Finding Mr. Height: The Podcast

Are you burned out on dating apps? Or not even interested in swiping left and right on a bunch of strangers in the first place? The founders of the new Cerca dating app have been there, and this week Ali is taking you behind the scenes of building their app. Three members of the Cerca team - Myles Slayton, Carter Munk, and Campbell Arnone - sit down in Ali’s living room to talk about why Gen Z is shunning the apps, how apps can evolve to meet them where they’re at, and how they’re positioning Cerca to address all of this. In Updates, it’s move-in week!!! Ali prepares for the big move and is feeling like everyone is talking about the topic. Including this week’s Media Mention from The Gottman Institute, titled “20 Essential Questions to Ask Before Moving In Together.” Download Cerca in the Apple app store and check them out on IG @cercadating and on TikTok @cercaofficial. Timestamps: The Cerca team joins Ali at around minute 25. If you'd like to hear Ali’s personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Thanks to this week’s partners:Homeaglow: Head to https://homeaglow.com/mrheight to get your first 3 hours of cleaning for only $19. Thanks so much to Homeaglow for sponsoring this episode!Armoire: Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMH Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMH * Check out Homeaglow: https://homeaglow.com/mrheight Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 25 August 2025

Ali is joined by Skyline this week on what is soon to be their shared couch! The move-in date is fast approaching, and they’ve both come with a list of things they’re thinking about as the day draws closer. From cleaning schedules to alone time to compromising on decor…they’re talking it through for you! Plus answering listener questions and sharing some of your best advice from past experiences. But first, this week’s updates are all about Elyse! She kicked off her week with a failed Facetime date but then made it out onto a first date from an app! Hear whether there will be a second and also what’s going on with Coco Jones… Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 24. If you'd like bonus episodes every week and to hear Ali’s personal updates before everyone else, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Thanks to this week’s partners:Sunset Lake CBD: For 20% off all products, go to sunsetlakecbd.com/FMH and use code FMH20.Homeaglow: Head to https://homeaglow.com/mrheight to get your first 3 hours of cleaning for only $19. Thanks so much to Homeaglow for sponsoring this episode!  Armoire: Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMH Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMH * Check out Homeaglow: https://homeaglow.com/mrheight Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 18 August 2025

New relationships come with so much to navigate! In this three-part series, Ali is joined by Talia Koren, host of the Dating Intentionally podcast, to dive into navigating each phase of your budding partnership with confidence. In part one, Talia and Ali discuss the complexities of the first three months of a relationship, and give advice while sharing insights from their own personal experiences. The two cover: common challenges with shifts in affection and communication, the need for calibration in how partners interact with each other, the transition from a single mindset to a couple's mentality, and more. Want to watch the full video? You can find it at the Dating Intentionally YouTube page. If you'd like bonus episodes every week and to hear Ali’s personal updates before everyone else, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Thanks to this week’s partners:Homeaglow: Head to https://homeaglow.com/mrheight to get your first 3 hours of cleaning for only $19. Thanks so much to Homeaglow for sponsoring this episode!Armorie: Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMH Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMH * Check out Homeaglow: https://homeaglow.com/mrheight Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 15 August 2025

We hear about the benefits of therapy SO often, but how does one even go about finding a therapist? There’s no how-to guide…until now! Ali chats with Nancy Walters, LICSW all about how she, as a therapist, recommends selecting one for yourself. She lovingly refers to her approach to therapy as Hot Mess Therapy: real, raw, intuitive, and deeply human. And is encouraging our listeners to find a real & raw therapist relationship for themselves, with actionable tips plus a step-by-step guide creating just for FMH. You can find that at https://tinyurl.com/fmh-therapist-guide. Our Media Mention is S7 E31 of the Shrink Chicks podcast, “When Therapy Isn’t Working (Or So It Seems)” This week’s Updates are all about our Dating Diary participant, Caeli! We hear about what she’s been up to since we last spoke as well as chat about the future of her segment and what she’s learned from sharing publicly. Timestamps: Nancy joins us at around minute 23. If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Thanks to this week’s partners:Homeaglow: Head to https://homeaglow.com/mrheight to get your first 3 hours of cleaning for only $19. Thanks so much to Homeaglow for sponsoring this episode!Armorie: Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMH Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMH * Check out Homeaglow: https://homeaglow.com/mrheight Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 11 August 2025

Sarah Intelligator runs her family law practice like she runs her yoga studio - with a holistic approach that looks to make people feel stronger leaving than they did entering. In this frank conversation, we get into what Sarah sees most in divorcing couples - and how she advises couples avoid it based on her experience. And prenups? You might be surprised by her opinion on them! But as always, it’s all about communication. In Updates, Ali shares a special weekend away with Skyline in her one true happy place and reflects on how she feels inviting him into that space. Where to find Sarah: On Instagram @sarah.a.intelligator.esq, and at www.lafamilylawpractice.com. Timestamps: Sarah joins us at around minute 22. If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Thanks to this week’s partners:Sunset Lake CBD: For 20% off all products, go to sunsetlakecbd.com/FMH and use code FMH20.Armorie: Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMHBilt Rewards: Take advantage of your Neighborhood Benefits™ by going to joinbilt.com/fmhHomeaglow: Head to https://homeaglow.com/mrheight to get your first 3 hours of cleaning for only $19. Thanks so much to Homeaglow for sponsoring this episode! Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMH Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 4 August 2025

Last week on our Patreon live, Ali shared about navigating feedback - both constructive and otherwise - in such a public sphere. This week, she’s bringing that conversation to the main pod in the spirit of transparency, accountability, and vulnerability. She’s working on focusing on the constructive and appreciates those of you who have shared your thoughts so openly. If you’d like to contribute to the podcast feedback survey, you can do so here: https://tinyurl.com/fmhsurvey25. And if you’d like to join a focus group, please shoot Ali a note on IG! Before Topic Talk, this week’s Media Mention is an episode of NPR Life Kit, “How To Make Decisions You Won’t Regret.” Ali also chats a bit about an upcoming trip! Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 25. If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Thanks to this week’s partners:Homeaglow: Head to https://homeaglow.com/mrheight to get your first 3 hours of cleaning for only $19. Thanks so much to Homeaglow for sponsoring this episode!  Bilt Rewards: Take advantage of your Neighborhood Benefits™ by going to joinbilt.com/fmh Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMH Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 28 July 2025

Are you struggling with the decision to have children or not? Or worried about making that decision in the future? Clarity coach Keltie Maguire is here to help! She and Ali chat about Keltie’s personal journey with the decision that led her to her current work, how societal pressures impact the choice, and how to have more grace with ourselves during indecision. Is there data on future regret on both sides of this choice? What if you never “just know” one day? What’s the best way to navigate this decision with a partner? These are just a few of the questions this episode gets into! Before Keltie joins, Ali chats a bit about her own journey being undecided about kids and how her recent binge of Southern Charm’s early seasons brought this topic to the forefront of her mind. Where to find Keltie: On Instagram @kidsorchildfree, on TikTok @kidsorchildfree, at www.kidsorchildfree.com. Timestamps: Keltie joins us at around minute 18. If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Thanks to this week’s partners:Sunset Lake CBD: For 20% off all products, go to sunsetlakecbd.com/FMH and use code FMH20.Bilt Rewards: Take advantage of your Neighborhood Benefits™ by going to joinbilt.com/fmhHomeaglow: Head to https://homeaglow.com/mrheight to get your first 3 hours of cleaning for only $19. Thanks so much to Homeaglow for sponsoring this episode!   Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMH Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 21 July 2025

