By Stephanie knowing, and we had it out in the open, and basically the rule was,

if you're going to continue to see this person, then that's fine, but you're going to do it in the open.

You're not going to go in a different room.

If you want to text, text.

If you want to email, email.

But we're not going to have this going behind closed doors and having secret conversations.

Okay.

And as the other person found that out, you kind of saw a shift in their personality.

All of a sudden it wasn't all great and hunky dory and they weren't super not super all the time. They weren't constantly pleasant. You started seeing the real person come out, which in turn really took the attractiveness away.

I guess it was a harsh reality that the grass wasn't greener.

It was actually going to be worse.

Yeah.

I'm glad you had that experience.

We've got some more questions.

I'm going to go through this.

Okay.

So when the betrayed partner, the one who's been cheated on, is highly

emotional and skeptical about trusting everything the one who cheated on them says and does,

should the one who was unfaithful continue to share all the details about the affair,

even if it causes major emotional issues and concern.

So I can summarize that again.

They're asking, like, should I keep talking about the affair and answering questions when I see

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