CockTales: Dirty Discussions

After last week’s marathon two-hour episode, Kiki and Medinah are keeping it light with some good old-fashioned girl talk. The ladies crack open a can of Drippy, share a few laughs, rant about GoPuff, and let the conversation spiral into pure CockTales chaos. If you love the random, unfiltered energy, this one’s for you. 🎉 If you’re 21+, try VIIA! For 15% off AND a free gift with your first order head to viia.co/COCKTALES and use code COCKTALES! #viiaparter 💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off LifeRX.MD - Start your health journey today with LifeRX and use code COCKTALES at checkout for $50 off. LIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE https://liferx.md/?u1=188&_ef_transaction_id&oid=1&affid=188 Links Mentioned: 💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Join Kiki in Jamaica at Hedo with WBT, Let them Know Kiki Sent You! www.worstbehaviortour.com 📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZ Join Medinah in Thailand for “The Lover Girl Layover” https://trovatrip.com/trip/asia/thailand/thailand-with-medinah-ali-aug-2026 Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 4 September 2025

This week’s cocktail is the Thirst Trap Spritz—a flirty, fruity sip perfect for summer. Kiki and Medinah kick things off with book club chatter about Kimberly Brown’s If You Love Me, a suspenseful love story that sparks a wild “what would you do?” debate about missing spouses and moving on. From there, the ladies dive into a Weird Sex story featuring balcony sex in Mexico (and some Atlanta sightings 👀), before checking in on their health journeys with LifeRX. The conversation takes a thoughtful turn with real talk on funerals, wills, life insurance, and why Black families need to plan ahead. Of course, it wouldn’t be CockTales without plenty of laughs, side stories, and chaotic tangents. Pull up a glass, sip your spritz, and join the discussion. Links Mentioned: 💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoJoin Me in Jamaica at Hedo with WBT, Let them Know Kiki Sent You! www.worstbehaviortour.com📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZJoin Medinah in Thailand for “The Lover Girl Layover” https://trovatrip.com/trip/asia/thailand/thailand-with-medinah-ali-aug-2026 Visit www.soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off LifeRX.MD - Start your health journey today with LifeRX and use code COCKTALES at checkout for $50 off.  LIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE https://liferx.md/?u1=188&_ef_transaction_id&oid=1&affid=188 📲 Follow Us:   Instagram: @cocktalespodcast   Instagram: @kikisaidso  Instagram: @coffeebeandean   🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads   Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper2 https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club:  www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! Lover Girl Layover!   Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 28 August 2025

Kiki and Medinah are back with a no-guest episode full of stories, laughs, and a little real talk. From church crushes and splits that should’ve stayed retired, to wild mall chaos and situationships that feel more like soul ties, nothing is off-limits. The ladies get reflective about health, stress, and why peace is work (not silence), before diving into this week’s advice letter that mixes astrology with a messy situationship. Whether you’re here for the laughs, the life lessons, or just to hear why soda is basically crack, this episode is for you. 💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Join Kiki in Jamaica at Hedo with WBT, Let them Know Kiki Sent You! www.worstbehaviortour.com 📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZ 🌵 Sedona Retreat Day Passes via Paradise & Vibe https://paradiseandvibe.com/ To Join The Cancer Walk or Make a donation: Cancer Walk Info Go to brooklynbedding.com and use our promo code COCKTALES at checkout to get 30% off sitewide. 💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off LifeRX.MD - Start your health journey today with LifeRX and use code COCKTALES at checkout for $50 off. LIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE https://liferx.md/?u1=188&_ef_transaction_id&oid=1&affid=188 Chapters 00:00 – intro & “Agua” cocktail of the week 01:00 – Last week’s flirty fallout & church lust confessions 04:15 – Recapping guests & male perspectives 07:00 – Health reflections & stress talk 10:45 – Soda = crack & healthy swaps 11:30 – Save the Tatas Walk + travel updates 13:00 – Travel Tribe Thailand trip plans 14:00 – Drinks & Reads Book Club updates 16:00 – XO Man podcast shoutout 21:30 – Fashion chaos & mall fights 23:00 – Sensitivity vs understanding men 29:00 – Men who want “peace” but don’t do the work 35:00 – Hot yoga & self-reflection 36:30 – Advice Letter: Astrology & soul ties 48:00 – Perfect match or perfect mess? 55:00 – Knowing if someone’s really for you 1:02:00 – Closing thoughts, chaos & cocktails Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 22 August 2025

This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, things get real flirty when comedian, actor, writer, and self-proclaimed professional heartbreaker Jugo Alexander joins Kiki and Medinah. From the moment he sits down, the chemistry between him and Medinah is undeniable – and we don’t just mean a little eye contact. We’re talking laugh-out-loud banter, slick one-liners, and a few moments that might have you yelling at your headphones, “JUST GO ON A DATE ALREADY!” In this episode, we dive into: Jugo’s unapologetic approach to love, lust, and relationshipsThe fine art of flirting (and when it crosses the line)Why confidence is the ultimate cheat codeRelationship turn-ons, turn-offs, and the stories that still make him blushWhether you’re here for the laughs, the flirting masterclass, or just to witness the undeniable energy between Jugo and Medinah, this one’s a must-listen. Warning: You might need a glass of water after this one. 💦 💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on PatreonAUGUST BOOK: “IF YOU LOVE ME” BY KIMBERLY BROWN  www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Join Kiki in Jamaica at Hedonism II December 13-18, 2025  with WBT, Let them Know Kiki Sent You! www.worstbehaviortour.com 📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZ 🌵 Sedona Retreat Day Passes via Paradise & Vibe https://paradiseandvibe.com/ To Join The Cancer Walk or Make a donation: Cancer Walk Info Visit www.soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES 💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off LifeRX.MD - Start your health journey today with LifeRX and use code COCKTALES at checkout for $50 off. LIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE https://liferx.md/?u1=188&_ef_transaction_id&oid=1&affid=188 📲 Follow Us: Instagram: @cocktalespodcast Instagram: @kikisaidso Instagram: @coffeebeandean 🛒 Support the ShowFor all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/General Inquiries: [email protected]  Visit soakingwet.com and use codeCOCKTALES  for 10% off  💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off LifeRX.MD - Start your health journey today with LifeRX and use code COCKTALES at checkout for $50 off. LIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE https://liferx.md/?u1=188&_ef_transaction_id&oid=1&affid=188 Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 14 August 2025

This week we’re talking titles, toxic takes, and whether marriage needs an insurance policy. Kiki and Medinah are back with stories about wild traffic stops, real estate wins, cheating scandals on the kiss cam, and the exhausting emotional labor Black women carry in love and life. We’re asking: → Why do some men expect leadership with no labor? → Is marriage insurance the new prenup? → Do we sound bitter, or are we just done with the BS? Plus, Medina shares a major real estate milestone, Kiki wants to grow corn in her dream backyard, and your favorite THC libido gummies are back on the mic. Segments include: Cocktail of the Week: Late CheckoutReal Estate Glow-UpsThe “Side Chick or Wife?” Listener LetterWhy Men Need Emotional EducationMarriage, Divorce & Soft Life DesiresSponsor Highlights from LifeRX and VIIA🎉 If you’re 21+, try VIIA! For 15% off AND a free gift with your first order head to viia.co/COCKTALES and use code COCKTALES! #viiapartner 💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off LifeRX.MD - Start your health journey today with LifeRX and use code COCKTALES at checkout for $50 off. LIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE https://liferx.md/?u1=188&_ef_transaction_id&oid=1&affid=188 💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Join Kiki in Jamaica at Hedo with WBT, Let them Know Kiki Sent You! www.worstbehaviortour.com 📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZ 🌵 Sedona Retreat Day Passes via Paradise & Vibe https://paradiseandvibe.com/ To Join The Cancer Walk or Make a donation: Cancer Walk Info Visit www.soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES 💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off LifeRX.MD - Start your health journey today with LifeRX and use code COCKTALES at checkout for $50 off. LIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE https://liferx.md/?u1=188&_ef_transaction_id&oid=1&affid=188 📲 Follow Us: Instagram: @cocktalespodcast Instagram: @kikisaidso Instagram: @coffeebeandean 🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/General Inquiries: [email protected]  Chapters: 00:00 – Cocktail of the Week: Late Checkout 06:00 – Grandma goals, spiked sweet tea & aging dreams 15:00 – Traffic stops, real estate flexes & calling in favors 25:00 – Porn site blocks, pink porn debates & scandalous kiss cam moments 40:00 – Should wives stay through cheating? Why men don’t get emotional labor 58:00 – What is marriage insurance (and why we might need it)? 1:12:00 – Bitter or just honest? 1:30:00 – Real estate glow-up + luxury client moment 1:42:00 – VIIA ad – the high love we needed 1:50:00 – Listener letter: “Am I the side chick?” 2:00:00 – Ayahuasca trips, parallel universes, and... back rolls disappearing?! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 7 August 2025

