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CockTales: Dirty Discussions

CockTales: Dirty Discussions

Kiki Said So & Medinah Monroe

Comedy, Personal Journals, Relationships, Society & Culture

4.63.1K Ratings

Overview

CockTales: Dirty Discussions is hosted by Kiki Said So and Medinah Monroe. Both women are in different stages of their love lives; one single and one in a serious long term relationship. The women give uncensored accounts about their sex and dating lives, relationships, and what it's really like to navigate the sea of love in Atlanta. On CockTales, the ladies gather over great drinks and discuss the latest happenings in their sexual experiences dating lives.

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465 Episodes

The Truth About ‘Vibes’ Dating: Why Men Think Basic Questions Are ‘Too Much’

This week, we’re talking about vibes — the good ones, the delusional ones, and the ones men swear should replace actual communication. After mixing up our refreshing pH Balance Cocktail, we dig into Medina’s viral moment about dating communication and the wild comments from men who think asking, “What podcasts do you listen to?” is somehow “too much.” We also get into:• A listener’s essential-oil disaster (peppermint should NOT go everywhere) • Why communication is not “being nosy” • New men in elevators & unexpected meet-cutes • Cat-mama initiation tips from Black women with cats • Atlanta life updates, Friendsgiving stories & deconstructed pies • What dating looks like when you’re grown, busy, and intentional 🍸 pH BALANCE COCKTAIL 2 oz vodka 1 oz fresh lemon juice 0.75 oz honey syrup or simple syrup Splash of cranberry juice 2–3 cucumber slices Club soda to top Garnish: cucumber wheel or lemon twist How to make it: Muddle the cucumber gently in a shaker. Add vodka, lemon juice, and honey. Shake. Strain over ice in a tall glass, add a splash of cranberry, top with club soda, and garnish. Announcements and promos are at the end — don’t miss them! FOLLOW US: @COCKTALESPOD @KIKISAIDSO @COFFEEBEANDEAN For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Try Beducated and use code COCKTALES for 50% off your annual membership  https://beducate.me/bg2549-cocktales  #BEDUCATED #getbeducated If you’re 21+, try VIIA! For 15% off AND a free gift with your first order head to viia.co/COCKTALES and use code COCKTALES! #viiaparter  Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com  Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 11 December 2025

Ep. 471 Naughty Nog, Naughty Stories & A Very Public Emergency

Try Beducated and use code COCKTALES for 50% off your annual membership https://beducate.me/pd2549-cocktales #BEDUCATED #getbeducated We’re shaking up the holiday season with a cocktail that tastes like Christmas, cozy vibes, and just a little bit of sin. This week’s drink is the Naughty Nog Martini, a frothy eggnog latte moment that somehow led us straight into one of the wildest public emergency stories ever told on CockTales. 🍸 Naughty Nog (Eggnog Latte Martini) Recipe Ingredients: 1–2 oz vanilla vodka 1 oz eggnog 1.5 oz cold brew or espresso 0.5 oz simple syrup (optional if you like it sweeter) Dash of cinnamon or nutmeg Ice Instructions: Add everything to a shaker with ice. Shake hard until frothy, strain into a martini glass, and top with cinnamon or nutmeg. Sip slowly… because clearly, this drink has consequences. Once the cocktails hit, we dive into: ✨ Holiday traditions and why cheesy Lifetime movies still eat every time ✨ All Her Fault theories, plot twists, and why Kiki is ready to write and direct ✨ Medina’s acting dreams and the monologue she’s already prepared ✨ Theme night prep: Dirty Disney, North Pole After Dark, In Living Color, and Strip Club Night ✨ Plane farts, airplane germs, and why those blankets are not your friends ✨ A full-on stomach betrayal that led to a Ziploc bag, a frantic phone call, and an emergency Chick-fil-A pit stop We also get into supporting partners with mental health struggles, TikTok conspiracy holes, dog-nap nightmares, Carry-On Only delusion, and why sometimes you just have to end the whole day and start over. This episode has holiday chaos, movie talk, outfit planning, questionable decisions, and a very public emergency that will absolutely have you hollering.Grab a Naughty Nog and press play — we warned you. FOLLOW US: @COCKTALESPOD @KIKISAIDSO @COFFEEBEANDEAN For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Try Beducated and use code COCKTALES for 50% off your annual membership  https://beducate.me/bg2549-cocktales  #BEDUCATED #getbeducated If you’re 21+, try VIIA! For 15% off AND a free gift with your first order head to viia.co/COCKTALES and use code COCKTALES! #viiaparter  Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com  Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 4 December 2025

Paper Pregnant, Real Hormones: Lindsay Diann on Baby Joy, Loss & Ride-or-Die Friendships

In this week’s episode, actress, writer, producer and professional on-screen villain Lindsay Diann pulls up for a raw, funny, and deeply honest conversation about being paper pregnant, navigating miscarriage, and stepping into baby joy after loss. She shares what it was really like inducing her missed miscarriage at home, how hormones had her feeling unhinged, and what partners should—and shouldn’t—do when you’re carrying that emotional load alone. We dive into the mental shift from “outside girl” to “intentional woman,” why friendships change when marriages and babies enter the chat, and how to be a better friend when someone in your circle goes through trauma. Lindsay also spills on playing the unhinged Leslie on “The Team”, the joy of being a villain, and what’s next for her production company, LA Elite Productions, including her upcoming films “Girls Night,” “The Perfect Proposal,” and “Curious.” And because every episode needs something in the glass, today’s drink is the Prego-Rita — a citrusy mocktail with a sparkling-wine upgrade for the girls who aren’t pregnant. 🍹 Today’s Cocktail: The Prego-Rita (Mocktail + Cocktail) Base: 2 oz fresh lime juice or alcohol-free margarita mix1 oz fresh orange juice1 oz agave syrupClub soda to topOptional: salt/Tajín rim + jalapeño slicesCocktail Add-On: 2 oz sparkling wineDirections: Shake lime, orange, and agave over ice. Pour into a rimmed glass over fresh ice. Mocktail: top with club soda. Cocktail: add sparkling wine, then top with club soda. Garnish with jalapeño for a spicy kick. FOLLOW US: @COCKTALESPOD @KIKISAIDSO @COFFEEBEANDEAN FOLLOW OUR GUEST: @SHESJUSTLINDSAY Promos BROOKLYN BEDDING: Go to www.brooklynbedding.com and use my promo code COCKTALESPOD at checkout to get 30% off sitewide. This offer is not available anywhere else. CELEBRATOR: Experience the difference oscillation makes. Get 20% off The Celebrator & free shipping today at 3rdPlanetProducts.com CODE COCKTALES20 For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Visit 3rdplanetproducts.com CODE COCKTALES 20 and use code cocktales20 for a discount + free shipping!   Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird *ex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected]  Get Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com  Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 28 November 2025

Planes, Parties & Premium Oscillation: A Very CockTales Catch-Up

Kiki and Medinah are back with a full life update you did not see coming. From Virgin Voyages cruise chaos (yes, sandstorms and lost cameras!) to pajama parties, new friendships, holiday stress, and family tea — the girls cover it all. Plus, a deep dive into the Celebrator device, gummy-induced zen, TikTok traps, new jobs, weddings, and why learning something new might be your new self-care hack. It’s unhinged, cozy, hilarious, and very CockTales. For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads If you’re 21+, try VIIA! For 15% off AND a free gift with your first order head to viia.co/COCKTALES and use code COCKTALES! #viiaparter Visit 3rdplanetproducts.com CODE COCKTALES 20 and use code cocktales20 for a discount + free shipping! Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper2 https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao March 19-23. Tickets will be live soon, email [email protected] with subject "Trip" to receive a reminder when the trip goes live. Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe Purchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 24 November 2025

GRIEF, HEDO, & THE ER

We are back in the studio with Cocktales Chardonnay in our glasses and a lot on our hearts. This week Kiki and Medinah catch you up on everything from Hedonism in Jamaica after Hurricane Melissa to one of the wildest Weird Sex stories we have had in a minute. Kiki shares how the resort staff has been impacted, why she is turning her suitcase into a donation bin, and how you can help if you feel called to give. Medinah talks about Paradise & Vibe’s Traveler’s Resort family, the fundraiser in Jamaica and why natural disasters hit different when you know the people affected. We also get into robot taxis glitching in Atlanta, Kiki’s fever app mock trial experience where the audience decides who is guilty in an AI car accident, and Medinah’s grown woman announcements, including her holiday tablescaping class with her interior designer and a full wellness retreat in Istanbul, Turkey. A listener writes in about an ER trauma case where a woman comes in after being hit by a car, gets scanned head to toe, and the entire team discovers a plug sitting pretty on the CT. From toys to MRIs and lying about metal in your body, we take it there. Then the episode takes a tender turn. Medinah opens up about putting her dog Shai down, what led up to that heartbreaking vet visit, the costs, the process and the grief of coming home to an empty hallway, a leash in the car and a quiet house after more than a decade with her best friend. She reflects on a long season of letting go, trusting God, and learning healthier coping mechanisms than she had when she first got Chi. Kiki shares her own life updates too, including a Leo and Teyana Taylor film premiere, more thoughts on AI car trials, using the Fever app to find things to do, and why Atlanta actually has plenty of food and fun if you stop following only the “lit” IG spots. The ladies swap date recommendations like Midtown Social’s R&B Bingo, Cirque du Soleil, museums, sushi classes and even ballroom dancing. They close with some real talk about how podcasts and creator work are actually funded, why your subscription, reviews and shares really matter, and how you can support CockTales without going broke in this economy. Plus, Medinah invites listeners to join her for a Meals on Wheels Atlanta volunteer day and reminds anyone struggling that there are resources and community waiting. If you have ever loved a pet like a family member, felt stuck in grief, or just needed a reminder that you can cry and still get cute for a date and a concert, this episode is for you. Interested in being a guest?  Please contact [email protected] and include your information, what makes you an interesting guest, and any relavant links! For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Visit 3rdplanetproducts.com CODE COCKTALES 20 and use code cocktales20 for a discount + free shipping! Promo Code for 20% off a ticket: TABLESCAPE2025 WINE & DESIGN https://www.eventbrite.com/e/wine-design-hosted-by-brian-christion-madinah-monroe-112225-tickets-1857609192099?aff=oddtdtcreator VOLUNTEER WITH MEDINAH 11/20 https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdKwE0pjsr38uX9qlRvCJOdHDxJqey1qAxE4vXBIMNLrYr_Bg/viewform?usp=sharing&ouid=101308055207483565674 Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird : [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper2 https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao March 19-23. Tickets will be live soon, email [email protected] with subject "Trip" to receive a reminder when the trip goes live. Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe Purchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! VOLUNTEER WITH MEDINAH Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Looking for a new podcast home or event space?  Use our referal link and book on PeerSpace.  This space is available there: www.peerspace.com/claim/gr-PPJGdRwxzlJDG Get your Vesper2 https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 15 November 2025

