“You Say You Deserve Better… So Why Are You Still There?”
CockTales: Dirty Discussions
Kiki Said So & Medinah Monroe
4.7 • 3.2K Ratings
🗓️ 30 April 2026
⏱️ 58 minutes
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Summary
What does it actually mean to deserve something? Is it earned… aligned… or just something we say we want?
From dating standards and “soft life” expectations to the reality of accepting less than we claim we deserve, we get real about confidence, self-worth, and the disconnect between what we say and how we move.
Plus, one of us shares a wild dating story that quickly turned into a lesson in knowing when to walk away… immediately. If you’ve ever said “I deserve better” but stayed anyway… this episode is for you.
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| 0:00.0 | Yeah, yeah, check one, two, check one, two. |
| 0:04.3 | Is this mic on? |
| 0:05.1 | Is this mic on? |
| 0:06.5 | Hey, listen, man, it's the one and only trendset of DJ since, and you're listening to cocktails. |
| 0:11.0 | Dirty discussions with Kiki and Medina Monroe. |
| 0:14.0 | Yeah. |
| 0:19.0 | Today's cocktail is called The Box. |
| 0:22.5 | The ingredients you need to make a box is a bottle of tequila. |
| 0:26.2 | Oh. |
| 0:28.0 | A cup of lemon juice and a cup of agave and a cup of lime juice. |
| 0:32.9 | And what you're going to do is you're going to pour the whole bottle into a picture of ice |
| 0:36.5 | and pour all the other ingredients |
| 0:38.4 | and then mix it up and spread it amongst shots with 20 of your friends and that is the box |
| 0:43.5 | okay well since you're sharing it with 20 friends that makes it way less scary but welcome back |
| 0:49.7 | to cocktails dirty discussions you guys i'm kiki said so hey y'all i am medina monroe now did you have that |
| 0:57.4 | this weekend or something no i haven't had that in a long time when did you have it tequila with |
| 1:04.8 | honey and lemon and lime juice i don't know but i mean a big batch i don't know it's been a minute |
| 1:09.3 | since i've had a large batch of something |
| 1:11.5 | like trash can punch. You remember trash can punch? Well, you're young, you don't care about germs. |
| 1:18.0 | Everybody was scooping. I never had that. I always thought it was gross. Like when you go to like |
| 1:22.4 | the parties and there's like a big bag. Everybody just dip in their hands in it. I will never forget in college. |
| 1:29.1 | Some of my friends were having a party at their place. |
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