Caeli & Elyse are back on the pod this week with updates for us and a whole lot of relatable discussion on dating burnout. First, we hear from Elyse about a recent first date and how a string of those has left her feeling really dejected about dating apps. IRL dating, though? That’s feeling much better and she has an update (and a goal for herself) with Coco Jones! Caeli has some huge personal news that’s leaving her with a couple months of down time before life really ramps up. Ali challenges her with a goal to bring some magic back into her dating life. In Updates, Ali shares a story about a chaotic afternoon from Emmy’s adoption week and chats new benefits on the Patreon! Timestamps: Caeli & Elyse join at around minute 20. If you'd like to hear Ali’s personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Thanks to this week’s partners:Homeaglow: Head to https://homeaglow.com/mrheight to get your first 3 hours of cleaning for only $19. Thanks so much to Homeaglow for sponsoring this episode! Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMH Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 14 July 2025

Ali went to one of the best shows she’s seen in a LONG time - Love Isn’t Blind, a comedy dating show where the men can’t speak - and she’s on the pod with the creator and host this week! Alli Goldberg created Love Isn’t Blind as an antidote to her own cynicism in dating and it’s truly taken off. Not only do we have Alli in the house - one of the suitors from the recent NYC show, Sascha Mombartz, is here too! The three chat dating IRL, the state of dating apps, cultural dating differences between the US and Europe, strategies for meeting more people offline, and more. In Updates, Ali & Skyline are one week in with baby kitten Emmy and looking forward to introducing her to Rory & Logan. Ali also reflects more on one of last week’s AITA discussions plus ponders about the future of dating apps with the recent news of Bumble’s layoffs & Hinge’s partnership with Esther Perel. If you’d like to apply to Love Isn’t Blind as a bachelor or bachelorette, visit loveisntblind.co where you can also grab tickets for an upcoming show in a city near you! Alli is also on Instagram @alli_goldi. And ladies, Sascha is single! If you’re interested in chatting, you can reach out to him @supermombartz. Timestamps: Alli & Sascha join Ali at around minute 30. If you'd like to hear Ali’s personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Thanks to this week’s partners:Sunset Lake CBD: For 20% off all products, go to sunsetlakecbd.com/FMH and use code FMH20.Homeaglow: Head to https://homeaglow.com/mrheight to get your first 3 hours of cleaning for only $19. Thanks so much to Homeaglow for sponsoring this episode! Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMH Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 7 July 2025

We’re bringing back Am I The Asshole discussion episodes, this time featuring Skyline going back and forth with Ali on 5 different AITA submissions! The submissions include: red flags in early dating app conversations, boundaries within a relationship, dealing with a friend’s partner whom you don’t like, losing a friend to their relationship, and navigating childcare disagreements. But first, we’re chatting about our very eventful week - from getting caught in a thunderstorm on a lake during surprise date to adopting a kitten! And doing a name reveal… Timestamps: AITA begins at around minute 15. If you'd like to hear Ali’s personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Thanks to this week’s partners:Happy Mammoth: Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code FMH for a great deal: https://happymammoth.comBilt Rewards: Take advantage of your Neighborhood Benefits™ by going to joinbilt.com/fmhHomeaglow: Head to https://homeaglow.com/mrheight to get your first 3 hours of cleaning for only $19. Thanks so much to Homeaglow for sponsoring this episode! Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMH Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 30 June 2025

We’re talking about co-regulating this week: where two people help each other navigate their emotions. It’s a solo episode with Ali featuring a deep dive into her week away with Skyline that ended with a cancelation of the music festival they were at and a lot of stress surrounding the logistics. She shares a few stressful situations from the weekend, strategies that work for them when navigating conflicting opinions or tough situations, and a moment where she struggled to self-regulate herself. Plus, a listener sent in a question about how anxious attachment might tie into craving structure in relationships, and it’s super relevant to this discussion. This week’s Media Mention is an article from Psychology Today titled, “The Secret to Resolving Relationship Conflict: Co-Regulating.” It goes into an example from a couples therapist about co-regulating and shifting perspective to prioritizing each other’s needs vs just your own. If you'd like to hear Ali’s personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Thanks to this week’s partners:Sunset Lake CBD: For 20% off all products, go to sunsetlakecbd.com/FMH and use code FMH20.Happy Mammoth: Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code FMH for a great deal: https://happymammoth.comBilt Rewards: Take advantage of your Neighborhood Benefits™ by going to joinbilt.com/fmhHomeaglow: Head to https://homeaglow.com/mrheight to get your first 3 hours of cleaning for only $19. Thanks so much to Homeaglow for sponsoring this episode! Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMH Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 23 June 2025

Our two Diary Daters are officially meeting for the first time! In this week’s Dating Diaries episode, Ali brings Caeli & Elyse together to share updates plus swipe together on each of their dating apps. The three discuss how each dater approaches swiping and some best practices to address patterns they’re discovering. Plus, we chat dealbreakers, initial messages, first impressions, and more. And we end up with one potential match for each dater! In Updates, Ali is meeting Skyline’s family for the first time at his aunt and uncle’s in the South. She reflects on family meetings past and how this feels compared to those. Plus looks forward to leaving for Bonaroo! This week’s Media Mention is from The Atlantic and titled, “Dear James: I Miss Being On Dating Apps.” You can read it here: https://www.theatlantic.com/culture/archive/2025/03/dear-james-dating-app-fomo/682071/ Timestamps: Caeli & Elyse join around minute 25. If you'd like to hear Ali’s personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Thanks to this week’s partners:Happy Mammoth: Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code FMH for a great deal: https://happymammoth.comHomeaglow: Head to https://homeaglow.com/mrheight to get your first 3 hours of cleaning for only $19. Thanks so much to Homeaglow for sponsoring this episode!Bilt Rewards: Take advantage of your Neighborhood Benefits™ by going to joinbilt.com/fmh Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMH Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 16 June 2025

TW: Grief/Death discussion from around minute 4 to 16. Have you heard of Human Design, a framework that can help you navigate your unique, innate way of operating in the world? After this week’s conversation with Erin Claire Jones, you’re going to want to look it up ASAP. Ali first learned about Human Design years ago, but it’s only recently that she’s been realizing how much she can apply it in her every day life. Jone’s book, “How Do You Choose?” is the perfect place for anyone to start - it spans romantic relationships, work style, friendships, self care and so much more. Tune into their conversation this week for a sneak peek into how you yourself can apply Human Design to your relationships and discover a more aligned way of moving through the world. Plus, visit humandesignblueprint.com to look up your Human Design and you can use code FMH for a discount on a detailed guide to your chart at https://humandesignblueprint.com/guide or a discount on studying human design at https://humandesignblueprint.com/product/course/ In Updates, Ali has an emotional moment reflecting on her dad’s birthday and how her recent mental health struggles remind her of how she was feeling when he passed. This week’s Media Mention is the May 28th episode of Victoria Garrick Browne’s (@victoriagarrickbrowne on IG) podcast, Real Pod. It’s titled, “28th Birthday Reflections: Healing My Hustle Era, Ditching People Pleasing, & Learning to Trust Myself Again.” Where to find Erin Claire Jones: On Instagram @erinclairejones and @humandesignblueprint, at www.humandesignblueprint.com.You can find Erin's Book "How Do You Choose?" here: https://humandesignblueprint.com/order-book/ Timestamps: Erin joins us at around minute 23. If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Thanks to this week’s partners:Sunset Lake CBD: For 20% off all products, go to sunsetlakecbd.com/FMH and use code FMH20.Happy Mammoth: Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code FMH for a great deal: https://happymammoth.comArmorie: Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMHHomeaglow: Head to https://homeaglow.com/mrheight to get your first 3 hours of cleaning for only $19. Thanks so much to Homeaglow for sponsoring this episode! Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMH Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 9 June 2025