467 Confidence, Chaos & Co-Parenting: Lessons in Growth with K. Micole

Try BEDUCATED and use our code COCKTALES69 https://beducate.me/pd2545-cocktales Pour up some champagne and join Kiki Said So and Medinah Monroe for a deep, funny, and heartfelt episode featuring K. Micole—celebrity stylist turned image architect and author. They unpack everything from healing and co-parenting to how your image reflects your inner world. K. Micole gets real about building confidence, balancing motherhood and purpose, and learning to forgive yourself without losing your shine. Follow our guest @kmicole If you’re 21+, try VIIA! For 15% off AND a free gift with your first order head to viia.co/COCKTALES and use code COCKTALES! #viiaparter 00:00:00 - Introduction 00:00:29 - Discussion on Seasonal Depression 00:01:17 - Discussion on Image Architecture 00:04:46 - Discussion on Personal Styling 00:17:06 - Product Promotion 00:19:31 - Continuation of Parenting and Relationships Discussion 00:41:16 - Discussion on Self-awareness and Personal Growth 00:45:01 - Discussion on Overcoming Adversity 00:56:13 - Discussion on the Power of Prayer 01:02:14 - Discussion on Authenticity 01:06:10 - Listener's Letter and Advice 01:17:28 - Discussion on Friendships and Self-reflection Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper2 https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao March 19-23. Tickets will be live soon, email [email protected] with subject "Trip" to receive a reminder when the trip goes live. Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe Purchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 11 November 2025

Ep. 466 Tired of Toxic Love? Let’s Talk Breaking the Bare Minimum Cycle ft. Kamilla Davis

Tired of Toxic Love? Let’s Talk Breaking the Bare Minimum CycleWe’re TIRED. Like… “pour me another drink and block his number” tired. This week, Kiki and Medinah are talking all things toxic love — from those “situationships” that drain your energy to the men who swear they’re emotionally available but can’t even text back.Our guest, comedian Kamilla Davis (@kdaviscomedy), joins us for some real and raw girl talk about love, loyalty, and the lies we tell ourselves to stay in bad relationships. We’re laughing through the pain, unpacking manipulation disguised as “effort,” and getting honest about how to finally choose peace over potential.If you’ve ever felt stuck in something that looked like love but felt like labor, this one’s for you. Tune in for laughs, healing, and a few hard truths about what it really means to stop entertaining the bare minimum.Chapters:00:00:02 - Intro: We’re Tired, Sis00:01:14 - Host Catch-Up00:05:22 - Meet Kamilla Davis00:12:42 - Game Time00:20:09 - Luteal Phase Realness00:31:33 - The Dog Drama00:36:05 - Leftovers and Letdowns00:41:16 - When Love Feels Like Labor00:55:22 - Clean House, Clear Mind01:12:52 - Laugh Through the Pain🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsGo to www.brooklynbedding.com and use our promo code COCKTALESPOD at checkout to get 30% offsitewide. This offer is not available anywhere else. Links Mentioned: 💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon October “The Landlord” by Brandon Massey  www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoJoin Kiki in Jamaica at Hedonism II with WORST BEHAVIOUR TOUR, Let them Know Kiki Sent You! www.worstbehaviortour.com📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZJoin Medinah in Thailand for “The Lover Girl Layover” https://trovatrip.com/trip/asia/thailand/thailand-with-medinah-ali-aug-2026To Join The Cancer Walk or Make a donation: Cancer Walk Info https://give.lulaslegacyoflovefoundation.org/event/save-the-tatas-2-0/e697283 📲 Follow Us:  Instagram/Threads: @cocktalespodcast  @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Follow Our Guest@kdaviscomedy Contact Us!Advice:  [email protected]: [email protected] Sex: [email protected]/Ads/Paid Collabs: [email protected] Request/ General Inquiries: [email protected] Your Merch & Order Your Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club:  www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoCheck Out xoMAN Podcast: https://lnk.to/xomancyTravel With Medinah! Lover Girl Layover! & Paradiseandvibe.com Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 28 October 2025

Why Are So Many Women Accepting the Bare Minimum?

Kiki Said So and Medinah Monroe are back for part two of their extended catch-up episode — and this time they’re tackling why so many women are accepting the bare minimum in dating, health, and life. From low vitamin D and unaddressed hormone issues to low-effort men and unrealized self-worth, this episode blends comedy, confession, and a few uncomfortable truths. Plus, the “Weird Sex” story of the week will leave you in disbelief (hint: it involves an ER visit and a butt plug).Detailed Show NotesSubtitle: From Low Vitamin D to Low Standards — Time to Raise BothTopics Covered 💆🏽‍♀️ Cupping, Muscle Alignment & Back Pain: Kiki’s wild story about her body going on strike and how therapy (of the physical kind) brought her back. ☀️ Low Vitamin D, Hormone Health & Mental Clarity: Medinah opens up about her emotional lows and discovering that her sadness wasn’t just in her head — it was in her bloodwork. 💉 Redefining “Normal”: Why “normal” test results don’t always mean healthy, and how systemic biases in medicine impact Black women. 💕 Dating Culture & the Bare Minimum Epidemic: The ladies react to a shocking revelation — some women have never been taken on a real date. They discuss how to raise standards, heal from bad patterns, and stop mistaking attention for effort. 💬 Community and Connection: From breast cancer awareness walks to social clubs and single-mom dinners, Kiki and Medinah highlight women-centered spaces that foster real sisterhood. 😳 Weird Sex Story of the Week: An ER visit turns into an unforgettable discovery when a routine scan reveals a little… extra hardware. ✨ Final Thoughts: Taking care of your body, guarding your heart, and demanding better in every area of life — from doctors to dates. 🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Go to www.brooklynbedding.com and use our promo code COCKTALESPOD at checkout to get 30% offsitewide. This offer is not available anywhere else. Links Mentioned: 💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon October “The Landlord” by Brandon Massey  www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoJoin Kiki in Jamaica at Hedonism II with WORST BEHAVIOUR TOUR, Let them Know Kiki Sent You! www.worstbehaviortour.com📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZJoin Medinah in Thailand for “The Lover Girl Layover” https://trovatrip.com/trip/asia/thailand/thailand-with-medinah-ali-aug-2026To Join The Cancer Walk or Make a donation: Cancer Walk Info 📲 Follow Us:   Instagram/Threads:  @cocktalespodcast   @kikisaidso  @coffeebeandean Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Sponsorship/Ads/Paid Collabs: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries: [email protected] Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club:  www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Check Out xoMAN Podcast: https://lnk.to/xomancy Travel With Medinah! Lover Girl Layover! & Paradiseandvibe.com Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 17 October 2025

Soft Life, Hard Lessons

Kiki Said So and Medinah Monroe are back in the studio catching up on everything from dating guilt to setting boundaries with moms, lovers, and LinkedIn connects. This episode is peak grown woman era — reflective, funny, and real. The ladies talk about embracing the freedom of dating multiple people without shame, learning when to speak up (even to family), and why being “too nice” might just be messing up your love life.You’ll also hear about Medinah’s Meals on Wheels volunteer birthday, her gala honor, and her new Lover Girl Retreat in Thailand — plus Kiki’s new collab, her take on the “Winter Arc” trend, and why LinkedIn just became her new favorite social app. They close it out with reflections on reading more, healing from burnout, and what it means to stay authentic when life gets messy.Cocktail of the Week: Unruly — just champagne, because we’re celebrating making it through another week. 🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsIf you’re 21+, try VIIA! For 15% off AND a free gift with your first order head to viia.co/COCKTALES and use code COCKTALES! #viiaparter Links Mentioned: 💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon October “The Landlord” by Brandon Massey  www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoJoin Kiki in Jamaica at Hedonism II with WORST BEHAVIOUR TOUR, Let them Know Kiki Sent You! www.worstbehaviortour.com📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZJoin Medinah in Thailand for “The Lover Girl Layover” https://trovatrip.com/trip/asia/thailand/thailand-with-medinah-ali-aug-2026To Join The Cancer Walk or Make a donation: Cancer Walk Info 📲 Follow Us:   Instagram/Threads: @cocktalespodcast   @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird : [email protected] Sponsorship/Ads/Paid Collabs: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries: [email protected] Your Merch & Order Your Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club:  www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Check Out xoMAN Podcast: https://lnk.to/xomancy Travel With Medinah! Lover Girl Layover! & Paradiseandvibe.com Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 9 October 2025