This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, Kiki and Medinah are keeping it real with no guest and plenty of laughs. The cocktail of the week is “Slippery When Lit,” a whiskey-based drink that sets the mood for updates on Vibe Fest in Sedona, Podcast Movement, and upcoming trips with the Travel Tribe and Worst Behavior Tour. The ladies share outfit dilemmas, beauty tips, and the importance of wellness check-ins with LifeRX, plus new book club updates and future group trip ideas. Things take a turn with the Weird Sex segment, featuring one of the strangest kinks yet: feeding Cheetos with toes. The hosts also dive into sex education, what they wish they’d learned earlier, and the challenges of setting boundaries in and out of the bedroom. It’s a mix of comedy, cocktails, and candid girl talk you won’t want to miss. 💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Join Kiki in Jamaica at Hedo with WBT, Let them Know Kiki Sent You! www.worstbehaviortour.com 📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZ 🌵 Sedona Retreat Day Passes via Paradise & Vibe https://paradiseandvibe.com/ To Join The Cancer Walk or Make a donation: Cancer Walk Info Visit www.soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES 💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off LifeRX.MD - Start your health journey today with LifeRX and use code COCKTALES at checkout for $50 off. LIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE https://liferx.md/?u1=188&_ef_transaction_id&oid=1&affid=188 📲 Follow Us: Instagram: @cocktalespodcast Instagram: @kikisaidso Instagram: @coffeebeandean 🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/General Inquiries: [email protected]  Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 31 July 2025

This week, we’re joined by sexual health expert, writer, and podcaster @sexwithashley for a raw, hilarious, and honest convo about dating as a sex-positive woman, escaping the grip of purity culture, and what she’s learned about pleasure along the way. From stairwell sex at an AAU tournament to popping cherries at the sex club, Ashley keeps it real about her personal journey with boundaries, ethical non-monogamy, and the myths people still hold about women who talk about sex. We also get into: dating daddies, digmatization recovery, and why some men love the idea of a freak… until they actually meet one Links Mentioned: 💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon www.patreon.com/kikisaidso📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZ🌵 Sedona Retreat Day Passes via Paradise & Vibe https://paradiseandvibe.com/Cancer WalkVisit www.soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off LifeRX.MD - Start your health journey today with LifeRX and use code COCKTALES at checkout for $50 off.  LIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE https://liferx.md/?u1=188&_ef_transaction_id&oid=1&affid=188Go to brooklynbedding.com and use our promo code COCKTALES at checkout to get 30% off sitewide. 🛒 Support the Show and Check Out Offers From Our Sponsors: Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off 🎥 Watch the full episode on YouTube – trust, the facial expressions alone are worth it. CockTales Channel on YouTube 📲 Follow Us:   Instagram: @cocktalespodcast   Instagram: @kikisaidso  Instagram: @coffeebeandean 🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads   Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper2 https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club:  www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! www.paradiseandvibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 28 July 2025

This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, Kiki and Medinah are back with an unfiltered episode packed with laughs, life updates, and a whole lot of delusion. Medinah nearly faints at Beyoncé’s Cowboy Carter tour (spoiler: Bey saw her!), then shares a prison baby story so wild it has us all confused. Plus, she opens up about a surprise date with her old high school crush. Kiki shares what it meant to help Lex buy her first home and finally be taken seriously in her real estate career. We talk vaginal health, bounce-back bodies, dating while healing, and listener advice on vacation hookups. Pour a Delulu Cowgirl and tune in, because this one is a ride. 👢 ✨ Memorable Quotes: “Six months of celibacy… tossed just like my salad.”“I might not be able to make your birthday, but I’ll never miss your daddy’s funeral.”“Don’t show up with wolf pussy—unless that’s your thing.”“My titties look new. It’s giving fresh install.”“I love Beyoncé… and she saw me. Links Mentioned: 💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZ🌵 Sedona Retreat Day Passes via Paradise & VibeLovergirl Trip SurveyCancer WalkVisit www.soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off 🛒 Support the Show and Check Out Offers From Our Sponsors: Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off Go to brooklynbedding.com and use our promo code COCKTALES at checkout to get 30% off sitewide. LifeRX.MD - Start your health journey today with LifeRX and use code COCKTALES at checkout for $50 off.  LIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE 🎥 Watch the full episode on YouTube – trust, the facial expressions alone are worth it. CockTales Channel on YouTube 📲 Follow Us:  Instagram: @cocktalespodcast  Instagram: @kikisaidso  Instagram: @coffeebeandean 🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper2 https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club:  www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! www.paradiseandvibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today Chapters 00:00 Intro + Cocktail of the Week 01:46 Show Opens 03:09 XO Man Updates + Cowboy Carter Concert 09:09 Weird Sex: The Inmate Baby 18:49 Medinah’s Dallas Date Story 30:03 Listener Advice: Vacation Hookup Prep 34:31 Real Estate Wins & Helping Lex Buy a Home 42:00 VB Health & Fitness Routines 49:05 LifeRx MD Sponsorship Segment 55:35 Beyoncé Concert Recap (Part 2) 01:04:46 Advice Letters 1:07:23 CockTales Submission Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 17 July 2025

This week on CockTales, Kiki and Medinah are back in the studio with updates, chaos, and laughs. Kiki shares behind-the-scenes stories about launching XO Man and the emotional moment Skyh Black cried during their interview. The girls talk reality TV obsessions—from Riley on Next Gen NYC to why Love Island might actually be softcore porn. Plus, Medinah opens up about the temptation of a romantic fly-out offer from an ex and her fear of losing the healing and clarity she’s gained. The girls also plan a fantasy podcast girl reality show and get honest about sending spicy pics but not boarding the plane. And don’t miss a weird sex story you’ll never forget—let’s just say someone got a UTI from a man who didn’t deserve it. Also in this episode:A huge thank you to listeners supporting XO Man 🙌🏾Medinah Has A New Travel Group!Why traveling the world is healing—and which countries are winning the trip vote Links Mentioned: 💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZ🌵 Sedona Retreat Day Passes via Paradise & VibeLovergirl Trip SurveyCancer WalkIf you’re 21+, try VIIA! For 15% off AND a free gift with your first order head to viia.co/COCKTALES and use code COCKTALES! #viiaparterGo to brooklynbedding.com and use our promo code COCKTALES at checkout to get 30% off sitewide.💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off 🛒 Support the Show and Check Out Offers From Our Sponsors: Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off LifeRX.MD - Start your health journey today with LifeRX and use code COCKTALES at checkout for $50 off.  LIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE 🎥 Watch the full episode on YouTube – trust, the facial expressions alone are worth it. CockTales Channel on YouTube 📲 Follow Us:  Instagram: @cocktalespodcast  Instagram: @kikisaidso  Instagram: @coffeebeandean 🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper2 https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club: June Book of the Month "The Nothing Man" by Catherine Ryan Howard www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! www.paradiseandvibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 10 July 2025

This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, the girls are catching up post-Fourth of July with everything from real estate mommas and mansion parties to gun safety and self-care orgasms. Medinah’s planning a Lover Girls Only trip for the girls who are heartbroken but healing, while Kiki recaps her Houston weekend full of crawfish, concerts, and chaos. From vibrator confessions to gun safety courses, the girls reflect on growth, outside energy, and why healing is horny work. Links Mentioned: 💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZ🌵 Sedona Retreat Day Passes via Paradise & VibeLovergirl Trip SurveyCancer WalkVisit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off 🛒 Support the Show and Check Out Offers From Our Sponsors: Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off LifeRX.MD - Start your health journey today with LifeRX and use code COCKTALES at checkout for $50 off.  LIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE 🎥 Watch the full episode on YouTube – trust, the facial expressions alone are worth it. CockTales Channel on YouTube 📲 Follow Us:  Instagram: @cocktalespodcast  Instagram: @kikisaidso  Instagram: @coffeebeandean 🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper2 https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club: June Book of the Month "The Nothing Man" by Catherine Ryan Howard www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! www.paradiseandvibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 5 July 2025

