Ep. 497 "The Neighborhood Watch"
CockTales: Dirty Discussions
Kiki Said So
4.7 • 3.2K Ratings
🗓️ 6 July 2026
⏱️ 52 minutes
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Summary
From the pressure to be a “girl’s girl” to the very real question of whether we need everybody to like us, Kiki gets into the complicated ways we show up for other women, and when “support” turns into blindly backing somebody who may be dead wrong.
She also addresses the nosy-bitch paradox: Why do we hate when people are in our business… but suddenly know exactly who to call when we need the tea? Is being nosy actually the problem, or is it what people do with the information once they get it?
Plus, Kiki shares a show update, talks about the difference between online personas and real life, answers an advice letter from a listener who feels like she has made her boyfriend her whole personality, and makes a case for maintaining your own life...even in a loving relationship.
Grab your Neighborhood Watch cocktail, mind your business, or don’t, and join the conversation in the comments.
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| 0:00.0 | Yeah, yeah, check one, two, check one, two. |
| 0:04.3 | Is this mic on? |
| 0:05.6 | Is this mic on? |
| 0:06.5 | Hey, listen, man, it's the one and only trendset of DJ since, and you're listening to cocktails. |
| 0:11.4 | Dirty discussions with Kiki and Medina, Monroe. |
| 0:14.5 | Yeah. |
| 0:19.6 | Okay, this week's cocktail is called The Neighborhood Watch, because everybody's watching |
| 0:26.3 | everybody else, including me. |
| 0:29.1 | Anyway, the ingredients that you're going to need for this cocktail is two ounces of vodka, |
| 0:33.7 | three quarters of an ounce of an ounce of elder flower liqueur, half an ounce fresh lemon juice a splash of cucumber sparkling water some cucumber slices and mint you are going to shake the vodka elder flower and lemon with ice poured into a tall glass over fresh ice top it with sparkling water garnish with the cucumber slices and mint. And that is the neighborhood |
| 0:57.7 | watch. It is refreshing enough to mind your business until somebody starts telling a really |
| 1:03.1 | juicy story. Okay. So welcome back to Cocktails Ready Discussions, you guys. I'm your host, |
| 1:08.9 | Kiki said so. And I am here with, well, |
| 1:12.6 | where did Wittley go? I don't know where she went. She's supposed to be my emotional support |
| 1:18.5 | animal. And she do not be sitting here with me when I'm feeling anxious and nervous and stuff. |
| 1:24.1 | Maybe it's the storm. I don't know. It's been storming. Anyway, this week we have a bunch of |
| 1:30.4 | different topics. Well, not a bunch. We just have a few, actually. A few different topics to cover. |
| 1:34.9 | But first, I want to give you guys some updates. One, I thought I could remember this. |
| 1:46.3 | Okay, somebody left a response to the Instagram thing I did where I was asking you guys to send in different questions that you have for me that I could answer on the show. |
| 1:58.2 | So one of those things was what should the listeners be called? |
| 2:02.3 | And we've been calling all besties for eons. But I didn't really like that name. And I couldn't |
| 2:08.7 | come up with anything better. And it's like, it is like people do always say it's, oh, it's like |
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