Libra Season! Friendships, Rituals & Red Flags

(00:00:00) Libra Season! Friendships, Rituals & Red Flags (00:00:01) Intro Trailer (00:01:30) LIBRA LEMON DROP RECIPE (00:05:16) ANNOUNCEMENTS (00:07:38) KIKI'S BOOK CLUB (00:11:23) XOMAN PODCAST (00:13:47) HEDONISM WITH WORST BEHAVIOR TOUR STARTING AT $1650 (00:17:26) LIFERX USE CODE COCKTALES (00:22:13) WEIRD SEX (00:44:19) SOAKINGWET.COM USE CODE COCKTALES (00:47:16) DISSAPOINMENTS 7 THE JOY OF SHOWING UP (01:03:15) I'M CURIOUS TO KNOW (01:05:01) advice - send yours [email protected] This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, Kiki and Medinah are back with an unfiltered girl chat—no guest, just us! We kick things off with a Libra Lemon Drop cocktail and dive into Libra season vibes, astrology, and friendship dynamics. From growing apart after kids to showing up for friends’ milestones, we get real about what it means to maintain connections through life’s transitions. We also share self-rituals, birthday traditions, and our takes on communication struggles—whether it’s boring conversations, copycat friends, or partners who just won’t open up. Of course, it wouldn’t be CockTales without a wild story, and this week’s birthday cake incident will have you cackling. Plus, Indecisive Diane drops in with advice, and we tackle listener questions about threesomes and friend drama. Pour a drink, press play, and let’s talk friendships, growth, and keeping it spicy. 🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10%off💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off LifeRX.MD - Start your health journey today with LifeRX and use code COCKTALES at checkout for $50 off.  LIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE https://liferx.md/?u1=188&_ef_transaction_id&oid=1&affid=188 Links Mentioned: 💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon September “Tethered Love by Kimberly Brown www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoJoin Kiki in Jamaica at Hedonism II with WORST BEHAVIOUR TOUR, Let them Know Kiki Sent You! www.worstbehaviortour.com📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZJoin Medinah in Thailand for “The Lover Girl Layover” https://trovatrip.com/trip/asia/thailand/thailand-with-medinah-ali-aug-2026To Join The Cancer Walk or Make a donation: Cancer Walk Info 📲 Follow Us:   Instagram/Threads: @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean   Contact Us!Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Sponsorship/Ads/Paid Collabs: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries: [email protected] Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club:  www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Check Out xoMAN Podcast: https://lnk.to/xomancy Travel With Medinah! Lover Girl Layover! & Paradiseandvibe.com ✨ Chapters: 00:00:00 - Intro Teaser: Growing Apart from Friends 00:00:19 - Self Traditions and Rituals 00:00:33 - Conversation Control 00:00:50 - Growing Apart After Having Kids 00:01:12 - Cocktales: Dirty Discussions Introduction 00:01:30 - Libra Lemon Drop Cocktail Recipe 00:02:04 - Libra Season Discussion 00:03:07 - Friends and Astrology Signs 00:05:16 - Announcements and Updates 00:07:38 - Book Club Meeting 00:11:23 - XO Man Podcast 00:13:47 - Worst Behavior Tour Trip to Negril, Jamaica 00:15:31 - Excitement for the Upcoming Trip to Turkey 00:15:58 - Discussing Body Positivity and Self Sex Education 00:16:18 - Gift of Experiences 00:17:08 - Reflecting on Friendships 00:17:26 - LifeRX Segment: Health and Fitness Journey with Life Rx MD 00:22:13 - Weird S*x Story: Birthday Cake Incident 00:26:27 - Growing Apart from Friends: Perspectives 00:31:40 - Speaking Up in Relationships and Friendships 00:34:10 - The Elasticity of the Heart 00:36:26 - Self Reflection and Personal Growth 00:39:53 - Birthday Rituals and Traditions 00:40:30 - Appreciation for Massages 00:44:19 - Ad: VB Health: Soaking Wet Pills 00:46:54 - Soaking Wet Ad 00:47:16 - Disappointments in Friendships 00:47:54 - The Joy of Showing Up 00:50:50 - Surprising Nephew in LA 00:52:57 - Supporting Friends' Events 00:55:34 - The Importance of Communication 00:56:30 - The Struggles of Boring Conversations 01:01:38 - The Importance of Hobbies 01:02:15 - Dealing with Non-Communicative People 01:02:50 - Creating Conversations and Breaking the Silence 01:03:15 - Promoting I'm Curious to Know.com 01:03:55 - Indecisive Diane 01:05:01 - Advice Segment Introduction 01:05:43 - Advice: Exploring Threesomes 01:11:45 - Advice: Dealing with Copycat Friends Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 25 September 2025

Why Friendship First Makes Marriage Last (w/ Jenna and Dontay of Love & Fly S*** Podcast)

This week on CockTales Dirty Discussions, Kiki and Medinah sit down with Jenna and Dontay, the married duo behind the Love and Fly Sh*t podcast. They open up about their 11-year marriage, raising kids, trust, sex, and how to keep love fresh when life gets real. From funny wedding memories to navigating parenting without family nearby, this conversation is raw, relatable, and full of wisdom for anyone curious about what makes relationships work long-term. Detailed Show Notes: Marriage, Partnership & Real Love Lessons Topics Covered: How Jenna & Dontay went from teenage crushes to married with two kids What they believe are the “silent killers” of marriage Why trust has to be earned but also given with grace The role of sex and intimacy in keeping a relationship alive Their wild destination wedding + missing the flight to their honeymoon Adjusting to parenthood, postpartum struggles, and learning balance Why friendship and communication are the foundation of their marriage Lessons for singles about what to look for in a lifelong partner Links Mentioned: 💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoJoin Me in Jamaica at Hedo with WORST BEHAVIOUR TOUR, Let them Know Kiki Sent You! www.worstbehaviortour.com📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZJoin Medinah in Thailand for “The Lover Girl Layover” https://trovatrip.com/trip/asia/thailand/thailand-with-medinah-ali-aug-2026To Join The Cancer Walk or Make a donation: Cancer Walk InfoGo to brooklynbedding.com and use my promo code cocktales at checkout to get 30% off sitewide.  This offer is not available anywhere else.💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off LifeRX.MD - Start your health journey today with LifeRX and use code COCKTALES at checkout for $50 off.  LIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE https://liferx.md/?u1=188&_ef_transaction_id&oid=1&affid=188 📲 Follow Us:   Instagram: @cocktalespodcast   Instagram: @kikisaidso  Instagram: @coffeebeandean GUESTS: @LOVEANDFLYSHT  🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads  Contact Us!Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird S*x: [email protected] Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper2 https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club:  www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! Lover Girl Layover! Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today Chapters: 00:00 – Intro & Cocktail of the Week: The Blushing Bride 02:00 – Meet Jenna & Dontay of Love and Fly Sht Podcast* 04:00 – Relationship games & defining cheating 09:00 – Trust, honesty & grace in marriage 13:00 – Destination wedding & honeymoon chaos 17:00 – 11 years of marriage: what keeps it fresh 27:00 – Do married people miss being single? 31:00 – Kids, postpartum, and learning balance 37:00 – Silent killers of marriage: communication, resentment & sex 44:00 – Living together before marriage 50:00 – Long engagements & playbook myths 53:00 – How to choose the right partner Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 18 September 2025

Fashionably Late: Book Club, Boundaries & Big Virgo Energy

We’re back—fashionably late thanks to last week’s tech gremlins—but the Virgo Vixen energy is intact. Kiki and Medinah kick things off with the Virgo Vixen cocktail, then catch up on names vs. nicknames, a quick shout to Lula’s Legacy of Love (Breast Cancer walk 10/25 in Tampa), and Kiki’s Drinks & Reads book club featuring author Kimberly Brown. Kiki recaps Podcast Movement (anxiety to applause), a heavenly stop at Southern Classic Daiquiri Factory, and why her birthday plan is all about volunteering with Meals on Wheels (53 friends confirmed!). We get into Hedonism plans for December, TikTok family moments, sweet-16 prep, clubbing at Revel, and a real talk segment on dating while on a “soft pop-out”—fly-outs with boundaries, bundles discourse, and why “a lot” isn’t an insult. Medinah opens up about Paradise & Vibe Sedona: the celebrity no-show, the lessons learned, and how an intimate Lion Babe performance turned into a tiny-desk-style moment. Send us: Advice letters → [email protected] | Cocktales → [email protected]  Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off 💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off LifeRX.MD - Start your health journey today with LifeRX and use code COCKTALES at checkout for $50 off. LIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE https://liferx.md/?u1=188&_ef_transaction_id&oid=1&affid=188 Links Mentioned: 💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Join Kiki in Jamaica at Hedo with Worst Behvior Tour, Let them Know Kiki Sent You! www.worstbehaviortour.com 📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZ Join Medinah in Thailand for “The Lover Girl Layover” https://trovatrip.com/trip/asia/thailand/thailand-with-medinah-ali-aug-2026 To Join The Cancer Walk or Make a donation: Cancer Walk Info Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 15 September 2025

Sip the Drip: Cocktails, GoPuff Drama & Wild Randomness

After last week’s marathon two-hour episode, Kiki and Medinah are keeping it light with some good old-fashioned girl talk. The ladies crack open a can of Drippy, share a few laughs, rant about GoPuff, and let the conversation spiral into pure CockTales chaos. If you love the random, unfiltered energy, this one’s for you. 🎉 If you’re 21+, try VIIA! For 15% off AND a free gift with your first order head to viia.co/COCKTALES and use code COCKTALES! #viiaparter 💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off LifeRX.MD - Start your health journey today with LifeRX and use code COCKTALES at checkout for $50 off. LIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE https://liferx.md/?u1=188&_ef_transaction_id&oid=1&affid=188 Links Mentioned: 💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Join Kiki in Jamaica at Hedo with WBT, Let them Know Kiki Sent You! www.worstbehaviortour.com 📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZ Join Medinah in Thailand for “The Lover Girl Layover” https://trovatrip.com/trip/asia/thailand/thailand-with-medinah-ali-aug-2026 Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 4 September 2025

The Thirst Trap Spritz Episode: Balcony Confessions, Wills, & Wild What-Ifs”

This week’s cocktail is the Thirst Trap Spritz—a flirty, fruity sip perfect for summer. Kiki and Medinah kick things off with book club chatter about Kimberly Brown’s If You Love Me, a suspenseful love story that sparks a wild “what would you do?” debate about missing spouses and moving on. From there, the ladies dive into a Weird Sex story featuring balcony sex in Mexico (and some Atlanta sightings 👀), before checking in on their health journeys with LifeRX. The conversation takes a thoughtful turn with real talk on funerals, wills, life insurance, and why Black families need to plan ahead. Of course, it wouldn’t be CockTales without plenty of laughs, side stories, and chaotic tangents. Pull up a glass, sip your spritz, and join the discussion. Links Mentioned: 💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoJoin Me in Jamaica at Hedo with WBT, Let them Know Kiki Sent You! www.worstbehaviortour.com📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZJoin Medinah in Thailand for “The Lover Girl Layover” https://trovatrip.com/trip/asia/thailand/thailand-with-medinah-ali-aug-2026 Visit www.soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off LifeRX.MD - Start your health journey today with LifeRX and use code COCKTALES at checkout for $50 off.  LIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE https://liferx.md/?u1=188&_ef_transaction_id&oid=1&affid=188 📲 Follow Us:   Instagram: @cocktalespodcast   Instagram: @kikisaidso  Instagram: @coffeebeandean   🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads   Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper2 https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club:  www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! Lover Girl Layover!   Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 28 August 2025

"Hot Yoga, Hot Men & Hot Mess Advice Letters"

Kiki and Medinah are back with a no-guest episode full of stories, laughs, and a little real talk. From church crushes and splits that should’ve stayed retired, to wild mall chaos and situationships that feel more like soul ties, nothing is off-limits. The ladies get reflective about health, stress, and why peace is work (not silence), before diving into this week’s advice letter that mixes astrology with a messy situationship. Whether you’re here for the laughs, the life lessons, or just to hear why soda is basically crack, this episode is for you. 💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Join Kiki in Jamaica at Hedo with WBT, Let them Know Kiki Sent You! www.worstbehaviortour.com 📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZ 🌵 Sedona Retreat Day Passes via Paradise & Vibe https://paradiseandvibe.com/ To Join The Cancer Walk or Make a donation: Cancer Walk Info Go to brooklynbedding.com and use our promo code COCKTALES at checkout to get 30% off sitewide. 💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off LifeRX.MD - Start your health journey today with LifeRX and use code COCKTALES at checkout for $50 off. LIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE https://liferx.md/?u1=188&_ef_transaction_id&oid=1&affid=188 Chapters 00:00 – intro & “Agua” cocktail of the week 01:00 – Last week’s flirty fallout & church lust confessions 04:15 – Recapping guests & male perspectives 07:00 – Health reflections & stress talk 10:45 – Soda = crack & healthy swaps 11:30 – Save the Tatas Walk + travel updates 13:00 – Travel Tribe Thailand trip plans 14:00 – Drinks & Reads Book Club updates 16:00 – XO Man podcast shoutout 21:30 – Fashion chaos & mall fights 23:00 – Sensitivity vs understanding men 29:00 – Men who want “peace” but don’t do the work 35:00 – Hot yoga & self-reflection 36:30 – Advice Letter: Astrology & soul ties 48:00 – Perfect match or perfect mess? 55:00 – Knowing if someone’s really for you 1:02:00 – Closing thoughts, chaos & cocktails Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 22 August 2025