This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, the girls are catching up post-Fourth of July with everything from real estate mommas and mansion parties to gun safety and self-care orgasms. Medinah’s planning a Lover Girls Only trip for the girls who are heartbroken but healing, while Kiki recaps her Houston weekend full of crawfish, concerts, and chaos. From vibrator confessions to gun safety courses, the girls reflect on growth, outside energy, and why healing is horny work. Links Mentioned: 💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZ🌵 Sedona Retreat Day Passes via Paradise & VibeLovergirl Trip SurveyCancer WalkVisit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off 🛒 Support the Show and Check Out Offers From Our Sponsors: Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off LifeRX.MD - Start your health journey today with LifeRX and use code COCKTALES at checkout for $50 off.  LIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE 🎥 Watch the full episode on YouTube – trust, the facial expressions alone are worth it. CockTales Channel on YouTube 📲 Follow Us:  Instagram: @cocktalespodcast  Instagram: @kikisaidso  Instagram: @coffeebeandean 🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper2 https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club: June Book of the Month "The Nothing Man" by Catherine Ryan Howard www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! www.paradiseandvibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 5 July 2025

This week we’re joined by the gorgeous and hilarious Kelsey Taylor — nurse practitioner, beauty expert, and injector of all things smooth and snatched. We’re talking cheating (yes, emotional cheating counts), dating disasters, and the wild line between insecurity and self-care. Kelsey spills about a man who went full stalker mode, how she got into the beauty industry, and why you absolutely need a licensed pro before letting anyone touch your face. We’re getting into: The difference between Botox and filler (because no, they’re not the same!)Why maintenance is everything — in beauty and relationshipsVaginal health, weird sex stories, and when your man moves in... uninvitedAnd yes, we said it: men are a luxury, not a necessity 💅🏾This is one for the girls, the glam, and the group chat. Hit play and pour up! Links Mentioned: 💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon📺 XO Man Podcast has launched! Watch episodes on @xoneoletv YouTube🎤 Listen anywhere you get your podcasts!🌵 Sedona Retreat Day Passes via Paradise & Vibe🫧 Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off👥  Practice love every day with Paired, the #1 app for couples. Download the app at https://www.paired.com/COCKTALES 🛒 Support the Show and Check Out Offers From Our Sponsors: 🫧 Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off 👥  Practice love every day with Paired, the #1 app for couples. Download the app at https://www.paired.com/COCKTALES 🎥 Watch the full episode on YouTube – trust, the facial expressions alone are worth it. CockTales Channel on YouTube 📲 Follow Us:  Instagram: @cocktalespodcast  Instagram: @kikisaidso  Instagram: @coffeebeandean Guest: @theinkednp 🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper2 https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club: June Book of the Month "The Nothing Man" by Catherine Ryan Howard www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! www.paradiseandvibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 19 June 2025

This week’s episode of CockTales: Dirty Discussions is an emotional rollercoaster with equal parts healing and hilarious. Kiki opens up about her new project xoMan Podcast, launching June 17th, and how she landed not just the hosting gig—but a producer credit too. Medinah shares her recent deep dive into celibacy, her new purpose-driven journey, and what it’s like to feel truly lonely again. There’s real talk on forever love, how our grandparents' marriages shaped our ideals, and why modern dating has us asking, “Where did the real men go?” Oh—and of course, there’s a surprise golden shower story. Yes, you read that right. Whether you’re in your healed girl era or still making mistakes for the plot, this one’s for you.  Topics Covered: Medinah’s celibacy update & unexpected lonelinessVolunteering with Meals on Wheels & giving backKiki’s XO Man Podcast announcement + favorite upcoming guestsReflections on forever love and generational relationshipsModern dating frustrations and “princess treatment” for men?!When your dress rips during an interview with David BannerTips for summer reading, affordable audiobook apps & library perksWeird Sex Story: A thunderclap headache and an unintentional golden showerCocktail of the Week: 🍸 Thirst Trappin’ 2 oz lime juice1 oz grapefruit juice0.5 oz elderflower liqueur or triple secDash of agaveTajín rim + lime wheel garnish Shake with ice, strain over fresh ice in a rocks glass.Links Mentioned: 💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon📺 XO Man Podcast launches Tuesday on audio platforms and Wednesdays on the @xoneoletv YouTube🌵 Sedona Retreat Day Passes via Paradise & Vibe💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off 🛒 Support the Show and Check Out Offers From Our Sponsors: LifeRX.MD - Start your health journey today with LifeRX and use code COCKTALES at checkout for $50 off.  LIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE 🎥 Watch the full episode on YouTube – trust, the facial expressions alone are worth it. CockTales Channel on YouTube 📲 Follow Us:  Instagram: @cocktalespodcast  Instagram: @kikisaidso  Instagram: @coffeebeandean 🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper2 https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club: June Book of the Month "The Nothing Man" by Catherine Ryan Howard www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! www.paradiseandvibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 12 June 2025

No guest this week, but we dive into birthday betrayals, petty payback, chaotic wax appointments, and why door-opening debates should never happen at the gym. Plus, we’re picking soft launch over sneaky link and maybe, just maybe, planning a little revenge brunch. 🛒 Support the Show and Check Out Offers From Our Sponsors: If you’re 21+, try VIIA! For 15% off AND a free gift with your first order head to viia.co/COCKTALES and use code COCKTALES! #viiaparter  Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES  for 10% off 🎥 Watch the full episode on YouTube – trust, the facial expressions alone are worth it. CockTales Channel on YouTube Link to Watch this Episode on YouTube 📲 Follow Us:  Instagram: @cocktalespodcast  Instagram: @kikisaidso  Instagram: @coffeebeandean 🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper2 https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club: June Book of the Month "The Nothing Man" by Catherine Ryan Howard www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! www.paradiseandvibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 5 June 2025

(00:00:00) Teaser (00:01:42) Cocktail of the Week- Heaux On the Rocks (00:02:45) Black Hair Woes & Braids (00:16:58) Brooklyn Bedding Code Cocktales (00:19:55) Family & Anxiousness (00:39:20) Vibe Fest in Sedona Aug 24-27 (00:40:33) Join Kiki's Book Club- June "The Nothing Man" (00:42:30) Weird Sex Segment- Sex Myths We Used To Believe (00:52:08) Main Discussion- Young Love (01:08:06) Indecisive Diane (01:08:55) Advice Segment (01:14:59) CockTales Segment We’re back! And this week’s episode of CockTales: Dirty Discussions has range, okay? From backshots and braids to funerals and family group pics, we cover it all. Kiki talks about heading to Louisiana a few hours after recording for her grandfather’s funeral and gives an update on the emotional rollercoaster that came with it (yes, grandma got her group photo and yes, it’s on YouTube). Meanwhile, Medinah just took her braids out in the most luxurious way and is deep in her "enjoy and romanticize every moment" era.  We’re talking young love, grown crushes, being a tender-headed Black girl just trying to function, and the ridiculous things we believed about sex back in the day. There’s also a new cocktail recipe (Heaux on the Rocks), a ridiculous listener confession, and of course, a little indecisive date suggestions from Diane. 🎥 Watch the full episode on YouTube – trust, the facial expressions alone are worth it. CockTales Channel on YouTube Link to Watch this Episode on YouTube 🛒 Support the Show and Check Out Offers From Our Sponsors: Go to BrooklynBedding.com and use our promo code COCKTALES at checkout to get 30% off sitewide - We all deserve a good night's rest! 📲 Follow Us:  Instagram: @cocktalespodcast  Instagram: @kikisaidso  Instagram: @coffeebeandean 🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper2 https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club: June Book of the Month "The Nothing Man" by Catherine Ryan Howard www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! www.paradiseandvibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 29 May 2025

This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, we’re grieving, horny, and apparently being touched by trees. Kiki and Medinah catch up on soft launches, Sedona plans, vibrator injuries, and the men sliding into DMs after baptism. Plus, they break down a listener letter involving baby mama drama and what desperation doesn’t look like at 30.  🛒 Sponsors: Get 10% off your order with code COCKTALES here: soakingwet.com LifeRX- Visit LifeRX.md and use code COCKTALES for a special discount on your health journey 📲 Follow Us:  Instagram: @cocktalespodcast  Instagram: @kikisaidso  Instagram: @coffeebeandean For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper2 https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club: May Book of the Month "Colliding With Fate" by A.E. Valdez www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! www.paradiseandvibe.com Purchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Topics: Cocktail of the Week: “The Soft Launch”Soft launching vs hard launching relationshipsMedinah’s plans for the Sedona retreat & Issa Rae interviewGetting styled like “Hot Girl Martha Stewart”A vibrator story gone wrongCan a tree spiritually touch you… or was that the wind?Baby mama chaos and what “for better or worse” really meansDealing with DMs post-baptism and setting spiritual boundariesWhy being single over 30 isn’t desperation — it’s discernmentKids with silver teeth, gentle parenting, and who’s gonna take care of us when we’re old Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 22 May 2025