Our Diary Dater Caeli re-joins us on the pod after a whirlwind couple of weeks in her life, from a big interview to a new job. Ali & Caeli revisit a first date that never materialized into a second and debate Caeli’s potential next steps. Then, the two dive into Caeli’s Bumble and chat opening lines, messaging approach, and how to avoid getting overwhelmed by too many matches. Through it all, we may have identified a pattern that Caeli would like to work on as she moves forward! In Updates, Ali is back from a baby shower trip to San Diego and a last-minute volleyball trip to Denver. She reflects on conversations about the decision to have kids or remain child free and bonding across generations. This week’s Media Mention comes from the Gottman Institute’s newsletter, titled “Finding a Culturally-Relevant Therapist Timestamps: Caeli joins us at around minute 20. If you'd like to hear Ali’s personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Thanks to this week’s partners:Happy Mammoth: Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code FMH for a great deal: https://happymammoth.comArmorie: Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMHHomeaglow: Head to https://homeaglow.com/mrheight to get your first 3 hours of cleaning for only $19. Thanks so much to Homeaglow for sponsoring this episode! Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMH Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 2 June 2025

Elyse, one of our Diary Daters, is back on the pod and full of updates to share! First, she goes on a first date that hits a snag when the dude won’t stop looking at his phone. Then, we go back in time to hear some history about a guy who may be entering the picture. But she wonders: should she move forward with getting to know him given some new information she learns? On Ali’s end, she’s taking Skyline’s advice to heart and approaching her mental health journey with baby steps. She chats about some concrete moves she’s made this past week plus ones she’s looking to put into place moving forward. This week we have two Media Mentions, both from one of Ali’s favorite podcasts, The Daily. First, from The Daily’s interview with Whitney Wolfe Herd (founder of Bumble) about her take on the future of dating apps. Then, a Modern Love episode revisiting the 36 Questions To Fall In Love, which has Ali reminiscing about when she first knew she was falling in love with Skyline. Timestamps: Elyse joins us at around minute 34. If you'd like to hear Ali’s personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Thanks to this week’s partners:Sunset Lake CBD: For 20% off all products, go to sunsetlakecbd.com/FMH and use code FMH20.Happy Mammoth: Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code FMH for a great deal: https://happymammoth.comSelfup: Check out Selfup and use my code PODCAST20 for a great deal: https://selfup.comHomeaglow: Head to https://homeaglow.com/mrheight to get your first 3 hours of cleaning for only $19. Thanks so much to Homeaglow for sponsoring this episode!Armorie: Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMHRoss: Check out Ross: https://www.ross.com Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMH Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 26 May 2025

Skyline joins Ali on the pod this week to chat about relationship “rules” (aka agreements) coming out of the Vacation Rules ep a few weeks ago. The two talk about rules they’ve come up with in their relationship, both communicated and otherwise - for example, Ali realizes in real time that they have a rule when they order take out. Then, it’s time to hear from the experts as three friends of the pod chime in on agreements they have in their own relationships. Thanks to Talia Koren, Sabrina Zohar, and Charisse Cooke for their input! They close out the show with input from the listeners - including rules surrounding bedtime smooches, gift giving, conflict resolution, and more. In Updates, Ali shares some mental health struggles she’s been facing lately and Skyline opens up about why he relates to her feelings - plus offers some advice! Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 19. If you'd like to hear Ali’s personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Thanks to this week’s partners:Sunset Lake CBD: For 20% off all products, go to sunsetlakecbd.com/FMH and use code FMH20.Happy Mammoth: Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code FMH for a great deal: https://happymammoth.comRoss: Check out Ross: https://www.ross.comBilt Rewards: Take advantage of your Neighborhood Benefits™ by going to joinbilt.com/fmhCheck out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMH Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMH Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 19 May 2025

Ali is answering listener questions in a dedicated Hot Topics episode this week! First, a listener receives a no ghosting script after a fourth date and wonders if she should ask for more clarity. Then, we talk about sarcastic/negative answers on dating app profiles - are they a dealbreaker? Our third listener has an old hook-up come back into the picture, and she’s struggling to see it objectively. Then, a listener worries that her partner isn’t aligned with her five-year plan. And finally, we chat about proactive communication in early dating - what to do if you haven’t heard from someone after a great second date? In updates, Ali is back from Morocco and enjoying being home for a while. She chats highlights like surprise date night and makeup lessons, and lowlights like a triggering moment that has her reflecting on past experiences (TW: SA). This week’s media mention is from The New Yorker article, “The New Business of Breakups.” (for Apple pods, link here: https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2024/12/09/the-new-business-of-breakups) Timestamps: Hot Topics begins at around minute 30. If you'd like to hear my personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Thanks to this week’s partners:Happy Mammoth: Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code FMH for a great deal: https://happymammoth.comBuilt Rewards: Take advantage of your Neighborhood Benefits™ by going to joinbilt.com/fmhSelfup: Check out Selfup and use my code PODCAST20 for a great deal: https://selfup.comRoss: Check out Ross: https://www.ross.com Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMH Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 12 May 2025

We’re hearing from both of our Dating Diaries ladies this week!! First, Caeli joins to update Ali & the listeners on Executive Chef, plus a new (gentle)man enters the picture. Then, Elyse has been busy with two first dates in one night last week. Plus the main reason we’re here: reviewing her Hinge profile! Ali goes through her photos and prompts, providing insight along the way on brevity, calls to action, and incorporating more of Elyse’s hobbies. Check out the Patreon for full video if you’d like to see Elyse’s profile for yourself! Timestamps: Caeli joins around minute 7 and Elyse at around minute 30. If you'd like to hear Ali’s personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Thanks to this week’s partners:Happy Mammoth: Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code FMH for a great deal: https://happymammoth.comCheck out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMH Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMH Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 5 May 2025

Ali is fresh off her one-year anniversary trip with Skyline and dishing about her favorite parts (and not so favorite parts) of the trip. She shares the “vacation rules” that she and Skyline have come up with to help them best enjoy their trips and how some of those “rules” have expanded into every day life. Plus, a stressful moment provides an opportunity to reflect on managing low-level conflict and responding vs reacting in relationships. Ali also answers two listeners questions: one about a friend who consistently brings down the vibe at events and one from a listener who’s debating if she should reach out to a former situationship. This week’s Media Mention comes from the IMO Podcast with Michelle Obama & Craig Robinson - it’s their episode about joyful dating with Tracee Eliss Ross from April 16th. If you'd like to hear Ali’s personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Thanks to this week’s partners:Sunset Lake CBD: For 20% off all products, go to sunsetlakecbd.com/FMH and use code FMH20.Greenleaf Book Group Press: Get your hands on Heirs & Spares: Betwixt the Sheets Edition out now—because royal duty has never been this delicious.Happy Mammoth: Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code FMH for a great deal: https://happymammoth.comAvocado Green Mattress: Check out Avocado Green Mattress: https://www.avocadogreenmattress.comRoss: Check out Ross: https://www.ross.com Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMH Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 28 April 2025

