So they want to do a good job.

They want to be highly involved.

They are doing everything they can to achieve this goal of meeting somebody that they have.

But one of the issues becomes if they also have high attachment to that outcome, they're putting

so much pressure on each step of the process that they're sort of like, what's that phrase?

Losing the forest for the trees.

They're getting too biopically focused on each individual step.

They need to zoom out.

Hello and welcome to their episode of Finding Mr. Hyde the podcast. I'm your host, Allie Jackson,

and I am bringing you my positive and practical approach to dating, relationships, and a whole lot

else about life based on my experience throughout my life. Thank you for being here. So this week's

episode is going to be listener questions. I'm trying to do listener questions episodes a little bit more

frequently, probably not fully once a month questions episodes a little bit more frequently,

probably not fully once a month, but a little bit more frequently because I have such great questions from you all, both through the question form, which you can find at

Finding Mr.hyte.com slash podcast, or also you can go directly to it at tiny URL.com

slash fmh pod QS. That is in the show notes as well, if you forget, both through

that and through like longer DMs that I get on Instagram that don't fit in the AMA box.

I put those aside as well for these listener questions. I get so many good ones. And so I want to

do that more regularly and just, you know, chat with you guys about what's going on in your

lives. So we're going to do that today. But before we do that, we have much to catch up on.

Last week was, or last Saturday, was the Finding Mr. Hight, FMH, that Finding Mr. Hyde is FMH. It is early,

y'all. The five-year anniversary party of the pod, the listener appreciation party, thank you so much to

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