In this heartfelt and hilarious episode, Kiki and Medinah are back in their original studio space catching up on life—both the beautiful and the hard parts. Kiki opens up about the recent passing of her grandfather, sharing intimate, funny, and touching memories that remind us how fleeting life can be. Medinah reflects on her trip to Pittsburgh for Mother's Day and the emotional rollercoaster of spending time with her grandmother, who’s battling dementia. The duo also dives into a trending quote from Marlon Wayans about not marrying because of his mom—and unpack the emotional and generational dynamics around “emotional incest,” legacy, and mother-in-law drama. Plus, why some old-school family values still matter, why fried catfish can cure anything (sorta), and a very necessary PSA on checking in on our elders. 🛒 Sponsors: Sign up for free and take your sales to the next level with 50% off a premium membership for sellers! Claim your discount now at pantydeal.com/cocktales 📲 Follow Us:  Instagram: @cocktalespodcast  Instagram: @kikisaidso  Instagram: @coffeebeandean For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper2 https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club: May Book of the Month "Colliding With Fate" by A.E. Valdez www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! www.paradiseandvibe.com Purchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Main Theme: Love, Loss, Legacy & Emotional Boundaries Topics Covered: Returning to their OG studio and why the change of scenery mattersKiki opens up about her grandfather's death and grieving in real timeMedinah shares stories from her emotional Mother’s Day trip to PittsburghNavigating dementia, caretaking, and the humor and heartbreak of family agingMeals on Wheels and the importance of community-based support for seniorsReactions to Marlon Wayans’ post about not marrying to protect his mom’s feelingsDeep dive into emotional incest, in-law boundaries, and generational shifts in family dynamicsNaomi & Ruth as a model for in-law relationshipsLegacy as impact—not just having kidsA peek into Medinah’s “Silver Tooth Children” horror movie concept (yes, really) Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 15 May 2025

This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, we’re breaking rules and wind 😅 Kiki and Medinah return to catch up on everything from bizarre fetishes to considering if they might be the toxic one in their love life. Tune in as they unpack Dutch ovens (the kinky kind), gym struggles, cravings, the “What Are We” pressure, and why intimacy without connection just isn’t hitting anymore. 🛒 Sponsors:  💊 Try LifeRX for weight loss, hormones, energy and more — use code COCKTALES for $50 off your first month: Try LifeRX by clicking here and use code Cocktales Try Soaking Wet from VBHealth - Use our code for a special discount! www.soakingwet.com USE CODE COCKTALES  If you’re 21+, try VIIA! For 15% off AND a free gift with your first order head to viia.co/COCKTALESand use code COCKTALES! #viiaparter 📲 Follow Us:  Instagram: @cocktalespodcast  Instagram: @kikisaidso  Instagram: @coffeebeandean For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper2 https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club: May Book of the Month "Colliding With Fate" by A.E. Valdez www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! www.paradiseandvibe.com Purchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! ⏱️ Timestamps:  0:00 – Welcome Back + Trip Updates  4:00 – Weird Sex Segment: Dutch Oven Gone Wrong  10:30 – Cravings, Workouts & Wellness Woes  17:00 – Kiki’s LifeRX Journey Begins  23:00 – Are YOU the Problem in Your Dating Life?  44:00 – Changing Relationship Rules  55:00 – Sex, Confusion, and Sitting with Feelings  1:03:00 – Emotional Honesty & Hormone Drama  1:10:00 – When Friends Overstep  1:20:00 – Kindness, Boundaries, and Grown Woman Choices Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 8 May 2025

(00:00:00) Intro Trailer (00:01:14) Turks & Coco Cocktail (00:03:08) Welcome Back (00:06:33) Worst Behavior Tour (00:07:15) Paradise + Vibe Trip (00:11:34) Weird Sex (00:17:03) Brooklyn Bedding Promo (00:22:40) Where Have We Been? (00:56:14) PantyDeal Promo (00:59:10) Girls Trip + Marriage Thoughts (01:08:19) Advice Segment (01:18:12) CockTales Segment Kiki and Medinah are back after a much-needed break and have a lot to catch up on—from barefoot birthday parties in Piedmont Park to wild moments in Curaçao, Chicago, and the club. Kiki shares updates on hosting a TV premiere, her sister’s wedding plans, and a scandalous Shannon Sharpe moment that made its way to “Weird Sex.” Plus, Medinah opens up about her baptism, and the ladies give advice on awkward mama moments and how to level up your Gawk Gawk game. 🛏️ Brooklyn Bedding – Get 30% off sitewide with code COCKTALES at brooklynbedding.com 💋 PantyDeal – Sign up for free and take your sales to the next level with 50% off a premium membership for sellers! Claim your discount now at pantydeal.com/cocktales.” For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads 📲 Instagram: @cocktalespodcast | @kikisaidso | @coffeebeandean Detailed Show Notes Topics Covered: Taking a much-needed break and grounding at Piedmont Park 🌱Travel recaps: Curaçao group trip, Chicago speaking engagement, and sister’s wedding prep in DallasHosting the Travel Queens TV premiere for BET HerMedinah’s baptism and emotional growthKiki on caregiving and advocating for Black men’s healthShannon Sharpe's scandal and a “Weird Sex” take on race play and discernment 🤨Listener advice: When your man tells your mama y’all exclusive (but forgot to tell you)A gym crush turns into a kinky 8AM hookup (Barbells & Bondage anyone?)Sponsors: Brooklyn Bedding 🛏️ + PantyDeal 💸 Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club-  https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Currently voting on May's Book Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com  What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The Quiz Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 1 May 2025

In this special episode, Kiki and Medinah sit down with AID Atlanta to talk all things HIV awareness, testing, and community care. From prevention to treatment to removing the stigma, this episode is packed with information every sexually active adult needs to hear.  Follow Us @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Follow AID Atlanta @aid_atlanta Episode Subtitle: Real Talk on HIV, Sex, and Self-Advocacy with AID Atlanta Topics Covered: The difference between HIV and AIDSHow transmission actually happens (spoiler: it's not just through sex)The life-changing impact of PrEP and PEPWhat it means to be undetectable and why U=U mattersBreaking down stigma and misconceptions (especially in Black and brown communities)Resources available at AID Atlanta — from testing and mental health services to support groups and volunteer opportunitiesWhy getting tested regularly should be part of your self-care routineHow community, support, and education can empower people living with HIVA candid sponsor break on Pantydeal — a sex-positive, anonymous, and safe way to make money online while exploring kinksResources & Links: 🌐 AID Atlanta Website: aidatlanta.org💬 Georgia HIV/STI Info Line: 1-800-551-2728 (anonymous)📍Free Testing Info: aidatlanta.org/testing📸 Follow AID Atlanta on IG: @aid_atlanta❤️ Support or Volunteer: aidatlanta.org/volunteerSign up for free and take your sales to the next level with 50% off a premium membership for sellers! Claim your discount now at pantydeal.com/cocktales 💻 Pantydeal.com/cocktales🎁 Use code COCKTALES to get 50% off a premium membership✅ Keep 100% of your profit | Totally online | Anonymous-friendly For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club-  https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso In April we're reading "The Personal Librarian" Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com  What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The Quiz Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 17 April 2025

This week, we’re shaking things up with The Affair — the cocktail, not your situationship (but if the shoe fits…). We’re joined by the fabulous matchmaker and intimacy expert Tana C. Gilmore, and let’s just say: she’s spilling all the tea on sexless marriages, spicy matchmaking secrets, and why living in separate states from your husband might just save your marriage and your sanity. We’re talking grown folks business — from side-eyes over the group chat to couples who haven’t had sex in 12 years (girl, yes, 12!). Tune in for laughs, lessons, and a reminder to charge your vibrator AND your emotional batteries. Follow Us @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Follow our guest @tanacgilmore Right now, Galatea is offering our listeners an extra 25% off on top of an already-irresistibly-affordable subscription when you go to www.GALATEA.COM/COCKTALES. If you’re 21+, try VIIA during their annual SPRING 420 SALE for Black Friday-level savings up to 35% OFF site wide! Go to https://viia.co/COCKTALES and use code COCKTALES! Check out ErikaLust.com and get 45% off your subscription with code COCKTALES45 www.erikalust.com For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club-  https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso In April we're reading "The Personal Librarian" Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com  What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The Quiz Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 11 April 2025

