CockTales: Dirty Discussions

(00:00:00) Intro Trailer (00:01:14) Turks & Coco Cocktail (00:03:08) Welcome Back (00:06:33) Worst Behavior Tour (00:07:15) Paradise + Vibe Trip (00:11:34) Weird Sex (00:17:03) Brooklyn Bedding Promo (00:22:40) Where Have We Been? (00:56:14) PantyDeal Promo (00:59:10) Girls Trip + Marriage Thoughts (01:08:19) Advice Segment (01:18:12) CockTales Segment Kiki and Medinah are back after a much-needed break and have a lot to catch up on—from barefoot birthday parties in Piedmont Park to wild moments in Curaçao, Chicago, and the club. Kiki shares updates on hosting a TV premiere, her sister’s wedding plans, and a scandalous Shannon Sharpe moment that made its way to “Weird Sex.” Plus, Medinah opens up about her baptism, and the ladies give advice on awkward mama moments and how to level up your Gawk Gawk game. 🛏️ Brooklyn Bedding – Get 30% off sitewide with code COCKTALES at brooklynbedding.com 💋 PantyDeal – Sign up for free and take your sales to the next level with 50% off a premium membership for sellers! Claim your discount now at pantydeal.com/cocktales.” For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads 📲 Instagram: @cocktalespodcast | @kikisaidso | @coffeebeandean Detailed Show Notes Topics Covered: Taking a much-needed break and grounding at Piedmont Park 🌱Travel recaps: Curaçao group trip, Chicago speaking engagement, and sister’s wedding prep in DallasHosting the Travel Queens TV premiere for BET HerMedinah’s baptism and emotional growthKiki on caregiving and advocating for Black men’s healthShannon Sharpe's scandal and a “Weird Sex” take on race play and discernment 🤨Listener advice: When your man tells your mama y’all exclusive (but forgot to tell you)A gym crush turns into a kinky 8AM hookup (Barbells & Bondage anyone?)Sponsors: Brooklyn Bedding 🛏️ + PantyDeal 💸 Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club-  https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Currently voting on May's Book Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com  What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The Quiz Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 1 May 2025

In this special episode, Kiki and Medinah sit down with AID Atlanta to talk all things HIV awareness, testing, and community care. From prevention to treatment to removing the stigma, this episode is packed with information every sexually active adult needs to hear.  Follow Us @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Follow AID Atlanta @aid_atlanta Episode Subtitle: Real Talk on HIV, Sex, and Self-Advocacy with AID Atlanta Topics Covered: The difference between HIV and AIDSHow transmission actually happens (spoiler: it's not just through sex)The life-changing impact of PrEP and PEPWhat it means to be undetectable and why U=U mattersBreaking down stigma and misconceptions (especially in Black and brown communities)Resources available at AID Atlanta — from testing and mental health services to support groups and volunteer opportunitiesWhy getting tested regularly should be part of your self-care routineHow community, support, and education can empower people living with HIVA candid sponsor break on Pantydeal — a sex-positive, anonymous, and safe way to make money online while exploring kinksResources & Links: 🌐 AID Atlanta Website: aidatlanta.org💬 Georgia HIV/STI Info Line: 1-800-551-2728 (anonymous)📍Free Testing Info: aidatlanta.org/testing📸 Follow AID Atlanta on IG: @aid_atlanta❤️ Support or Volunteer: aidatlanta.org/volunteerSign up for free and take your sales to the next level with 50% off a premium membership for sellers! Claim your discount now at pantydeal.com/cocktales 💻 Pantydeal.com/cocktales🎁 Use code COCKTALES to get 50% off a premium membership✅ Keep 100% of your profit | Totally online | Anonymous-friendly For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club-  https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso In April we're reading "The Personal Librarian" Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com  What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The Quiz Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 17 April 2025

This week, we’re shaking things up with The Affair — the cocktail, not your situationship (but if the shoe fits…). We’re joined by the fabulous matchmaker and intimacy expert Tana C. Gilmore, and let’s just say: she’s spilling all the tea on sexless marriages, spicy matchmaking secrets, and why living in separate states from your husband might just save your marriage and your sanity. We’re talking grown folks business — from side-eyes over the group chat to couples who haven’t had sex in 12 years (girl, yes, 12!). Tune in for laughs, lessons, and a reminder to charge your vibrator AND your emotional batteries. Follow Us @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Follow our guest @tanacgilmore Right now, Galatea is offering our listeners an extra 25% off on top of an already-irresistibly-affordable subscription when you go to www.GALATEA.COM/COCKTALES. If you’re 21+, try VIIA during their annual SPRING 420 SALE for Black Friday-level savings up to 35% OFF site wide! Go to https://viia.co/COCKTALES and use code COCKTALES! Check out ErikaLust.com and get 45% off your subscription with code COCKTALES45 www.erikalust.com For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club-  https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso In April we're reading "The Personal Librarian" Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com  What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The Quiz Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 11 April 2025

In this hilarious and unfiltered episode, Kiki and Medinah sit down with comedian Tee Sanders for a juicy conversation full of laughs, confessions, and a few wild surprises. Tee opens up about her healing journey back to Chicago, her love life as a self-proclaimed "collector of wounds" Gemini, and what really goes down in lesbian dating scenes. From crazy ex stories to high standards for 90s-fine women, they cover it all—including the truth about fake straight girls, air mattress hookups, and the seductive power of R&B playlists. Plus, the ladies play their favorite game I'm Curious to Know, and Tee drops gems about embracing vulnerability and healing past traumas. Pour up a Peach Please and get ready for a good time! Join Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.com Join Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com  Follow Us @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Follow our guest @teesanderscomedy For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club-  https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com  What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The Quiz Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 4 April 2025

This week on CockTales it's just us! We're catching up on life! Try VIIA! https://viia.co/COCKTALES and use code COCKTALES! Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get 15% off with promo code COCKTALES at LumeDeodorant.com! #lumepod Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get 15% off with promo code COCKTALES at LumeDeodorant.com! #lumepod Join Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.com Join Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com  Follow Us @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- February's Book- Reel, By Kennedy Ryan https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com  What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The Quiz Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 27 March 2025

This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, Kiki and Medinah welcome podcast queen Lex P from Pour Minds to sip the “Love Lexpie” and spill all the tea! From Lex P's new YouTube show to her love for entertainment news, the trio keeps it cute and candid. They dive into Love is Blind drama, Real Housewives mess, the power of platform-sharing, and laugh-out-loud confessions during “I’m Curious to Know.” This episode is a hilarious ride filled with gossip, game, and good vibes. Try Masterclass www.masterclass.com/cocktales for 15%off try Galatea www.galatea.com/cocktales Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get 15% off with promo code COCKTALES at LumeDeodorant.com! #lumepod Join Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.com Join Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com  Follow Us @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- February's Book- Reel, By Kennedy Ryan https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com  What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The Quiz Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 20 March 2025

This week, we get real about our 2025 glow-up plans — from fitness and fillers to spiritual sabbaticals and stepping back from dating. We talk walking pads, ClassPass adventures, and the fine art of subtle cosmetic upgrades. Plus, we read a wild cocktale submission featuring nipple clamps, butt plugs, and a short king with a long stroke. Tap in for the laughs, the real talk, and the cherry-flavored vibes. Try Masterclass www.masterclass.com/cocktales for 15%off Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get 15% off with promo code COCKTALES at LumeDeodorant.com! #lumepod Join Kiki In Curacao March 19-23- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.com Join Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com  Follow Us @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- February's Book- Reel, By Kennedy Ryan https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com  What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The Quiz Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 14 March 2025