Ali and Skyline are on their first anniversary vacation and he’s just been introduced on social media…no better time to introduce him to the podcast! This week, you’ll hear an interview that Ali & Erica did on the Patreon back in February. Skyline joined us to answer your questions and introduce himself to the community he’s heard so much about. Our discussion includes: his version of how he met Ali (and what her nickname would have been if he’d given her one), how he was listening along to the pod during early dating, his thoughts on dating someone who talks about dating so openly, how being divorced has impacted his approach to his relationship with Ali, and lots more. But first, we hear updates from Elyse (one of our Diary Daters) who went to visit a guy in NYC. Will he make good on his nickname as Three Minute Makeout Man?! Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 24. If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Thanks to this week’s partners:Greenleaf Book Group Press: Get your hands on Heirs & Spares: Betwixt the Sheets Edition out now—because royal duty has never been this delicious.Happy Mammoth: Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code FMH for a great deal: https://happymammoth.comAvocado Green Mattress: Check out Avocado Green Mattress: https://www.avocadogreenmattress.comRoss: Check out Ross: https://www.ross.com Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMH Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 21 April 2025

Caeli from our Dating Diaries segment is back on the podcast this week and we’re diving into her Bumble profile! We walk through her bio, prompts, and photos and discuss where she can make improvements to set herself up for more success. Through Ali’s notes on photo guidelines, best ways to elicit a reply with your prompts, and ways that different people swipe you’ll get some great tips for crafting your own profile! Plus, Caeli fills us in on a first date she went on and the two debate whether she should go on a second. Note: Ali’s mic wasn’t hooked up properly for the updates section, we apologize for the less-than-stellar audio. In Updates, Ali is back from Colombia with a renewed zest for creating community through travel and is looking forward to this month’s surprise date (planned by Skyline) and their anniversary trip to Mexico. She also reflects on Love On The Spectrum in this week’s Media Mention. Timestamps: Caeli joins us at around minute 22. If you'd like to hear my personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Thanks to this week’s partners:Sunset Lake CBD: For 20% off all products, go to sunsetlakecbd.com/FMH and use code FMH20. And through 4/22/25, use code 420 for 30% off the entire site!Greenleaf Book Group Press: Get your hands on Heirs & Spares: Betwixt the Sheets Edition out now—because royal duty has never been this delicious.Happy Mammoth: Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code FMH for a great deal: https://happymammoth.comAcorns: Check out Acorns: https://acorns.com/FMHArya: Make every date night Valentine’s Day with Arya by your side. VISIT ARYA.FYI AND USE CODE FINDING for 15% off today!Avocado Green Mattress: Check out Avocado Green Mattress: https://www.avocadogreenmattress.comRoss: Check out Ross: https://www.ross.com Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMH Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 14 April 2025

It’s time to meet our second Dating Diaries participant…Elyse! A 26-year-old living in a major east coast city, Elyse is ready to dive back into dating after recovering from her longest relationship to date. In this introduction episode, you’ll learn about Elyse’s dating history as a self-proclaimed “late bloomer,” how her last relationship played out, plus a very recent development that’s hot off the presses. Stay tuned as we hear more from Elyse and offer her some big sister advice on her journey that’s unfolding right here on the podcast.In Updates, Ali has a rough week in her personal life and sets out to have a rejuvenating weekend with Skyline - from new outfits, to sunshine-filled park walks, to yapping with friends, and ending with a relaxing belated birthday present.Timestamps: Elyse joins us at around minute 26.If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcastWant to leave us a voice note? Leave a voicemail at 929-888-7184 with your question and we will weigh in!Thanks to this week’s partners:Greenleaf Book Group Press: Get your hands on Heirs & Spares: Betwixt the Sheets Edition out now—because royal duty has never been this delicious.Avocado Green Mattress: Check out Avocado Green Mattress: https://www.avocadogreenmattress.comAcorns: Check out Acorns: https://acorns.com/FMHRoss: Check out Ross: https://www.ross.comCheck out Happy Mammoth and use my code FMH for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMH Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 7 April 2025

Feeling burned out by dating apps? Jessica Hope, founder of Bored of Dating Apps, has BEEN THERE - and she created an entire company to deal with it! Coming to you from Ali’s living room couch, Jess chronicles the dating frustrations that led her to focus more on dating in person and start her own IRL dating events…a journey that ultimately led to her now partner. Ali and Jess chat flirting strategies, how to approach dating events, and much more in this super fun conversation. But first, Ali is still glowing from her birthday week (plus a surprise date!), feeling so celebrated and loved by everyone in her life. She introduces a relationship check-in lens to her updates, opening up about an emotional moment from last week. This week’s Media Mention comes from one of Ali’s faves: The Gottman Institute. The article is called Accepting Influence: Find Ways to Say “Yes” and you can find it here: https://www.gottman.com/blog/accepting-influence-find-ways-to-say-yes/ Where to find Bored of Dating Apps: On Instagram @boredofdatingapps on TikTok @boredofdatingapps, at www.boredofdatingapps.com.Where to find Jessica: On Instagram @jessica.hope.boda. Timestamps: Jessica joins at around minute 25. If you'd like to hear Ali’s personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Thanks to this week’s partners:Sunset Lake CBD: For 20% off all products, go to sunsetlakecbd.com/FMH and use code FMH20.Avocado Green Mattress: Check out Avocado Green Mattress: https://www.avocadogreenmattress.com.Acorns: Check out Acorns: https://acorns.com/FMHHappy Mammoth: Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code FMH for a great deal: happymammoth.comFactor: Check out Factor: https://factormeals.com/factorpodcastArya: Make every date night Valentine’s Day with Arya by your side. VISIT ARYA.FYI AND USE CODE FINDING for 15% off today!Ross: Check out Ross: https://www.ross.com Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMH Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 31 March 2025

It’s our very first Dating Diaries episode, a new segment following listeners along their dating journeys. We’re kicking things off with two listeners, and our first Diary Dater is Caeli, a 32-year-old living in the Chicago suburbs who is ready to start dating intentionally. In this intro episode, you’ll learn more about Caeli’s story including her dating history (and some nicknames), what she’s looking for, her current dating goals/challenges, and more. Stay tuned in future episodes as we follow along with Caeli’s dates and help her get some outside guidance. But first, in Updates, Ali is having an emotional day (okay, week) while recording and shares her release from that. But the week kicked off celebrating her best friend’s birthday starting with a group trip to New Orleans and wrapping with a relaxing day at a bath house! Timestamps: Caeli joins at around minute 19. If you'd like to hear Ali’s personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Thanks to this week’s partners:Bellesa: SILENT VIBRATOR GIVEAWAY: https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/findingmrheight-podcastRoss: Check out Ross: https://www.ross.comAcorns: Check out Acorns: https://acorns.com/FMHFactor: Check out Factor: https://factormeals.com/factorpodcastArya: Make every date night Valentine’s Day with Arya by your side. VISIT ARYA.FYI AND USE CODE FINDING for 15% off today! Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMH Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 24 March 2025

We’ve got part 2 of my re-introduction this week - both for newer listeners and even our OG crowd as I pick up where we left off last week and dive deep into my live since starting FMH. We chat toxic relationships, career changes, regrets, and much more in part two of this two-part series to kick off my solo podcasting journey. Plus, I share some exciting news on the Skyline front (and promise to highlight more about our relationship in future episodes, including with him as a guest!). This week’s media mention comes from Josh Lora, @tellthebeees on TikTok and IG, discussing The Cut’s article “My Friends Abandoned Me When They Had Kids.” Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 12. If you'd like to hear my personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Thanks to this week’s partners:Sunset Lake CBD: For 20% off all products, go to sunsetlakecbd.com/FMH and use code FMH20.Acorns: Check out Acorns: https://acorns.com/FMHArya: Make every date night Valentine’s Day with Arya by your side. VISIT ARYA.FYI AND USE CODE FINDING for 15% off today! Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMH Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 17 March 2025