In this hilarious and unfiltered episode, Kiki and Medinah sit down with comedian Tee Sanders for a juicy conversation full of laughs, confessions, and a few wild surprises. Tee opens up about her healing journey back to Chicago, her love life as a self-proclaimed "collector of wounds" Gemini, and what really goes down in lesbian dating scenes. From crazy ex stories to high standards for 90s-fine women, they cover it all—including the truth about fake straight girls, air mattress hookups, and the seductive power of R&B playlists. Plus, the ladies play their favorite game I'm Curious to Know, and Tee drops gems about embracing vulnerability and healing past traumas. Pour up a Peach Please and get ready for a good time! Join Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.com Join Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com  Follow Us @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Follow our guest @teesanderscomedy For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club-  https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com  What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The Quiz Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 4 April 2025

This week on CockTales it's just us! We're catching up on life! Try VIIA! https://viia.co/COCKTALES and use code COCKTALES! Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get 15% off with promo code COCKTALES at LumeDeodorant.com! #lumepod Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get 15% off with promo code COCKTALES at LumeDeodorant.com! #lumepod Join Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.com Join Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com  Follow Us @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- February's Book- Reel, By Kennedy Ryan https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com  What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The Quiz Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 27 March 2025

This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, Kiki and Medinah welcome podcast queen Lex P from Pour Minds to sip the “Love Lexpie” and spill all the tea! From Lex P's new YouTube show to her love for entertainment news, the trio keeps it cute and candid. They dive into Love is Blind drama, Real Housewives mess, the power of platform-sharing, and laugh-out-loud confessions during “I’m Curious to Know.” This episode is a hilarious ride filled with gossip, game, and good vibes. Try Masterclass www.masterclass.com/cocktales for 15%off try Galatea www.galatea.com/cocktales Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get 15% off with promo code COCKTALES at LumeDeodorant.com! #lumepod Join Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.com Join Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com  Follow Us @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- February's Book- Reel, By Kennedy Ryan https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com  What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The Quiz Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 20 March 2025

This week, we get real about our 2025 glow-up plans — from fitness and fillers to spiritual sabbaticals and stepping back from dating. We talk walking pads, ClassPass adventures, and the fine art of subtle cosmetic upgrades. Plus, we read a wild cocktale submission featuring nipple clamps, butt plugs, and a short king with a long stroke. Tap in for the laughs, the real talk, and the cherry-flavored vibes. Try Masterclass www.masterclass.com/cocktales for 15%off Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get 15% off with promo code COCKTALES at LumeDeodorant.com! #lumepod Join Kiki In Curacao March 19-23- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.com Join Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com  Follow Us @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- February's Book- Reel, By Kennedy Ryan https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com  What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The Quiz Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 14 March 2025

Remember that time when seasickness almost ruined a yacht trip, but you ended up laughing so hard that it became one of your favorite memories? That's how we kick off our latest adventure, as we navigate the vibrant chaos of planning a tropical getaway. We've got everything mapped out, from the bliss of homemade peach cocktails that taste like summer romance to the thrill of exploring new places on ATVs and e-scooters. And let's not forget those culinary experiences, where a Caribbean cooking class awaits, catering to all dietary preferences. Whether you're a thrill-seeker or a foodie, there's enough excitement and relaxation to keep everyone entertained. As the conversation unfolds, we switch gears to discuss the more intimate side of relationships. Inspired by nostalgic hits from Lisa Lisa and Cult Jam, we explore how confidence can transform your love life. We draw insights from Shan Boodram and even share quirky tips on using jewelry to amplify sensual moments. It's all about quality over quantity, and we touch on how different body types can experiment for ultimate satisfaction. This naturally leads to a chat about relationship dynamics, where we dissect the complexities of a 50-50 split and how it evolves as we mature. Whether you're curious about poly matchmaking or just how to balance time and energy in your relationship, there's something here for every listener. Finally, we dive into the whirlwind of upcoming adventures and personal journeys. From fitness challenges that have us reminiscing about youthful vigor to the liberating atmosphere of Hedonism Resort, it's a mix of inspiration and anticipation. Wedding planning woes make an appearance, too, as we tackle guest etiquette and cultural nuances with humor and sincerity. Whether it’s managing the chaos of a Nigerian American wedding or finding a trustworthy pet sitter, we share practical insights to help you navigate these life events with grace. Tune in and join us for a blend of laughter, advice, and heartfelt stories that promise to entertain and enlighten. Download Feeld on the App Store or Google Play Try VIIA! https://viia.co/COCKTALES and use code COCKTALES! Try Masterclass www.masterclass.com/cocktales for 15%off Join Kiki In Curacao March 19-23- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.com Join Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com  Follow Us @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- February's Book- Reel, By Kennedy Ryan https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com  What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The Quiz Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 6 March 2025

This week, we're joined by Relationship Coach Dr. Stacii Jae Johnson. Dr. Stacii opens up about her transition from actress to host of "Put a Ring on It," sharing fascinating anecdotes from her acting days, including roles in "A Thin Line Between Love and Hate" and "How to Be a Player." Get a front-row seat to her personal family stories, where she reveals how her mother's heartbreaking experiences with love shaped her dedication to helping others break free from destructive relationship cycles. In this episode, we tackle the challenging task of breaking generational love patterns and the importance of self-awareness. Through engaging discussions and humorous tales, we explore everything from the humorous pitfalls of dating dynamics to the complexities of gender roles and financial expectations. Whether it's navigating the minefields of gift-giving or setting boundaries in relationships, we offer insights and laughter that resonate with anyone who has ever loved or lost. Finally, we dive into topics often left unexplored, such as ethical considerations in adult content and the emotional rollercoaster of wedding planning. Dr. Stacii shares her thoughts on building trust and authenticity in modern relationships, emphasizing the power of self-reflection and personal growth. Join us for a thought-provoking conversation that promises to enlighten, entertain, and inspire anyone on their own journey of love and self-discovery. Download Feeld on the App Store or Google Play Visit www.erikalust.com and use code COCKTALES45 for 45% off Visit www.galatea.com/cocktales and use code COCKTALES for 25% off  Join Kiki In Curacao March 19-23- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.com Join Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com  Try Feeld by downloading the Feeld app in the app store or Google play Follow Us @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Follow Our guest @bossbarbie1 https://www.sierraluchien.com/ For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- February's Book- Reel, By Kennedy Ryan https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com  What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The Quiz Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 28 February 2025

Can technology truly transform the way we navigate modern relationships? This week we're calling on the help of ChatGPT with some different dilemmas, have you tried this? Try Masterclass! Use our link for 15% off any annual membership.  www.masterclass.com/cocktales Download Feeld on the App Store or Google Play Join Kiki In Curacao March 19-23- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.com Join Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com  Try Feeld by downloading the Feeld app in the app store or Google play Follow Us @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Follow Our guest @bossbarbie1 https://www.sierraluchien.com/ For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- February's Book- Reel, By Kennedy Ryan https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com  What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The Quiz Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 21 February 2025

This week we're joined by Sierra Luchien. She shares her transformative story and insights from her book, "Don't Judge a Book by Its Cover." We kick off with a Judge Judy cocktail and dive into judgmental attitudes in dating, setting the stage for a blend of nostalgia and revelation. Boss Barbie takes us on a journey through her childhood, the significance of her name, and the transitions from youthful aspirations to navigating the intricate dynamics of trust and change in adult relationships. Alongside her, Ciara's incredible path from foster care to becoming an advocate for foster children enriches our discussion about the strength and resilience found in life's challenges. Explore the emotional layers of love and partnership through stories of resilience, intimate connections, and the healing power of community. We touch on moments of personal growth and the hurdles of balancing individual healing within committed relationships. Anecdotes of support during challenging times, whether through emotional presence or navigating health crises, highlight the multifaceted nature of love. Discover how Boss Barbie and Ciara turn adversity into empowerment, with Ciara opening foster homes to create nurturing environments for children, inspired by her own journey of finding solace and love in unexpected places. The narrative continues as we discuss the rollercoaster of co-parenting, the emotional intricacies of past relationships, and the significance of trust in partnerships. Personal stories of persistence and self-discovery underscore the importance of finding one's path amidst life's chaos. From navigating complex family dynamics to seeking stability in uncertain times, our conversations emphasize the value of honest communication and fostering hope. Tune in for a heartfelt exploration of personal transformations, the power of shared stories, and the lasting impact of building supportive communities. Join Kiki In Curacao March 19-23- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.com Join Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com  Try Feeld by downloading the Feeld app in the app store or Google play Follow Us @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean @bossbarbie1 For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- February's Book- Reel, By Kennedy Ryan https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The Quiz Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 13 February 2025

