south....we constantly hear people say that their situation must be the worst situation that we've ever heard...they're surprised when we share what we share in this episode. If you're ready to take the next step in healing your relationship check out our healing broken trust workshop: https://healingbrokentrustworkshop.com/

Transcribed - Published: 1 May 2018

In this episode we cover grief in our relationship.  When we've experienced hardships especially the pain of lost expectations in our marriage we grieve what could have (or should have) been. When we are hurt or when our relationship experiences a transition...sometimes for the worse...we grieve the change. But if you get the right help you can have a new and better relationship with your mate. But there are birthing pains sometimes when you're trying to bring about this new, better, version of you relationship. If you're ready to take the next step in healing your relationship check out our healing broken trust workshop: https://healingbrokentrustworkshop.com/ You can do it in person or from home.  We hope to see you soon!

Transcribed - Published: 24 April 2018

Communication is definitely a huge concern for almost every couple.  We all want to be heard and to feel understood.  We often intuitively know that we need to understand our partner as well.   What we need and want to say can get lost in translation.  So we give two practical and simple ways to get started getting "unstuck" in your communication battle.   It can feel like a battle sometimes, right?  The good news is you don't have to do it alone.  You have someone in your corner. We are here to help you and want to give you everything you need to be successful. If you're ready to take the next step in healing your relationship check out our healing broken trust workshop: https://healingbrokentrustworkshop.com/ You can do it in person or from home.  We hope to see you soon! If you want to learn a little more about us visit our website: healingbrokentrust.com Read our blog at healingbrokentrustblog.com

Transcribed - Published: 17 April 2018

Are you stuck in self-deception? The answer might surprise you. If you're ready to take the next step in healing your relationship check out our healing broken trust workshop: https://healingbrokentrustworkshop.com/ You can do it in person or from home.  We hope to see you soon! If you want to learn a little more about us visit our website: healingbrokentrust.com Read our blog at healingbrokentrustblog.com

Transcribed - Published: 10 April 2018

Part 3 is all about how Anthony and Stephanie finally overcame the affair. If you're ready to take the next step in healing your relationship check out our healing broken trust workshop: https://healingbrokentrustworkshop.com/ You can do it in person or from home.  We hope to see you soon! If you want to learn a little more about us visit our website: healingbrokentrust.com Read our blog at healingbrokentrustblog.com

Transcribed - Published: 6 April 2018

Anthony had to figure out how to cut off the affair partner even when she persisted. Listen to their story here. If you're ready to take the next step in healing your relationship check out our healing broken trust workshop: https://healingbrokentrustworkshop.com/ You can do it in person or from home.  We hope to see you soon! If you want to learn a little more about us visit our website: healingbrokentrust.com Read our blog at healingbrokentrustblog.com  

Transcribed - Published: 27 December 2017

After years of feeling their relationship was "okay" Stephanie found herself at a crossroads. Anthony admitted to an affair. They decided to work on the marriage but couldn't shake the affair partner. Even after moving state lines the affair partner was persistent! Listen to find out how they healed from broken trust. If you're ready to take the next step in healing your relationship check out our healing broken trust workshop: https://healingbrokentrustworkshop.com/ You can do it in person or from home.  We hope to see you soon! If you want to learn a little more about us visit our website: healingbrokentrust.com Read our blog at healingbrokentrustblog.com

Transcribed - Published: 8 December 2017

Matt and Sue struggled after Sue discovered Matt's affair. They were split up and Matt struggled to leave the affair partner when they found our Master Class. They tell their story here. If you're ready to take the next step in healing your relationship check out our healing broken trust workshop: https://healingbrokentrustworkshop.com/ You can do it in person or from home.  We hope to see you soon! If you want to learn a little more about us visit our website: healingbrokentrust.com Read our blog at healingbrokentrustblog.com

Transcribed - Published: 24 November 2017

Many of you may be contemplating divorce. Should you divorce? Will it make you happy? We discuss whether divorce is right for you in this episode. If you're ready to take the next step in healing your relationship check out our healing broken trust workshop: https://healingbrokentrustworkshop.com/ You can do it in person or from home.  We hope to see you soon! If you want to learn a little more about us visit our website: healingbrokentrust.com Read our blog at healingbrokentrustblog.com

Transcribed - Published: 19 September 2017

We've compiled 12 warnings signs that someone is vulnerable to cheating. In this episode we talk about 3 of them.  If you're ready to take the next step in healing your relationship check out our healing broken trust workshop: https://healingbrokentrustworkshop.com/ You can do it in person or from home.  We hope to see you soon! If you want to learn a little more about us visit our website: healingbrokentrust.com Read our blog at healingbrokentrustblog.com

Transcribed - Published: 5 September 2017

Pornography many times leads to infidelity. We discuss how porn can influence a person to be unfaithful and a few ways you can protect yourself and your marriage. If you're ready to take the next step in healing your relationship check out our healing broken trust workshop: https://healingbrokentrustworkshop.com/ You can do it in person or from home.  We hope to see you soon! If you want to learn a little more about us visit our website: healingbrokentrust.com Read our blog at healingbrokentrustblog.com