TW: Grief and SA (see below for more). It’s my (Ali’s) first official solo episode and we’re starting things off with a re-introduction to my background - both for newer listeners and even our OG crowd as I share deeper insights into my childhood/early adulthood & the things that led me to who I am today. We chat friendship wounds, anxious attachment origins, grief, and much more in part one of this two-part series to kick off my solo podcasting journey. Plus, we get into some early days nicknames from before FMH as you know it existed and chat about a strategy I recently learned for managing overthinking! Trigger warning: I discuss grief/loss throughout the episode, beginning around minute 15, and briefly discuss SA around minute 27 lasting for 35 minutes (both are called out verbally before they are mentioned). This week’s media mention comes from episode 11 of Felix Levine’s podcast, Unlike Me, and the clip is posted to his TikTok @felixlevine. If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Thanks to this week’s partners:Acorns: Check out Acorns: https://acorns.com/FMHCheck out Factor: https://factormeals.com/factorpodcastArya: Make every date night Valentine’s Day with Arya by your side. VISIT ARYA.FYI AND USE CODE FINDING for 15% off today! Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMH Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 10 March 2025

We’re saying goodbye to Erica as a Finding Mr. Height co-host on this week’s episode of the podcast, and it’s definitely an emotional one! After getting the latest Roommate update, Ali interviews Erica using questions from both you the listeners and ones Ali has herself. Topics include: Erica’s highlights and learnings from her journey on the podcast, her favorite (and least favorite) piece of dating advice, what she hopes for her career moving forward, advice she has for Ali on the pod moving forward, and more. Erica, we will miss you SO much. We love you! Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 23. If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Thanks to this week’s partners:Sunset Lake CBD: For 20% off all products, go to sunsetlakecbd.com/FMH and use code FMH20.Apostrophe: Save $15 and get your dermatologist-crafted treatment plan for just $5 at apostrophe.com/FMH and use code FMH.Factor: Check out Factor: https://factormeals.com/factorpodcastAcorns: Check out Acorns: https://acorns.com/FMH Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMH Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 3 March 2025

For Erica’s second to last episode on the pod, we’re doing one of our favorite formats one last time together…Am I The Asshole featuring submissions from Reddit! This week we have: a man wonders if he’s being unreasonable in wanting his girlfriend to loosen up her 50/50 view of household chores, the finances of a long distance relationship causes resentment, and a husband and wife clash over whose responsibility it is to wake themselves up in the morning. In Updates, Erica is still traveling and reflects on her communication and connection with The Roommate while she’s been gone. Ali celebrates Valentine’s Day with Skyline and the gals reminisce about Valentine’s Days past. Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 23. If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Want to leave us a voice note? Leave a voicemail at 929-888-7184 with your question and we will weigh in! Thanks to this week’s partners:Acorns: Check out Acorns: https://acorns.com/FMHApostrophe: Save $15 and get your dermatologist-crafted treatment plan for just $5 at apostrophe.com/FMH and use code FMH.Factor: Head to factormeals.com/factorpodcast and use code fmh50off to get 50% off.Life Straw: Check out LifeStraw and use my code FMH for a great deal: https://lifestraw.comArya: Make every date night Valentine’s Day with Arya by your side. VISIT ARYA.FYI AND USE CODE FINDING for 15% off today! Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMH Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 24 February 2025

We had so many grab bag questions from you that we’re back to answer more this week! Tune in for our thoughts on: choosing bridesmaids & navigating friends’ feelings about it, texting with someone who canceled a first date, feeling anxious when you haven’t heard from someone you’re dating, admitting romantic feelings for a friend, deciding whether to pay for dating apps, and navigating your partner’s friendship with an ex. In Updates, Erica sees The Roommate twice (!!) before she leaves for the east coast. Ali celebrates a major accomplishment with Mama J. Don’t forget we’d love to meet you live in NYC on Saturday, February 22nd! Tickets at findingmrheight.com/live. Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 32. If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Thanks to this week’s partners:Sunset Lake CBD: For 20% off all products, go to sunsetlakecbd.com/FMH and use code FMH20.Apostrophe: Save $15 and get your dermatologist-crafted treatment plan for just $5 at apostrophe.com/FMH and use code FMH.Acorns: Check out Acorns: https://acorns.com/FMHArya: Make every date night Valentine’s Day with Arya by your side. VISIT ARYA.FYI AND USE CODE FINDING for 15% off today!Life Straw: Check out LifeStraw and use my code FMH for a great deal: https://lifestraw.com Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMH Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 17 February 2025

TW: Mention of verbal abuse & body shaming. We’re joined by an FMH listener this week for a Storytime about his journey through a bad marriage and into the dating journey that followed his divorce. He takes us through all the lessons he’s learned along the way (and some intense stories) as he worked on himself to lead to his current, healthy partnership (and new baby!). In Updates, Erica recaps her long-awaited first date with The Roommate and reflects on how her upcoming travel could impact their connection. Ali is excited to have Skyline on the Patreon for the first time, but is dealing with some medical issues. Don’t forget we’d love to meet you live in NYC on Saturday, February 22nd! Tickets at findingmrheight.com/live. Timestamps: Justin joins us at around minute 25. If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Want to leave us a voice note? Leave a voicemail at 929-888-7184 with your question and we will weigh in! Thanks to this week’s partners:Bellesa: FREE TOYS OR GIFT CARDS FOR TOYS! Everyone who signs up to our giveaway with Bellesa wins something! https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/findingmrheight-podcastLife Straw: Check out LifeStraw and use my code FMH for a great deal: https://lifestraw.comAcorns: Check out Acorns: https://acorns.com/FMHApostrophe: Save $15 and get your dermatologist-crafted treatment plan for just $5 at apostrophe.com/FMH and use code FMH. Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMH Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 10 February 2025

This week we are joined by Julie & Yue, cohosts of the amazing Dateable podcast and authors of the new book, ‘How To Be Dateable!’ Julie & Yue have drawn on their deep dating histories to develop the advice in their book (and their podcast). And it turns out our two duos have something in common: we’re both Dreamer/Maverick cohost teams! Ali, Erica, Julie, & Yue dive into how these archetypes have shaped their dating journeys and give advice on how listeners can make their type work for them (plus what pitfalls to look out for). But first, Ali & Erica discuss the upcoming Valentine’s Day holiday and how they’ve approached it in the past. Plus, Ali recaps her January surprise date with Skyline and Erica looks forward to her first date with The Roommate. Where to find Julie & Yue: On the Dateable podcast and on Instagram @dateablepodcast. Order their book, How To Be Datable for more from this episode! Don’t forget we’d love to meet you live in NYC on Saturday, February 22nd! Tickets at findingmrheight.com/live. Timestamps: Julie & Yue joins us at around minute 24. If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Thanks to this week’s partners:Sunset Lake CBD: For 20% off all products, go to sunsetlakecbd.com/FMH and use code FMH20.Life Straw: Check out LifeStraw and use my code FMH for a great deal: https://lifestraw.comAcorns: Check out Acorns: https://acorns.com/FMHArya: Make every date night Valentine’s Day with Arya by your side. VISIT ARYA.FYI AND USE CODE FINDING for 15% off today!Apostrophe: Save $15 and get your dermatologist-crafted treatment plan for just $5 at apostrophe.com/FMH and use code FMH. Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMH Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 3 February 2025

