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CockTales: Dirty Discussions

Why Friendship First Makes Marriage Last (w/ Jenna and Dontay of Love & Fly S*** Podcast)

CockTales: Dirty Discussions

Kiki Said So & Medinah Monroe

Comedy, Personal Journals, Relationships, Society & Culture

4.63.1K Ratings

🗓️ 18 September 2025

⏱️ 96 minutes

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Summary

This week on CockTales Dirty Discussions, Kiki and Medinah sit down with Jenna and Dontay, the married duo behind the Love and Fly Sh*t podcast. They open up about their 11-year marriage, raising kids, trust, sex, and how to keep love fresh when life gets real. From funny wedding memories to navigating parenting without family nearby, this conversation is raw, relatable, and full of wisdom for anyone curious about what makes relationships work long-term.

Detailed Show Notes:
Marriage, Partnership & Real Love Lessons
Topics Covered:

  • How Jenna & Dontay went from teenage crushes to married with two kids

  • What they believe are the “silent killers” of marriage

  • Why trust has to be earned but also given with grace

  • The role of sex and intimacy in keeping a relationship alive

  • Their wild destination wedding + missing the flight to their honeymoon

  • Adjusting to parenthood, postpartum struggles, and learning balance

  • Why friendship and communication are the foundation of their marriage

  • Lessons for singles about what to look for in a lifelong partner

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Chapters:
00:00 – Intro & Cocktail of the Week: The Blushing Bride
02:00 – Meet Jenna & Dontay of Love and Fly Sht Podcast*
04:00 – Relationship games & defining cheating
09:00 – Trust, honesty & grace in marriage
13:00 – Destination wedding & honeymoon chaos
17:00 – 11 years of marriage: what keeps it fresh
27:00 – Do married people miss being single?
31:00 – Kids, postpartum, and learning balance
37:00 – Silent killers of marriage: communication, resentment & sex
44:00 – Living together before marriage
50:00 – Long engagements & playbook myths
53:00 – How to choose the right partner


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Transcript

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0:00.0

Yeah, yeah, check one, two, check one, two.

0:04.3

Is this mic on?

0:05.6

Is this mic on?

0:06.5

Hey, listen, man, it's the one and only trend set of DJ since, and you're listening to cocktails.

0:11.4

Dirty discussions with Kiki and Medina Monroe.

0:14.5

Yeah.

0:19.9

Today's cocktail is called the blushing bride.

0:24.3

And the ingredients you need to make a bride blush.

0:27.6

One and a half ounces of vodka, one ounce of strawberry puree or muddled strawberries, a half ounce of lemon juice.

0:34.3

And you're going to top it off with some rosé proseco.

0:36.8

And you're going to garnish it with a strawberry slice on the rim. I thought you didn't like strawberries. And this is how you're going to make it. You're going to shake your vodka, your strawberry, and your lemon juice with the ice, strain it into a champagne flute or a red cup and top with some rosé praseco and that will give it the pink for the blushing bride. And bride. And that's a blushing bride. This is tasty. Thank you. Welcome back to Cocktails Dirty Discussions, you guys. I am Kiki Said So or Kira Walker, depending on how you found me. I don't know. That's right. And I am your girl. Medina Monroe. Hey, y'all. It feels like it's been a minute. It does, Even though it really hasn't been that long. It's been like two weeks. Two or three weeks. Yeah. Not that long. And I don't like strawberries in my drinks, but this is a strawberry lemonade. There's no like muddled. I can't do the muddle. I can't do the muddle either. It feels like it's not supposed to be in there.

1:28.8

Yeah, it's a texture thing. It starts to feel like blood clots and all kind of other things.

1:32.5

So, anyway, this week, you guys, we'll keep it short and cute on the announcements because we do have a guest.

1:39.2

But I just wanted to remind you guys to make sure to always check the description box of every episode, everything about our trips, the links to those, anything that we're promoting, anything that we have going on, whether it's personally or together, will be linked in the description box below. And if I forget, y'all just send me a message and I will send it. Yeah, they will. Somebody was like, well, the trip ain't in the description.

2:01.4

It's in there now.

2:03.3

I didn't have the link and I got it now. And so we're going to have that in there.

2:05.6

I hope y'all have fun on your lover girl layover.

2:08.1

And if you're coming to Jamaica and all that good stuff.

2:11.2

Okay, you guys.

2:11.8

So this week we have a couple, a very beautiful couple.

2:16.0

Mm-hmm. a couple, a very beautiful couple. You guys, we have Love and Fly shit podcast, Jenna

2:19.3

and Darnay. How y'all doing?

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