Ep 47 - How To Encourage The Truth
Healing Broken Trust In Your Marriage After Infidelity
Brad and Morgan Robinson
4.6 • 737 Ratings
🗓️ 1 August 2017
⏱️ 13 minutes
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Summary
It can be challenging to encourage the truth as a betrayed partner but in this episode we outline 3 reasons the betrayer struggles to be honest and a few ways you can encourage the truth so you get what you need.
Honesty is sometimes hard to come by but this episode is a quick reminder of how to encourage it and we briefly review the most important things to remember
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| 0:00.0 | Are you wanting to heal your relationship? Or maybe you're not sure, but you'd like to explore the idea, and that's led you to this podcast. I'm Morgan Robinson, and my husband Brad, is an international affair recovery expert. Together, we founded Marriage Solutions, a multi-location group marriage counseling private practice devoted exclusively to helping couples heal and rebuild their relationship to |
| 0:21.2 | stronger than ever before. In fact, we're the best reviewed couples therapists in the Midwest. |
| 0:26.5 | Check us out at my marriage checkup.com. Really reassure them that honesty helps, that it works, |
| 0:35.1 | be open, be honest, and reassure them that, hey, I'm not going anywhere. |
| 0:40.8 | It's you that I want. Yes, I get discouraged when you're not open and honest with me. |
| 0:45.9 | I don't really have a true desire to leave, but in these low points on our negative cycle, |
| 0:50.9 | it hurts me that I'm not getting the truth. |
| 0:56.4 | Welcome to Healing Broken Trust podcast. I'm Morgan Robinson. And I am Brad Robinson. And we are |
| 1:02.3 | sitting in our car with a snoring toggler in the backseat. So if you hear like little |
| 1:06.8 | it's a little almost two-year-old in the backseat sleeping. We thought we would record this |
| 1:13.9 | podcast quickly. And we have some really great content for you today. So Brad, do you want to tell |
| 1:18.9 | them what we're going to talk about? Yeah, Morgan, we're going to talk about how to encourage |
| 1:23.1 | truth and honesty from the one who hurt us. |
| 1:32.3 | And so just in a nutshell, because we literally have limited time. |
| 1:35.4 | Because we're a little guy. |
| 1:39.7 | How to encourage truth out of the one who betrayed us. |
| 2:05.8 | I guess we ought to be, I guess we ought to talk about why they don't always tell us the truth. Okay. And we can talk about strategies to encourage the truth. And so why they don't always tell us the truth. Number one is they don't want to hurt us anymore. You know, they don't want to see us in pain anymore. They hate hurting us. They don't want to see us in pain. Number two is, they don't know how much information is going to be too much information. |
| 2:11.2 | They don't know, you know, if I disclose this, is this going to be the thing that breaks the camel's back? You know, is this the last straw that just breaks the camel's back? And so, |
| 2:15.5 | how much is too information? Am I going to destroy you with this? |
| 2:18.5 | Am I going to hurt you with this? |
| 2:19.7 | If I tell you, yes, we did have sex. |
| 2:22.1 | Yes, I did have an affair. |
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