Remember that time when seasickness almost ruined a yacht trip, but you ended up laughing so hard that it became one of your favorite memories? That's how we kick off our latest adventure, as we navigate the vibrant chaos of planning a tropical getaway. We've got everything mapped out, from the bliss of homemade peach cocktails that taste like summer romance to the thrill of exploring new places on ATVs and e-scooters. And let's not forget those culinary experiences, where a Caribbean cooking class awaits, catering to all dietary preferences. Whether you're a thrill-seeker or a foodie, there's enough excitement and relaxation to keep everyone entertained. As the conversation unfolds, we switch gears to discuss the more intimate side of relationships. Inspired by nostalgic hits from Lisa Lisa and Cult Jam, we explore how confidence can transform your love life. We draw insights from Shan Boodram and even share quirky tips on using jewelry to amplify sensual moments. It's all about quality over quantity, and we touch on how different body types can experiment for ultimate satisfaction. This naturally leads to a chat about relationship dynamics, where we dissect the complexities of a 50-50 split and how it evolves as we mature. Whether you're curious about poly matchmaking or just how to balance time and energy in your relationship, there's something here for every listener. Finally, we dive into the whirlwind of upcoming adventures and personal journeys. From fitness challenges that have us reminiscing about youthful vigor to the liberating atmosphere of Hedonism Resort, it's a mix of inspiration and anticipation. Wedding planning woes make an appearance, too, as we tackle guest etiquette and cultural nuances with humor and sincerity. Whether it’s managing the chaos of a Nigerian American wedding or finding a trustworthy pet sitter, we share practical insights to help you navigate these life events with grace. Tune in and join us for a blend of laughter, advice, and heartfelt stories that promise to entertain and enlighten. Download Feeld on the App Store or Google Play Try VIIA! https://viia.co/COCKTALES and use code COCKTALES! Try Masterclass www.masterclass.com/cocktales for 15%off Join Kiki In Curacao March 19-23- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.com Join Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com  Follow Us @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- February's Book- Reel, By Kennedy Ryan https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com  What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The Quiz Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 6 March 2025

This week, we're joined by Relationship Coach Dr. Stacii Jae Johnson. Dr. Stacii opens up about her transition from actress to host of "Put a Ring on It," sharing fascinating anecdotes from her acting days, including roles in "A Thin Line Between Love and Hate" and "How to Be a Player." Get a front-row seat to her personal family stories, where she reveals how her mother's heartbreaking experiences with love shaped her dedication to helping others break free from destructive relationship cycles. In this episode, we tackle the challenging task of breaking generational love patterns and the importance of self-awareness. Through engaging discussions and humorous tales, we explore everything from the humorous pitfalls of dating dynamics to the complexities of gender roles and financial expectations. Whether it's navigating the minefields of gift-giving or setting boundaries in relationships, we offer insights and laughter that resonate with anyone who has ever loved or lost. Finally, we dive into topics often left unexplored, such as ethical considerations in adult content and the emotional rollercoaster of wedding planning. Dr. Stacii shares her thoughts on building trust and authenticity in modern relationships, emphasizing the power of self-reflection and personal growth. Join us for a thought-provoking conversation that promises to enlighten, entertain, and inspire anyone on their own journey of love and self-discovery. Download Feeld on the App Store or Google Play Visit www.erikalust.com and use code COCKTALES45 for 45% off Visit www.galatea.com/cocktales and use code COCKTALES for 25% off  Join Kiki In Curacao March 19-23- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.com Join Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com  Try Feeld by downloading the Feeld app in the app store or Google play Follow Us @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Follow Our guest @bossbarbie1 https://www.sierraluchien.com/ For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- February's Book- Reel, By Kennedy Ryan https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com  What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The Quiz Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 28 February 2025

Can technology truly transform the way we navigate modern relationships? This week we're calling on the help of ChatGPT with some different dilemmas, have you tried this? Try Masterclass! Use our link for 15% off any annual membership.  www.masterclass.com/cocktales Download Feeld on the App Store or Google Play Join Kiki In Curacao March 19-23- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.com Join Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com  Try Feeld by downloading the Feeld app in the app store or Google play Follow Us @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Follow Our guest @bossbarbie1 https://www.sierraluchien.com/ For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- February's Book- Reel, By Kennedy Ryan https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com  What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The Quiz Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 21 February 2025

This week we're joined by Sierra Luchien. She shares her transformative story and insights from her book, "Don't Judge a Book by Its Cover." We kick off with a Judge Judy cocktail and dive into judgmental attitudes in dating, setting the stage for a blend of nostalgia and revelation. Boss Barbie takes us on a journey through her childhood, the significance of her name, and the transitions from youthful aspirations to navigating the intricate dynamics of trust and change in adult relationships. Alongside her, Ciara's incredible path from foster care to becoming an advocate for foster children enriches our discussion about the strength and resilience found in life's challenges. Explore the emotional layers of love and partnership through stories of resilience, intimate connections, and the healing power of community. We touch on moments of personal growth and the hurdles of balancing individual healing within committed relationships. Anecdotes of support during challenging times, whether through emotional presence or navigating health crises, highlight the multifaceted nature of love. Discover how Boss Barbie and Ciara turn adversity into empowerment, with Ciara opening foster homes to create nurturing environments for children, inspired by her own journey of finding solace and love in unexpected places. The narrative continues as we discuss the rollercoaster of co-parenting, the emotional intricacies of past relationships, and the significance of trust in partnerships. Personal stories of persistence and self-discovery underscore the importance of finding one's path amidst life's chaos. From navigating complex family dynamics to seeking stability in uncertain times, our conversations emphasize the value of honest communication and fostering hope. Tune in for a heartfelt exploration of personal transformations, the power of shared stories, and the lasting impact of building supportive communities. Join Kiki In Curacao March 19-23- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.com Join Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com  Try Feeld by downloading the Feeld app in the app store or Google play Follow Us @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean @bossbarbie1 For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- February's Book- Reel, By Kennedy Ryan https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The Quiz Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 13 February 2025

What if embracing your sexual desires could transform your life? Join us as we welcome Sir Leezus, a renowned kink expert with over 20 years of experience, who shares his journey of becoming a personal kink advisor, particularly for women seeking to rediscover their sensuality in their late 30s and 40s. Through enlightening anecdotes, Sir Leezus explains how normalizing conversations about kink can liberate individuals from the shackles of societal judgment and unsupportive relationships, encouraging them to explore their true sexual identities in a safe and validating space. Unravel the fascinating dynamics of lifestyle parties and alternative sexual expressions, as Sir Lisa's transports us to genderless gatherings where conventional norms are left at the door. With a candid look at personal preferences, from erotic content creation to BDSM, our discussion explores the art of shibari, the allure of extreme squirt porn, and the societal perceptions surrounding sex toys. Together, we highlight the beauty of communication and compatibility in intimate relationships, emphasizing the importance of meeting partners where they are, understanding boundaries, and celebrating the diversity of human sexual experiences with humor and openness. Finally, embrace the provocative world of foot worship, double penetration tips, and the art of erotic power exchange. Learn how confidence and energy can elevate sensual encounters, with Sir Lisa's providing insights on navigating kinks, setting boundaries, and maintaining professionalism in the sex industry. From the sensory delights of impact play to the nuances of BDSM, our conversation offers a bold exploration of intimacy, inviting listeners to challenge their preconceptions and explore new and adventurous expressions of desire. Lume Deodorant Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get 15% off with promo code COCKTALES at Lumedeodorant.com ! #lumepod  VIIA Try VIIA! https://viia.co/COCKTALES and use code COCKTALES!  Check Us Out Join Kiki In Curacao March 19-23- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.com Join Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com  For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- February's Book- Reel, By Kennedy Ryan https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The Quiz Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 6 February 2025

Ever wonder what it's like to veer from a strict diet and discover the crispy joy of bacon for the first time? Join us as we navigate the colorful world of Costa Rican culture and the unexpected delights it holds. Medinah Monroe returns from a transformative Costa Rican sabbatical, sharing her hot yoga retreat adventures with Paradise and Vibe amidst lush landscapes and vibrant wildlife. From savoring bacon to forming powerful connections, Medina's stories are filled with laughter and insight, highlighting the magic of personal growth when surrounded by nature's beauty. As the excitement of engagements and weddings fills the air, we revel in the humorous chaos of secret proposals and viral moments. Our conversations are peppered with stories of extravagant celebrations, like a legendary Galentine's Day party, where themed pajamas and a chef-prepared menu set the stage for unforgettable memories. Whether sharing a laugh over a walking pad mishap or spotting celebrities at the nail salon, the importance of staying connected and celebrating all forms of love remains a central theme. The episode also takes us on thrilling journeys of personal and professional growth. From reminiscing about Costa Rican surfing lessons to planning an upcoming retreat with surprise gifts, the anticipation is palpable as we embrace new adventures and connections. A venture into the world of celebrity interviews unveils the complexities of authenticity and content creation.  Join Kiki In Curacao March 19-23- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.com Join Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch (Next Drop Arrives December 2024) www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- January's Book- The Arrangement https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com What's Your Attachment Style Home?  Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 30 January 2025