Ali & Erica are answering your rapid-fire questions in another grab bag episode! Including: filtering out ghosters, dating in other cities besides your own, handling breakups, and managing expectations for a second date. In Updates, Ali is back from her travels and recounts some special & emotional memories from introducing Skyline to her San Diego people. Erica looks forward to the roommate date when she returns to LA. Don’t forget we’d love to meet you live in NYC on Saturday, February 22nd! Tickets at findingmrheight.com/live. Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 46. If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Want to leave us a voice note? Leave a voicemail at 929-888-7184 with your question and we will weigh in! Thanks to this week’s partners:Acorns: Check out Acorns: https://acorns.com/FMHLife Straw: Check out LifeStraw and use my code FMH for a great deal: https://lifestraw.comArya: Make every date night Valentine’s Day with Arya by your side. VISIT ARYA.FYI AND USE CODE FINDING for 15% off today!Apostrophe: Save $15 and get your dermatologist-crafted treatment plan for just $5 at apostrophe.com/FMH and use code FMH. Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMH Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 27 January 2025

Erica & Ali have a major podcast update at the top of the episode. It’s an emotional one, and we thank you all for being here for it. We then transition to a lighter topic, discussing several Am I The Asshole situations from Reddit. First, a woman disagrees with her mother in law on who should pay for a broken phone. Then, a husband has issues with her sister in law’s new partner (and they how they got together). And lastly, a woman wonders if she went too far when she told her boyfriend he was being arrogant. Don’t forget we’d love to meet you live in NYC on Saturday, February 22nd! Tickets at findingmrheight.com/live. Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 28. If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Thanks to this week’s partners:Sunset Lake CBD: For 20% off all products, go to sunsetlakecbd.com/FMH and use code FMH20.Arya: Make every date night Valentine’s Day with Arya by your side. VISIT ARYA.FYI AND USE CODE FINDING for 15% off today!Acorns: Check out Acorns: https://acorns.com/FMHLife Straw: Check out LifeStraw and use my code FMH for a great deal: https://lifestraw.comApostrophe: Save $15 and get your dermatologist-crafted treatment plan for just $5 at apostrophe.com/FMH and use code FMH. Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMH Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 20 January 2025

We’ve all been in conflict before, but have you ever thought about how your conflict style affects the outcome? And how that style might shift over time and in various situations? This week, Ali & Erica dive into five conflict styles: Competing, Accommodating, Avoiding, Collaborating, and Compromising. Is any one better than the others? Or are some styles more effective than we might think depending on the scenario? We also dive into our own conflict styles and how we’ve experienced them in past relationships. Let us know what parts of this discussion you’d like us to dive into further! In Updates, Erica has a series of frustrating exchanges with the NYE guy but looks forward to returning home for a date. Ali recounts her gift exchange with Skyline as they prepare to leave for Mexico. Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 25. If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Want to leave us a voice note? Leave a voicemail at 929-888-7184 with your question and we will weigh in! Thanks to this week’s partners:Sunset Lake CBD: For 20% off all products, go to sunsetlakecbd.com and use code FMH20.Apostrophe: Save $15 and get your dermatologist-crafted treatment plan for just $5 at apostrophe.com/FMH and use code FMH.Acorns: Check out Acorns: https://acorns.com/FMHLife Straw: Check out LifeStraw and use my code FMH for a great deal: https://lifestraw.com Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMH Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 13 January 2025

If you’ve ever wondered what men are thinking as they’re out there dating, Ali & Erica have got your back: this week, we chat with Blaine Anderson, who exclusively coaches men on their dating journey! Blaine gives insight into what her clients struggle with most, what makes them seek out her coaching, how to make it more likely that a man will approach you IRL, and more. Plus, she gives a plug for giving “nice guys” more of a shot - attraction can grow, y’all! In Updates, the gals are fresh off of New Year's Eve: find out which plans Erica decided to do and how Ali’s hosting went. Plus, Ali shares highlights from her Paris trip with Skyline! Where to find Blaine: On Instagram @datingbyblaine, on TikTok @datingbyblaine, at www.datingbyblaine.com. Timestamps: Blaine joins us at around minute 27. If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Want to leave us a voice note? Leave a voicemail at 929-888-7184 with your question and we will weigh in! Thanks to this week’s partners:Sunset Lake CBD: For 20% off all products, go to sunsetlakecbd.com and use code FMH20.Life Straw: Check out LifeStraw and use my code FMH for a great deal: https://lifestraw.comAcorns: Check out Acorns: https://acorns.com/FMHRebag: Get 10% off your first purchase with code FMHFactor: Head to factormeals.com/50FMH and use code 50FMH to get 50% off. Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMH Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 6 January 2025

It’s our last episode of 2024 and we’ve got a roundup of the year coming at you! We polled our audience for your best superlative categories plus added in a few of our own. Tune in as we discuss our best/worst dates (and kisses) of the year, best new movie, pop culture moment, place to meet people IRL…and more! PS apologies for the occasional ticking sound when Erica is talking in the topic section - we had some audio issues that should be resolved now! In Updates, Erica has a bit of a NYE dilemma coming out of a great first date while Ali makes a new connection on Christmas Eve. Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 28. If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Want to leave us a voice note? Leave a voicemail at 929-888-7184 with your question and we will weigh in! Thanks to this week’s partners:Acorns: Check out Acorns: https://acorns.com/FMHFactor: Head to factormeals.com/50FMH and use code 50FMH to get 50% off.Happy Mammoth: Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code FMH for a great deal: happymammoth.comRebag: Get 10% off your first purchase with code FMH Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMH Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 30 December 2024

We’re doing a full episode debating Am I The Asshole submissions from Reddit! Ali & Erica discuss the following scenarios: a couple quarrels over their holiday traditions, a poster questions whether he should have told his friend he doesn’t like her boyfriend, a guy comes back from my vacation to discover that his partner has left his apartment a total mess, and a couple disagrees about whether it’s okay for one of them to attend a rehearsal dinner alone. In Updates, Erica encounters a very realistic scam attempt from a fake Bumble match while Ali is off on her Christmas markets adventure. Plus, the gals discuss the latest list of best/worst cities for dating from The New York Times. Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 27. If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Want to leave us a voice note? Leave a voicemail at 929-888-7184 with your question and we will weigh in! Thanks to this week’s partners:Sunset Lake CBD: For 20% off all products, go to sunsetlakecbd.com and use code FMH20.Factor: Head to factormeals.com/fmh50 and use code fmh50 to get 50% off.Rebag: Get 10% off your first purchase with code FMHHappy Mammoth: Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code FMH for a great deal: happymammoth.com Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMH Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 23 December 2024

Ali & Erica welcome an OG of queer dating coaching & matchmaking onto the pod this week - Dr. Frankie Bashan! You may know her from the sexually fluid season of Are You The One? or from her company Little Gay Book Matchmaking. Dr. Frankie tells us about the specific challenges her queer clients face compared to other daters (and what parallels she sees!) along with giving advice on approaching dating IRL and coming into your own at a later age. We can’t wait for you to hear our conversation! In Updates, Erica has yet another encounter from her past (what is the universe trying to say??) while Ali recounts her monthly surprise date with Skyline and looks forward to their Paris trip. Where to find Dr. Frankie: On Instagram @drfrankiebashan on TikTok @drfrankiebashan at www.littlegaybook.com. Timestamps: Dr. Frankie joins us at around minute 38. If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Want to leave us a voice note? Leave a voicemail at 929-888-7184 with your question and we will weigh in! Thanks to this week’s partners:Sunset Lake CBD: For 20% off all products, go to sunsetlakecbd.com and use code FMH20.Factor: Head to factormeals.com/fmh50 and use code fmh50 to get 50% off.Rebag: Get 10% off your first purchase with code FMHHappy Mammoth: Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code FMH for a great deal: happymammoth.com Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMH Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 16 December 2024