What if embracing your sexual desires could transform your life? Join us as we welcome Sir Leezus, a renowned kink expert with over 20 years of experience, who shares his journey of becoming a personal kink advisor, particularly for women seeking to rediscover their sensuality in their late 30s and 40s. Through enlightening anecdotes, Sir Leezus explains how normalizing conversations about kink can liberate individuals from the shackles of societal judgment and unsupportive relationships, encouraging them to explore their true sexual identities in a safe and validating space. Unravel the fascinating dynamics of lifestyle parties and alternative sexual expressions, as Sir Lisa's transports us to genderless gatherings where conventional norms are left at the door. With a candid look at personal preferences, from erotic content creation to BDSM, our discussion explores the art of shibari, the allure of extreme squirt porn, and the societal perceptions surrounding sex toys. Together, we highlight the beauty of communication and compatibility in intimate relationships, emphasizing the importance of meeting partners where they are, understanding boundaries, and celebrating the diversity of human sexual experiences with humor and openness. Finally, embrace the provocative world of foot worship, double penetration tips, and the art of erotic power exchange. Learn how confidence and energy can elevate sensual encounters, with Sir Lisa's providing insights on navigating kinks, setting boundaries, and maintaining professionalism in the sex industry. From the sensory delights of impact play to the nuances of BDSM, our conversation offers a bold exploration of intimacy, inviting listeners to challenge their preconceptions and explore new and adventurous expressions of desire. Lume Deodorant Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get 15% off with promo code COCKTALES at Lumedeodorant.com ! #lumepod  VIIA Try VIIA! https://viia.co/COCKTALES and use code COCKTALES!  Check Us Out Join Kiki In Curacao March 19-23- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.com Join Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com  For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- February's Book- Reel, By Kennedy Ryan https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The Quiz Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 6 February 2025

Ever wonder what it's like to veer from a strict diet and discover the crispy joy of bacon for the first time? Join us as we navigate the colorful world of Costa Rican culture and the unexpected delights it holds. Medinah Monroe returns from a transformative Costa Rican sabbatical, sharing her hot yoga retreat adventures with Paradise and Vibe amidst lush landscapes and vibrant wildlife. From savoring bacon to forming powerful connections, Medina's stories are filled with laughter and insight, highlighting the magic of personal growth when surrounded by nature's beauty. As the excitement of engagements and weddings fills the air, we revel in the humorous chaos of secret proposals and viral moments. Our conversations are peppered with stories of extravagant celebrations, like a legendary Galentine's Day party, where themed pajamas and a chef-prepared menu set the stage for unforgettable memories. Whether sharing a laugh over a walking pad mishap or spotting celebrities at the nail salon, the importance of staying connected and celebrating all forms of love remains a central theme. The episode also takes us on thrilling journeys of personal and professional growth. From reminiscing about Costa Rican surfing lessons to planning an upcoming retreat with surprise gifts, the anticipation is palpable as we embrace new adventures and connections. A venture into the world of celebrity interviews unveils the complexities of authenticity and content creation.  Join Kiki In Curacao March 19-23- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.com Join Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch (Next Drop Arrives December 2024) www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- January's Book- The Arrangement https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com What's Your Attachment Style Home?  Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 30 January 2025

This week Dr. Jameeka Banks captivates us with her incredible story of transformation from incarceration to becoming a beacon of hope and inspiration for many. Her journey reveals the profound impact of the law of attraction and self-care, all while maintaining a strong relationship with God. In our conversation, she emphasizes recognizing relationship red flags and challenges the notion of excusing poor character under the guise of grace. Together, we get into the joys of embracing personal growth, living life to the fullest, and the importance of self-awareness in breaking free from toxic patterns. Jameeka shares her career journey which has been fueled by her desire to break stereotypes and achieve her childhood dreams. As we toast to ambition and meaningful relationships, we highlight the power of connecting with other women and following one’s dreams despite societal constraints. Our discussion flows through intriguing explorations of relationships and gender roles, sprinkled with humor and candid insights into the irrationality of obsessive behaviors and unexpected places for expressing affection. We also discuss the vital role of self-reflection and setting boundaries in maintaining healthy relationships. Whether navigating the complexities of polyamorous relationships or reflecting on the impact of a challenging childhood, we emphasize the importance of effective communication, self-love, and forgiveness. Through laughter and heartfelt moments, and with a little cocktail, or a big one,  we invite listeners to recognize and heal toxic patterns, prioritize self-awareness, and ultimately transform adversity into positive change. Join Kiki In Curacao March 19-23- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.com Join Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com This week's cocktail recipe: The Working Woman Ingredients: Ice, cognac, lemon juice, simple syrup, bitters, sparkling wine, lemon peel Instructions: In a cocktail shaker add the ice, cognac, lemon juice, bitters & simple syrup. Secure the lid and shake vigorously until the outside of the shaker is frosty and cold. Strain the cocktail into a coupe glass and finish with the sparkling wine and lemon peel. Serve. For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch (Next Drop Arrives December 2024) www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- January's Book- The Arrangement https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 23 January 2025

Get ready for a cocktail of wit, wisdom, and whimsical fantasies as we welcome the insightful Ibbie, a seasoned dating coach and licensed therapist, who takes us from her bartending days to mastering the complexities of modern romance. Our episode kicks off with the "Situationship" cocktail, perfect for exploring the intricate dance of love languages and relationship choices. From the eternal question of choosing between wealth and availability to navigating hair styling dilemmas for an exciting Curacao trip, we promise a rollercoaster of engaging discussions and personal anecdotes. The fun doesn't stop there! You might find yourself laughing out loud as we uncover quirky sexual fantasies involving unlikely icons like Dr. Phil and Steve Harvey, alongside a nostalgic nod to the legendary talk shows of yesteryear. We also dive into the world of attachment styles, blending humor with heartfelt stories about the nuances of relationships. Whether it’s through the eyes of a ‘runaway bride’ or a discussion on childhood experiences shaping our adult connections, we offer both laughter and insight. As we wind down, we address the poignant challenges of grief in relationships, offering advice to listeners who might be supporting a partner through tough times. Through candid anecdotes, we highlight the importance of patience and understanding in these delicate moments. Our exploration of dating, self-awareness, and the balance of delusion will leave you pondering the intricacies of love and connection. With Ibi's expert insights and our relatable stories, this episode promises a tapestry of humor, heartfelt exploration, and plenty of food for thought. Interested in being a guest?  Please contact [email protected] and include your information, what makes you an interesting guest, and any relavant links! Join Kiki In Curacao March 19-23- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch (Next Drop Arrives December 2024) www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- January's Book- The Arrangement https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 16 January 2025

Join Kiki In Curacao- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Try VIIA! https://bit.ly/viiacocktales and use code COCKTALES! Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get 15% off with promo code COCKTALES at Lumepodcast.com/COCKTALES! #lumepod For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch (Next Drop Arrives December 2024) www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- December's Book- The Boyfriend https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 9 January 2025

This episode isn't just about new year resolutions; it's about celebrating small victories and the courage to face life's unexpected challenges. We highlight how overcoming fear and embracing change can lead to profound personal growth. Weird sex heads to the VA with a scandalous tale from a VA facility, reminding us all to "SAY NO TO COWORKERS!" The teachings from the Women Evolve conference and insights from Abraham Hicks offer valuable perspectives on spiritual growth, relationships, and the power of self-awareness for Medinah.  For Kiki, looking forward to all the new opportunities that she can't wait to announce and her sex drive has finally come back.  Listen to the full episode to get an OG CockTale...it's been 84 years lol! We also tackle the emotional complexities of relationships, particularly understanding and appreciating men's emotional needs. Navigating the intricacies of dating someone with children, we emphasize the importance of setting boundaries and recognizing personal limits. With a blend of humor and authenticity, we share stories of personal misadventures, from high love gummies to unexpected romantic encounters. As we move forward into the new year, we encourage our listeners to embrace personal evolution with optimism and gratitude, always supporting loved ones through life's unpredictable moments. Join Kiki In Curacao- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Visit www.soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch (Next Drop Arrives December 2024) www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- December's Book- The Boyfriend https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 2 January 2025

