Welcome to the Love Strategies podcast, where we help women attract high-value men, date with strategy, and deepen their romantic relationships. We provide the latest research in dating and relationships, combined with plain old common sense, to give you insights into the male mind found nowhere else. Hosted by Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski.
Still single and wondering why love hasn’t clicked yet? This video uncovers four sneaky beliefs that might be sabotaging your love life—without you even realizing it. From rejecting your feminine energy to waiting until you're “100% ready,” find out what’s really holding you back and how to finally open the door to the relationship you deserve. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session
Transcribed - Published: 30 July 2025
Are you constantly swiping left and wondering why dating feels so broken? In this no-holds-barred episode, we're tackling the elephant in the room: who's more delusional in dating – men or women? Tune in to uncover the surprising truths about what both sexes get wrong and why our expectations are completely out of control. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session
Transcribed - Published: 26 July 2025
What if the key to becoming irresistible to high-character men has nothing to do with your looks and everything to do with your energy? In this video I invite you to discover 5 surprising ways to become deeply attractive to men, without playing games, pretending to be someone you’re not, or obsessing over the “perfect” dating profile. Watch now to unlock your magnetic edge. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrateg...
Transcribed - Published: 23 July 2025
Discover a smarter approach to love by rethinking your understanding of attachment. This episode reveals why common views are flawed, explaining the crucial shift from rigid "attachment styles" to fluid "attachment tendencies." Learn how to identify your true attachment patterns and gain actionable strategies to cultivate a more secure and fulfilling love life. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/sessi...
Transcribed - Published: 20 July 2025
Struggling to get the affection you desire from men? The good news is, you can have the love you desire, without chasing it. In this video, you'll discover 5 powerful (and subtle) ways to inspire more affection from men, without losing yourself or playing mind games. From celebrating his masculinity to creating emotional safety, you’ll learn how to foster the connection and warmth you deserve. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: ht...
Transcribed - Published: 16 July 2025
Do you prefer real-life sparks but find dating apps have tainted your approach? This episode unpacks the hidden ways online dating creates bad habits, from superficial evaluations to the 'What's In It For Me?' mindset. Learn how to break free and embrace a more authentic, fulfilling way to date NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session
Transcribed - Published: 12 July 2025
Ever felt like your age or confidence was scaring men off, but couldn’t quite put your finger on why? In this new video, I’m revealing the five real reasons some men avoid dating older women. Once you understand them, you’ll be in the driver’s seat of your love life. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session
Transcribed - Published: 9 July 2025
Tired of dating games and men who constantly disappoint? This episode reveals why true masculinity is so elusive and how to spot the problematic "alpha assholes." Learn to identify the S.T.R.O.N.G. qualities of genuinely good men and finally find the healthy relationship you deserve. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session
Transcribed - Published: 5 July 2025
Think you know the dating scene? Think again. In this episode, we're joined by Macy Matarazzo, a Senior Love Advisor with Love Strategies, to break down five modern dating trends and what they reveal about modern love. Learn how to decode the trends, avoid the traps, and date with more clarity (and fun) than ever before. Ask ChatGPT NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session...
Transcribed - Published: 30 June 2025
Ever wonder why dating feels so hard? This week, we're uncovering the hidden ways you're unintentionally making your romantic life miserable. Get ready to identify your own blind spots and finally break free from these frustrating patterns. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session
Transcribed - Published: 28 June 2025
Whether you’re dealing with a one-time ghoster or a guy who’s suddenly MIA mid-connection, here’s what his behavior is actually telling you—and how to respond without losing your sanity (or your standards). NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session
Transcribed - Published: 25 June 2025
That "hey" text from your ex just popped up – now what? We're tackling the tricky return of the "zombie ex," helping you decode their motivations and navigate your own mixed emotions. Before you fall back into old patterns, learn our strategic approach and the crucial questions you need to answer to decide if this blast from the past deserves a second chance, or a firm block. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrat...
Transcribed - Published: 21 June 2025
Your time is precious, especially when it comes to finding love. And if you've been burned by flaky texters, charming narcissists, or emotionally unavailable men, you're probably tired of wasting it on guys who drain your energy and leave you wondering if love is even worth it. The truth? It is, but only if you're protecting your time and heart. Let’s dive into five ways to quickly tell if a man is worth your energy… or if it’s time to say that magical four-letter word: NEXT. NEXT STEP: Bo...
Transcribed - Published: 18 June 2025
In this follow-up to the wildly popular Year of Deb, we’re diving into her “little black book” method for dating with clarity, confidence, and zero BS. Discover why calm is the new chemistry, how outcome independence makes you magnetic, and the secret power of being still. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session
Transcribed - Published: 16 June 2025
Tired of feeling like finding a high-character man is an impossible solo mission? We're changing the script on traditional dating advice. Discover the surprising power of community and how your "tribe" can become your greatest asset in attracting the love you deserve. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session
Transcribed - Published: 14 June 2025
When a man is ready to commit, it’s not about your résumé, your looks, or even how perfectly you check his boxes. It’s about how you make him feel—and there are five specific emotions that tip the scales from “she’s great” to “she’s the one.” Let’s break them down—and show you how to tap into the emotional blueprint that makes a man fall deeply (and lastingly) in love. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies....
