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Love Strategies: Dating and Love Advice for Successful Women

9 Things to Look for in the Man You Marry

Love Strategies: Dating and Love Advice for Successful Women

Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski

Society & Culture, Adam Lodolce, Love Strategies, Why Men Pull Away, How To Find Love, Relationships, How To Find A Husband, Dating Advice, Relationship Advice, How To Improve My Relationship

4.7719 Ratings

🗓️ 4 March 2026

⏱️ 15 minutes

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Summary

If you keep falling for charm… and paying for it later, listen to this. There’s a difference between a man who excites you and a man you can actually build a life with. In this podcast, I break down the 9 traits of a high character man - the qualities that matter long after the chemistry fades. If you are done with charming “puppy kickers” and ready to attract a truly high character man, apply for your complimentary Love Strategy Session today: https://go.lovestrategies.com/begin N...

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0:00.0

Ladies, the qualities that you look for in a boyfriend is completely different than the qualities

0:06.5

you look for in a husband. And it's so easy to fall into this trap of you go on a first couple

0:12.7

of dates and someone is incredibly charming. They're incredibly successful and incredibly

0:16.3

handsome. Maybe your ex-husband was this way. But it turns out that every weekend he really loves just kicking little puppies. Like that was his favorite pastime. And because we love puppies here, we would never, never, never allow any of our clients to get involved with someone like that. I want to reveal to all of you right now the nine things to

0:39.5

look for in a man that you marry. And what I'm going to be talking about is going to be very

0:44.4

different from some of the advice that you hear out there on the interwebs. Because so many of the

0:49.0

dating gurus out there and coaches and all that stuff, they'll say for you to find your high value man.

0:55.5

And here at Love Strategies, we inherently believe that that's actually the wrong core focus.

1:00.1

We don't want to find a high value man.

1:03.5

We want to attract a high character man.

1:07.2

And this doesn't mean that a high character man can't be successful, charming, and really

1:11.2

interesting and really good in bed. It just means that as the core focus of what it is that we're

1:16.8

looking for and a person that we're going to spend the rest of our life with, they're going to

1:21.6

have high character. My name's Adam Lidolte. I'm the CEO of Love Strategies and Executive Love

1:27.2

Coach here. and I love

1:28.8

acronyms. And I have turned the word character into an acronym. So here are the nine things to

1:33.9

look for in the man that you marry. The first one, the C in character is that he is caring. When someone

1:39.7

is caring in a relationship, it means that they just have a deep concern for your well-being.

1:45.3

And this can be expressed in very small moments or in very big moments.

1:49.4

An example of a small moment, it actually happened this past weekend because my wife,

1:53.4

she got a paddicure and I'm sure you all have experienced this where they go a little bit

1:58.6

too deep and her toes gotten a little bit infected.

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