This week Dr. Jameeka Banks captivates us with her incredible story of transformation from incarceration to becoming a beacon of hope and inspiration for many. Her journey reveals the profound impact of the law of attraction and self-care, all while maintaining a strong relationship with God. In our conversation, she emphasizes recognizing relationship red flags and challenges the notion of excusing poor character under the guise of grace. Together, we get into the joys of embracing personal growth, living life to the fullest, and the importance of self-awareness in breaking free from toxic patterns. Jameeka shares her career journey which has been fueled by her desire to break stereotypes and achieve her childhood dreams. As we toast to ambition and meaningful relationships, we highlight the power of connecting with other women and following one’s dreams despite societal constraints. Our discussion flows through intriguing explorations of relationships and gender roles, sprinkled with humor and candid insights into the irrationality of obsessive behaviors and unexpected places for expressing affection. We also discuss the vital role of self-reflection and setting boundaries in maintaining healthy relationships. Whether navigating the complexities of polyamorous relationships or reflecting on the impact of a challenging childhood, we emphasize the importance of effective communication, self-love, and forgiveness. Through laughter and heartfelt moments, and with a little cocktail, or a big one,  we invite listeners to recognize and heal toxic patterns, prioritize self-awareness, and ultimately transform adversity into positive change. Join Kiki In Curacao March 19-23- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.com Join Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com This week's cocktail recipe: The Working Woman Ingredients: Ice, cognac, lemon juice, simple syrup, bitters, sparkling wine, lemon peel Instructions: In a cocktail shaker add the ice, cognac, lemon juice, bitters & simple syrup. Secure the lid and shake vigorously until the outside of the shaker is frosty and cold. Strain the cocktail into a coupe glass and finish with the sparkling wine and lemon peel. Serve. For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch (Next Drop Arrives December 2024) www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- January's Book- The Arrangement https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 23 January 2025

Get ready for a cocktail of wit, wisdom, and whimsical fantasies as we welcome the insightful Ibbie, a seasoned dating coach and licensed therapist, who takes us from her bartending days to mastering the complexities of modern romance. Our episode kicks off with the "Situationship" cocktail, perfect for exploring the intricate dance of love languages and relationship choices. From the eternal question of choosing between wealth and availability to navigating hair styling dilemmas for an exciting Curacao trip, we promise a rollercoaster of engaging discussions and personal anecdotes. The fun doesn't stop there! You might find yourself laughing out loud as we uncover quirky sexual fantasies involving unlikely icons like Dr. Phil and Steve Harvey, alongside a nostalgic nod to the legendary talk shows of yesteryear. We also dive into the world of attachment styles, blending humor with heartfelt stories about the nuances of relationships. Whether it’s through the eyes of a ‘runaway bride’ or a discussion on childhood experiences shaping our adult connections, we offer both laughter and insight. As we wind down, we address the poignant challenges of grief in relationships, offering advice to listeners who might be supporting a partner through tough times. Through candid anecdotes, we highlight the importance of patience and understanding in these delicate moments. Our exploration of dating, self-awareness, and the balance of delusion will leave you pondering the intricacies of love and connection. With Ibi's expert insights and our relatable stories, this episode promises a tapestry of humor, heartfelt exploration, and plenty of food for thought. Interested in being a guest?  Please contact [email protected] and include your information, what makes you an interesting guest, and any relavant links! Join Kiki In Curacao March 19-23- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch (Next Drop Arrives December 2024) www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- January's Book- The Arrangement https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 16 January 2025

Join Kiki In Curacao- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Try VIIA! https://bit.ly/viiacocktales and use code COCKTALES! Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get 15% off with promo code COCKTALES at Lumepodcast.com/COCKTALES! #lumepod For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch (Next Drop Arrives December 2024) www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- December's Book- The Boyfriend https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 9 January 2025

This episode isn't just about new year resolutions; it's about celebrating small victories and the courage to face life's unexpected challenges. We highlight how overcoming fear and embracing change can lead to profound personal growth. Weird sex heads to the VA with a scandalous tale from a VA facility, reminding us all to "SAY NO TO COWORKERS!" The teachings from the Women Evolve conference and insights from Abraham Hicks offer valuable perspectives on spiritual growth, relationships, and the power of self-awareness for Medinah.  For Kiki, looking forward to all the new opportunities that she can't wait to announce and her sex drive has finally come back.  Listen to the full episode to get an OG CockTale...it's been 84 years lol! We also tackle the emotional complexities of relationships, particularly understanding and appreciating men's emotional needs. Navigating the intricacies of dating someone with children, we emphasize the importance of setting boundaries and recognizing personal limits. With a blend of humor and authenticity, we share stories of personal misadventures, from high love gummies to unexpected romantic encounters. As we move forward into the new year, we encourage our listeners to embrace personal evolution with optimism and gratitude, always supporting loved ones through life's unpredictable moments. Join Kiki In Curacao- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Visit www.soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch (Next Drop Arrives December 2024) www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- December's Book- The Boyfriend https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 2 January 2025

Koereylle from the "Girl Stop Playing" podcast stops by to share her inspiring journey from a workaholic mindset to one of personal growth and fulfillment. We dive into her transition from the "Confessions of a Workaholic" podcast and how her past venture, the Single Wives Club, led her to her husband and a happier marriage. Koereylle offers valuable insights into balancing career ambitions with personal goals, and we explore how meaningful conversations can be sparked using a fun game called "I'm Curious to Know." Get ready for some festive cheer as we whip up a Snow Globe Margarita that dazzles both in taste and presentation. Perfect for the holiday season, this cocktail combines white cranberry juice, lime juice, tequila, and a sprinkle of edible glitter, served whimsically in a clear, fillable ornament. For those who prefer a booze-free version, sparkling water does the trick. The addition of a rosemary sprig brings a festive nod to Christmas trees, ensuring your holiday gatherings are both merry and bright. We navigate a multitude of relationship dynamics, from traditional gender roles and the etiquette of texting exes during the holidays, to the art of regifting and the complexities of non-committed relationships. Listen in for lively discussions on everything from the ethics of re-gifting to the spicy tales of holiday party escapades. The episode wraps up with a heartwarming engagement story set against the early pandemic's backdrop, illustrating love's resilience and creativity. Whether you're here for the cocktails or the candid chats, there's something to engage everyone. Follow Us! @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Follow Our Guest @koereyelle Join Kiki In Curacao- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Medinah in ICosta Rica- www.paradiseandvibe.com For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch (Next Drop Arrives December 2024) www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- December's Book- The Boyfriend https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 26 December 2024

Join us as we kick off with the Red Ribbon Refresher, a mocktail recipe that's perfect for anyone not wanting to wake up with a hangover. Our conversation flows through the quirks of communication and social media, peppered with the joy of sisterhood and the ongoing saga of allergies. TikTok, you're next on our exploration list, and we might just need some help keeping up with the trends! Reality TV aficionados, this one's for you. We express a longing for the glamorous days of reality TV's past and brainstorm fresh concepts that could shake up today's scene. From the working women series to influencer content battles, we offer a playful peek into potential new shows, speculating on celebrity participants like Britney Renner. With casting secrets and show premises that leave jaws dropping, the discussion meanders through the behind-the-scenes chaos, painting a vivid picture of the reality TV world that’s rarely seen by the public eye. Navigating the minefield of modern relationships? We've got insights ranging from dating in your twenties to the delicate dance of maintaining friendships with children when adult relationships falter. Whether it's the expectations of stay-at-home partnerships, the allure and pitfalls of social media romance, or the ethical dilemmas within prison romances, our reflections are both humorous and heartfelt. Tune in for a thoughtful exploration that encourages intentionality and self-discovery, all wrapped up in engaging storytelling and genuine camaraderie. Try VIIA! https://bit.ly/viiacocktales and use code COCKTALES! Try Soaking Wet! Visit www.soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES  Join Kiki In Curacao- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Medinah in ICosta Rica- www.paradiseandvibe.com For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch (Next Drop Arrives December 2024) www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- December's Book- The Boyfriend https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 19 December 2024

