Welcome back to Healing Broken Trust. I have Dan and Lynn with me today. They're going to share their

story with this about their healing journey, and they're a couple that's really healed from

broken trust. And I'm going to ask them some questions to kind of help guide the conversation.

But listen to their story. Listen to see what you can learn from them,

and they're going to point out some things that they would probably do differently,

but things they also wish they had done probably earlier,

and then some things that they had also picked up along the way that were very helpful.

So Dan and Lynn, thank you very much for joining me today.

I really appreciate you guys doing this.

I just, what were things like in your guys' relationship before trust was broken?

I would say that, of course, we've been married for 20 years, but in the beginning, it it was great and we went through a patch where

it was a roller coaster and we quit communicating our children left the house and we became empty nesters and didn't really know how to communicate

with each other to talk to each other to enjoy each other it was pretty rough um i think that's when

we um started going two separate ways.

Dan did his thing and I did mine.

We worked.

We came home and there was a big divide.

And during that time, that's when I seeked comfort from approval, recognition, just I was feeling really,

and I know he felt that, again, felt that same way.

Now I know that.

That did we really love each other?

Did we really know each other? Did we really know each other?

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