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Love Strategies: Dating and Love Advice for Successful Women

You’re Triggering His Lust -  And Losing His Respect

Love Strategies: Dating and Love Advice for Successful Women

Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski

Society & Culture, Adam Lodolce, Love Strategies, Why Men Pull Away, How To Find Love, Relationships, How To Find A Husband, Dating Advice, Relationship Advice, How To Improve My Relationship

4.7719 Ratings

🗓️ 23 May 2026

⏱️ 22 minutes

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Summary

Ever wonder why the "perfect on paper" guy feels like a snooze fest, while a three-second glance at a coffee shop feels like a lightning bolt? It isn’t a mystery and it isn’t just luck, it’s biology. This week, we’re breaking down the science of testosterone and oxytocin to show you exactly how to trigger his drive to pursue and his desire to stay. Want to stop guessing why men pull away and start creating real desire and devotion rooted in science and strategy? https://go.lovestrategie...

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0:00.0

There are two ways to scientifically attract men. In today's podcast, we're going to dive deep into

0:06.6

some of the science and understanding the biology of desire and devotion. Gary, this is going to be a good one.

0:13.5

I think everyone's going to like this one. Welcome to the Love Strategies podcast, where we help

0:18.9

successful women attract high-value men,

0:21.2

date with a strategy, and improve their relationships.

0:23.8

Now, whether you're single or in dating or in a new relationship, we're here to help you

0:27.7

dive into the male mind and provide raw insights found nowhere else, backed by science, psychology,

0:32.6

and our own personal experiences.

0:34.4

Your host today are myself, Adam LaDolce, and professional dating coach and founder

0:37.7

of Love Strategies, and Dr. Gary Lewandowski, a relationship scientist, professor, and our head

0:42.8

relationship coach here at Love Strategies. Please share with a friend and enjoy.

0:48.4

I love it because, you know, you're on a first date. Things are going well, locking eyes.

0:52.0

You're feeling that little, that spark. But are you also feeling connection?

0:57.2

Is it his personality? No, maybe. Maybe. Is it just compatibility? Maybe. But it actually, what's really

1:03.5

fascinating about humans and human behavior is we think we're in control of everything. We think we have a

1:09.2

plan. We think we can, we're masters of our

1:11.6

actions and thoughts and behaviors in every possible way. And we're not. It turns out, you know,

1:16.7

there's a biological underpinning to so much of how we think and feel and behave and our

1:23.2

motivations. And so we're talking about two of those chemicals, testosterone and oxytocin today,

1:31.1

that are in many ways dictating your love life. And so we're going to talk about how to make

1:36.1

them work for you. Yeah. And it's really driving a lot of men's behaviors. A man's testosterone

1:43.7

versus his oxytocin in many ways drives different behaviors.

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