This week we discuess weird kinks, family time, and answer an interesting listener email about her man judging and slut shaming her!   Try VIIA! https://bit.ly/viiacocktales and use code COCKTALES! From 12/13-12/18 get Free 2-Day Shipping on orders $150+ and an additional 10% off when using our code COCKTALES10 https://oseamalibu.com/collections/skincare-sets-1?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=influencer&utm_campaign=122024_HolidayEVG_COCKTALES Join Kiki In Curacao- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Medinah in ICosta Rica- www.paradiseandvibe.com For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch (Next Drop Arrives December 2024) www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- December's Book- The Boyfriend https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 12 December 2024

We dive into personal reflections this week, underscoring the value of patience and thankfulness for life's little triumphs. These moments serve as a reminder of the importance of embracing who we are and the journey we've embarked on. We wrap things up with an exploration of vulnerability in the digital age, examining the courage it takes to share one's struggles while maintaining a sense of privacy. Insights on managing anxiety and self-perception during high-pressure situations pave the way for tales of romantic entanglements and self-empowerment. Follow Us  @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Over 2 Million Butts Love TUSHY. Save BIG at https://hellotushy.com/cocktales Visit soakingwet.com and use code "COCKTALES” for 10% off  Join Kiki In Curacao- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Medinah in ICosta Rica- www.paradiseandvibe.com For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch (Next Drop Arrives December 2024) www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- October's Book- The Stillwater Girls https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 5 December 2024

What happens when you blend coconut rum, lime juice, lavender syrup, and Prosecco Rosé? You get the delicious Velvet Sunset cocktail, a perfect companion for our lively chat with Veronica Torres, an Atlanta-based lash tech and avid listener of our show. Veronica shares her inspiring journey from North Carolina to Atlanta while we sip our way through her story and the serendipity of discovering our podcast through her sister. Her vibrant personality and unique perspective make this listener appreciation episode one for the books, as we bond over shared memes and laughter. Relationships are a complex dance of boundaries and love languages, and we're not shying away from the tough topics. We dive into the importance of understanding one's love language and how it evolves over time, discussing how to strike a balance between quality time and personal space with your partner. From weekend getaways to heart-to-heart conversations, we explore how road trips and adventures can either strengthen or challenge bonds, offering a unique lens on the ever-changing nature of love and connection. From the varied world of cultural cuisines to the quirks of personal grooming, this episode is a colorful tapestry of experiences and insights. We tackle topics like unusual fetishes and the journey of self-love and validation, emphasizing the importance of open communication in all relationships. With personal stories of overcoming trauma and breaking negative cycles for the sake of our children, we encourage listeners to focus on building supportive communities and setting positive examples. Join us for a heartfelt conversation packed with laughs, lessons, and a whole lot of love. Try out OSEA and use code COCKTALES: https://oseamalibu.com/pages/black-friday-2024?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=influencer&utm_campaign=112024_BFCM_CocktalesDirtyDiscussion Follow Us  @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Follow Our Guest @timelessacademyatl Visit soakingwet.com and use code "COCKTALES” for 10% off   Try VIIA! https://bit.ly/viiacocktales and use code COCKTALES! Join Kiki In Curacao- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Medinah in ICosta Rica- www.paradiseandvibe.com For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch (Next Drop Arrives December 2024) www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- October's Book- The Stillwater Girls https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 30 November 2024

Renowned author Elizabeth Gilbert, famously known for "Eat, Pray, Love," graces our live studio audience with her vibrant presence. The episode kicks off with a mocktail inspired by her iconic book, setting the stage for a heartfelt conversation about courage and personal growth. Elizabeth's stories from transformative wellness retreats in dreamy locales and her own journey to discovering more about herself from how she loves, to how her behavior in love lead to her realization of her addiction. Her story inspires us to embrace new experiences with open arms and hearts. We journey through the tangled web of relationships, exploring everything from soul ties and love addiction to the trials of gift-giving and unexpected life changes. Our discussion uncovers the joys and pains of seeking validation, the societal imbalances in relationships, and the profound impact of spirituality and recovery in overcoming addiction. Personal anecdotes and insightful reflections reveal the complex dance between love, addiction, and personal transformation, highlighting the importance of inner strength and self-respect. The episode concludes with a focus on healing practices, both spiritual and practical. Elizabeth shares her ongoing passion for travel and introduces her "Letters from Love" series, encouraging us to engage with ourselves through self-written love letters. A heartfelt farewell to our audience, sprinkled with gratitude and warmth, wraps up this enlightening episode. Join us for a ride through laughter, introspection, and a myriad of heartfelt moments that promise to leave you inspired and empowered. Follow Us  @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Follow Our Guest @elizabeth_gilbert_writer Visit soakingwet.com and use code "COCKTALES” for 10% off   Try VIIA! https://bit.ly/viiacocktales and use code COCKTALES! Join Kiki In Curacao- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Medinah in ICosta Rica- www.paradiseandvibe.com For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch (Next Drop Arrives December 2024) www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- October's Book- The Stillwater Girls https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 21 November 2024

Picture this: after a whirlwind year of dating, I found myself walking down the aisle, embarking on a marriage that has now spanned a decade. What kept us strong? Accountability, personal growth, and a knack for making conscious relationship decisions. This episode kicks off with a deep dive into being single and the importance of self-awareness before plunging into the dating pool. We even share a delightful cocktail recipe, Miss Rosa's Margarita, ensuring you get your rose water from the kitchen, not the bathroom cabinet! Bringing laughter and insight to our discussions, comedian Mario Tory joins us to share his vibrant perspective on marriage, family life, and the everyday comedy that comes with raising kids. We explore the rollercoaster of emotions and challenges in maintaining a marriage, laced with the joy and humor that Mario brings to his Atlanta life. And let's not forget the lighter side of parenting—whether you're an active aunt or uncle, or navigating the complexities of blended family dynamics, there's plenty of food for thought and giggles along the way. Ever wondered how personal grooming quirks or the infamous "icks" play into dating and relationships? We tackle these topics head-on, from the societal pressures of appearance to the humorous realities of dating surprises. We dive into the world of fantasies, societal expectations, and the importance of finding a partner who shares your adventurous spirit. And in a candid twist, we even offer some sex advice and tips on rebooting relationships, sprinkled with wild adventures that remind us of the thrills of keeping romance alive. So grab your Miss Rosa's Margarita and join us on this journey of laughter, love, and the realities of relationships. Follow Us  @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean  Try VIIA! https://bit.ly/viiacocktales and use code COCKTALES! Join Kiki In Curacao- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Medinah in ICosta Rica- www.paradiseandvibe.com For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch (Next Drop Arrives December 2024) www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- October's Book- The Stillwater Girls https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 14 November 2024

Kicking things off with a cocktail that’s bound to be the talk of your Thanksgiving table, we give you the Thankful Margarita, a festive blend of tequila, Grand Marnier, lime juice, simple syrup, and a splash of Prosecco. Meanwhile, Kiki Said So and Medinah Monroe catch up on their eventful Thursdays, sharing tales of meetings, dinner outings, and a few memorable chaotic situations!  Whether it's the sharp-tongued humor of a niece or the surprising demands of being a dog mom, the importance of humor and open communication weaves through each story, offering a lighthearted look at the chaos and joy of everyday interactions. The episode takes a whimsical turn as we imagine eyebrow aesthetics and brainstorm fashion innovations like glasses that don’t smudge makeup. From quirky dog stories to the transformative power of sexual escapades, it’s a whirlwind of topics wrapped in humor and reflection. Whether you're tuning in for laughs, insights into relationship dynamics, an escape from what's going in America after the election, or just a fresh perspective on life's adventures, this episode promises a delightful mix that’s sure to entertain and inspire. So, grab your Thankful Margarita, sit back, and let us take you on a journey through the vibrant tapestry of life’s many facets.  Follow Us  @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for a special discount! Join Kiki In Curacao- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Medinah in ICosta Rica- www.paradiseandvibe.com For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch (Next Drop Arrives December 2024) www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- October's Book- The Stillwater Girls https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Purchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 7 November 2024

