Relationship ROI, Bottomless Mimosas & Separated Checks
CockTales: Dirty Discussions
Kiki Said So & Medinah Monroe
4.7 • 3.2K Ratings
🗓️ 29 January 2026
⏱️ 54 minutes
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Summary
In This Episode: The ladies discuss the transition from "brunch friends" to "real life" support and why Medinah appreciated a guy friend being 100% upfront about financial boundaries. We also get into the "weird sex" story of the week: a romantic shower that turned into an Olympic sport when the curtain rod gave up. Plus, Kiki talks about the struggle of people always "outsourcing" their work to her—from party planning to free makeup sessions.
We also cover:
- Intentional Health: Why your "Relationship ROI" starts with your own rest and wellness.
- The "Ghost" Eyebrow Incident: Why you should always have a backup makeup artist.
- Advice: Navigating a friendship that went cold during a season of grief and new motherhood.
A refreshing, spicy mocktail (with an optional kick).
- Ingredients:
- Ginger Beer
- Pear Juice or Nectar
- Fresh Lemon Juice
- Garnish: Cinnamon stick or Star Anise
- Instructions:
- Fill a copper mug or rocks glass with ice.
- Add the pear juice and fresh lemon.
- Top with ginger beer.
- Garnish with a cinnamon stick or star anise and enjoy!
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| 0:00.0 | Yeah, yeah, check one, two, check one, two. Is this mic on? Is this mic on? Hey, listen, man, |
| 0:07.4 | it's the one and only trend set of DJ since, and you're listening to cocktails. Dirty |
| 0:11.6 | discussions with Kiki and Medina Monroe. Yeah. |
| 0:19.6 | Today's cocktail is called the calm but curious mule. |
| 0:24.6 | The ingredients you need, some ginger beer, non-alcoholic, some pear juice or nectar. |
| 0:30.5 | Mm-hmm. |
| 0:31.4 | Fresh lemon juice and optional is a cinnamon stick or a star anise. |
| 0:36.3 | I don't even know what that is. Here's how you're going to make |
| 0:39.7 | a calm but curious spicy grounded is still a little noisy cocktail. You're going to fill a copper |
| 0:44.5 | mug or rocks glass with ice, add the pear juice and the lemon top with the ginger beer, garnish |
| 0:49.5 | with that cinnamon stick or not or a star anise. And you're going to enjoy that calm but curious meal |
| 0:56.3 | welcome back to cocktails or your discussions you guys i'm kiki said so i'm coffee bean |
| 1:02.9 | dean now star anise it's a spice it looks like a star is it yellow no it's like a dark brown |
| 1:09.1 | and sometimes um i forget what they call it when it's all ground up, but it looks really pretty. |
| 1:14.8 | Like a little starfish. |
| 1:16.0 | Anyway, welcome back to cocktails, you guys. |
| 1:20.5 | Let's see. |
| 1:21.4 | What are we talking about this week? |
| 1:24.3 | This week we are talking about one of the first things you put is what |
| 1:33.3 | have people always come to you for so maybe we're talking about our strengths and weaknesses perhaps |
| 1:37.2 | we'll review this before we get into it but first I wanted to remind you guys to make sure you |
| 1:42.5 | listen to the episodes the whole way through so that at the end you can hear the announcements for everything that we need to share with you. |
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