Ep. 457 Banter & Blushing: Jugo Alexander on Love, Lust & Laughs

This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, things get real flirty when comedian, actor, writer, and self-proclaimed professional heartbreaker Jugo Alexander joins Kiki and Medinah. From the moment he sits down, the chemistry between him and Medinah is undeniable – and we don’t just mean a little eye contact. We’re talking laugh-out-loud banter, slick one-liners, and a few moments that might have you yelling at your headphones, “JUST GO ON A DATE ALREADY!” In this episode, we dive into: Jugo’s unapologetic approach to love, lust, and relationshipsThe fine art of flirting (and when it crosses the line)Why confidence is the ultimate cheat codeRelationship turn-ons, turn-offs, and the stories that still make him blushWhether you’re here for the laughs, the flirting masterclass, or just to witness the undeniable energy between Jugo and Medinah, this one’s a must-listen. Warning: You might need a glass of water after this one. 💦 💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on PatreonAUGUST BOOK: “IF YOU LOVE ME” BY KIMBERLY BROWN  www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Join Kiki in Jamaica at Hedonism II December 13-18, 2025  with WBT, Let them Know Kiki Sent You! www.worstbehaviortour.com 📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZ 🌵 Sedona Retreat Day Passes via Paradise & Vibe https://paradiseandvibe.com/ To Join The Cancer Walk or Make a donation: Cancer Walk Info Visit www.soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES 💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off LifeRX.MD - Start your health journey today with LifeRX and use code COCKTALES at checkout for $50 off. LIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE https://liferx.md/?u1=188&_ef_transaction_id&oid=1&affid=188 📲 Follow Us: Instagram: @cocktalespodcast Instagram: @kikisaidso Instagram: @coffeebeandean 🛒 Support the ShowFor all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/General Inquiries: [email protected]  Visit soakingwet.com and use codeCOCKTALES  for 10% off  💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off LifeRX.MD - Start your health journey today with LifeRX and use code COCKTALES at checkout for $50 off. LIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE https://liferx.md/?u1=188&_ef_transaction_id&oid=1&affid=188 Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 14 August 2025

Ep. 456 "Do You Want a Title or Nah? Let’s Talk Marriage Insurance & Men Who Can’t Lead"

This week we’re talking titles, toxic takes, and whether marriage needs an insurance policy. Kiki and Medinah are back with stories about wild traffic stops, real estate wins, cheating scandals on the kiss cam, and the exhausting emotional labor Black women carry in love and life. We’re asking: → Why do some men expect leadership with no labor? → Is marriage insurance the new prenup? → Do we sound bitter, or are we just done with the BS? Plus, Medina shares a major real estate milestone, Kiki wants to grow corn in her dream backyard, and your favorite THC libido gummies are back on the mic. Segments include: Cocktail of the Week: Late CheckoutReal Estate Glow-UpsThe “Side Chick or Wife?” Listener LetterWhy Men Need Emotional EducationMarriage, Divorce & Soft Life DesiresSponsor Highlights from LifeRX and VIIA🎉 If you’re 21+, try VIIA! For 15% off AND a free gift with your first order head to viia.co/COCKTALES and use code COCKTALES! #viiapartner 💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off LifeRX.MD - Start your health journey today with LifeRX and use code COCKTALES at checkout for $50 off. LIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE https://liferx.md/?u1=188&_ef_transaction_id&oid=1&affid=188 💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Join Kiki in Jamaica at Hedo with WBT, Let them Know Kiki Sent You! www.worstbehaviortour.com 📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZ 🌵 Sedona Retreat Day Passes via Paradise & Vibe https://paradiseandvibe.com/ To Join The Cancer Walk or Make a donation: Cancer Walk Info Visit www.soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES 💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off LifeRX.MD - Start your health journey today with LifeRX and use code COCKTALES at checkout for $50 off. LIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE https://liferx.md/?u1=188&_ef_transaction_id&oid=1&affid=188 📲 Follow Us: Instagram: @cocktalespodcast Instagram: @kikisaidso Instagram: @coffeebeandean 🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/General Inquiries: [email protected]  Chapters: 00:00 – Cocktail of the Week: Late Checkout 06:00 – Grandma goals, spiked sweet tea & aging dreams 15:00 – Traffic stops, real estate flexes & calling in favors 25:00 – Porn site blocks, pink porn debates & scandalous kiss cam moments 40:00 – Should wives stay through cheating? Why men don’t get emotional labor 58:00 – What is marriage insurance (and why we might need it)? 1:12:00 – Bitter or just honest? 1:30:00 – Real estate glow-up + luxury client moment 1:42:00 – VIIA ad – the high love we needed 1:50:00 – Listener letter: “Am I the side chick?” 2:00:00 – Ayahuasca trips, parallel universes, and... back rolls disappearing?! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 7 August 2025

455 "Slippery When Lit: Cocktails, Boundaries & Cheeto Kinks"

This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, Kiki and Medinah are keeping it real with no guest and plenty of laughs. The cocktail of the week is “Slippery When Lit,” a whiskey-based drink that sets the mood for updates on Vibe Fest in Sedona, Podcast Movement, and upcoming trips with the Travel Tribe and Worst Behavior Tour. The ladies share outfit dilemmas, beauty tips, and the importance of wellness check-ins with LifeRX, plus new book club updates and future group trip ideas. Things take a turn with the Weird Sex segment, featuring one of the strangest kinks yet: feeding Cheetos with toes. The hosts also dive into sex education, what they wish they’d learned earlier, and the challenges of setting boundaries in and out of the bedroom. It’s a mix of comedy, cocktails, and candid girl talk you won’t want to miss. 💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Join Kiki in Jamaica at Hedo with WBT, Let them Know Kiki Sent You! www.worstbehaviortour.com 📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZ 🌵 Sedona Retreat Day Passes via Paradise & Vibe https://paradiseandvibe.com/ To Join The Cancer Walk or Make a donation: Cancer Walk Info Visit www.soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES 💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off LifeRX.MD - Start your health journey today with LifeRX and use code COCKTALES at checkout for $50 off. LIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE https://liferx.md/?u1=188&_ef_transaction_id&oid=1&affid=188 📲 Follow Us: Instagram: @cocktalespodcast Instagram: @kikisaidso Instagram: @coffeebeandean 🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/General Inquiries: [email protected]  Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 31 July 2025

Ep. 454 @sexwithashley on Dating, Pleasure & Her Cult Escape

This week, we’re joined by sexual health expert, writer, and podcaster @sexwithashley for a raw, hilarious, and honest convo about dating as a sex-positive woman, escaping the grip of purity culture, and what she’s learned about pleasure along the way. From stairwell sex at an AAU tournament to popping cherries at the sex club, Ashley keeps it real about her personal journey with boundaries, ethical non-monogamy, and the myths people still hold about women who talk about sex. We also get into: dating daddies, digmatization recovery, and why some men love the idea of a freak… until they actually meet one Links Mentioned: 💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon www.patreon.com/kikisaidso📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZ🌵 Sedona Retreat Day Passes via Paradise & Vibe https://paradiseandvibe.com/Cancer WalkVisit www.soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off LifeRX.MD - Start your health journey today with LifeRX and use code COCKTALES at checkout for $50 off.  LIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE https://liferx.md/?u1=188&_ef_transaction_id&oid=1&affid=188Go to brooklynbedding.com and use our promo code COCKTALES at checkout to get 30% off sitewide. 🛒 Support the Show and Check Out Offers From Our Sponsors: Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off 🎥 Watch the full episode on YouTube – trust, the facial expressions alone are worth it. CockTales Channel on YouTube 📲 Follow Us:   Instagram: @cocktalespodcast   Instagram: @kikisaidso  Instagram: @coffeebeandean 🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads   Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper2 https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club:  www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! www.paradiseandvibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 28 July 2025

Cowboys and Cocktales w/ Kiara "Kiki Said So" Walker & Medinah Monroe

This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, Kiki and Medinah are back with an unfiltered episode packed with laughs, life updates, and a whole lot of delusion. Medinah nearly faints at Beyoncé’s Cowboy Carter tour (spoiler: Bey saw her!), then shares a prison baby story so wild it has us all confused. Plus, she opens up about a surprise date with her old high school crush. Kiki shares what it meant to help Lex buy her first home and finally be taken seriously in her real estate career. We talk vaginal health, bounce-back bodies, dating while healing, and listener advice on vacation hookups. Pour a Delulu Cowgirl and tune in, because this one is a ride. 👢 ✨ Memorable Quotes: “Six months of celibacy… tossed just like my salad.”“I might not be able to make your birthday, but I’ll never miss your daddy’s funeral.”“Don’t show up with wolf pussy—unless that’s your thing.”“My titties look new. It’s giving fresh install.”“I love Beyoncé… and she saw me. Links Mentioned: 💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZ🌵 Sedona Retreat Day Passes via Paradise & VibeLovergirl Trip SurveyCancer WalkVisit www.soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off 🛒 Support the Show and Check Out Offers From Our Sponsors: Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off Go to brooklynbedding.com and use our promo code COCKTALES at checkout to get 30% off sitewide. LifeRX.MD - Start your health journey today with LifeRX and use code COCKTALES at checkout for $50 off.  LIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE 🎥 Watch the full episode on YouTube – trust, the facial expressions alone are worth it. CockTales Channel on YouTube 📲 Follow Us:  Instagram: @cocktalespodcast  Instagram: @kikisaidso  Instagram: @coffeebeandean 🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper2 https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club:  www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! www.paradiseandvibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today Chapters 00:00 Intro + Cocktail of the Week 01:46 Show Opens 03:09 XO Man Updates + Cowboy Carter Concert 09:09 Weird Sex: The Inmate Baby 18:49 Medinah’s Dallas Date Story 30:03 Listener Advice: Vacation Hookup Prep 34:31 Real Estate Wins & Helping Lex Buy a Home 42:00 VB Health & Fitness Routines 49:05 LifeRx MD Sponsorship Segment 55:35 Beyoncé Concert Recap (Part 2) 01:04:46 Advice Letters 1:07:23 CockTales Submission Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 17 July 2025

