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CockTales: Dirty Discussions

Warm the Buick Up: Let’s Talk Orgasms ft. Bryanna Gená

CockTales: Dirty Discussions

Kiki Said So & Medinah Monroe

Personal Journals, Relationships, Comedy, Society & Culture

4.73.2K Ratings

🗓️ 16 May 2026

⏱️ 103 minutes

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Summary

This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, Kiki and Medinah are joined by board-certified sex and relationship coach Bryanna Gená for an honest (and hilarious) conversation about orgasms, fake moans, emotional foreplay, and why so many women struggle to speak up in the bedroom.

The ladies break down the myths women were taught about sex, why penetration alone doesn’t work for everyone, and how emotional safety, chemistry, anticipation, and communication all play a role in pleasure.

They also get into bad sex, “warming the Buick up,” men with too much confidence, masturbation, sex shame in the Black community, and why some people are literally counting sheep during sex. Plus: living apart while married, period diaper discourse, being attracted to men with “curated sex playlists,” and asking a date if he might be on the spectrum. Pour up and join the conversation because baby… somebody’s lying during sex.

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0:00.0

Yeah, yeah, check one, two, check one, two.

0:04.3

Is this mic on?

0:05.6

Is this mic on?

0:06.5

Hey, listen, man, it's the one and only trend set of DJ since, and you're listening to

0:10.4

cocktails.

0:11.4

Dirty discussions with Kiki and Medina Monroe.

0:14.5

Yeah.

0:19.6

Today's cocktail is called The Almost.

0:23.3

The ingredients you need to make this.

0:26.3

You need one and a half ounces of tequila because we're still hopeful that we're going to get there.

0:31.6

0.5 ounces of elderflower liqueur.

0:34.9

One ounce of fresh lime juice.

0:41.6

A half ounce of agave syrup, a splash of sparkling water, and optional a little dash of chili tincture if you want a little drama in the

0:46.9

drink. So here's how you're going to make it. You're going to shake your tequila, your elder

0:50.5

flour, your lime, and your agave with ice. Strain that into a coop glass and top it off

0:54.5

with your sparkling water. You can garnish the cup with a half-sugured rim and a little lime wheel

0:59.7

if you'd like, but that is the almost.

1:04.3

Refreshing.

1:05.2

Sounds like it. I'm not having to try that tonight.

1:08.0

Welcome back to Cocktails Dirty Discussions, guys. I'm Kiki Said So. Hey, y'all. I am Medina Monroe. And I want to remind you guys before we get into anything to make sure that you stay tuned to the end of the episode because we do have a few announcements. There's some stuff I know I forgot to mention last week. So make sure you listen to the end to find out everything we have going on and coming up. And you guys, this week, we are super excited. We do have a guest. And this episode is all about sex. Shocker, right? We've been doing cocktails. And me and Kiki have not had cocktails in a long time. We're going to be talking about lying about orgasming, not orgasming. Y'all, this week we're just talking about the orgasm gap,

1:45.9

and we have my girl, Brianna, Janay, in the house.

1:50.0

And I can't wait to get into it.

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