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Love Strategies: Dating and Love Advice for Successful Women

He’s Moving Way Too Fast? Say THIS to Slow Him Down

Love Strategies: Dating and Love Advice for Successful Women

Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski

Society & Culture, Adam Lodolce, Love Strategies, Why Men Pull Away, How To Find Love, Relationships, How To Find A Husband, Dating Advice, Relationship Advice, How To Improve My Relationship

4.7719 Ratings

🗓️ 18 February 2026

⏱️ 7 minutes

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Summary

So many high-achieving women tell me the same story: “He was wonderful… until he started pushing for sex.” If that sounds familiar, I want you to see that moment not as a crisis, but as a powerful filter. In this podcast, I share one simple conversation that instantly reveals what a man is really available for, without drama or games. If you’re tired of guessing where you stand, this will give you a much cleaner way to navigate those early dates. If you want to learn how to slow things down i...

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0:00.0

Well, surprise, surprise. That tall, handsome, successful, charming guy who is such a gentleman

0:06.8

on that first date takes you out on a second date. And then bam, out of nowhere, he wants to

0:12.7

take you home. He wants to move things forward. He's making some of those moves. Are we surprised

0:17.4

that guys do this? No, you probably experience this a lot of times. As a guy,

0:23.0

I'm definitely not surprised. But what do you do in that situation? And I know you think I'd

0:27.7

probably just say next and move on to the next, but I'm going to give you a different perspective

0:32.3

that I think will help you out a lot in that situation. What's up everyone? Adam LaDolte here.

0:35.7

I'm an executive of coach and CEO of Love Strategies where we help successful single

0:39.5

women get out there, find love with a proven strategy and do it in an empowering way.

0:45.0

And I got to say, as always, I'm your big brother watching out for you to make sure that

0:50.5

these guys who are trying to pressure you into bed, they don't have a chance to get you

0:55.1

into bed on a second date. No way in hell around here. Because that's what big brothers do.

0:59.9

I kind of block you a little bit. Excuse my French here. But it's true. We need to slow it down

1:05.9

in the early stage of dating to ensure that this guy is actually a good long-term potential partner for you,

1:14.2

not just some short-term fling that it's going to go anywhere from three weeks to three months

1:17.9

and then burn up and just this blaze of flames once you realize that this guy is just a raging

1:23.2

narcissist. So this topic actually came up last night on one of my mastermind coaching sessions

1:27.7

with some clients. I thought I would talk about it today. And one client in particular is talking

1:32.2

to a few different guys at the same time. I know for those who are new to love strategies,

1:37.8

might think that's a little weird, but that's what we do around here. She's in what we call

1:41.9

Little Love Step number five, where she's pacing the

1:44.9

progression of her connections. You want to learn all the little love steps. Just click the link

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