Ep. 452 Blocked on Everything But Facebook... and He Still Found Me

This week on CockTales, Kiki and Medinah are back in the studio with updates, chaos, and laughs. Kiki shares behind-the-scenes stories about launching XO Man and the emotional moment Skyh Black cried during their interview. The girls talk reality TV obsessions—from Riley on Next Gen NYC to why Love Island might actually be softcore porn. Plus, Medinah opens up about the temptation of a romantic fly-out offer from an ex and her fear of losing the healing and clarity she’s gained. The girls also plan a fantasy podcast girl reality show and get honest about sending spicy pics but not boarding the plane. And don’t miss a weird sex story you’ll never forget—let’s just say someone got a UTI from a man who didn’t deserve it. Also in this episode:A huge thank you to listeners supporting XO Man 🙌🏾Medinah Has A New Travel Group!Why traveling the world is healing—and which countries are winning the trip vote Links Mentioned: 💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZ🌵 Sedona Retreat Day Passes via Paradise & VibeLovergirl Trip SurveyCancer WalkIf you’re 21+, try VIIA! For 15% off AND a free gift with your first order head to viia.co/COCKTALES and use code COCKTALES! #viiaparterGo to brooklynbedding.com and use our promo code COCKTALES at checkout to get 30% off sitewide.💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off 🛒 Support the Show and Check Out Offers From Our Sponsors: Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off LifeRX.MD - Start your health journey today with LifeRX and use code COCKTALES at checkout for $50 off.  LIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE 🎥 Watch the full episode on YouTube – trust, the facial expressions alone are worth it. CockTales Channel on YouTube 📲 Follow Us:  Instagram: @cocktalespodcast  Instagram: @kikisaidso  Instagram: @coffeebeandean 🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper2 https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club: June Book of the Month "The Nothing Man" by Catherine Ryan Howard www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! www.paradiseandvibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 10 July 2025

"All I Needed Was a Margarita and Some Discipline"

This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, the girls are catching up post-Fourth of July with everything from real estate mommas and mansion parties to gun safety and self-care orgasms. Medinah’s planning a Lover Girls Only trip for the girls who are heartbroken but healing, while Kiki recaps her Houston weekend full of crawfish, concerts, and chaos. From vibrator confessions to gun safety courses, the girls reflect on growth, outside energy, and why healing is horny work. Links Mentioned: 💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZ🌵 Sedona Retreat Day Passes via Paradise & VibeLovergirl Trip SurveyCancer WalkVisit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off 🛒 Support the Show and Check Out Offers From Our Sponsors: Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off LifeRX.MD - Start your health journey today with LifeRX and use code COCKTALES at checkout for $50 off.  LIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE 🎥 Watch the full episode on YouTube – trust, the facial expressions alone are worth it. CockTales Channel on YouTube 📲 Follow Us:  Instagram: @cocktalespodcast  Instagram: @kikisaidso  Instagram: @coffeebeandean 🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper2 https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club: June Book of the Month "The Nothing Man" by Catherine Ryan Howard www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! www.paradiseandvibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 5 July 2025

Ep. 451 "All I Needed Was a Margarita and Some Discipline"

This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, the girls are catching up post-Fourth of July with everything from real estate mommas and mansion parties to gun safety and self-care orgasms. Medinah’s planning a Lover Girls Only trip for the girls who are heartbroken but healing, while Kiki recaps her Houston weekend full of crawfish, concerts, and chaos. From vibrator confessions to gun safety courses, the girls reflect on growth, outside energy, and why healing is horny work. Links Mentioned: 💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZ🌵 Sedona Retreat Day Passes via Paradise & VibeLovergirl Trip SurveyCancer WalkVisit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off 🛒 Support the Show and Check Out Offers From Our Sponsors: Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off LifeRX.MD - Start your health journey today with LifeRX and use code COCKTALES at checkout for $50 off.  LIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE 🎥 Watch the full episode on YouTube – trust, the facial expressions alone are worth it. CockTales Channel on YouTube 📲 Follow Us:  Instagram: @cocktalespodcast  Instagram: @kikisaidso  Instagram: @coffeebeandean 🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper2 https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club: June Book of the Month "The Nothing Man" by Catherine Ryan Howard www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! www.paradiseandvibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 5 July 2025

“You Will Go Back to Ugly”: Beauty, Boundaries, & Botox with Kelsey Taylor

This week we’re joined by the gorgeous and hilarious Kelsey Taylor — nurse practitioner, beauty expert, and injector of all things smooth and snatched. We’re talking cheating (yes, emotional cheating counts), dating disasters, and the wild line between insecurity and self-care. Kelsey spills about a man who went full stalker mode, how she got into the beauty industry, and why you absolutely need a licensed pro before letting anyone touch your face. We’re getting into: The difference between Botox and filler (because no, they’re not the same!)Why maintenance is everything — in beauty and relationshipsVaginal health, weird sex stories, and when your man moves in... uninvitedAnd yes, we said it: men are a luxury, not a necessity 💅🏾This is one for the girls, the glam, and the group chat. Hit play and pour up! Links Mentioned: 💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon📺 XO Man Podcast has launched! Watch episodes on @xoneoletv YouTube🎤 Listen anywhere you get your podcasts!🌵 Sedona Retreat Day Passes via Paradise & Vibe🫧 Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off👥  Practice love every day with Paired, the #1 app for couples. Download the app at https://www.paired.com/COCKTALES 🛒 Support the Show and Check Out Offers From Our Sponsors: 🫧 Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off 👥  Practice love every day with Paired, the #1 app for couples. Download the app at https://www.paired.com/COCKTALES 🎥 Watch the full episode on YouTube – trust, the facial expressions alone are worth it. CockTales Channel on YouTube 📲 Follow Us:  Instagram: @cocktalespodcast  Instagram: @kikisaidso  Instagram: @coffeebeandean Guest: @theinkednp 🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper2 https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club: June Book of the Month "The Nothing Man" by Catherine Ryan Howard www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! www.paradiseandvibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 19 June 2025

Ep. 449 "What If My Forever Love Missed the Exit?"

This week’s episode of CockTales: Dirty Discussions is an emotional rollercoaster with equal parts healing and hilarious. Kiki opens up about her new project xoMan Podcast, launching June 17th, and how she landed not just the hosting gig—but a producer credit too. Medinah shares her recent deep dive into celibacy, her new purpose-driven journey, and what it’s like to feel truly lonely again. There’s real talk on forever love, how our grandparents' marriages shaped our ideals, and why modern dating has us asking, “Where did the real men go?” Oh—and of course, there’s a surprise golden shower story. Yes, you read that right. Whether you’re in your healed girl era or still making mistakes for the plot, this one’s for you.  Topics Covered: Medinah’s celibacy update & unexpected lonelinessVolunteering with Meals on Wheels & giving backKiki’s XO Man Podcast announcement + favorite upcoming guestsReflections on forever love and generational relationshipsModern dating frustrations and “princess treatment” for men?!When your dress rips during an interview with David BannerTips for summer reading, affordable audiobook apps & library perksWeird Sex Story: A thunderclap headache and an unintentional golden showerCocktail of the Week: 🍸 Thirst Trappin’ 2 oz lime juice1 oz grapefruit juice0.5 oz elderflower liqueur or triple secDash of agaveTajín rim + lime wheel garnish Shake with ice, strain over fresh ice in a rocks glass.Links Mentioned: 💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon📺 XO Man Podcast launches Tuesday on audio platforms and Wednesdays on the @xoneoletv YouTube🌵 Sedona Retreat Day Passes via Paradise & Vibe💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off 🛒 Support the Show and Check Out Offers From Our Sponsors: LifeRX.MD - Start your health journey today with LifeRX and use code COCKTALES at checkout for $50 off.  LIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE 🎥 Watch the full episode on YouTube – trust, the facial expressions alone are worth it. CockTales Channel on YouTube 📲 Follow Us:  Instagram: @cocktalespodcast  Instagram: @kikisaidso  Instagram: @coffeebeandean 🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper2 https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club: June Book of the Month "The Nothing Man" by Catherine Ryan Howard www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! www.paradiseandvibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 12 June 2025

EP. 448 "Soft Launches and Hard Lessons"

No guest this week, but we dive into birthday betrayals, petty payback, chaotic wax appointments, and why door-opening debates should never happen at the gym. Plus, we’re picking soft launch over sneaky link and maybe, just maybe, planning a little revenge brunch. 🛒 Support the Show and Check Out Offers From Our Sponsors: If you’re 21+, try VIIA! For 15% off AND a free gift with your first order head to viia.co/COCKTALES and use code COCKTALES! #viiaparter  Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES  for 10% off 🎥 Watch the full episode on YouTube – trust, the facial expressions alone are worth it. CockTales Channel on YouTube Link to Watch this Episode on YouTube 📲 Follow Us:  Instagram: @cocktalespodcast  Instagram: @kikisaidso  Instagram: @coffeebeandean 🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper2 https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club: June Book of the Month "The Nothing Man" by Catherine Ryan Howard www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! www.paradiseandvibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 5 June 2025

Braids, Backshots, and Tender-Headed Heaux | Kiki Said So & Medinah Monroe Talk Young Love, Black Hair Woes, Wild Dates & Hookups

(00:00:00) Teaser (00:01:42) Cocktail of the Week- Heaux On the Rocks (00:02:45) Black Hair Woes & Braids (00:16:58) Brooklyn Bedding Code Cocktales (00:19:55) Family & Anxiousness (00:39:20) Vibe Fest in Sedona Aug 24-27 (00:40:33) Join Kiki's Book Club- June "The Nothing Man" (00:42:30) Weird Sex Segment- Sex Myths We Used To Believe (00:52:08) Main Discussion- Young Love (01:08:06) Indecisive Diane (01:08:55) Advice Segment (01:14:59) CockTales Segment We’re back! And this week’s episode of CockTales: Dirty Discussions has range, okay? From backshots and braids to funerals and family group pics, we cover it all. Kiki talks about heading to Louisiana a few hours after recording for her grandfather’s funeral and gives an update on the emotional rollercoaster that came with it (yes, grandma got her group photo and yes, it’s on YouTube). Meanwhile, Medinah just took her braids out in the most luxurious way and is deep in her "enjoy and romanticize every moment" era.  We’re talking young love, grown crushes, being a tender-headed Black girl just trying to function, and the ridiculous things we believed about sex back in the day. There’s also a new cocktail recipe (Heaux on the Rocks), a ridiculous listener confession, and of course, a little indecisive date suggestions from Diane. 🎥 Watch the full episode on YouTube – trust, the facial expressions alone are worth it. CockTales Channel on YouTube Link to Watch this Episode on YouTube 🛒 Support the Show and Check Out Offers From Our Sponsors: Go to BrooklynBedding.com and use our promo code COCKTALES at checkout to get 30% off sitewide - We all deserve a good night's rest! 📲 Follow Us:  Instagram: @cocktalespodcast  Instagram: @kikisaidso  Instagram: @coffeebeandean 🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper2 https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club: June Book of the Month "The Nothing Man" by Catherine Ryan Howard www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! www.paradiseandvibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 29 May 2025

