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Finding Mr. Height: The Podcast

267. The Deeper Pattern Beneath Your Dating Life ft. Meg Tuohey

Finding Mr. Height: The Podcast

Ali Jackson

Relationships, Society & Culture

3.9712 Ratings

🗓️ 30 March 2026

⏱️ 57 minutes

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Summary

Relationship coach and author Meg Tuohey joins Ali to introduce her concept of the HeartPrint, the idea that each of us is as unique as our fingerprints in how we move through the world and relate to others. Meg breaks down why frameworks like attachment styles and love languages, while helpful, can only take us so far, and how real self-knowledge requires a deeper, more individualized kind of attunement. The conversation covers why we're drawn to familiar patterns in dating even when they don't serve us, what it actually looks like to move from awareness to change, and how the walls we've built to protect ourselves can be honored without letting them define our future.


In Updates, Ali reflects on a birthday week that started with grief and ended with omakase, and shares what she's been sitting with as she turns 39.


This week's Media Mention is The Love Drive podcast, hosted by friend of the pod Shaun Galanos, specifically his March 17th solo episode, "When Shit Hits the Fan." Trigger warning: Ali shares a personal experience with sexual assault at 49:00 - 55:00.


Where to find Meg: On Instagram @megtuoheyofficial, on TikTok @megtuoheyofficial, at www.megantuohey.com and on her podcast Wisdom Stripes.


Grab Meg's book "HeartPrint: Unlock the Wisdom of You Here: https://megantuohey.com/megan-book-heart-print/


Timestamps: Meg joins us at around minute 14.


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0:00.0

That's not how it works.

0:01.2

Yeah, we're just not built like that.

0:02.9

It takes what it takes, and it takes the time it takes, and you're not behind.

0:07.9

You're not doing it wrong.

0:09.2

There are no make wrongs.

0:10.4

You are a work in progress, and you are doing your best every day.

0:13.8

And that's enough. Hello and welcome to another episode of Finding Mr. Hyde the podcast. I'm your host,

0:29.1

Ali Jackson, and I am bringing you my positive and practical approach to dating relationships

0:33.3

and a whole lot else about life based on my lived experience. Thank you for being here.

0:38.7

I love chatting with you all every week. And this week was my birthday. It's such a wonderful week.

0:44.3

Started out a little rough. Started out a little rough. If you follow me on social media,

0:48.8

you saw me post about kind of how my birthday always brings up a lot of grief about my dad and just, you know, the passage

0:55.6

of time without him. And I won't go all the way back into that. I talked about it at length on

1:00.1

the Patreon this week. I did a birthday reflections episode on the Patreon this week.

1:05.9

But that was a little bit of a tough start to the week. The good news with that, though, is that because I had

1:12.2

those feelings and cried a lot on Monday the day before my birthday, I woke up in my birthday

1:18.2

feeling great, feeling cleansed, a little dehydrated from all the crying. But it just was a very

1:25.6

cathartic start to the week.

1:28.6

And it enabled me to kick off my birthday and the actual day in a really great way.

1:35.7

And I had a great day.

1:37.0

I started it with early, early morning volleyball.

1:39.9

I play volleyball from 6 to 8 a.m.

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