Not all is sugar and spice; we dip our toes into serious waters with discussions on relationship fears and challenges. From navigating love's rocky terrain to addressing toxic friendships, we open up about personal insecurities and the importance of open communication. Whether it's confronting a partner's hidden truths or grappling with commitment fears, the essence is finding authenticity in relationships. And for those puzzling over friendship dilemmas or toxic ties, we've got anecdotes, advice, and a touch of humor to guide you through. So, pour yourself a glass of Pennywise Punch and join us for this heartfelt, laughter-filled journey. We've brewed up this delightful cocktail, "Pennywise Punch", with vanilla vodka and white chocolate liqueur, perfect for those seeking a spirited affair this spooky season. Grab your cocktail shaker as we share some tips for crafting this drink, including creative twists for our lactose-intolerant friends. Download Feeld on the App Store or Google Play Follow Us  @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Join Kiki In Curacao- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Medinah in Iceland or Costa Rica- www.paradiseandvibe.com For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Follow Us  @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Join Us On Our Travels: Curacao with Kiki's Travel Tribe  https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Iceland & Costa Rica with Medinah & Paradise + Vibe https://paradiseandvibe.com/ Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch (Next Drop Arrives December 2024) www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- October's Book- The Stillwater Girls https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Purchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 31 October 2024

Visit www.soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES Download Feeld on the App Store or Google Play Follow Us  @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Join Kiki In Curacao- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Medinah in Iceland or Costa Rica- www.paradiseandvibe.com For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Follow Us  @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Join Us On Our Travels: Curacao with Kiki's Travel Tribe  https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Iceland & Costa Rica with Medinah & Paradise + Vibe https://paradiseandvibe.com/ Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- October's Book- The Stillwater Girls https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Purchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 24 October 2024

This week Kemi Nekvapil joins us and schools on the gift of asking. Asking for help is a vital skill that many people struggle with, often due to the fear of appearing weak or being a burden to others. In this episode Kemi Nekvapil, the author of The Gift of Asking, discusses this in depth, highlighting the emotional and psychological barriers that prevent individuals from reaching out for support. Follow our guest: @keminekvapil Follow Us  @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Join Kiki In Curacao- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Medinah in Iceland or Costa Rica- www.paradiseandvibe.com For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Follow Us  @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Join Us On Our Travels: Curacao with Kiki's Travel Tribe  https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Iceland & Costa Rica with Medinah & Paradise + Vibe https://paradiseandvibe.com/ Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- October's Book- The Stillwater Girls https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Purchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 17 October 2024

This week, we had the pleasure of hosting Shahem Mclaurin, a licensed therapist and social worker who focuses on trauma and patriarchy-impacted individuals. Shahem shared his expertise on the impact of patriarchy on both men and women, explaining how societal norms that center around men can be harmful to everyone. He emphasized the importance of emotional attunement and the ability to fully feel and process one's emotions. We discussed the challenges men face in seeking therapy and the common criticisms Shahem encounters in his work, particularly from men who feel that women are not held accountable in the same way. Try VIIA! https://bit.ly/viiacocktales  and use code COCKTALES! Try JoyMode by visiting www.joymode.com and use code COCKTALES Follow our guest: @5hahem Follow Us  @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean We're inviting you all to a live studio recording with special guest Elizabeth Gilbert.  Grab your tickets now Purchase Tickets by Clicking Here Join Kiki In Curacao- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Medinah in Iceland or Costa Rica- www.paradiseandvibe.com Murder Mystery Dinner- https://boxwoodsocialhall.com/single-event/till-death-do-us-part-a-murder-mystery-wedding/ For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Follow Us  @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Join Us On Our Travels: Curacao with Kiki's Travel Tribe  https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Iceland & Costa Rica with Medinah & Paradise + Vibe https://paradiseandvibe.com/ Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- September's Book- This Could Be Us By Kennedy Ryan- https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Purchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 11 October 2024

This week, we're joined by comedian Kelly Kellz. She shares how her comedy career began with someone daring her to try comedy, and we're so glad they did because she is hilarious. Tune in for this episode full of funny dating mishaps, what it's like being married for so long and working with your spouse, and so much more! Try JoyMode by visiting www.joymode.com and use code COCKTALES Follow our guest: @kellykellz_22 Follow Us  @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean We're inviting you all to a live studio recording with special guest Elizabeth Gilbert.  Grab your tickets now Purchase Tickets by Clicking Here Join Kiki In Curacao- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Joine Medinah in Iceland or Costa Rica- www.paradiseandvibe.com Murder Mystery Dinner- https://boxwoodsocialhall.com/single-event/till-death-do-us-part-a-murder-mystery-wedding/ For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Follow Us  @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Join Us On Our Travels: Curacao with Kiki's Travel Tribe  https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Iceland & Costa Rica with Medinah & Paradise + Vibe https://paradiseandvibe.com/ Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- September's Book- This Could Be Us By Kennedy Ryan- https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Purchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 3 October 2024

This week, Simone Henderson joins us on CockTales Dirty Discussions. Saving yourself for love isn't as common today as maybe it once was. And Simone shares her experience growing up in a strict household and not losing her virginity until 23. She also talks about her experiences dating online and what she's looking for in love! Try JoyMode by visiting www.joymode.com and use code COCKTALES Follow our guest @simone_henderson Follow Us  @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean We're inviting you all to a live studio recording with special guest Elizabeth Gilbert.  Grab your tickets now Purchase Tickets by Clicking Here Join Kiki In Curacao- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Joine Medinah in Iceland or Costa Rica- www.paradiseandvibe.com Murder Mystery Dinner- https://boxwoodsocialhall.com/single-event/till-death-do-us-part-a-murder-mystery-wedding/ For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Follow Us  @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Join Us On Our Travels: Curacao with Kiki's Travel Tribe  https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Iceland & Costa Rica with Medinah & Paradise + Vibe https://paradiseandvibe.com/ Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club- September's Book- This Could Be Us By Kennedy Ryan- https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Purchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 26 September 2024

This week on CockTales, Kiki Said So and Medinah Monroe are back with a special guest, Brittany Dent, an Atlanta native and comedian. We talk about her journey with comedy, finding the right guy, and staying in delulu-land for far too long. Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off We're inviting you all to a live studio recording with special guest Elizabeth Gilbert. Grab your tickets now Purchase Tickets by Clicking Here For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Follow Us @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Join Us On Our Travels: Curacao with Kiki's Travel Tribe https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Iceland & Costa Rica with Medinah & Paradise + Vibe https://paradiseandvibe.com/ Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club- September's Book- This Could Be Us By Kennedy Ryan- https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Purchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 19 September 2024

This week on CockTales, Kiki Said So and Medinah Monroe are back with another solo episode. Medinah shares her experiences transitioning into a new career in real estate, highlighting how the change has been a positive one. Kiki, on the other hand, talks about her efforts to focus on activities she enjoys and being a spoiled dog's mom, it's not easy! Kiki and Medinah answer an advice letter from someone with a really boring boyfriend! Have you ever experienced anything like that? Try VIIA Hemp! https://bit.ly/viiacocktales and use code COCKTALES! For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Follow Us @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Join Us On Our Travels: Curacao with Kiki's Travel Tribe https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Iceland & Costa Rica with Medinah & Paradise + Vibe https://paradiseandvibe.com/ Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club- September's Book- This Could Be Us By Kennedy Ryan- https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Purchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! 00:00:00 Introduction 00:22:07 Weird Sex 00:23:22 House Of The Dragon Finale 00:37:50 Viia Hemp 00:40:33 Memory Lane 01:01:03 Indecisive Diane 01:02:00 Advice 01:10:06 Cocktales Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 12 September 2024

This week, Shanicia Boswell joins us to tell us why she wants a relationship, why she likes misogynistic men, and more unfiltered opinions about what sh'es looking for with love and the ideal relationship. Kiki Said So and Medinah Monroe delved into the significance of vulnerability in dating and relationships with Shanicia as well. They underscored how vulnerability paves the way for deeper connections and mutual understanding between individuals. Shanicia eloquently expressed that embracing vulnerability is a beautiful aspect of dating, enabling people to share their true selves and forge profound connections. Visit https://www.soakingwet.com and use code "COCKTALES” for 10% off Follow Our Guest @shaniciaboswell on IG Follow Us @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Join Us On Our Travels: Curacao with Kiki's Travel Tribe https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Iceland & Costa Rica with Medinah & Paradise + Vibe https://paradiseandvibe.com/ Interested in being a guest? Please contact [email protected] and include your information, what makes you an interesting guest, and any relavant links! For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Today's Cocktail "Breakfast at Tiffany's" Ingredients: ½ oz blue curacao1 oz lemonadeProsseco Instructions: Layer all ingredients into a champagne glass Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club- September's Book- This Could Be Us By Kennedy Ryan- https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Purchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 5 September 2024

