You need the community, so it's not just you and your spouse facing each other.

It's like now you and your spouse facing this child, and you desperately need someone in the world,

people, your family, close companionships outside of your marriage to support you.

And so that's important.

And people forget that.

They know that they need it somehow intuitively, but they don't know how to get it. And it can make us very depressed. It can make us very just really sad and depressed and lonely. And we think, but my spouse is not giving me this. So something must be wrong. But truly it's not. It's because you and your spouse are supposed to be hand in hand

going out into the world and building something together, a life, and doing something more than

just navel gazing or, you know, gazing at each other. Hello and welcome to Healing Broken

Trust podcast. I'm Morgan Robinson. And I'm Brad Robinson. And we are excited

to be here with you today. We promise that we have not fallen off the face of the earth. We have

been behind the scenes creating more programs and workshops and content for you to really, truly

help you heal broken trust once and for all. So it has required us to take some time to do that.

And so we didn't have a lot of time to do podcast episodes, but we do have a lot for you

on our website.

So go check that out, healingbroken trust.com.

But today we have some important content to talk about that Brad wanted to interject and talk about right now.

So what's the question on everybody's mind, Brad?

Well, a common question that people ask after they've been betrayed is how did my spouse

feel about me during their affair? Were you thinking of me? Did you still love me? What was going through your mind? Did you still

love me? Were you thinking of me when you were doing this? How did you feel about me? When you were having

this affair? I saw the text messages that you sent. I discovered it through text message or somebody

had told me. I felt like we were close. Sometimes it's

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