Ali & Erica are answering listener questions on the pod this week! But first, we start out with a listener update from a prior Hot Topics episode - remember our distant security guard?? Then, the gals answer 3 new questions. First, what to do if a match’s app profile disappears before your first date? Second, we give advice to a listener who is struggling with getting back onto the apps after a dating hiatus as the only single friend. Lastly, a listener is headed to a wedding where she’ll see an old fling - should she tell her current partner? Don’t forget you can submit questions (and updates!) of your own at findingmrheight.com/podcast! In Updates, Erica has a ~magical~ blast from the past while Ali reveals what she’s getting Skyline for Christmas (and how they decided on gifts!). Skyline, if you’re listening to this, no you’re not. Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 22. If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Want to leave us a voice note? Leave a voicemail at 929-888-7184 with your question and we will weigh in! Thanks to this week’s partners:Sunset Lake CBD: For 20% off all products, go to sunsetlakecbd.com and use code FMH20.Apostrophe: Save $15 and get your dermatologist-crafted treatment plan for just $5 at apostrophe.com/FMH and use code FMH.Happy Mammoth: Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code FMH for a great deal: happymammoth.comCheck out Gobble and use our code HEIGHT for a great deal: gobble.com Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMH Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 9 December 2024

It’s our first ever public Uncensored episode, featuring Abigail Jensen of the Rat Girls podcast! Abigail was such a popular Patreon Uncensored guest that we had to bring her practical sex and pleasure tips to the main pod. You’ll come away with some amazing tips from this discussion including: navigating mismatched libidos (and why they may not actually be mismatched!), working on initiating sex when it doesn’t feel natural, testing out new things in the bedroom, working through intimacy with body insecurities, and more. In Updates, Ali has a conversation with Skyline that might have been difficult for her in the past while Erica has a very meta first date that takes a turn. Where to find Abigail: On Instagram @vibeslut, on TikTok @abigailjensen_, and on the Rat Girls Podcast. Timestamps: Abigail joins us at around minute 42. If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Want to leave us a voice note? Leave a voicemail at 929-888-7184 with your question and we will weigh in! Thanks to this week’s partners:Apostrophe: Save $15 and get your dermatologist-crafted treatment plan for just $5 at apostrophe.com/FMH and use code FMH.Happy Mammoth: Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code FMH for a great deal: happymammoth.comFactor: Head to factormeals.com/fmh50 and use code fmh50 to get 50% off.Check out Uncommon Goods and use our code FMH for a great deal: www.uncommongoods.comCheck out Gobble and use our code HEIGHT for a great deal: gobble.com Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMH Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 2 December 2024

Ali & Erica are breaking down one of their favorite personality tests this week: Myers Briggs! The episode starts with a break down of Myers Briggs as a concept - each aspect of the types and the limitations. The gals then discuss their own (basically opposite, lol) personality types and how they impact relationships, both romantic and otherwise. Plus: What personality type is Skyline?? In Updates, Erica has an IRL encounter with a potential date while Ali recaps her surprise date night with Skyline. Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 25. If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Want to leave us a voice note? Leave a voicemail at 929-888-7184 with your question and we will weigh in! Thanks to this week’s partners:Sunset Lake CBD: For 20% off all products, go to sunsetlakecbd.com and use code FMH20.Happy Mammoth: Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code FMH for a great deal: happymammoth.comFactor: Head to factormeals.com/fmh50 and use code fmh50 to get 50% off.Check out Uncommon Goods and use our code FMH for a great deal: www.uncommongoods.comCozy Earth: Visit cozyearth.com/FMH and use our exclusive 40% off code FMH to give the gift of luxury this holiday season.Check out Gobble and use our code HEIGHT for a great deal: gobble.com Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMH Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 25 November 2024

It feels like flirting just comes naturally to some people, but is it possible to learn to be a better flirt? Benjamin Camras, aka The Flirt Coach, says yes! He’s taking us through his best flirting tips this week, all the way from approaching a stranger at a party to keeping the flirt going in a long-term relationship. You’ll come out of the episode with concrete tips designed to get you out there and flirting! In Updates, Erica is back in LA and reflecting on how life has blossomed in her new city. Meanwhile, Ali returns from a weekend away with her friends where she was part of a couple for the first time ever. Where to find Benjamin: On Instagram @benjamincamras, on TikTok @benjamincamras, & on the Flirtations Podcast.  Timestamps: Benjamin joins us at around minute 33. If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Want to leave us a voice note? Leave a voicemail at 929-888-7184 with your question and we will weigh in! Thanks to this week’s partners:Sunset Lake CBD: For 20% off all products, go to sunsetlakecbd.com and use code FMH20.Cozy Earth: Visit cozyearth.com/FMH and use our exclusive 40% off code FMH to give the gift of luxury this holiday season.Check out Gobble and use our code HEIGHT for a great deal: gobble.comCheck out Uncommon Goods and use our code FMH for a great deal: www.uncommongoods.com.Happy Mammoth: Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code FMH for a great deal: happymammoth.com Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMH Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 18 November 2024

We’ve heard more and more in the dating space about Facebook groups like Are We Dating The Same Guy lately - so we sent a survey out to our listeners asking your thoughts. On this week’s episode, we discuss all sides of these groups, including their original intent, what they’ve become, and how they seem to be impacting our view of dating. In Updates, Erica recounts how dating burnout seems similar across the world and prepares to bring her apps back stateside. Meanwhile, Ali reflects on lessons from last week’s episode as it relates to “sitting comfortably in” her relationship with Skyline. Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 42. If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Want to leave us a voice note? Leave a voicemail at 929-888-7184 with your question and we will weigh in! Thanks to this week’s partners:Sunset Lake CBD: For 20% off all products, go to sunsetlakecbd.com and use code FMH20.Apostrophe: Save $15 and get your dermatologist-crafted treatment plan for just $5 at apostrophe.com/FMH and use code FMH.Check out Gobble and use our code HEIGHT for a great deal: gobble.comCheck out Uncommon Goods and use our code FMH for a great deal: www.uncommongoods.com.Happy Mammoth: Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code FMH for a great deal: happymammoth.com Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMH Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 11 November 2024

Jewish Matchmaking remains one of Erica and Ali’s favorite dating shows, and this week we welcome its host: Aleeza Ben-Shalom! We get into her viral dating philosophies including no touching for five dates and “date them until you hate them,” plus her thoughts on what qualities make a good match. In Updates, Ali debriefs a Halloween night that was very out of her comfort zone while Erica discovers that dating app tropes span multiple continents. Where to find Aleeza: On Instagram @aleezabenshalom, on TikTok @aleezabenshalom, at www.marriagemindedmentor.com. Pre-order Aleeza's book "Matchmaker Matchmaker": https://marriagemindedmentor.com/book/ Timestamps: Aleeza joins us at around minute 42. If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Want to leave us a voice note? Leave a voicemail at 929-888-7184 with your question and we will weigh in! Thanks to this week’s partners:Apostrophe: Save $15 and get your dermatologist-crafted treatment plan for just $5 at apostrophe.com/FMH and use code FMH.Check out Gobble and use our code HEIGHT for a great deal: gobble.comCozy Earth: Visit cozyearth.com/FMH and use our exclusive 40% off code FMH to give the gift of luxury this holiday season.Check out Uncommon Goods and use our code FMH for a great deal: www.uncommongoods.com.Happy Mammoth: Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code FMH for a great deal: happymammoth.com Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMH Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 4 November 2024