Transcribed - Published: 29 August 2017

This episode is all about the pursuer's affair. We talk a lot about the Avoider's affair but we forget that hey pursuer's have affairs too! You'll find this episode interesting as we take a look at how a pursuer can betray as well. If you're ready to take the next step in healing your relationship check out our healing broken trust workshop: https://healingbrokentrustworkshop.com/ You can do it in person or from home.  We hope to see you soon! If you want to learn a little more about us visit our website: healingbrokentrust.com Read our blog at healingbrokentrustblog.com

Transcribed - Published: 22 August 2017

In this episode we talk about what research says about re-engaging the withdrawn spouse. The specific steps you can take to make sure you get the much needed feedback from the partner who traditionally withdraws and pulls away. If you're ready to take the next step in healing your relationship check out our healing broken trust workshop: https://healingbrokentrustworkshop.com/ You can do it in person or from home.  We hope to see you soon! If you want to learn a little more about us visit our website: healingbrokentrust.com Read our blog at healingbrokentrustblog.com

Transcribed - Published: 15 August 2017

Without this missing link you will have a hard time fully recovering after infidelity. Make sure you do this for your relationship!  We even give you 2 actionable things you can do right away to make it happen. If you're ready to take the next step in healing your relationship check out our healing broken trust workshop: https://healingbrokentrustworkshop.com/ You can do it in person or from home.  We hope to see you soon! If you want to learn a little more about us visit our website: healingbrokentrust.com Read our blog at healingbrokentrustblog.com

Transcribed - Published: 8 August 2017

It can be challenging to encourage the truth as a betrayed partner but in this episode we outline 3 reasons the betrayer struggles to be honest and a few ways you can encourage the truth so you get what you need. Honesty is sometimes hard to come by but this episode is a quick reminder of how to encourage it and we briefly review the most important things to remember If you're ready to take the next step in healing your relationship check out our healing broken trust workshop: https://healingbrokentrustworkshop.com/ You can do it in person or from home.  We hope to see you soon! If you want to learn a little more about us visit our website: healingbrokentrust.com Read our blog at healingbrokentrustblog.com

Transcribed - Published: 1 August 2017

We talk about 2 things you can do when they won't end the affair.  If you're ready to take the next step in healing your relationship check out our healing broken trust workshop: https://healingbrokentrustworkshop.com/ You can do it in person or from home.  We hope to see you soon! If you want to learn a little more about us visit our website: healingbrokentrust.com Read our blog at healingbrokentrustblog.com

Transcribed - Published: 25 July 2017

Boundaries are so incredibly important for healing a marriage after infidelity and are important for preventing infidelity as well. If you're ready to take the next step in healing your relationship check out our healing broken trust workshop: https://healingbrokentrustworkshop.com/ You can do it in person or from home.  We hope to see you soon! If you want to learn a little more about us visit our website: healingbrokentrust.com Read our blog at healingbrokentrustblog.com

Transcribed - Published: 18 July 2017

Is it wrong for me to check up on my spouse and look through their Facebook and bank accounts? We answer this question in this episode. If you're ready to take the next step in healing your relationship check out our healing broken trust workshop: https://healingbrokentrustworkshop.com/ You can do it in person or from home.  We hope to see you soon! If you want to learn a little more about us visit our website: healingbrokentrust.com Read our blog at healingbrokentrustblog.com

Transcribed - Published: 11 July 2017

We talk about the one thing you need to know when healing after broken trust. We hope you have a wonderful 4th of July full of fun with your family. We are recording this from our hotel room and you'll never guess where we are! If you're ready to take the next step in healing your relationship check out our healing broken trust workshop: https://healingbrokentrustworkshop.com/ You can do it in person or from home.  We hope to see you soon! If you want to learn a little more about us visit our website: healingbrokentrust.com Read our blog at healingbrokentrustblog.com

Transcribed - Published: 4 July 2017

Many times the person who is betrayed wonders what's going on in the mind of their partner who's having an affair. It's important to deal with the reality of the (typical) affair. If you're the betrayed partner, you may only see your partner pushing you away. It's easy to think that they really don't want to be with you....but could they be pushing you away because of their own shame and guilt?  Maybe they're afraid the marriage can't change...so they do things to push you away? Here are a few of the questions we discuss in this episode: Does the affair partner make them happy? Do they normally want to leave for the affair partner and why? What are some of the things the betrayer wants? What do they get out of the forbidden relationship? What is the betrayer thinking when they're unsure if they want to stay married? We answer these questions (and more) in this weeks episode. If you're ready to take the next step in healing your relationship check out our healing broken trust workshop: https://healingbrokentrustworkshop.com/

Transcribed - Published: 27 June 2017

A listener submitted question is answered that revolves around the issue of sexual assault that results from infidelity. How do we go from here? What can be done? Will they make it? If you're ready to take the next step in healing your relationship check out our healing broken trust workshop: https://healingbrokentrustworkshop.com/ You can do it in person or from home.  We hope to see you soon! If you want to learn a little more about us visit our website: healingbrokentrust.com Read our blog at healingbrokentrustblog.com

Transcribed - Published: 13 June 2017