This week we're talking about how much space we really need...with friends, family, and the men in our lives. Setting boundaries and having regular relationship check-ins can be crucial in navigating issues like needing space within a relationship. We discuss the importance of communication and setting boundaries to address the need for personal space. Can you guess who prefers more alone time and who would live in their man's skin? Overall, setting boundaries and having regular relationship check-ins can strengthen the bond between partners and help navigate issues like needing space effectively. It promotes healthy communication, mutual respect, and understanding within the relationship, fostering a supportive and harmonious dynamic between both individuals. Claim your 20% off and embrace the pleasure revolution with Vazoplex at Vazoplex.com, using code 'Cocktales'. For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Today's Cocktail "Floradora" Ingredients: 2 oz gin 0.5 oz raspberry syrup or Chambord 3 oz ginger beer 0.5 oz lime juice Lime twist for garnish Instructions: Add gin, raspberry syrup, and lime juice to a highball glass. Stir the mixture. Fill the glass with ice. Top off with ginger beer. Garnish with a lime twist. Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper2 https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktales Get Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Sign Up Here Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe Purchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 29 August 2024

This week it's just the two of us and we're catching up on the summer adventures, crazy weird sex stories and spicy cocktales! Claim your 20% off and embrace the pleasure revolution with Vazoplex at Vazoplex.com, using code 'Cocktales'. For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper2 https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktales Get Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Check Your Emails for the link if you signed up for the Waitlist Tix are live for you now- the trip will open to everyone else on Aug 29th Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe Purchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 23 August 2024

This week we're joined by Cori Smith of Experience Divine, a wedding and event production company. As a wedding planner, Cori had so much to share with us about wedding planning, budgeting, and even etiquette. And of course we had to find out just how much it really costs these days to plan a fairy tale wedding and how you can cut costs and shorten your guest list, with class. Get In Touch with Cori Smith www.expdivine.com @expdivine Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off Try VIIA Hemp! https://bit.ly/viiacocktales and use code COCKTALES! For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper2 https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktales Get Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Join the waitlist here: Waitlist Sign Up Waitlist gets first access to spots Aug 22nd and the trip will open to everyone else on Sept 2nd! Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe Purchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 15 August 2024

Ep. 406: This week, Jokes On You Podcast joins us for cocktails and CockTales! Mel Mitch and Talley are really funny, and when you bring four women together who can be a bit all over the place with topics is quite the ride. From "Sex Sent Me to the ER", to learning what long pig is, a ton of conspiracies, and Scott toilet tissue. Oh that's not it. The conversation goes further and we also talk about how Mel Mitch & Talley created their podcast "Jokes On You" after trauma bonding. Navigating relationships with broke men and reflecting on the concept of struggle love has never been funnier. Kiki Said So and Medinah Monroe drive the episode home with some interesting advice before listening to juicy "cocktales" from the guests. Check Our Guests' Pod Out and Follow them! @jokesonyoupod @itsmelmitch @talleyberrybaby Try VIIA Hemp! https://bit.ly/viiacocktales and use code COCKTALES! For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper2 https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktales Get Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao March 19-23. Tickets will be live soon, email [email protected] with subject "Trip" to receive a reminder when the trip goes live. Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe Purchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 8 August 2024

This week we had an enlightening conversation with Selima, of iWilla Remedy. We discussed the impact of chronic stress on our bodies and how it can lead to a low libido. Selima shared her expertise on holistic health, emphasizing the importance of addressing the emotional root causes of pain and stress. We wrapped up the episode by discussing practical steps to move from burnout to balance, emphasizing the importance of self-care and being mindful of what we put into our bodies and minds. Thank you for tuning in! Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review our podcast. Until next time, stay sexy and stress-free! Key Takeaways Chronic Stress and Libido: Chronic stress can lead to a low libido as the body prioritizes survival over reproductive functions.Diet and Health: Eating a whole foods diet and avoiding ultra-processed foods can significantly improve your overall health and libido.Environmental Toxins: Be mindful of environmental toxins in water, food, and even makeup, as they can impact your health.Holistic Healing: Addressing the emotional root causes of pain and stress is crucial for true healingFollow Our Guest @iwllaremedy Follow Us @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Interested in sponsoring or sending us PR Packages?? Contact [email protected] today! Join Patreon https://www.patreon.com/Cocktales Want to sponsor or collaborate with us? contact us at [email protected] Interested in being a guest? Please contact [email protected] and include your information, what makes you an interesting guest, and any relavant links! Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] All Things CockTales! https://linktr.ee/cocktalespodcast Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Your Pleasure Jewelry Today https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki- We're Going To Curacao! Details coming soon Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe Purchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.com Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 1 August 2024

This week we're joined by DJ Rose Gold and we're talking about her love life, what she's looking for, and what her dating experiences have been like in different places as she's travelled the world being a DJ for many different artists and her own events. Follow DJ Rose Gold on IG @djrosegold Interested in sponsoring or sending us PR Packages?? Contact [email protected] today! SPONSORED OFFERS Love2Play- 50 Free spins with $50 minimum deposit https://bit.ly/joinwithCOCKTALES For more special offers for our listeners please visit www.cocktalespodcast.com Follow Us on Ig & TikTok @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Join Patreon https://www.patreon.com/Cocktales Want to sponsor or collaborate with us? contact us at [email protected] Interested in being a guest? Please contact [email protected] and include your information, what makes you an interesting guest, and any relavant links! Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] All Things CockTales! https://linktr.ee/cocktalespodcast Get Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki- We're Going To Curacao! Details coming soon Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe Purchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.com Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 25 July 2024

We took a trip down memory lane, reflecting on our journey with the podcast. From our early days and memorable episodes to how much we've grown and changed over the years, it was a heartfelt discussion about our evolution and the support we've received from our listeners. Interested in sponsoring or sending us PR Packages?? Contact [email protected] today! SPONSORED OFFERS Quinn- Try Quinn and click here Love2Play- 50 Free spins with $50 minimum deposit https://bit.ly/joinwithCOCKTALES VB Health- Visit soakingwet.com and use code "COCKTALES” for 10% off For more special offers for our listeners please visit www.cocktalespodcast.com Follow Us on Ig & TikTok @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Join Patreon https://www.patreon.com/Cocktales Want to sponsor or collaborate with us? contact us at [email protected] Interested in being a guest? Please contact [email protected] and include your information, what makes you an interesting guest, and any relavant links! Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] All Things CockTales! https://linktr.ee/cocktalespodcast Get Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki- Fill Out This Interest Form and Survey Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe Purchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.com Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 18 July 2024

This week we're joined by comedian Spencer Neal. We talk about his career in comedy, supporting women's sports, sleeping with married women, and his love of feet. SPONSORED OFFERS Quinn- Try Quinn and click here Try VIIA Hemp! https://bit.ly/3J1UitO and use code COCKTALES! Love2Play- 50 Free spins with $50 minimum deposit https://bit.ly/joinwithCOCKTALES For more special offers for our listeners please visit www.cocktalespodcast.com Follow Us on Ig & TikTok @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Follow Our Guest @iamspencerneal Join Patreon https://www.patreon.com/Cocktales Want to sponsor or collaborate with us? contact us at [email protected] Interested in being a guest? Please contact [email protected] and include your information, what makes you an interesting guest, and any relavant links! Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] All Things CockTales! https://linktr.ee/cocktalespodcast Get Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki- Fill Out This Interest Form and Survey Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe Purchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.com Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 11 July 2024

This week we're catching up on real estate, run clubs, and road trips. Plus a wild weird sex story that no one would expect plus a a quick chat on what instantly turns us on. We also answer someone's advice email about not liking her man's situation with his child, but wanting to stick out for an interesting reason. SPONSORED OFFERS Interested in sponsoring or sending us PR Packages?? Contact [email protected] today! VB Health- Visit soakingwet.com and use code "COCKTALES” for 10% off Quinn- Try Quinn and click here Love2Play- 50 Free spins with $50 minimum deposit https://bit.ly/joinwithCOCKTALES For more special offers for our listeners please visit www.cocktalespodcast.com Follow Us on Ig & TikTok @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Join Patreon https://www.patreon.com/Cocktales Want to sponsor or collaborate with us? contact us at [email protected] Interested in being a guest? Please contact [email protected] and include your information, what makes you an interesting guest, and any relavant links! Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] All Things CockTales! https://linktr.ee/cocktalespodcast Get Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki- Fill Out This Interest Form and Survey Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe Purchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.com Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 4 July 2024

