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CockTales: Dirty Discussions

Black Girl's Guide To ATL: CockTales Edition ft. Shanita @blackgirlsguideatl

CockTales: Dirty Discussions

Kiki Said So & Medinah Monroe

Personal Journals, Relationships, Comedy, Society & Culture

4.73.2K Ratings

🗓️ 4 April 2026

⏱️ 82 minutes

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Summary

This week, we’re outside (literally) with a real Atlanta insider. We’re joined by Shanita, the woman behind @blackgirlsguideatl, and she came through with the blueprint for actually enjoying this city—whether you’re dating, solo, or outside with your girls.

We kick things off with a round of I’m Curious to Know that gets a little personal (as usual), then get into everything Atlanta: where to go, what to do, and how to stop defaulting to the same tired dinner + drinks routine.

From Beltline staples and hidden gems to interactive date ideas, museums, wine tastings, and even where to meet quality men (yes… she gave real strategy), this episode is basically your Atlanta starter pack. We’re talking daytime vibes, girl dates, family-friendly options, and experiences that actually make dating fun again.

We also get into real conversation about confidence, self-worth, and dating from a place of abundance—not desperation. If you’ve ever felt stuck, overlooked, or unsure where to start, this part is for you.

Plus, we highlight some incredible Black-owned businesses, local experiences, and upcoming events you need to add to your list ASAP.

Save this episode, share it with your group chat, and take notes—because Shanita did not come to play. 

Cocktail of the Week:

“Sweet, But Don’t Play With Me”

2 oz vodka
1 oz triple sec
½ oz fresh lemon juice
Splash of soda water

Add ingredients over ice, top with soda water, and stir gently.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Yeah, yeah, check one, two, check one, two.

0:04.3

Is this mic on?

0:05.6

Is this mic on?

0:06.5

Hey, listen, man, it's the one and only trend set of DJ since,

0:09.6

and you're listening to cocktails.

0:11.4

Dirty discussions with Kiki and Medina Monroe.

0:14.5

Yeah.

0:19.3

Today's cocktail is called sweet, but don't play with me. The ingredients you need. You need two ounces

0:25.7

of vodka, one ounce of triple sec, a half ounce of fresh lemon juice, and a splash of soda water,

0:32.0

refreshing. Here's how you're going to make a sweet, but don't play with me. You're going to add

0:36.0

that vodka, the triple sec, the lemon juice to a glass with some ice,

0:39.6

top it with a splash of soda water, and stir gently.

0:43.2

And that is a sweet, but don't play with me.

0:48.9

Welcome back to Cocktails Dirty Discussions, you guys.

0:52.4

I'm not your Spanish teacher, but I am Kiki Setso.

0:55.8

This is one of my favorite dresses.

0:57.3

And I put extra club soda so we don't be getting to lit.

1:02.1

Vodka?

1:03.9

No, no, no, extra club soda.

1:06.5

So don't be afraid to sip.

1:08.3

Anyway, welcome back to the show, you guys.

1:10.0

I'm Kiki said so.

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