233. The Pre-Divorce One ft. Sarah Intelligator, Esq.

Finding Mr. Height: The Podcast

Ali Jackson

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.2 • 659 Ratings

🗓️ 4 August 2025

⏱️ 72 minutes

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Sarah Intelligator runs her family law practice like she runs her yoga studio - with a holistic approach that looks to make people feel stronger leaving than they did entering. In this frank conversation, we get into what Sarah sees most in divorcing couples - and how she advises couples avoid it based on her experience. And prenups? You might be surprised by her opinion on them! But as always, it’s all about communication.

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Where to find Sarah: On Instagram @sarah.a.intelligator.esq, and at www.lafamilylawpractice.com.

Timestamps: Sarah joins us at around minute 22.

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0:00.0	It's true. And also, if you end up getting married and divorced, you're going to be investing a lot more.
0:06.3	Oh, yeah.
0:06.6	You're going to then be throwing away. So it's like we're not thinking about that when we're dating.
0:11.9	Like nobody, even if they're justifying it to themselves or they're afraid or whatever, nobody's thinking about the divorce.
0:28.8	Yeah. about the divorce. Hello and welcome back to another episode of Finding Mr. Hide the podcast.
0:32.0	I'm your host, Allie Jackson, and I'm giving you my positive and practical approach
0:35.6	to dating and relationships and other things in life based on my lived experience.
0:39.9	I am so grateful you're here.
0:41.5	And I am especially grateful this week for all of the incredible responses to my feedback episode last week.
0:48.1	Like I said, I was nervous to release it.
0:50.2	I was nervous to talk about that so publicly.
0:53.9	You know, even nervous to talk about it on
0:55.4	the live Patreon, but especially nervous to release it as a public episode. And just the outpouring
1:00.8	of support and like gratitude for me being vulnerable in that way just really struck me.
1:07.5	And I'm so grateful to all of you. And super grateful for those who have filled
1:11.3	out the survey already. I am so close to statistical significance. My goal, backing up, my goal for
1:18.1	the survey in terms of the number of people who take it was to hit statistical certificates with
1:22.7	95% confidence, meaning like a 5% margin of error. That's a lot of words to say, I wanted to get enough responses that, like, statistically, it would mean that I could make decisions based on the broader group. And I'm almost there, like literally 50 responses away. I'm so, so, so close. I mean, it's probably like pretty much fine at this point, given like the numbers we're talking about. It's enough. So if you haven't
1:44.5	taken it yet, I wanted to leave it up for two weeks. It is still open. You can find it at the show notes
1:48.8	or in my Instagram story in the new podcast episode highlights or go there directly, tiny URL.com
1:54.7	slash FMH survey 25. I appreciate all of your input so much. One of the things that I really wanted to do,
2:02.8	like I said, with this survey is get the aggregate view of what kind of content people are
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