Ep. 456 "Do You Want a Title or Nah? Let’s Talk Marriage Insurance & Men Who Can’t Lead"

CockTales: Dirty Discussions

Kiki Said So & Medinah Monroe

Comedy, Personal Journals, Relationships, Society & Culture

4.6 • 3.1K Ratings

🗓️ 7 August 2025

⏱️ 73 minutes

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Summary

This week we’re talking titles, toxic takes, and whether marriage needs an insurance policy. Kiki and Medinah are back with stories about wild traffic stops, real estate wins, cheating scandals on the kiss cam, and the exhausting emotional labor Black women carry in love and life. We’re asking:
→ Why do some men expect leadership with no labor?
→ Is marriage insurance the new prenup?
→ Do we sound bitter, or are we just done with the BS? Plus, Medina shares a major real estate milestone, Kiki wants to grow corn in her dream backyard, and your favorite THC libido gummies are back on the mic. Segments include:

Cocktail of the Week: Late Checkout
Real Estate Glow-Ups
The “Side Chick or Wife?” Listener Letter
Why Men Need Emotional Education
Marriage, Divorce & Soft Life Desires
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Chapters:
00:00 – Cocktail of the Week: Late Checkout
06:00 – Grandma goals, spiked sweet tea & aging dreams
15:00 – Traffic stops, real estate flexes & calling in favors
25:00 – Porn site blocks, pink porn debates & scandalous kiss cam moments
40:00 – Should wives stay through cheating? Why men don’t get emotional labor
58:00 – What is marriage insurance (and why we might need it)?
1:12:00 – Bitter or just honest?
1:30:00 – Real estate glow-up + luxury client moment
1:42:00 – VIIA ad – the high love we needed
1:50:00 – Listener letter: “Am I the side chick?”
2:00:00 – Ayahuasca trips, parallel universes, and... back rolls disappearing?!

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Transcript

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0:00.0	Yeah, yeah, check one, two, check one, two.
0:04.3	Is this mic on?
0:05.6	Is this mic on?
0:06.5	Hey, listen, man, it's the one and only trend set of DJ since, and you're listening to
0:10.4	cocktails.
0:11.4	Dirty discussions with Kiki and Medina Monroe.
0:14.5	Yeah.
0:19.7	Today's cocktail is called late checkout.
0:22.6	I love a late checkout.
0:24.3	The ingredients you need,
0:25.6	Sir Davis whiskey, two ounces of it,
0:28.2	a half ounce of lime juice,
0:29.5	a half ounce of agave nectar,
0:32.1	or spicy agave if you want to look kick in it.
0:35.6	Two dashes of Angasora bitters,
0:37.2	and you're going to
0:37.8	top it off with some ginger beer or sprite. Well, I haven't had a Sprite in a minute. Every now and I need an emergency sprite. Every now and again. You're going to garnish this with a lime will or a candied ginger. I love a good old ginger chew. This is how you're going to make it. You're going to add your whiskey, your lime, just your agave, and your bitters to a shaker with ice.
0:37.2	Shake it like you need a late checkout extension. Can I go till 2? Not 11. I need the 2 p.m. checkout. Or 4. Strain into a rocks or a high ball glass with fresh ice, and then top it with that ginger beer for the spicy grown-up vibe or the Sprite for sweet and flirty.
1:12.4	Which one are you?
1:13.7	Garnished it with the lime wheel.
1:15.4	And there you have it, guys.
1:16.3	A late check out.
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