Transcribed - Published: 11 June 2025
In this spicy episode, we’re joined by Love Strategies’ very own Macy Matarazzo—Senior Love Advisor and resident truth-teller—to unpack why so many women find themselves drawn to criminals, bad boys, and rule breakers. From dreamy mugshots to emotional mayhem, we explore the surprising psychology behind “bad boy” attraction and what it might reveal about your own dating patterns. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.loves...
Transcribed - Published: 9 June 2025
Ever been swept off your feet, only to realize it was a red flag parade in disguise? We're diving into the seemingly sweet behaviors that actually scream toxic. Learn to spot the subtle signs of manipulation and control before you fall for a fantasy, and discover how to find genuine connection instead. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session
Transcribed - Published: 7 June 2025
In this video, I’ll uncover the hidden “mind viruses” that could be sabotaging your chances at real connection. These are common, contagious beliefs that quietly sabotage your dating life—without you even realizing it. And the worst part? They often sound like empowerment… but end up closing you off to the very thing you want most: real, lasting love. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session
Transcribed - Published: 4 June 2025
Ever wonder what emotionally mature, relationship-ready men are really looking for? In this special pod, I peel back the curtain on what men (not boys) find irresistible—and how it’s completely different from what younger guys value (and why that’s a very good thing). A Gift From Me (On My Birthday): To help you get there, I created a free training just for women over 40+: 👉 LonelyToLove.com Inside, I walk you through the step-by-step process for getting clear, aligned, and ready to attract r...
Transcribed - Published: 1 June 2025
Tired of swiping left based on political affiliation? We're diving into the surprisingly complex world of dating across the aisle, challenging the notion that red and blue can't find common ground. Forget the simple advice – we'll equip you with a strategic mindset to navigate differing views and discover if love can truly conquer political divides. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session
Transcribed - Published: 31 May 2025
Unlock the secrets to effortless attraction with our 7 research-backed body language techniques that will have men drawn to you from across the room. Learn how to project confidence, spark intrigue, and master the art of nonverbal communication to captivate the right guy. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session
Transcribed - Published: 24 May 2025
Think he's being honest? Think again. This week's podcast cracks the code on the sneaky linguistic tactics guys use to bend the truth while dating, without technically lying. Learn to identify the subtle red flags and protect yourself from being misled in the confusing world of modern romance. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session
Transcribed - Published: 17 May 2025
Tired of the emotional rollercoaster and predictable heartbreak that comes with dating "bad boys"? This week, we're diving deep into why this pattern persists and, more importantly, how to break free for good. Discover the surprising psychological factors at play and gain actionable strategies to finally attract the healthy, fulfilling relationship you deserve. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/sessi...
Transcribed - Published: 10 May 2025
Are you unknowingly sabotaging your dating life? This episode reveals the surprisingly common mistakes people make that actively push potential partners away. Learn the key behaviors that lead to loneliness and how to avoid these self-defeating patterns to finally find the fulfilling relationship you deserve. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session
Transcribed - Published: 3 May 2025
Tired of dating guesswork? Learn the five must-ask questions that cut through the small talk and reveal a man's true self, fast! Stop wasting time on dead ends and start gaining real insights into his values, relationship style, and future aspirations. This episode unveils the secrets to smart dating, empowering you to find the right connection sooner. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session
Transcribed - Published: 26 April 2025
Sick of dating advice that coddles you? We're cutting through the fluff with the brutal truths you've been avoiding. Prepare for a no-holds-barred conversation about your dating habits and why you're stuck. If you're ready for real change, this episode is your wake-up call. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session
Transcribed - Published: 19 April 2025
Want to know if your date is really a good person? Words are cheap, actions reveal everything. We're showing you how to observe behavior, not just listen to promises, to truly understand a potential partner. Learn how simple things like the “Phone Test,” “Daily Dinner Test,” and the “Coin Flip Test” help you figure discover lasting love NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session
Transcribed - Published: 5 April 2025
Are you unknowingly sabotaging your love life? We're flipping the script on red flags and asking: what if you're the problem? Discover the 7 hidden habits that might be sending good guys running, and learn how to transform them for lasting love. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session
Transcribed - Published: 29 March 2025
Beyond butterflies and fireworks, what truly makes a relationship thrive? We're diving deep into the often-overlooked power of emotional protection. Join us to learn what it means, why it matters, and how to cultivate it in your own love life. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session
Transcribed - Published: 22 March 2025
Feeling like you have to choose between career success and a fulfilling relationship? We're calling BS on that myth and empowering successful women to have it all. Join us this week for practical tips on balancing ambition and love, and attracting a partner who can match your energy. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session
Transcribed - Published: 15 March 2025
Stop dreading dates and start making genuine connections. In this episode we reveal the power of conversation builders, questions that go beyond the surface. Learn the art of sparking meaningful dialogue. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session
Transcribed - Published: 8 March 2025