Ep. 446 All We Got is Bereavement Catfish and Tree Hugs

This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, we’re grieving, horny, and apparently being touched by trees. Kiki and Medinah catch up on soft launches, Sedona plans, vibrator injuries, and the men sliding into DMs after baptism. Plus, they break down a listener letter involving baby mama drama and what desperation doesn’t look like at 30.  🛒 Sponsors: Get 10% off your order with code COCKTALES here: soakingwet.com LifeRX- Visit LifeRX.md and use code COCKTALES for a special discount on your health journey 📲 Follow Us:  Instagram: @cocktalespodcast  Instagram: @kikisaidso  Instagram: @coffeebeandean For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper2 https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club: May Book of the Month "Colliding With Fate" by A.E. Valdez www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! www.paradiseandvibe.com Purchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Topics: Cocktail of the Week: “The Soft Launch”Soft launching vs hard launching relationshipsMedinah’s plans for the Sedona retreat & Issa Rae interviewGetting styled like “Hot Girl Martha Stewart”A vibrator story gone wrongCan a tree spiritually touch you… or was that the wind?Baby mama chaos and what “for better or worse” really meansDealing with DMs post-baptism and setting spiritual boundariesWhy being single over 30 isn’t desperation — it’s discernmentKids with silver teeth, gentle parenting, and who’s gonna take care of us when we’re old Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 22 May 2025

Ep. 445 "Mothers, Sons & the Boundaries You Refuse to Set"

In this heartfelt and hilarious episode, Kiki and Medinah are back in their original studio space catching up on life—both the beautiful and the hard parts. Kiki opens up about the recent passing of her grandfather, sharing intimate, funny, and touching memories that remind us how fleeting life can be. Medinah reflects on her trip to Pittsburgh for Mother's Day and the emotional rollercoaster of spending time with her grandmother, who’s battling dementia. The duo also dives into a trending quote from Marlon Wayans about not marrying because of his mom—and unpack the emotional and generational dynamics around “emotional incest,” legacy, and mother-in-law drama. Plus, why some old-school family values still matter, why fried catfish can cure anything (sorta), and a very necessary PSA on checking in on our elders. 🛒 Sponsors: Sign up for free and take your sales to the next level with 50% off a premium membership for sellers! Claim your discount now at pantydeal.com/cocktales 📲 Follow Us:  Instagram: @cocktalespodcast  Instagram: @kikisaidso  Instagram: @coffeebeandean For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper2 https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club: May Book of the Month "Colliding With Fate" by A.E. Valdez www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! www.paradiseandvibe.com Purchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Main Theme: Love, Loss, Legacy & Emotional Boundaries Topics Covered: Returning to their OG studio and why the change of scenery mattersKiki opens up about her grandfather's death and grieving in real timeMedinah shares stories from her emotional Mother’s Day trip to PittsburghNavigating dementia, caretaking, and the humor and heartbreak of family agingMeals on Wheels and the importance of community-based support for seniorsReactions to Marlon Wayans’ post about not marrying to protect his mom’s feelingsDeep dive into emotional incest, in-law boundaries, and generational shifts in family dynamicsNaomi & Ruth as a model for in-law relationshipsLegacy as impact—not just having kidsA peek into Medinah’s “Silver Tooth Children” horror movie concept (yes, really) Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 15 May 2025

Ep. 444 "Rule Breakers" with Kiki Said So & Medinah Monroe

This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, we’re breaking rules and wind 😅 Kiki and Medinah return to catch up on everything from bizarre fetishes to considering if they might be the toxic one in their love life. Tune in as they unpack Dutch ovens (the kinky kind), gym struggles, cravings, the “What Are We” pressure, and why intimacy without connection just isn’t hitting anymore. 🛒 Sponsors:  💊 Try LifeRX for weight loss, hormones, energy and more — use code COCKTALES for $50 off your first month: Try LifeRX by clicking here and use code Cocktales Try Soaking Wet from VBHealth - Use our code for a special discount! www.soakingwet.com USE CODE COCKTALES  If you’re 21+, try VIIA! For 15% off AND a free gift with your first order head to viia.co/COCKTALESand use code COCKTALES! #viiaparter 📲 Follow Us:  Instagram: @cocktalespodcast  Instagram: @kikisaidso  Instagram: @coffeebeandean For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper2 https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club: May Book of the Month "Colliding With Fate" by A.E. Valdez www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! www.paradiseandvibe.com Purchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! ⏱️ Timestamps:  0:00 – Welcome Back + Trip Updates  4:00 – Weird Sex Segment: Dutch Oven Gone Wrong  10:30 – Cravings, Workouts & Wellness Woes  17:00 – Kiki’s LifeRX Journey Begins  23:00 – Are YOU the Problem in Your Dating Life?  44:00 – Changing Relationship Rules  55:00 – Sex, Confusion, and Sitting with Feelings  1:03:00 – Emotional Honesty & Hormone Drama  1:10:00 – When Friends Overstep  1:20:00 – Kindness, Boundaries, and Grown Woman Choices Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 8 May 2025

"We Gotta Touch Grass"

(00:00:00) Intro Trailer (00:01:14) Turks & Coco Cocktail (00:03:08) Welcome Back (00:06:33) Worst Behavior Tour (00:07:15) Paradise + Vibe Trip (00:11:34) Weird Sex (00:17:03) Brooklyn Bedding Promo (00:22:40) Where Have We Been? (00:56:14) PantyDeal Promo (00:59:10) Girls Trip + Marriage Thoughts (01:08:19) Advice Segment (01:18:12) CockTales Segment Kiki and Medinah are back after a much-needed break and have a lot to catch up on—from barefoot birthday parties in Piedmont Park to wild moments in Curaçao, Chicago, and the club. Kiki shares updates on hosting a TV premiere, her sister’s wedding plans, and a scandalous Shannon Sharpe moment that made its way to “Weird Sex.” Plus, Medinah opens up about her baptism, and the ladies give advice on awkward mama moments and how to level up your Gawk Gawk game. 🛏️ Brooklyn Bedding – Get 30% off sitewide with code COCKTALES at brooklynbedding.com 💋 PantyDeal – Sign up for free and take your sales to the next level with 50% off a premium membership for sellers! Claim your discount now at pantydeal.com/cocktales.” For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads 📲 Instagram: @cocktalespodcast | @kikisaidso | @coffeebeandean Detailed Show Notes Topics Covered: Taking a much-needed break and grounding at Piedmont Park 🌱Travel recaps: Curaçao group trip, Chicago speaking engagement, and sister’s wedding prep in DallasHosting the Travel Queens TV premiere for BET HerMedinah’s baptism and emotional growthKiki on caregiving and advocating for Black men’s healthShannon Sharpe's scandal and a “Weird Sex” take on race play and discernment 🤨Listener advice: When your man tells your mama y’all exclusive (but forgot to tell you)A gym crush turns into a kinky 8AM hookup (Barbells & Bondage anyone?)Sponsors: Brooklyn Bedding 🛏️ + PantyDeal 💸 Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club-  https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Currently voting on May's Book Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com  What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The Quiz Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 1 May 2025

Ep. 442 "The Truth About HIV, Prep, and Stigma. A Conversation with AID Atlanta"

In this special episode, Kiki and Medinah sit down with AID Atlanta to talk all things HIV awareness, testing, and community care. From prevention to treatment to removing the stigma, this episode is packed with information every sexually active adult needs to hear.  Follow Us @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Follow AID Atlanta @aid_atlanta Episode Subtitle: Real Talk on HIV, Sex, and Self-Advocacy with AID Atlanta Topics Covered: The difference between HIV and AIDSHow transmission actually happens (spoiler: it's not just through sex)The life-changing impact of PrEP and PEPWhat it means to be undetectable and why U=U mattersBreaking down stigma and misconceptions (especially in Black and brown communities)Resources available at AID Atlanta — from testing and mental health services to support groups and volunteer opportunitiesWhy getting tested regularly should be part of your self-care routineHow community, support, and education can empower people living with HIVA candid sponsor break on Pantydeal — a sex-positive, anonymous, and safe way to make money online while exploring kinksResources & Links: 🌐 AID Atlanta Website: aidatlanta.org💬 Georgia HIV/STI Info Line: 1-800-551-2728 (anonymous)📍Free Testing Info: aidatlanta.org/testing📸 Follow AID Atlanta on IG: @aid_atlanta❤️ Support or Volunteer: aidatlanta.org/volunteerSign up for free and take your sales to the next level with 50% off a premium membership for sellers! Claim your discount now at pantydeal.com/cocktales 💻 Pantydeal.com/cocktales🎁 Use code COCKTALES to get 50% off a premium membership✅ Keep 100% of your profit | Totally online | Anonymous-friendly For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club-  https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso In April we're reading "The Personal Librarian" Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com  What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The Quiz Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 17 April 2025

Ep. 441 "Take Some Sh*t Off Her Plate & The Panties Will Follow" ft. Tana C. Gilmore

This week, we’re shaking things up with The Affair — the cocktail, not your situationship (but if the shoe fits…). We’re joined by the fabulous matchmaker and intimacy expert Tana C. Gilmore, and let’s just say: she’s spilling all the tea on sexless marriages, spicy matchmaking secrets, and why living in separate states from your husband might just save your marriage and your sanity. We’re talking grown folks business — from side-eyes over the group chat to couples who haven’t had sex in 12 years (girl, yes, 12!). Tune in for laughs, lessons, and a reminder to charge your vibrator AND your emotional batteries. Follow Us @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Follow our guest @tanacgilmore Right now, Galatea is offering our listeners an extra 25% off on top of an already-irresistibly-affordable subscription when you go to www.GALATEA.COM/COCKTALES. If you’re 21+, try VIIA during their annual SPRING 420 SALE for Black Friday-level savings up to 35% OFF site wide! Go to https://viia.co/COCKTALES and use code COCKTALES! Check out ErikaLust.com and get 45% off your subscription with code COCKTALES45 www.erikalust.com For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club-  https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso In April we're reading "The Personal Librarian" Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com  What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The Quiz Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 11 April 2025