Koereylle from the "Girl Stop Playing" podcast stops by to share her inspiring journey from a workaholic mindset to one of personal growth and fulfillment. We dive into her transition from the "Confessions of a Workaholic" podcast and how her past venture, the Single Wives Club, led her to her husband and a happier marriage. Koereylle offers valuable insights into balancing career ambitions with personal goals, and we explore how meaningful conversations can be sparked using a fun game called "I'm Curious to Know." Get ready for some festive cheer as we whip up a Snow Globe Margarita that dazzles both in taste and presentation. Perfect for the holiday season, this cocktail combines white cranberry juice, lime juice, tequila, and a sprinkle of edible glitter, served whimsically in a clear, fillable ornament. For those who prefer a booze-free version, sparkling water does the trick. The addition of a rosemary sprig brings a festive nod to Christmas trees, ensuring your holiday gatherings are both merry and bright. We navigate a multitude of relationship dynamics, from traditional gender roles and the etiquette of texting exes during the holidays, to the art of regifting and the complexities of non-committed relationships. Listen in for lively discussions on everything from the ethics of re-gifting to the spicy tales of holiday party escapades. The episode wraps up with a heartwarming engagement story set against the early pandemic's backdrop, illustrating love's resilience and creativity. Whether you're here for the cocktails or the candid chats, there's something to engage everyone. Follow Us! @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Follow Our Guest @koereyelle Join Kiki In Curacao- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Medinah in ICosta Rica- www.paradiseandvibe.com For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch (Next Drop Arrives December 2024) www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- December's Book- The Boyfriend https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 26 December 2024

Join us as we kick off with the Red Ribbon Refresher, a mocktail recipe that's perfect for anyone not wanting to wake up with a hangover. Our conversation flows through the quirks of communication and social media, peppered with the joy of sisterhood and the ongoing saga of allergies. TikTok, you're next on our exploration list, and we might just need some help keeping up with the trends! Reality TV aficionados, this one's for you. We express a longing for the glamorous days of reality TV's past and brainstorm fresh concepts that could shake up today's scene. From the working women series to influencer content battles, we offer a playful peek into potential new shows, speculating on celebrity participants like Britney Renner. With casting secrets and show premises that leave jaws dropping, the discussion meanders through the behind-the-scenes chaos, painting a vivid picture of the reality TV world that’s rarely seen by the public eye. Navigating the minefield of modern relationships? We've got insights ranging from dating in your twenties to the delicate dance of maintaining friendships with children when adult relationships falter. Whether it's the expectations of stay-at-home partnerships, the allure and pitfalls of social media romance, or the ethical dilemmas within prison romances, our reflections are both humorous and heartfelt. Tune in for a thoughtful exploration that encourages intentionality and self-discovery, all wrapped up in engaging storytelling and genuine camaraderie. Try VIIA! https://bit.ly/viiacocktales and use code COCKTALES! Try Soaking Wet! Visit www.soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES  Join Kiki In Curacao- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Medinah in ICosta Rica- www.paradiseandvibe.com For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch (Next Drop Arrives December 2024) www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- December's Book- The Boyfriend https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 19 December 2024

This week we discuess weird kinks, family time, and answer an interesting listener email about her man judging and slut shaming her!   Try VIIA! https://bit.ly/viiacocktales and use code COCKTALES! From 12/13-12/18 get Free 2-Day Shipping on orders $150+ and an additional 10% off when using our code COCKTALES10 https://oseamalibu.com/collections/skincare-sets-1?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=influencer&utm_campaign=122024_HolidayEVG_COCKTALES Join Kiki In Curacao- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Medinah in ICosta Rica- www.paradiseandvibe.com For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch (Next Drop Arrives December 2024) www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- December's Book- The Boyfriend https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 12 December 2024

We dive into personal reflections this week, underscoring the value of patience and thankfulness for life's little triumphs. These moments serve as a reminder of the importance of embracing who we are and the journey we've embarked on. We wrap things up with an exploration of vulnerability in the digital age, examining the courage it takes to share one's struggles while maintaining a sense of privacy. Insights on managing anxiety and self-perception during high-pressure situations pave the way for tales of romantic entanglements and self-empowerment. Follow Us  @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Over 2 Million Butts Love TUSHY. Save BIG at https://hellotushy.com/cocktales Visit soakingwet.com and use code "COCKTALES” for 10% off  Join Kiki In Curacao- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Medinah in ICosta Rica- www.paradiseandvibe.com For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch (Next Drop Arrives December 2024) www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- October's Book- The Stillwater Girls https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 5 December 2024

What happens when you blend coconut rum, lime juice, lavender syrup, and Prosecco Rosé? You get the delicious Velvet Sunset cocktail, a perfect companion for our lively chat with Veronica Torres, an Atlanta-based lash tech and avid listener of our show. Veronica shares her inspiring journey from North Carolina to Atlanta while we sip our way through her story and the serendipity of discovering our podcast through her sister. Her vibrant personality and unique perspective make this listener appreciation episode one for the books, as we bond over shared memes and laughter. Relationships are a complex dance of boundaries and love languages, and we're not shying away from the tough topics. We dive into the importance of understanding one's love language and how it evolves over time, discussing how to strike a balance between quality time and personal space with your partner. From weekend getaways to heart-to-heart conversations, we explore how road trips and adventures can either strengthen or challenge bonds, offering a unique lens on the ever-changing nature of love and connection. From the varied world of cultural cuisines to the quirks of personal grooming, this episode is a colorful tapestry of experiences and insights. We tackle topics like unusual fetishes and the journey of self-love and validation, emphasizing the importance of open communication in all relationships. With personal stories of overcoming trauma and breaking negative cycles for the sake of our children, we encourage listeners to focus on building supportive communities and setting positive examples. Join us for a heartfelt conversation packed with laughs, lessons, and a whole lot of love. Try out OSEA and use code COCKTALES: https://oseamalibu.com/pages/black-friday-2024?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=influencer&utm_campaign=112024_BFCM_CocktalesDirtyDiscussion Follow Us  @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Follow Our Guest @timelessacademyatl Visit soakingwet.com and use code "COCKTALES” for 10% off   Try VIIA! https://bit.ly/viiacocktales and use code COCKTALES! Join Kiki In Curacao- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Medinah in ICosta Rica- www.paradiseandvibe.com For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch (Next Drop Arrives December 2024) www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- October's Book- The Stillwater Girls https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 30 November 2024

Renowned author Elizabeth Gilbert, famously known for "Eat, Pray, Love," graces our live studio audience with her vibrant presence. The episode kicks off with a mocktail inspired by her iconic book, setting the stage for a heartfelt conversation about courage and personal growth. Elizabeth's stories from transformative wellness retreats in dreamy locales and her own journey to discovering more about herself from how she loves, to how her behavior in love lead to her realization of her addiction. Her story inspires us to embrace new experiences with open arms and hearts. We journey through the tangled web of relationships, exploring everything from soul ties and love addiction to the trials of gift-giving and unexpected life changes. Our discussion uncovers the joys and pains of seeking validation, the societal imbalances in relationships, and the profound impact of spirituality and recovery in overcoming addiction. Personal anecdotes and insightful reflections reveal the complex dance between love, addiction, and personal transformation, highlighting the importance of inner strength and self-respect. The episode concludes with a focus on healing practices, both spiritual and practical. Elizabeth shares her ongoing passion for travel and introduces her "Letters from Love" series, encouraging us to engage with ourselves through self-written love letters. A heartfelt farewell to our audience, sprinkled with gratitude and warmth, wraps up this enlightening episode. Join us for a ride through laughter, introspection, and a myriad of heartfelt moments that promise to leave you inspired and empowered. Follow Us  @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Follow Our Guest @elizabeth_gilbert_writer Visit soakingwet.com and use code "COCKTALES” for 10% off   Try VIIA! https://bit.ly/viiacocktales and use code COCKTALES! Join Kiki In Curacao- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Medinah in ICosta Rica- www.paradiseandvibe.com For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch (Next Drop Arrives December 2024) www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- October's Book- The Stillwater Girls https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 21 November 2024

Picture this: after a whirlwind year of dating, I found myself walking down the aisle, embarking on a marriage that has now spanned a decade. What kept us strong? Accountability, personal growth, and a knack for making conscious relationship decisions. This episode kicks off with a deep dive into being single and the importance of self-awareness before plunging into the dating pool. We even share a delightful cocktail recipe, Miss Rosa's Margarita, ensuring you get your rose water from the kitchen, not the bathroom cabinet! Bringing laughter and insight to our discussions, comedian Mario Tory joins us to share his vibrant perspective on marriage, family life, and the everyday comedy that comes with raising kids. We explore the rollercoaster of emotions and challenges in maintaining a marriage, laced with the joy and humor that Mario brings to his Atlanta life. And let's not forget the lighter side of parenting—whether you're an active aunt or uncle, or navigating the complexities of blended family dynamics, there's plenty of food for thought and giggles along the way. Ever wondered how personal grooming quirks or the infamous "icks" play into dating and relationships? We tackle these topics head-on, from the societal pressures of appearance to the humorous realities of dating surprises. We dive into the world of fantasies, societal expectations, and the importance of finding a partner who shares your adventurous spirit. And in a candid twist, we even offer some sex advice and tips on rebooting relationships, sprinkled with wild adventures that remind us of the thrills of keeping romance alive. So grab your Miss Rosa's Margarita and join us on this journey of laughter, love, and the realities of relationships. Follow Us  @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean  Try VIIA! https://bit.ly/viiacocktales and use code COCKTALES! Join Kiki In Curacao- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Medinah in ICosta Rica- www.paradiseandvibe.com For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch (Next Drop Arrives December 2024) www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- October's Book- The Stillwater Girls https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 14 November 2024