Struggling to get dates? In this episode we reveal the three simple strategies to boost your dating game and finally meet someone who adores you. Learn where to find eligible singles, how to be more approachable, and how to break your own dating "algorithm" for better matches. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session
Transcribed - Published: 1 March 2025
Feeling discouraged by the idea of dating after 40? It doesn’t have to be that way. In this episode, we reveal The 5 S’s of Successful Dating After 40—so you can navigate love, relationships, and the modern dating scene with confidence and ease. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session
Transcribed - Published: 22 February 2025
In this podcast, Dr. Gary reveals the science behind attraction. Learn the “Golden Rule of Attraction,” whether opposites really do attract, should you play hard to get, and how important is personality (or is it really all physical?) Discover how to increase your chances of connecting with someone special and build lasting relationships. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session
Transcribed - Published: 17 February 2025
Tired of the dating game? Learn to spot the red flags and navigate the confusing world of modern dating. In this episode, we dive deep into the common tactics men use to keep you hooked, from subtle put-downs to emotional manipulation. Discover how to respond, move on, and find someone who truly values you. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session
Transcribed - Published: 15 February 2025
Want to know what really makes a high-quality man fall for you? (Hint: It’s not looks or playing hard to get.) These 7 irresistible qualities will set you apart, making you magnetic and unforgettable. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session
Transcribed - Published: 8 February 2025
Are you a dopamine dater, chasing excitement, or a serotonin dater, seeking stability? Discover the science behind your dating style and how it affects your relationships. Decode your brain’s chemistry and transform your love life. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session
Transcribed - Published: 1 February 2025
What if finding love isn't about searching harder but becoming the best version of yourself? In this episode, Dr. Gary Lewandowski sits down with Deb, a long-time Love Strategies client, to share her inspiring transformation from heartbreak to self-worth. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session
Transcribed - Published: 29 January 2025
Thinking about dating a divorced man—or already in a relationship with one? 🤔 Discover the do’s, don’ts, and dealbreakers so you know exactly what to look for (and what to avoid). NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session
Transcribed - Published: 25 January 2025
You're smart, strong, and successful. So why can't you find love? It's time to shatter the myths and discover the secrets to attracting and keeping a great partner. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session
Transcribed - Published: 18 January 2025
You've probably heard it before: beauty is only skin deep. While physical attractiveness can certainly draw attention, it's the inner qualities that truly captivate and keep a man's interest. So, what truly makes a woman irresistible? NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session
Transcribed - Published: 11 January 2025
Is he a lone wolf or a wounded soul? Discover the signs of an emotionally broken man and understand why recognizing them is vital. Unmask the hidden patterns that could lead to a toxic relationship and learn how to protect your emotional well-being. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session
Transcribed - Published: 4 January 2025
Tired of dating drama? Join us as we uncover our four-part secret to building lasting, fulfilling relationships. Using the B.E.S.T. model, you'll learn how to attract the right partner and navigate the complexities of modern love. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session
Transcribed - Published: 28 December 2024
Remember when dating was an exciting adventure? You met new people, tried new things, and felt a spark of excitement with every potential match. But somewhere along the way, dating can lose its luster and become a frustrating, even disheartening experience. Don't worry, it's not just you. Many people find themselves feeling overwhelmed, disappointed, or confused by the modern dating landscape. But the good news is, dating can be fun again! Here are five easy ways to inject some joy and excite...
Transcribed - Published: 21 December 2024
"Guys only care about looks." This common misconception couldn't be further from the truth. While physical attraction plays a role, it's far from the only factor that draws men in. To truly captivate a man, you need to ignite an emotional connection. Here are 4 easy ways to make him emotionally captivated by you. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session
Transcribed - Published: 14 December 2024
Are you finding it difficult to maintain romantic connections? You might be unknowingly sabotaging your relationships. While you may be trying your best to impress and attract men, certain behaviors can inadvertently push them away. Here are seven common mistakes women make that can drive men away NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session
Transcribed - Published: 7 December 2024
Is the dating pool in your 40s feeling more like a murky pond than a sparkling lake? You're not alone. Many successful women find themselves navigating a new landscape of love and relationships as they enter this phase of life. But fear not, there are strategies to help you find lasting connection and fulfillment. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session
Transcribed - Published: 30 November 2024
In the quest for love, we often have a mental checklist of qualities we desire in a partner. However, could it be that these very qualities are hindering our chances of finding true and lasting love? Let's delve into the three secret qualities many women seek in a partner that might sabotage their love lives – and discover how to break free from these patterns. Originally Aired: September 23, 2023 NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year...
Transcribed - Published: 25 November 2024
First dates can be nerve-wracking, but they don't have to be. In this podcast, we'll share practical tips for having engaging conversations and making a lasting impression. Learn how to avoid awkward silences, ask the right questions, and connect with your date on a deeper level. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session
Transcribed - Published: 23 November 2024
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