"Peach Please: Confessions of A Gemini" ft. Tee Sanders

In this hilarious and unfiltered episode, Kiki and Medinah sit down with comedian Tee Sanders for a juicy conversation full of laughs, confessions, and a few wild surprises. Tee opens up about her healing journey back to Chicago, her love life as a self-proclaimed "collector of wounds" Gemini, and what really goes down in lesbian dating scenes. From crazy ex stories to high standards for 90s-fine women, they cover it all—including the truth about fake straight girls, air mattress hookups, and the seductive power of R&B playlists. Plus, the ladies play their favorite game I'm Curious to Know, and Tee drops gems about embracing vulnerability and healing past traumas. Pour up a Peach Please and get ready for a good time! Join Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.com Join Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com  Follow Us @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Follow our guest @teesanderscomedy For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club-  https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com  What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The Quiz Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 4 April 2025

Ep. 439 "Slumber Party Vibes"

This week on CockTales it's just us! We're catching up on life! Try VIIA! https://viia.co/COCKTALES and use code COCKTALES! Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get 15% off with promo code COCKTALES at LumeDeodorant.com! #lumepod Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get 15% off with promo code COCKTALES at LumeDeodorant.com! #lumepod Join Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.com Join Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com  Follow Us @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- February's Book- Reel, By Kennedy Ryan https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com  What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The Quiz Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 27 March 2025

Ep. 438 Sipping Tea with Love, Lex P

This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, Kiki and Medinah welcome podcast queen Lex P from Pour Minds to sip the “Love Lexpie” and spill all the tea! From Lex P's new YouTube show to her love for entertainment news, the trio keeps it cute and candid. They dive into Love is Blind drama, Real Housewives mess, the power of platform-sharing, and laugh-out-loud confessions during “I’m Curious to Know.” This episode is a hilarious ride filled with gossip, game, and good vibes. Try Masterclass www.masterclass.com/cocktales for 15%off try Galatea www.galatea.com/cocktales Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get 15% off with promo code COCKTALES at LumeDeodorant.com! #lumepod Join Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.com Join Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com  Follow Us @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- February's Book- Reel, By Kennedy Ryan https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com  What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The Quiz Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 20 March 2025

Ep. 437 A Little Lip, A Lot of Lessons

This week, we get real about our 2025 glow-up plans — from fitness and fillers to spiritual sabbaticals and stepping back from dating. We talk walking pads, ClassPass adventures, and the fine art of subtle cosmetic upgrades. Plus, we read a wild cocktale submission featuring nipple clamps, butt plugs, and a short king with a long stroke. Tap in for the laughs, the real talk, and the cherry-flavored vibes. Try Masterclass www.masterclass.com/cocktales for 15%off Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get 15% off with promo code COCKTALES at LumeDeodorant.com! #lumepod Join Kiki In Curacao March 19-23- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.com Join Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com  Follow Us @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- February's Book- Reel, By Kennedy Ryan https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com  What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The Quiz Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 14 March 2025

Ep. 436 Brides, Braids, and Beaches

Remember that time when seasickness almost ruined a yacht trip, but you ended up laughing so hard that it became one of your favorite memories? That's how we kick off our latest adventure, as we navigate the vibrant chaos of planning a tropical getaway. We've got everything mapped out, from the bliss of homemade peach cocktails that taste like summer romance to the thrill of exploring new places on ATVs and e-scooters. And let's not forget those culinary experiences, where a Caribbean cooking class awaits, catering to all dietary preferences. Whether you're a thrill-seeker or a foodie, there's enough excitement and relaxation to keep everyone entertained. As the conversation unfolds, we switch gears to discuss the more intimate side of relationships. Inspired by nostalgic hits from Lisa Lisa and Cult Jam, we explore how confidence can transform your love life. We draw insights from Shan Boodram and even share quirky tips on using jewelry to amplify sensual moments. It's all about quality over quantity, and we touch on how different body types can experiment for ultimate satisfaction. This naturally leads to a chat about relationship dynamics, where we dissect the complexities of a 50-50 split and how it evolves as we mature. Whether you're curious about poly matchmaking or just how to balance time and energy in your relationship, there's something here for every listener. Finally, we dive into the whirlwind of upcoming adventures and personal journeys. From fitness challenges that have us reminiscing about youthful vigor to the liberating atmosphere of Hedonism Resort, it's a mix of inspiration and anticipation. Wedding planning woes make an appearance, too, as we tackle guest etiquette and cultural nuances with humor and sincerity. Whether it’s managing the chaos of a Nigerian American wedding or finding a trustworthy pet sitter, we share practical insights to help you navigate these life events with grace. Tune in and join us for a blend of laughter, advice, and heartfelt stories that promise to entertain and enlighten. Download Feeld on the App Store or Google Play Try VIIA! https://viia.co/COCKTALES and use code COCKTALES! Try Masterclass www.masterclass.com/cocktales for 15%off Join Kiki In Curacao March 19-23- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.com Join Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com  Follow Us @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- February's Book- Reel, By Kennedy Ryan https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com  What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The Quiz Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 6 March 2025

EP. 435 "Put A Ring On It" ft. Dr. Stacii Jae Johnson

This week, we're joined by Relationship Coach Dr. Stacii Jae Johnson. Dr. Stacii opens up about her transition from actress to host of "Put a Ring on It," sharing fascinating anecdotes from her acting days, including roles in "A Thin Line Between Love and Hate" and "How to Be a Player." Get a front-row seat to her personal family stories, where she reveals how her mother's heartbreaking experiences with love shaped her dedication to helping others break free from destructive relationship cycles. In this episode, we tackle the challenging task of breaking generational love patterns and the importance of self-awareness. Through engaging discussions and humorous tales, we explore everything from the humorous pitfalls of dating dynamics to the complexities of gender roles and financial expectations. Whether it's navigating the minefields of gift-giving or setting boundaries in relationships, we offer insights and laughter that resonate with anyone who has ever loved or lost. Finally, we dive into topics often left unexplored, such as ethical considerations in adult content and the emotional rollercoaster of wedding planning. Dr. Stacii shares her thoughts on building trust and authenticity in modern relationships, emphasizing the power of self-reflection and personal growth. Join us for a thought-provoking conversation that promises to enlighten, entertain, and inspire anyone on their own journey of love and self-discovery. Download Feeld on the App Store or Google Play Visit www.erikalust.com and use code COCKTALES45 for 45% off Visit www.galatea.com/cocktales and use code COCKTALES for 25% off  Join Kiki In Curacao March 19-23- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.com Join Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com  Try Feeld by downloading the Feeld app in the app store or Google play Follow Us @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Follow Our guest @bossbarbie1 https://www.sierraluchien.com/ For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- February's Book- Reel, By Kennedy Ryan https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com  What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The Quiz Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 28 February 2025

434 “Is ChatGPT saving relationships”

Can technology truly transform the way we navigate modern relationships? This week we're calling on the help of ChatGPT with some different dilemmas, have you tried this? Try Masterclass! Use our link for 15% off any annual membership.  www.masterclass.com/cocktales Download Feeld on the App Store or Google Play Join Kiki In Curacao March 19-23- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.com Join Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com  Try Feeld by downloading the Feeld app in the app store or Google play Follow Us @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Follow Our guest @bossbarbie1 https://www.sierraluchien.com/ For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- February's Book- Reel, By Kennedy Ryan https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com  What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The Quiz Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 21 February 2025

433 "Boss Barbies & Babies" ft. Sierra Luchien

This week we're joined by Sierra Luchien. She shares her transformative story and insights from her book, "Don't Judge a Book by Its Cover." We kick off with a Judge Judy cocktail and dive into judgmental attitudes in dating, setting the stage for a blend of nostalgia and revelation. Boss Barbie takes us on a journey through her childhood, the significance of her name, and the transitions from youthful aspirations to navigating the intricate dynamics of trust and change in adult relationships. Alongside her, Ciara's incredible path from foster care to becoming an advocate for foster children enriches our discussion about the strength and resilience found in life's challenges. Explore the emotional layers of love and partnership through stories of resilience, intimate connections, and the healing power of community. We touch on moments of personal growth and the hurdles of balancing individual healing within committed relationships. Anecdotes of support during challenging times, whether through emotional presence or navigating health crises, highlight the multifaceted nature of love. Discover how Boss Barbie and Ciara turn adversity into empowerment, with Ciara opening foster homes to create nurturing environments for children, inspired by her own journey of finding solace and love in unexpected places. The narrative continues as we discuss the rollercoaster of co-parenting, the emotional intricacies of past relationships, and the significance of trust in partnerships. Personal stories of persistence and self-discovery underscore the importance of finding one's path amidst life's chaos. From navigating complex family dynamics to seeking stability in uncertain times, our conversations emphasize the value of honest communication and fostering hope. Tune in for a heartfelt exploration of personal transformations, the power of shared stories, and the lasting impact of building supportive communities. Join Kiki In Curacao March 19-23- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.com Join Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com  Try Feeld by downloading the Feeld app in the app store or Google play Follow Us @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean @bossbarbie1 For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- February's Book- Reel, By Kennedy Ryan https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The Quiz Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 13 February 2025

Ep. 432 Little Miss Dominant ft. Sir Leezus

What if embracing your sexual desires could transform your life? Join us as we welcome Sir Leezus, a renowned kink expert with over 20 years of experience, who shares his journey of becoming a personal kink advisor, particularly for women seeking to rediscover their sensuality in their late 30s and 40s. Through enlightening anecdotes, Sir Leezus explains how normalizing conversations about kink can liberate individuals from the shackles of societal judgment and unsupportive relationships, encouraging them to explore their true sexual identities in a safe and validating space. Unravel the fascinating dynamics of lifestyle parties and alternative sexual expressions, as Sir Lisa's transports us to genderless gatherings where conventional norms are left at the door. With a candid look at personal preferences, from erotic content creation to BDSM, our discussion explores the art of shibari, the allure of extreme squirt porn, and the societal perceptions surrounding sex toys. Together, we highlight the beauty of communication and compatibility in intimate relationships, emphasizing the importance of meeting partners where they are, understanding boundaries, and celebrating the diversity of human sexual experiences with humor and openness. Finally, embrace the provocative world of foot worship, double penetration tips, and the art of erotic power exchange. Learn how confidence and energy can elevate sensual encounters, with Sir Lisa's providing insights on navigating kinks, setting boundaries, and maintaining professionalism in the sex industry. From the sensory delights of impact play to the nuances of BDSM, our conversation offers a bold exploration of intimacy, inviting listeners to challenge their preconceptions and explore new and adventurous expressions of desire. Lume Deodorant Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get 15% off with promo code COCKTALES at Lumedeodorant.com ! #lumepod  VIIA Try VIIA! https://viia.co/COCKTALES and use code COCKTALES!  Check Us Out Join Kiki In Curacao March 19-23- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.com Join Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com  For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- February's Book- Reel, By Kennedy Ryan https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The Quiz Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 6 February 2025