Kicking things off with a cocktail that’s bound to be the talk of your Thanksgiving table, we give you the Thankful Margarita, a festive blend of tequila, Grand Marnier, lime juice, simple syrup, and a splash of Prosecco. Meanwhile, Kiki Said So and Medinah Monroe catch up on their eventful Thursdays, sharing tales of meetings, dinner outings, and a few memorable chaotic situations!  Whether it's the sharp-tongued humor of a niece or the surprising demands of being a dog mom, the importance of humor and open communication weaves through each story, offering a lighthearted look at the chaos and joy of everyday interactions. The episode takes a whimsical turn as we imagine eyebrow aesthetics and brainstorm fashion innovations like glasses that don’t smudge makeup. From quirky dog stories to the transformative power of sexual escapades, it’s a whirlwind of topics wrapped in humor and reflection. Whether you're tuning in for laughs, insights into relationship dynamics, an escape from what's going in America after the election, or just a fresh perspective on life's adventures, this episode promises a delightful mix that’s sure to entertain and inspire. So, grab your Thankful Margarita, sit back, and let us take you on a journey through the vibrant tapestry of life’s many facets.  Follow Us  @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for a special discount! Join Kiki In Curacao- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Medinah in ICosta Rica- www.paradiseandvibe.com For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch (Next Drop Arrives December 2024) www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- October's Book- The Stillwater Girls https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Purchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 7 November 2024

Not all is sugar and spice; we dip our toes into serious waters with discussions on relationship fears and challenges. From navigating love's rocky terrain to addressing toxic friendships, we open up about personal insecurities and the importance of open communication. Whether it's confronting a partner's hidden truths or grappling with commitment fears, the essence is finding authenticity in relationships. And for those puzzling over friendship dilemmas or toxic ties, we've got anecdotes, advice, and a touch of humor to guide you through. So, pour yourself a glass of Pennywise Punch and join us for this heartfelt, laughter-filled journey. We've brewed up this delightful cocktail, "Pennywise Punch", with vanilla vodka and white chocolate liqueur, perfect for those seeking a spirited affair this spooky season. Grab your cocktail shaker as we share some tips for crafting this drink, including creative twists for our lactose-intolerant friends. Download Feeld on the App Store or Google Play Follow Us  @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Join Kiki In Curacao- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Medinah in Iceland or Costa Rica- www.paradiseandvibe.com For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Follow Us  @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Join Us On Our Travels: Curacao with Kiki's Travel Tribe  https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Iceland & Costa Rica with Medinah & Paradise + Vibe https://paradiseandvibe.com/ Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch (Next Drop Arrives December 2024) www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- October's Book- The Stillwater Girls https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Purchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 31 October 2024

Visit www.soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES Download Feeld on the App Store or Google Play Follow Us  @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Join Kiki In Curacao- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Medinah in Iceland or Costa Rica- www.paradiseandvibe.com For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Follow Us  @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Join Us On Our Travels: Curacao with Kiki's Travel Tribe  https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Iceland & Costa Rica with Medinah & Paradise + Vibe https://paradiseandvibe.com/ Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- October's Book- The Stillwater Girls https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Purchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 24 October 2024

This week Kemi Nekvapil joins us and schools on the gift of asking. Asking for help is a vital skill that many people struggle with, often due to the fear of appearing weak or being a burden to others. In this episode Kemi Nekvapil, the author of The Gift of Asking, discusses this in depth, highlighting the emotional and psychological barriers that prevent individuals from reaching out for support. Follow our guest: @keminekvapil Follow Us  @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Join Kiki In Curacao- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Medinah in Iceland or Costa Rica- www.paradiseandvibe.com For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Follow Us  @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Join Us On Our Travels: Curacao with Kiki's Travel Tribe  https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Iceland & Costa Rica with Medinah & Paradise + Vibe https://paradiseandvibe.com/ Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- October's Book- The Stillwater Girls https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Purchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 17 October 2024

This week, we had the pleasure of hosting Shahem Mclaurin, a licensed therapist and social worker who focuses on trauma and patriarchy-impacted individuals. Shahem shared his expertise on the impact of patriarchy on both men and women, explaining how societal norms that center around men can be harmful to everyone. He emphasized the importance of emotional attunement and the ability to fully feel and process one's emotions. We discussed the challenges men face in seeking therapy and the common criticisms Shahem encounters in his work, particularly from men who feel that women are not held accountable in the same way. Try VIIA! https://bit.ly/viiacocktales  and use code COCKTALES! Try JoyMode by visiting www.joymode.com and use code COCKTALES Follow our guest: @5hahem Follow Us  @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean We're inviting you all to a live studio recording with special guest Elizabeth Gilbert.  Grab your tickets now Purchase Tickets by Clicking Here Join Kiki In Curacao- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Medinah in Iceland or Costa Rica- www.paradiseandvibe.com Murder Mystery Dinner- https://boxwoodsocialhall.com/single-event/till-death-do-us-part-a-murder-mystery-wedding/ For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Follow Us  @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Join Us On Our Travels: Curacao with Kiki's Travel Tribe  https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Iceland & Costa Rica with Medinah & Paradise + Vibe https://paradiseandvibe.com/ Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- September's Book- This Could Be Us By Kennedy Ryan- https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Purchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 11 October 2024

This week, we're joined by comedian Kelly Kellz. She shares how her comedy career began with someone daring her to try comedy, and we're so glad they did because she is hilarious. Tune in for this episode full of funny dating mishaps, what it's like being married for so long and working with your spouse, and so much more! Try JoyMode by visiting www.joymode.com and use code COCKTALES Follow our guest: @kellykellz_22 Follow Us  @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean We're inviting you all to a live studio recording with special guest Elizabeth Gilbert.  Grab your tickets now Purchase Tickets by Clicking Here Join Kiki In Curacao- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Joine Medinah in Iceland or Costa Rica- www.paradiseandvibe.com Murder Mystery Dinner- https://boxwoodsocialhall.com/single-event/till-death-do-us-part-a-murder-mystery-wedding/ For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Follow Us  @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Join Us On Our Travels: Curacao with Kiki's Travel Tribe  https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Iceland & Costa Rica with Medinah & Paradise + Vibe https://paradiseandvibe.com/ Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- September's Book- This Could Be Us By Kennedy Ryan- https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Purchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 3 October 2024

This week, Simone Henderson joins us on CockTales Dirty Discussions. Saving yourself for love isn't as common today as maybe it once was. And Simone shares her experience growing up in a strict household and not losing her virginity until 23. She also talks about her experiences dating online and what she's looking for in love! Try JoyMode by visiting www.joymode.com and use code COCKTALES Follow our guest @simone_henderson Follow Us  @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean We're inviting you all to a live studio recording with special guest Elizabeth Gilbert.  Grab your tickets now Purchase Tickets by Clicking Here Join Kiki In Curacao- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Joine Medinah in Iceland or Costa Rica- www.paradiseandvibe.com Murder Mystery Dinner- https://boxwoodsocialhall.com/single-event/till-death-do-us-part-a-murder-mystery-wedding/ For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Follow Us  @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Join Us On Our Travels: Curacao with Kiki's Travel Tribe  https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Iceland & Costa Rica with Medinah & Paradise + Vibe https://paradiseandvibe.com/ Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- September's Book- This Could Be Us By Kennedy Ryan- https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Purchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 26 September 2024

This week on CockTales, Kiki Said So and Medinah Monroe are back with a special guest, Brittany Dent, an Atlanta native and comedian. We talk about her journey with comedy, finding the right guy, and staying in delulu-land for far too long. Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off We're inviting you all to a live studio recording with special guest Elizabeth Gilbert. Grab your tickets now Purchase Tickets by Clicking Here For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Follow Us @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Join Us On Our Travels: Curacao with Kiki's Travel Tribe https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Iceland & Costa Rica with Medinah & Paradise + Vibe https://paradiseandvibe.com/ Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club- September's Book- This Could Be Us By Kennedy Ryan- https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Purchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 19 September 2024