Did you binge Nobody Wants This on Netflix as quickly as we did? Ali & Erica are diving into the show that took over our social media feeds (and for good reason) and how it relates to real-life dating. For Ali, the early days of the characters’ relationship hits very close to home and both gals contemplate how they’d react to some of the scenarios if they happened IRL. In Updates, Erica spends time with her Italian family & learns more about dating/relationships in their culture. Ali is fresh off her 6-month anniversary trip with Skyline, which was magical while also including a frustrating moment or two… Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 46. If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Want to leave us a voice note? Leave a voicemail at 929-888-7184 with your question and we will weigh in! Thanks to this week’s partners:Sunset Lake CBD: For 20% off all products, go to sunsetlakecbd.com and use code FMH20.Check out Gobble and use our code HEIGHT for a great deal: gobble.comFactor: Head to factormeals.com/fmh50 and use code fmh50 to get 50% off.Check out Uncommon Goods and use our code FMH for a great deal: www.uncommongoods.comHappy Mammoth: Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code FMH for a great deal: happymammoth.com Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMH Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 28 October 2024

Have you ever dreamed of travelling abroad and meeting the love of your life? Kacie Rose (@kacierose_ on IG) just did that and she’s here to tell us all about dating long distance and cross-culturally. We discuss her best tips for long distance, what worked in managing conflicts between her and her now-fiancé, and how dating an Italian man is different. Note: Ali’s mic wasn’t hooked up properly for Kacie’s interview, we apologize for the less-than-stellar audio. In Updates, Erica & Ali recount their last night in Lisbon and Erica has some surprises for Ali about the end of the night. Where to find Kacie: On Instagram @kacierose_, on TikTok @kacierose4, at www.kacierosetravel.com. Check out her book, You Deserve Good Gelato. Timestamps: Kacie joins us at around minute 20. If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Want to leave us a voice note? Leave a voicemail at 929-888-7184 with your question and we will weigh in! Thanks to this week’s partners:Apostrophe: Save $15 and get your dermatologist-crafted treatment plan for just $5 at apostrophe.com/FMH and use code FMH.Happy Mammoth: Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code FMH for a great deal: happymammoth.comSeed: Check out Seed : seed.com/fmh, code 25FMHAcorns: Check out Acorns: https://acorns.com/FMH Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMH Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 21 October 2024

Have a question? Erica & Ali are here to answer it! This week, we answer three listener questions. First, a woman has been setting her friend up on dates and wonders if she should share “exit interview” feedback with her. Second, when should you share potential dealbreaker like pet allergies with a date? Lastly, a listener considers canceling a date when she notices something has changed on his profile. But first, the gals are together in Portugal with their moms! Erica reveals a side mission she started with the single ladies on the trip while Ali reflects on Skyline meeting Mama J. Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 23. If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Want to leave us a voice note? Leave a voicemail at 929-888-7184 with your question and we will weigh in! Thanks to this week’s partners:Sunset Lake CBD: For 20% off all products, go to sunsetlakecbd.com and use code FMH20.Apostrophe: Save $15 and get your dermatologist-crafted treatment plan for just $5 at apostrophe.com/FMH and use code FMH.Happy Mammoth: Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code FMH for a great deal: happymammoth.comSeed: Check out Seed : seed.com/fmh, code 25FMHAcorns: Check out Acorns: https://acorns.com/FMH Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMH Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 14 October 2024

Do you experience anxiety in dating and relationships? Worrying that you’ll say the wrong thing, be in the wrong relationship, or ruin things with the right one? Sarah Yudkin, relationship anxiety coach and host of You Love and You Learn podcast, has some soothing words for you (and us!). Sarah shares how her own experience with her now fiance shaped her relationship anxiety work and we discuss issues such as: knowing if it’s your gut or anxiety, how to bring up anxiety with your partner, and dealing with outside opinions about your relationship. But first, Erica & Ali are back from Chicago and reminiscing about the show and their time in the city (which joins NYC for one of the worst cities to date, apparently). Ali reveals Skyline’s surprise for her end-of-corporate celebration and Erica makes an very fun purchase. Where to find Sarah: On Instagram @youloveandyoulearn, on TikTok @youloveandyoulearn, at www.youloveandyoulearn.com Timestamps: Sarah joins us at around minute 33. If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Want to leave us a voice note? Leave a voicemail at 929-888-7184 with your question and we will weigh in! Thanks to this week’s partners:Apostrophe: Save $15 and get your dermatologist-crafted treatment plan for just $5 at apostrophe.com/FMH and use code FMH.Sunset Lake CBD: For 20% off all products, go to sunsetlakecbd.com and use code FMH20.NOCD: Check out NOCD at www.nocd.comAcorns: Check out Acorns: https://acorns.com/FMH Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMH Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 7 October 2024

Erica & Ali are back with another hilarious (at least to us) Sex And The City episode, where we dissect its theories while acting out scenes from the show. This week, we’re covering Taxi Cab Theory, how long it takes to get over a break up, and faking orgasms (with a new character introduced!). In Updates, Erica attends a friend’s wedding…or is it one of those “pitch your friend” events?? Ali awaits Skyline’s surprise and the gals discuss Hinge’s latest update that’s designed to keep conversations going. Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 30. If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Want to leave us a voice note? Leave a voicemail at 929-888-7184 with your question and we will weigh in! Thanks to this week’s partners:eHarmony: Check out eHarmony: www.eharmony.comGobble: Check out Gobble: gobble.com/HEIGHTNOCD: Check out NOCD at www.nocd.comFactor: Head to factormeals.com/fmh50 and use code fmh50 to get 50% off.Acorns: Check out Acorns: https://acorns.com/FMH Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMH Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 30 September 2024

We always hear, “it will happen when you least expect it,” but letting go of societal timelines and expectations isn’t as easy as a catchy phrase. Enter Beth Gulotta, therapist and host of Quiet The Clock podcast. We chat with Beth about quieting the noise surrounding what you “should” be doing (hint: stop using that word!) and getting more in touch with your inner voice. She gives incredible advice on dealing with social pressure, the urge to compare yourself to others, feeling present in the now while working towards the future, and more. In Updates, Ali introduces Skyline to one of her oldest friends and looks forward to a surprise celebration he’s planning. Erica is preparing for a month-long trip and looking forward to some much-needed family time. Plus, with their moms trip coming up, the gals chat about a TikTok trend about being close with your mom. Where to find Beth: On Instagram @quiettheclockpod, on TikTok @quiettheclockpod, at www.quiettheclock.com. Timestamps: Beth joins us at around minute 34. If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcastWant to leave us a voice note? Leave a voicemail at 929-888-7184 with your question and we will weigh in! Thanks to this week’s partners:Seed: Check out Seed : seed.com/fmh, code 25FMHFactor: Head to factormeals.com/fmh50 and use code fmh50 to get 50% off.Acorns: Check out Acorns: https://acorns.com/FMHeHarmony: Check out eHarmony: www.eharmony.comGobble: Check out Gobble: gobble.com/HEIGHT Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/FMH Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 23 September 2024