Ep. 431 "Pura Porky Vida"

Ever wonder what it's like to veer from a strict diet and discover the crispy joy of bacon for the first time? Join us as we navigate the colorful world of Costa Rican culture and the unexpected delights it holds. Medinah Monroe returns from a transformative Costa Rican sabbatical, sharing her hot yoga retreat adventures with Paradise and Vibe amidst lush landscapes and vibrant wildlife. From savoring bacon to forming powerful connections, Medina's stories are filled with laughter and insight, highlighting the magic of personal growth when surrounded by nature's beauty. As the excitement of engagements and weddings fills the air, we revel in the humorous chaos of secret proposals and viral moments. Our conversations are peppered with stories of extravagant celebrations, like a legendary Galentine's Day party, where themed pajamas and a chef-prepared menu set the stage for unforgettable memories. Whether sharing a laugh over a walking pad mishap or spotting celebrities at the nail salon, the importance of staying connected and celebrating all forms of love remains a central theme. The episode also takes us on thrilling journeys of personal and professional growth. From reminiscing about Costa Rican surfing lessons to planning an upcoming retreat with surprise gifts, the anticipation is palpable as we embrace new adventures and connections. A venture into the world of celebrity interviews unveils the complexities of authenticity and content creation.  Join Kiki In Curacao March 19-23- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.com Join Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch (Next Drop Arrives December 2024) www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- January's Book- The Arrangement https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com What's Your Attachment Style Home?  Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 30 January 2025

Ep. 430 "The Working Woman" ft. Jameeka Banks

This week Dr. Jameeka Banks captivates us with her incredible story of transformation from incarceration to becoming a beacon of hope and inspiration for many. Her journey reveals the profound impact of the law of attraction and self-care, all while maintaining a strong relationship with God. In our conversation, she emphasizes recognizing relationship red flags and challenges the notion of excusing poor character under the guise of grace. Together, we get into the joys of embracing personal growth, living life to the fullest, and the importance of self-awareness in breaking free from toxic patterns. Jameeka shares her career journey which has been fueled by her desire to break stereotypes and achieve her childhood dreams. As we toast to ambition and meaningful relationships, we highlight the power of connecting with other women and following one’s dreams despite societal constraints. Our discussion flows through intriguing explorations of relationships and gender roles, sprinkled with humor and candid insights into the irrationality of obsessive behaviors and unexpected places for expressing affection. We also discuss the vital role of self-reflection and setting boundaries in maintaining healthy relationships. Whether navigating the complexities of polyamorous relationships or reflecting on the impact of a challenging childhood, we emphasize the importance of effective communication, self-love, and forgiveness. Through laughter and heartfelt moments, and with a little cocktail, or a big one,  we invite listeners to recognize and heal toxic patterns, prioritize self-awareness, and ultimately transform adversity into positive change. Join Kiki In Curacao March 19-23- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.com Join Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com This week's cocktail recipe: The Working Woman Ingredients: Ice, cognac, lemon juice, simple syrup, bitters, sparkling wine, lemon peel Instructions: In a cocktail shaker add the ice, cognac, lemon juice, bitters & simple syrup. Secure the lid and shake vigorously until the outside of the shaker is frosty and cold. Strain the cocktail into a coupe glass and finish with the sparkling wine and lemon peel. Serve. For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch (Next Drop Arrives December 2024) www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- January's Book- The Arrangement https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 23 January 2025

Ep. 429 "Escaping Situationships and Delulu Island" ft. Ibbie

Get ready for a cocktail of wit, wisdom, and whimsical fantasies as we welcome the insightful Ibbie, a seasoned dating coach and licensed therapist, who takes us from her bartending days to mastering the complexities of modern romance. Our episode kicks off with the "Situationship" cocktail, perfect for exploring the intricate dance of love languages and relationship choices. From the eternal question of choosing between wealth and availability to navigating hair styling dilemmas for an exciting Curacao trip, we promise a rollercoaster of engaging discussions and personal anecdotes. The fun doesn't stop there! You might find yourself laughing out loud as we uncover quirky sexual fantasies involving unlikely icons like Dr. Phil and Steve Harvey, alongside a nostalgic nod to the legendary talk shows of yesteryear. We also dive into the world of attachment styles, blending humor with heartfelt stories about the nuances of relationships. Whether it’s through the eyes of a ‘runaway bride’ or a discussion on childhood experiences shaping our adult connections, we offer both laughter and insight. As we wind down, we address the poignant challenges of grief in relationships, offering advice to listeners who might be supporting a partner through tough times. Through candid anecdotes, we highlight the importance of patience and understanding in these delicate moments. Our exploration of dating, self-awareness, and the balance of delusion will leave you pondering the intricacies of love and connection. With Ibi's expert insights and our relatable stories, this episode promises a tapestry of humor, heartfelt exploration, and plenty of food for thought. Interested in being a guest?  Please contact [email protected] and include your information, what makes you an interesting guest, and any relavant links! Join Kiki In Curacao March 19-23- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch (Next Drop Arrives December 2024) www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- January's Book- The Arrangement https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 16 January 2025

Ep. 428 "Cocktails & Self Care"

Join Kiki In Curacao- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Try VIIA! https://bit.ly/viiacocktales and use code COCKTALES! Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get 15% off with promo code COCKTALES at Lumepodcast.com/COCKTALES! #lumepod For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch (Next Drop Arrives December 2024) www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- December's Book- The Boyfriend https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 9 January 2025

EP. 427 "Reflections, Resolutions, And Back to Riding"

This episode isn't just about new year resolutions; it's about celebrating small victories and the courage to face life's unexpected challenges. We highlight how overcoming fear and embracing change can lead to profound personal growth. Weird sex heads to the VA with a scandalous tale from a VA facility, reminding us all to "SAY NO TO COWORKERS!" The teachings from the Women Evolve conference and insights from Abraham Hicks offer valuable perspectives on spiritual growth, relationships, and the power of self-awareness for Medinah.  For Kiki, looking forward to all the new opportunities that she can't wait to announce and her sex drive has finally come back.  Listen to the full episode to get an OG CockTale...it's been 84 years lol! We also tackle the emotional complexities of relationships, particularly understanding and appreciating men's emotional needs. Navigating the intricacies of dating someone with children, we emphasize the importance of setting boundaries and recognizing personal limits. With a blend of humor and authenticity, we share stories of personal misadventures, from high love gummies to unexpected romantic encounters. As we move forward into the new year, we encourage our listeners to embrace personal evolution with optimism and gratitude, always supporting loved ones through life's unpredictable moments. Join Kiki In Curacao- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Visit www.soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch (Next Drop Arrives December 2024) www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- December's Book- The Boyfriend https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 2 January 2025

Ep. 426 "Santa’s Naughty List: Margaritas, Men & Mischief" ft. Koereyelle Mallard

Koereylle from the "Girl Stop Playing" podcast stops by to share her inspiring journey from a workaholic mindset to one of personal growth and fulfillment. We dive into her transition from the "Confessions of a Workaholic" podcast and how her past venture, the Single Wives Club, led her to her husband and a happier marriage. Koereylle offers valuable insights into balancing career ambitions with personal goals, and we explore how meaningful conversations can be sparked using a fun game called "I'm Curious to Know." Get ready for some festive cheer as we whip up a Snow Globe Margarita that dazzles both in taste and presentation. Perfect for the holiday season, this cocktail combines white cranberry juice, lime juice, tequila, and a sprinkle of edible glitter, served whimsically in a clear, fillable ornament. For those who prefer a booze-free version, sparkling water does the trick. The addition of a rosemary sprig brings a festive nod to Christmas trees, ensuring your holiday gatherings are both merry and bright. We navigate a multitude of relationship dynamics, from traditional gender roles and the etiquette of texting exes during the holidays, to the art of regifting and the complexities of non-committed relationships. Listen in for lively discussions on everything from the ethics of re-gifting to the spicy tales of holiday party escapades. The episode wraps up with a heartwarming engagement story set against the early pandemic's backdrop, illustrating love's resilience and creativity. Whether you're here for the cocktails or the candid chats, there's something to engage everyone. Follow Us! @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Follow Our Guest @koereyelle Join Kiki In Curacao- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Medinah in ICosta Rica- www.paradiseandvibe.com For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch (Next Drop Arrives December 2024) www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- December's Book- The Boyfriend https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 26 December 2024

Ep. 425 Love, Laughs, and Reality Show Dreams

Join us as we kick off with the Red Ribbon Refresher, a mocktail recipe that's perfect for anyone not wanting to wake up with a hangover. Our conversation flows through the quirks of communication and social media, peppered with the joy of sisterhood and the ongoing saga of allergies. TikTok, you're next on our exploration list, and we might just need some help keeping up with the trends! Reality TV aficionados, this one's for you. We express a longing for the glamorous days of reality TV's past and brainstorm fresh concepts that could shake up today's scene. From the working women series to influencer content battles, we offer a playful peek into potential new shows, speculating on celebrity participants like Britney Renner. With casting secrets and show premises that leave jaws dropping, the discussion meanders through the behind-the-scenes chaos, painting a vivid picture of the reality TV world that’s rarely seen by the public eye. Navigating the minefield of modern relationships? We've got insights ranging from dating in your twenties to the delicate dance of maintaining friendships with children when adult relationships falter. Whether it's the expectations of stay-at-home partnerships, the allure and pitfalls of social media romance, or the ethical dilemmas within prison romances, our reflections are both humorous and heartfelt. Tune in for a thoughtful exploration that encourages intentionality and self-discovery, all wrapped up in engaging storytelling and genuine camaraderie. Try VIIA! https://bit.ly/viiacocktales and use code COCKTALES! Try Soaking Wet! Visit www.soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES  Join Kiki In Curacao- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Medinah in ICosta Rica- www.paradiseandvibe.com For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch (Next Drop Arrives December 2024) www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- December's Book- The Boyfriend https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 19 December 2024

Ep. 424 Sipping on Judgement

This week we discuess weird kinks, family time, and answer an interesting listener email about her man judging and slut shaming her!   Try VIIA! https://bit.ly/viiacocktales and use code COCKTALES! From 12/13-12/18 get Free 2-Day Shipping on orders $150+ and an additional 10% off when using our code COCKTALES10 https://oseamalibu.com/collections/skincare-sets-1?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=influencer&utm_campaign=122024_HolidayEVG_COCKTALES Join Kiki In Curacao- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Medinah in ICosta Rica- www.paradiseandvibe.com For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch (Next Drop Arrives December 2024) www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- December's Book- The Boyfriend https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 12 December 2024

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