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CockTales: Dirty Discussions

Why Are So Many Women Accepting the Bare Minimum?

CockTales: Dirty Discussions

Kiki Said So & Medinah Monroe

Comedy, Personal Journals, Relationships, Society & Culture

4.6 • 3.1K Ratings

🗓️ 17 October 2025

⏱️ 42 minutes

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Summary

Kiki Said So and Medinah Monroe are back for part two of their extended catch-up episode — and this time they’re tackling why so many women are accepting the bare minimum in dating, health, and life. From low vitamin D and unaddressed hormone issues to low-effort men and unrealized self-worth, this episode blends comedy, confession, and a few uncomfortable truths. Plus, the “Weird Sex” story of the week will leave you in disbelief (hint: it involves an ER visit and a butt plug).Detailed Show NotesSubtitle: From Low Vitamin D to Low Standards — Time to Raise BothTopics Covered
  • 💆🏽‍♀️ Cupping, Muscle Alignment & Back Pain: Kiki’s wild story about her body going on strike and how therapy (of the physical kind) brought her back.

  • ☀️ Low Vitamin D, Hormone Health & Mental Clarity: Medinah opens up about her emotional lows and discovering that her sadness wasn’t just in her head — it was in her bloodwork.

  • 💉 Redefining “Normal”: Why “normal” test results don’t always mean healthy, and how systemic biases in medicine impact Black women.

  • 💕 Dating Culture & the Bare Minimum Epidemic: The ladies react to a shocking revelation — some women have never been taken on a real date. They discuss how to raise standards, heal from bad patterns, and stop mistaking attention for effort.

  • 💬 Community and Connection: From breast cancer awareness walks to social clubs and single-mom dinners, Kiki and Medinah highlight women-centered spaces that foster real sisterhood.

  • 😳 Weird Sex Story of the Week: An ER visit turns into an unforgettable discovery when a routine scan reveals a little… extra hardware.

✨ Final Thoughts: Taking care of your body, guarding your heart, and demanding better in every area of life — from doctors to dates.


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Transcript

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0:00.0

Okay, next one.

0:08.0

I'm curious to know if your credit score was a car, what kind of car would it be?

0:13.0

93 Bronco, OJ edition.

0:16.0

Is he a murder? What about you?

0:18.0

Oh, baby, I'm a Tesla.

0:20.0

Oh, my knees. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

0:21.6

Come on, keep it coming.

0:22.6

I'm curious to know, would you still have sex if you got to the person's house and they only had a blow-up mattress?

0:30.6

Oh, man, that's funny. I'm curious to eat I'm curious to know

0:52.3

Would you rather eat booty or shtose?

0:59.5

Yeah, yeah, check one, two, check one, two.

1:01.5

Is this mic on?

1:02.8

Is this mic on?

1:03.7

Hey, listen, man, it's the one and only trendset of DJ since,

1:06.8

and you're listening to cocktails.

1:08.6

Dirty discussions with Kiki and Medina Monroe.

1:11.7

Yeah.

1:16.0

All right, you guys.

1:17.2

So welcome back to Cocktails Dirty Discussions.

1:19.4

This is part two of our extended episode, right?

1:25.2

So that is why we look the same as this part two.

2:09.3

So we left off. We did a bunch of catching up and we talked about buy a hemp. I want to remind y'all, go ahead and get by a hip. We always talk about high love. Make sure that you get Clout Nine Gummies too. They have a bunch of other stuff. And as I continue, go to the website, they have more and more products. They have a bomb, which I couldn't find because I couldn't get in the drawer, so I had to move it up on the bookshelf. But they have a bomb that I've used. A bomb, like for the bathtub? No, like B-A-L-M, that you would rub on your body. Oh, I have it. I have that. I used it because I hurt some muscle that I didn't know was there, but it made its announcement loud and clear. And I was like stuck in the bed. Like, I need a life alert.

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