249. The Unspoken Etiquette One ft. Miriam Tinberg
Finding Mr. Height: The Podcast
Ali Jackson
3.9 • 712 Ratings
🗓️ 24 November 2025
⏱️ 87 minutes
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Summary
This week, Ali welcomes the brilliant and endlessly curious Miriam Tinberg, a content creator who describes herself (rightly so!) as a conversation starter. If you like discussions that make you say, “wait, I’ve never thought about it like that,” you’re in the right place. We dive into unspoken rules, etiquette, communication patterns, and the gray space we all actually live in - not just in dating & relationships, but in all of life!
The two also chat about this week’s Media Mention, “Good Conversations Have Lots of Doorknobs” by Adam Mastroianni: https://www.experimental-history.com/p/good-conversations-have-lots-of-doorknobs
In Updates, Ali is back from vacation, where she and Skyline relaxed, reset, dealt with a surprise back injury, and started dreaming up future trips. They also tackled some big home and routine changes now that he’s back in an office five days a week.
Where to find Miriam: On Instagram @miriam_tinny, on Substack.
Timestamps: Miriam joins us at around minute 22.
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| 0:00.0 | I guess it's about finding the other person interesting enough to figure out who they are, |
| 0:04.0 | like accepting maybe when trying to dig and figure out what is this person's communication style. |
| 0:08.9 | And then you can decide if you're okay with that or not, or maybe they're open to changing. |
| 0:14.0 | Like maybe then you can have an interesting conversation about it. Hello and welcome to another episode of Finding Mr. Height, the podcast. |
| 0:29.6 | I'm your host, Allie Jackson, and I am bringing you my positive and practical approach to dating relationships and a whole lot else about life based on my personal life experience. I'm so grateful |
| 0:38.8 | you're here. A special shout out to our patrons. Over on our Patreon, we do bonus episodes, |
| 0:44.3 | at least one a week, but our $10 tier patrons get two bonus episodes per week. Last week, I did |
| 0:50.1 | and asked me anything. The patrons get a dedicated question form that they can submit to |
| 0:54.2 | and chatted much more about my personal updates of what's been going on lately at home, |
| 1:00.1 | as well as some stuff from our vacation, a lot of different little tidbits. And we also had two |
| 1:05.2 | bonus episodes for the $10 tier last week, one about a deep dive on the main pod topic from last week where Rachel was talking |
| 1:12.6 | about connecting to pleasure and kind of what that's looked like in my personal journey. |
| 1:17.0 | Talked a lot about my personal journey as it relates to pleasure and performative sex and |
| 1:23.4 | a lot of the stuff that we got into in the pod last week, but just kind of like about me |
| 1:27.5 | a little bit more personal. And then on a very different note, talked about budgeting and how I |
| 1:33.6 | used to be in credit card debt in my 20s and what I did to help myself budget my way out of that |
| 1:39.0 | and some really practical tips I think of what helps me. So that was happening over on the Patreon |
| 1:44.3 | last week. And we also had a Patreon live. We do those once a month. I always love connecting |
| 1:49.9 | with the patrons live and answering questions and just chit-chatting. So we have a lot of fun |
| 1:54.7 | over there if you want to check it out. Patreon.com slash Finding Mr. Height. Before we get into |
| 1:59.7 | updates for the week, I want to introduce our guest for the week and let you know what we have coming up. |
| 2:08.1 | This week's guest is Miriam Tinberg. I have been following Miriam for, gosh, I don't know how long. I don't remember how long. |
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