On the 400th episode we celebrate a little with special guests from the High Maintenance Podcast, Killah and Shy Thug. We are so grateful for all of our listeners, viewers, and past guests! We reminisce about memorable moments from previous episodes. And we also run down a long list of random scenarios to see just how corny or cute we like our men. Check out the High Maintenance Podcast on YouTube or any podcast app and follow them on IG @highmainpod Interested in traveling and don't want to go alone? Take this survey now for a potential upcoming trip! Group Travel Survey SPONSORED OFFERS For more special offers for our listeners please visit www.cocktalespodcast.com Follow Us on Ig & TikTok @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Join Patreon https://www.patreon.com/Cocktales Want to sponsor or collaborate with us? contact us at [email protected] Interested in being a guest? Please contact [email protected] and include your information, what makes you an interesting guest, and any relavant links! Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] All Things CockTales! https://linktr.ee/cocktalespodcast Get Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki- Fill Out This Interest Form and Survey Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe Purchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.com Interested in sponsoring or sending us PR Packages?? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 27 June 2024

This week we're joined by life coach, Annie Moody. Annie discusses the importance of being a supportive partner in a relationship. She emphasizes that being supportive involves understanding, picking up the slack, and accepting apologies when mistakes are made. Annie mentions that being a supportive partner means leaving space for the other person to live their life and respecting their individuality. She highlights the significance of mutual support, where both partners are willing to stand by each other and show understanding in times of need. Interested in traveling and don't want to go alone? Take this survey now for a potential upcoming trip! Group Travel Survey SPONSORED OFFERS For more special offers for our listeners please visit www.cocktalespodcast.com Follow Us on Ig & TikTok @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Follow Our Guest @_unbothered_am Join Patreon https://www.patreon.com/Cocktales Want to sponsor or collaborate with us? contact us at [email protected] Interested in being a guest? Please contact [email protected] and include your information, what makes you an interesting guest, and any relavant links! Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki- Fill Out This Interest Form and Survey Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe Purchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.com Interested in sponsoring or sending us PR Packages?? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 20 June 2024

This week we're joined by media personality Jojo Alonso. Her viral moments on podcasts and on the radio have us wondering if she's all talk or is this really the life Jojo Alonso lives. Join us as we explore the woman behind the viral clips. Interested in traveling and don't want to go alone? Take this survey now for a potential upcoming trip! Group Travel Survey SPONSORED OFFERS Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get 15% off with promo code COCKTALES at LumeDeodorant.com! #lumepod Try Bloom and use code COCKTALES for a special offer Try Bloom! For more special offers for our listeners please visit www.cocktalespodcast.com Follow Us on Ig & TikTok @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Follow Our Guest @_jojoalonso Join Patreon https://www.patreon.com/Cocktales Want to sponsor or collaborate with us? contact us at [email protected] Interested in being a guest? Please contact [email protected] and include your information, what makes you an interesting guest, and any relavant links! Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki- Fill Out This Interest Form and Survey Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe Purchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.com Interested in sponsoring or sending us PR Packages?? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 13 June 2024

This week the ladies share exciting adventures coming up as well as the realities of DV in light of the Diddy video that was released. Interested in traveling and don't want to go alone? Take this survey now for a potential upcoming trip! Group Travel Survey SPONSORED OFFERS Try VIIA Hemp! https://bit.ly/3J1UitO and use code COCKTALES! Get a free 7 day membership to afterglow, just go to cocktalespodcast.com and click on Afterglow to claim your free trial. For more special offers for our listeners please visit www.cocktalespodcast.com Follow Us on Ig & TikTok @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Join Patreon https://www.patreon.com/Cocktales Want to sponsor or collaborate with us? contact us at [email protected] Interested in being a guest? Please contact [email protected] and include your information, what makes you an interesting guest, and any relavant links! Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki- Fill Out This Interest Form and Survey Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe Purchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.com Interested in sponsoring or sending us PR Packages?? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Transcribed - Published: 6 June 2024

On this episode we discuss attending a friend's wedding and upcoming travel plans! (Don't forget to fill out Kiki's survey/questionnaire and if you're interested in a cold and beautiful destination, travel with Medinah to Iceland!) Now for the main discussion; are you a good leader? Are you a good listener? And when women ask to be led, are they truly open to it? Hear our takes on all of it. Detailed Show Notes Below Interested in traveling and don't want to go alone? Take this survey now for a potential upcoming trip! Group Travel Survey SPONSORED OFFERS Check out Bloom Stoies! Use our code COCKTALES for a discount on your membership https://bloomstories.com/?utm_campaign=cocktales Go to songfinch.com/COCKTALES and start your song – after you purchase, you’ll be prompted to add Spotify Streaming for your original song for FREE - a $50 value! For more special offers for our listeners please visit www.cocktalespodcast.com Follow Us on Ig & TikTok @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Join Patreon https://www.patreon.com/Cocktales Want to sponsor or collaborate with us? contact us at [email protected] Interested in being a guest? Please contact [email protected] and include your information, what makes you an interesting guest, and any relavant links! Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] SHOW NOTES: Communication and Consideration in Relationships:The podcast episode delves into the crucial role of communication and consideration in distinguishing between controlling behavior and effective leadership within a relationship.Kiki and Medinah Monroe underscore the difference between a controlling partner and a good leader by emphasizing the importance of active listening and fostering a safe environment for open dialogue.They illustrate this distinction with an example where a controlling individual would make decisions unilaterally without regard for their partner's thoughts or feelings, whereas a good leader would engage in discussions, seek feedback, and make decisions that benefit both parties.The hosts emphasize the significance of mutual understanding, thoughtful decision-making, and consideration for each other's needs and desires in maintaining a healthy relationship dynamic.They also highlight the transformative impact of effective communication in relationships, where partners should feel empowered to express their opinions and concerns without fear of judgment or dismissal.The episode underscores the necessity of mutual respect, attentive listening, and a collaborative approach to decision-making in relationships to cultivate a harmonious balance between leadership and autonomy.In the podcast episode, Kiki and Medinah stress the importance of both partners having a voice and being actively engaged in decision-making processes to uphold a healthy relationship dynamic. Kiki expresses her preference for the man to take the lead in a relationship and make decisions, while also emphasizing the significance of voicing concerns and opinions when necessary. She asserts that she will speak up if she disagrees with the direction of things or if she requires clarification.Medinah recounts an experience where a partner expressed dissatisfaction with her listening skills and leadership approach. She attentively listened to their feedback and made adjustments in an attempt to improve the situation. Despite her efforts, the relationship did not progress positively, highlighting the necessity for both partners to communicate openly and have their perspectives acknowledged in decision-making processes. The podcast conversation underscores the distinction between listening and agreeing, emphasizing the importance of both partners actively listening to each other's viewpoints, even in moments of disagreement. Allowing each partner to have a voice and feel heard in decision-making processes fosters mutual respect, understanding, and a healthy relationship dynamic. This practice ensures that both individuals feel valued and respected, ultimately enhancing communication and relationship satisfaction.The hosts also discuss the significance of recognizing when a relationship is not conducive to personal growth and well-being, despite efforts to adapt. Kiki shares her experience of adjusting her behavior based on a partner's feedback, only to realize that the relationship was still not fulfilling for her. This narrative underscores the importance of maintaining personal boundaries and opinions within a relationship.The conversation further highlights the importance of prioritizing personal growth and happiness in relationships. It is essential to acknowledge when a relationship is not aligning with one's values or needs. Kiki's decision to end the relationship after attempting to make adjustments exemplifies the value of prioritizing personal well-being over forcing a relationship that is not mutually beneficial.The hosts stress the importance of being willing to end a relationship if it no longer serves personal growth and happiness. Recognizing when efforts to adapt are not yielding positive results and having the courage to walk away from a detrimental situation is crucial for self-care and personal development. The willingness to end a relationship that is not conducive to personal well-being is a pivotal aspect of fostering growth and happiness. Get Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! 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Transcribed - Published: 30 May 2024

