Welcome to the Healing Broken Trust podcast. We're Brad and Morgan Robinson. And today we're talking about 20 things the unfaithful one betrayed to know, but don't know how to say it. So there are really two camps, the motivated and the unmotivated. But both would really say similar things. Now before we get going, it's important to know that this topic

can be triggering, right, Brad? Yeah, this is a very triggering topic because everybody's different.

And what I am, Morgan and I are both presenting are similarities that people will say who are

motivated to help heal, but even people who aren't motivated to heal

will say similar things. And a lot of where this comes from is a place of shame. That's a huge

commonality of shame. And, uh, but it can be triggering. This is a hard topic. Anytime you talk about,

uh, betrayal and abandonment and infidelity and these relationship

injuries, it's upsetting. There's there's deep wounds that are created from situations like this.

And so fair warning, it's upsetting. And obviously the last thing Morgan and I want to do is be triggering or upsetting or anything

like that.

I want you guys to like me.

Morgan wants you to like her.

But these things are triggering.

And so with that said, we'll go ahead and go on.

The first thing that the unfaithful would want the betrayed to know, and these are no, let

me say that differently, these are in no particular order.

And so this isn't like the first thing they would say.

Everybody says, oh, this is the thing.

It's in no particular order that we're going through.

So these are 20 things that the unfaithful want the betrayed to know

in no particular order. The first is that we have is, I really feel lonely and I want to talk to you

about my feelings and problems. I just don't know how. And right now after hurting you so badly,

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