Are you wanting to heal your relationship? Or maybe you're not sure, but you'd like to explore the idea, and that's led you to this podcast. I'm Morgan Robinson, and my husband Brad, is an international affair recovery expert. Together, we founded Marriage Solutions, a multi-location group marriage counseling private practice devoted exclusively to helping couples heal and rebuild their relationship to stronger

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And so what boundaries are is really just a protective fence around that primary relationship,

around your marriage.

It's to keep in what's good and to keep out the

bad. Welcome to today's podcast. I'm Morgan Robinson. And I am Brad Robinson. And we are very happy to be

here with you today. We hope that you're having a wonderful summer so far. And today

we're going to talk about boundaries. Boundaries, how to establish them, what they are, why you need

them and why you need the boundaries. So Brad, tell us a little bit about the boundaries and what's

necessary with boundaries and your relationship in infidelity.

Okay. That's a great question, Morgan. I guess boundaries are necessary in the sense that

affairs only happen because there's the opportunity for them to happen. And so sometimes if we

have good boundaries in place, there's not really

opportunity for the affair to occur. And so that's why, you know, boundaries are important,

because every component with every affair that I've worked with has been a result of poor

boundaries. It's been sharing things that are reserved for the primary

relationship or your marriage and they've been shared with a third party, you know, an outside

person. And so what boundaries are is really just a protective fence around that primary

relationship around your marriage. It's to

keep in what's good and to keep out the bad. Around where we live, we have a lot of dogs,

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