This week we have a special guest, Lamont White, the founder of A Better Way to Meet, an Atlanta-based matchmaking company for gay men. Lamont shares his journey from being a therapist to becoming a matchmaker and dating coach, emphasizing the unique challenges and dynamics within the gay dating scene. Detailed Show Notes Below Interested in traveling and don't want to go alone? Take this survey now for a potential upcoming trip! Group Travel Survey SPONSORED OFFERS Go to songfinch.com/COCKTALES and start your song – after you purchase, you’ll be prompted to add Spotify Streaming for your original song for FREE - a $50 value! Try Afterglow with a free 7 day trial for our listeners using code COCKTALES www.cocktalespodcast.com For more special offers for our listeners please visit www.cocktalespodcast.com Follow Us on Ig & TikTok @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Follow our guest @thegaydatingcoach Join Patreon https://www.patreon.com/Cocktales Want to sponsor or collaborate with us? contact us at [email protected] Interested in being a guest? Please contact [email protected] and include your information, what makes you an interesting guest, and any relavant links! Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Dating coaching and matchmaking for gay men, as discussed in the podcast episode, focuses on several key factors to ensure successful matches. These factors include attractiveness, independence, masculinity, and sexual compatibility. Attractiveness plays a significant role in the matchmaking process. While attractiveness can vary from person to person, it is essential to consider physical appearance as a factor in potential matches. This includes factors like body type, height, and overall physical appeal. Independence is another crucial aspect considered in matchmaking for gay men. The ability to be self-sufficient and not rely on a partner for financial or emotional support is valued. Independence shows maturity and a sense of self-reliance, which can contribute to a healthy and balanced relationship. Masculinity is also a key factor in matchmaking for gay men. While masculinity can be expressed in various ways, having a level of masculinity that aligns with the individual's preferences is important. Some individuals may prefer partners who exhibit more traditional masculine traits, while others may be open to a range of expressions of masculinity. 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The conversation between the host and the guest, Lamont, emphasized the importance of open communication and vulnerability in relationships to avoid losing a part of oneself. Lamont, as a dating coach and matchmaker, shared insights on how individuals often struggle with communication and vulnerability in relationships. He mentioned that many people, both men and women, have difficulty expressing their true feelings and desires on dates. This lack of effective communication can lead to misunderstandings, conflicts, and ultimately, a loss of connection in the relationship. Furthermore, the podcast discussed how individuals sometimes struggle with traditional gender roles and expectations in relationships. The idea that one partner must lead while the other follows can create a power dynamic that may stifle individual expression and authenticity. Lamont emphasized the importance of equity in relationships, where both partners are encouraged to thrive and shine in their unique qualities. 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He emphasizes that in a healthy relationship, both partners should be able to communicate openly and honestly with each other. This communication allows for mutual growth and understanding within the relationship. Lamont highlights the idea that traditional gender roles often dictate that a man should lead in a relationship while the woman supports him. However, he challenges this notion by advocating for equity in relationships. He believes that both partners should be able to shine in their strengths and qualities, regardless of gender roles. This approach allows for a more balanced and fulfilling relationship where both individuals can thrive. The concept of being a leader in a relationship, according to Lamont, involves not only making decisions but also actively listening to your partner's concerns and feelings. By taking into consideration the thoughts and emotions of your partner, you can create a space where both individuals feel heard and valued. This practice fosters mutual growth and understanding within the relationship. Lamont also touches on the idea that a good leader in a relationship should be able to make executive decisions while still prioritizing the well-being and happiness of their partner. This balance between assertiveness and empathy is crucial in creating a healthy and harmonious relationship where both partners feel respected and supported. Overall, the key takeaway from the episode is that being able to lead in a relationship goes hand in hand with being a good listener and considering the concerns and feelings of your partner. This approach fosters mutual growth, understanding, and a strong foundation for a successful and fulfilling relationship. Get Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! 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Transcribed - Published: 23 May 2024

**TRIGGER WARNING: We want to let you know that today's episode addresses the topic of domestic violence, which may be distressing or triggering for some listeners. If you or someone you know needs support, please reach out to trusted friends, family, or professional organizations. If you're in immediate danger, call emergency services. This week we are joined by Ariel B., host of "This Too Shall Pass" podcast, who bravely shared her personal journey of surviving an abusive relationship, and finding herself after so many major life changing experiences. She sheds light on the importance of understanding family dynamics and relationships, particularly when warning signs are present, and how that directly impacted her life. More detailed show notes below. National Domestic Violence Hotline: 800-799-7233 https://www.thehotline.org/ ***Internet usage can be monitored and is impossible to erase completely. 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Go to https://www.songfinch.com/COCKTALES and start your song – after you purchase, you’ll be prompted to add Spotify Streaming for your original song for FREE - a $50 value! For more special offers for our listeners please visit https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Follow Us on Ig & TikTok @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Follow our guest @the_arielb and Check out her podcast https://www.thistooshallpasspod.com Join Patreon https://www.patreon.com/Cocktales Here are key takeaways from the episode that emphasize the significance of delving deeper into family dynamics: Recognizing Warning Signs: Ariel candidly discussed how she overlooked crucial red flags in her relationship with her ex-husband, such as his anger issues and concerning behavior when under the influence. These warning signs were apparent early on but were not addressed or questioned at the time. Family Background: Ariel stressed the importance of comprehending a partner's family background. She revealed that her ex-husband came from a family with a history of abuse and dysfunctional dynamics, potentially influencing his behavior. This underscores the need to investigate and understand a partner's family history to identify potential issues or patterns. Impact on Children: Ariel's experience highlighted how family dynamics and relationships can impact children. Her son exhibited fear and discomfort around her ex-husband's behavior, illustrating the influence of family dynamics on children's emotional well-being. Seeking Support: Ariel's friend played a pivotal role in supporting her by consistently checking in and encouraging open communication. This underscores the importance of having a supportive network that provides a safe space to discuss concerns and red flags in relationships. Moving Forward: Ariel's journey of seeking therapy, letting go of false responsibilities, and focusing on self-healing underscores the importance of introspection and self-care after enduring challenging relationships. Addressing past traumas, understanding family dynamics, and prioritizing mental and emotional well-being are crucial before entering new relationships. This episode highlights the importance of exploring family dynamics and relationships to identify issues, patterns, and warning signs. Understanding a partner's family background can empower individuals to make informed decisions, recognize red flags, and prioritize emotional well-being in relationships. The episode also emphasizes the significance of having a supportive friend who consistently checks in and ensures one's well-being, especially in toxic situations. Ariel's friend's unwavering support created a safe space for open communication, enabling Ariel to address the challenges she faced. A supportive friend's persistent presence can be instrumental in helping individuals navigate toxic situations. By offering genuine care and encouragement, such friendships provide the strength needed to address toxicity and make positive changes. Overall, the podcast episode underscores the importance of having a supportive friend who prioritizes well-being. This kind of friendship can help individuals recognize, address, and overcome toxic situations. Seeking therapy, letting go of false responsibilities, and allowing time for healing are essential steps in moving forward from abusive relationships. Ariel B.'s journey of healing and self-discovery exemplifies the importance of these actions in overcoming the aftermath of abuse. Ariel's experience highlights the significance of therapy in processing the emotional impact of abuse. Therapy provides a safe space to explore feelings, address deep-rooted issues, and develop healthy coping mechanisms. Disassociating from false responsibilities is crucial in the healing process. Recognizing that the abuse was not their fault empowers individuals to prioritize their well-being and healing. Taking time to process and heal is vital in recovering from abusive relationships. Ariel's journey of self-reflection and therapy showcases the importance of allowing oneself the necessary time and space to heal from emotional wounds. In essence, Ariel's story emphasizes the importance of seeking therapy, letting go of false responsibilities, and dedicating time to heal as essential steps in overcoming the effects of abusive relationships. These actions empower individuals to prioritize mental health and embark on a journey towards healing and self-empowerment. Want to sponsor or collaborate with us? contact us at [email protected] Interested in being a guest? Please contact [email protected] and include your information, what makes you an interesting guest, and any relavant links! Contact Us! 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Transcribed - Published: 16 May 2024