Ep. 476 "What's Your Superpower?" with Kiki Said So & Medinah Monroe
CockTales: Dirty Discussions
Kiki Said So & Medinah Monroe
4.7 • 3.2K Ratings
🗓️ 22 January 2026
⏱️ 69 minutes
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Summary
In this episode of CockTales: Dirty Discussions, Kiki and Medinah tap into reflection, purpose, and grown-woman clarity as they unpack the question: what’s your real superpower? From unexpected “God wink” moments to conversations about confidence, imposter syndrome, and walking into rooms knowing you belong, this episode is about recognizing your value without needing permission.
The ladies open up about how their strengths show up in work, relationships, and community — and why sometimes it takes a stranger, a producer, or a quiet moment to remind you that you’re exactly where you’re supposed to be. They also talk about commitment in this season of life, learning how to say no without guilt, setting boundaries that actually protect your peace, and why burnout isn’t a badge of honor.
In Weird Sex, the conversation turns to curiosity, threesomes, and ethical non-monogamy — breaking down how to talk about fantasies honestly, why curiosity doesn’t equal dissatisfaction, and how consent and communication make all the difference.
As always, things take a turn into real life: fostering chaotic cats, stepping back from dating, learning new skills, choosing rest, and staying grounded when life feels overwhelming. If you’ve been questioning your path, feeling stuck, or wondering whether you’re doing enough, this episode is a reminder that your presence, your voice, and your energy matter more than you think.
Sometimes your superpower isn’t loud — it’s just consistent.
🍹 This Week’s Cocktail: The Soft Launch Spritz (Mocktail)
A fresh, light mocktail perfect for Dry January — or spike it if you’re feeling spicy.
Ingredients
- 3 oz fresh grapefruit juice (use less if you’re not a grapefruit girl)
- Splash of fresh lime juice
- 1 oz agave or honey
- Sparkling water
- Fresh rosemary sprig
How to Make
- Shake the grapefruit juice, lime juice, and agave (or honey) with ice.
- Strain into a wine glass over ice, top with sparkling water, and garnish with a rosemary sprig.
- Before adding the rosemary, gently slap it between your palms to release the oils — pretty and aromatic.
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| 0:00.0 | She looks at me and she's like, your heart, like I can see your heart and I don't even know you. I absolutely love my husband. Oh, it's your husband. Damn. He's the best. We've been married for four years and we dated about a year and a half before getting married. So here's the deal. My husband has an overgrown, unkempt mustache. Ooh, and does not brush his teeth in the morning. Excuse me? Excuse me. |
| 0:23.0 | They closed at 3 a.m. grown unkempt mustache. Ooh, and does not brush his teeth in the morning. |
| 0:21.5 | Excuse me? |
| 0:23.1 | They closed at 3 a.m. |
| 0:24.8 | I dead ass thought I was, it was a club. |
| 0:27.2 | I was somewhat in denial that I needed to investigate. |
| 0:29.6 | She eventually asked me to turn over, and with her rubbing me with a hot oil, it was just sexy, getting so close to my... |
| 0:36.6 | Yeah, yeah, check one, two, check one, two. |
| 0:40.4 | Is this mic on? |
| 0:41.7 | Is this mic on? |
| 0:42.6 | Hey, listen, man, it's the one and only trendset of DJ since, |
| 0:45.7 | and you're listening to cocktails. |
| 0:47.5 | Dirty discussions with Kiki and Medina Monroe. |
| 0:50.6 | Yeah. |
| 0:55.8 | Today's cocktail is called the soft launch sprits. |
| 1:01.0 | And these are the ingredients you need. |
| 1:02.8 | You need three ounces of fresh grapefruit juice. |
| 1:05.5 | I don't really like grapefruit juice, so I would do less. |
| 1:07.9 | A splash of lime juice, an ounce of agave, or some honey. Ooh, I love both. Some sparkling water. And then you want some fresh rosemary. So you're going to shake up your grapefruit juice, your lime juice, and your honey with ice. Strain that into a wine glass over ice, top it with the sparkling water, and then garnish with the rosemary sprig. And then before you put the rosemary in there, slap it a little bit. I love doing this with the rosemary. |
| 1:28.0 | You just, right in between your the palms of your hands |
| 1:32.7 | and then put it in there so you can make it pretty and that is a soft launch spritz that sounds |
| 1:38.6 | tasty and refreshing welcome back to cocktails dirty discussions you guys that was a mocktail because I know many people are doing a little dry January. If you want to add your favorite spirit to it, probably vodka or gym would go well with that. But you could also drink it just like that. And no alcohol. It's friendly. You can drink it while you work or while you do whatever. Anyway, welcome back to Cocktails Dirty Discussions, you guys. |
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