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CockTales: Dirty Discussions

Pretty, Funny & Single: Are We Addicted to the Wrong Men? ft. Keysha E.

CockTales: Dirty Discussions

Kiki Said So & Medinah Monroe

Personal Journals, Relationships, Comedy, Society & Culture

4.73.2K Ratings

🗓️ 20 March 2026

⏱️ 86 minutes

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Summary

This week, we’re joined by comedian Keysha E for a fun, slightly chaotic, and very honest conversation about dating, attraction, and figuring out what we actually want. From celebrity crush debates to whether chemistry is just a toxic addiction (yes, we said it), we get into the difference between a good partner and a good time.

We also talk about pretty privilege in comedy, dating in Atlanta vs. LA, finances in relationships, and why “safe” might not be as boring as it sounds. Plus, we answer a listener question about feeling lost in life and share a CockTales story that involves a FaceTime mishap you absolutely don’t want to experience 😭

We kick things off getting to know Keysha—from her journey into comedy to what it’s like being an attractive woman in a space where people don’t always expect you to be funny . The conversation quickly turns into dating (of course), where we unpack everything from celebrity crushes and short king debates to the reality of dating in Atlanta versus Los Angeles.

We get into a deeper conversation about chemistry vs. compatibility—are we chasing that instant spark because it feels good, or because we’ve been conditioned to? And are we overlooking genuinely good partners because they don’t give us that “high”?

We also talk about marriage, financial conversations in relationships, independence, and what it looks like to build with someone instead of waiting until everything is perfect.

In this week’s advice segment, we respond to a listener who’s questioning the point of life and whether everything feels like a performance. It turns into a real conversation about purpose, slowing down, and figuring out what actually brings you joy.

And of course, we wrap things up with CockTales—where Keysha shares a story involving FaceTime that goes very, very left.


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Transcript

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0:00.0

Yeah, yeah, check one, two, check one, two.

0:04.3

Is this mic on?

0:05.6

Is this mic on?

0:06.5

Hey, listen, man, it's the one and only trendset of DJ since, and you're listening to

0:10.4

cocktails.

0:11.4

Dirty discussions with Kiki and Medina Monroe.

0:14.5

Yeah.

0:19.3

Today's cocktail is called the Keisha E on the rocks, y'all.

0:24.5

And what it includes, you just go free pour the alcohol, however you would like.

0:30.1

But we need some jalapinos, whatever tequila you like, some margarita makes, some fresh

0:34.8

lime juice, maybe even a little agave.

0:37.0

And it's basically a jalapeno margarita. It, nice, small, and spicy. Y'all enjoy a Keisha E. And we're really drinking this today. And it's tasty. Good. It didn't take too much for that. Welcome back to Cocktails Dirty Discussions, you guys. I am your host, Kiki said so. And I am your other host,

0:56.2

Medina Monroe. Hey y'all. This week, I am very excited because we are continuing our

1:04.4

women's month of celebrating women that we love, that we admire on the internet and off. We have had nothing but female guests. And it's very different from when we had all the men guests on. This week we'll have Keisha E., the stand-up comedian who also opened up for us at our LA show if you were there. She's coming on, and we're kind of going to just freestyle with Keisha. We're going to get to know her a little bit better, see how she's like in Atlanta, talk to her about her love life. You know, what she got going on? You ready, Kiki?

1:30.7

I am. But before we get into this week's episode, I do want to remind everybody to make sure that

1:37.7

you stay tuned until the very end of the episode where we have moved our announcements

1:41.2

and also check the description box or show notes wherever you are.

1:46.1

That's where it is.

1:46.9

And you'll see the links to everything

1:48.4

that we promote in the episodes,

1:50.1

any announcements that we have,

1:51.4

any exciting things that we have coming up.

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