Soft Life, Hard Lessons

CockTales: Dirty Discussions

Kiki Said So & Medinah Monroe

Comedy, Personal Journals, Relationships, Society & Culture

4.6 • 3.1K Ratings

🗓️ 9 October 2025

⏱️ 67 minutes

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Summary

Kiki Said So and Medinah Monroe are back in the studio catching up on everything from dating guilt to setting boundaries with moms, lovers, and LinkedIn connects. This episode is peak grown woman era — reflective, funny, and real.

The ladies talk about embracing the freedom of dating multiple people without shame, learning when to speak up (even to family), and why being “too nice” might just be messing up your love life.You’ll also hear about Medinah’s Meals on Wheels volunteer birthday, her gala honor, and her new Lover Girl Retreat in Thailand — plus Kiki’s new collab, her take on the “Winter Arc” trend, and why LinkedIn just became her new favorite social app.

They close it out with reflections on reading more, healing from burnout, and what it means to stay authentic when life gets messy.Cocktail of the Week: Unruly — just champagne, because we’re celebrating making it through another week.

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0:00.0	Yeah, yeah, check one, two, check one, two. Is this mic on? Is this mic on? Hey, listen, man,
0:07.4	it's the one and only trend set of DJ since, and you're listening to cocktails. Dirty
0:11.6	discussions with Kiki and Medina Monroe. Yeah.
0:19.9	Today's cocktail is called unruly.
0:23.2	And really what it is is just a glass of unruly champagne.
0:26.7	And it's actually really tasty.
0:28.1	I love a good classic glass of champagne for no reason.
0:31.5	Don't you?
0:32.3	I do.
0:33.0	We're celebrating because it's Monday and we're still alive and we're still here.
0:36.3	And we're breathing.
0:37.3	Yes. Welcome back to Cocktails Dirty Discussions, you guys. I'm Keatsy. celebrating because it's Monday and we're still alive and we're still here and we're breathing yes welcome
0:38.3	back to cocktails dirty discussions you guys I'm kiki said so hey y'all I'm medina monroe and we're back
0:45.4	with another episode for you guys um what's been going on with you it's been a while since we've been
0:51.7	in the studio it has been a while since we've been in the studio I'm always so it's always so funny because I think obviously people don't know since we've been in the studio. It has been a while since we've been in the studio. I'm always so, it's always so funny because I think obviously people don't know that we bulk record. And sometimes people will send clips of things that like something I said or something you said that happens so long ago because we bulk record. And I'll be like, I don't remember what I was talking about. Oh, really listening. Somebody was like, I thought you weren't dating.
1:12.1	And like, if you're not going to be dating, you don't need to be dating.
1:14.0	And I was like, well, how are they going to tell you? Are we not allowed to change our mind? I thought I was in trouble. I was like, what's wrong? It's my life. But you're lying to us. And I was like, whoa.
1:26.6	Are we growing?
1:28.2	Because what's happening?
1:29.1	I was like, I thought he was friends.
1:30.6	Somebody else told me to go ahead and date. Maybe I listened to them. Did you ever think of that? Yeah. And I do. He was like, well, you just keep going back and forth. Are you dating or not? And I was like, both. I'm dating and not. Sometimes I want to do it and sometimes it don't. Yeah, so it's so freeing to feel that type of freedom. You know what I mean? Like, I don't owe anybody anything.
1:47.6	Exactly. sometimes I want to do it and sometimes I don't. Yeah. So it's so freeing to feel that type of freedom.
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