3½ Words That Make Men Pursue a Woman

Love Strategies: Dating and Love Advice for Successful Women

Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski

Society & Culture, Adam Lodolce, Love Strategies, Why Men Pull Away, How To Find Love, Relationships, How To Find A Husband, Dating Advice, Relationship Advice, How To Improve My Relationship

4.7 • 719 Ratings

🗓️ 11 March 2026

⏱️ 8 minutes

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This is for women who are done playing hard-to-get, but still want to be deeply pursued by the right man. In this podcast, I lay out a few small shifts that quietly change how high-quality men experience you from the first interaction. If you’ve ever felt like you had to choose between being “the prize” and being genuinely warm, this will feel like a relief. Listen with an open mind, then notice what starts to change the next time a good man is sitting across from you. Discover tiny shifts th...

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0:00.0	When a man is interested in pursuing a woman, I'm telling you, ladies, he is looking for any sign that you are not going to reject him horrifically.
0:10.7	Because let me tell you, before I was an executive love coach for all of you, beautiful ladies trying to get out there and find love, I used to actually coach men on how to get out there and flirt with you.
0:18.5	Yes, you.
0:19.3	And because the vast majority of you out there
0:22.1	are looking for the man to be the pursuer, you don't want to get out there pursuing, you don't
0:27.2	want to be the chaser, you want to be the chooser, you're looking for a man to pursue you.
0:31.5	We need to give some of those signals out there to the world that you're open, that it's okay to pursue. And so in today's
0:40.0	video, I'm going to be giving you three and a half words that you can use to make men pursue you.
0:46.6	And it's not just one word. I will boil it down to one word, but it's not just the one word.
0:51.1	It's the essence behind the word. And yes, you did hear me right.
0:54.8	There is a half a word and you'll get what I'm talking about when I get to that word.
0:58.1	My name's Adam LaDolche. I'm the CEO and founder of Love Strategies where we help successful single women just like you.
1:04.1	Get out there and attract the highest caliber man and make them pursue you for a long lasting relationship. And over the past decade, we've helped
1:12.5	tens of thousands of women attract the highest caliber guys by using these types of strategies,
1:19.1	not the low-caliber guys. We don't want guys who are just pursuing you for a one-night fling. No.
1:24.2	We want men that are interested in something serious for the future. And when you embody these words, oh my God, does it become possible?
1:30.3	So the first word is yes.
1:32.6	There is some terrible dating advice out there that tells women to play hard to get,
1:37.9	as if that is going to increase the number of options that you have out there.
1:42.5	If you're going out with your girlfriends
1:44.6	or you're going out on a first date and all of your energy out there is just no, no, no, no, no,
1:50.2	no energy, I assure you, the only guys that you're going to attract are the players, are the guys
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