Now, I want to shoot a very quick video for all of you beautiful ladies out there who are getting out there, dating, talking to multiple guys, but you're not sure which guy to commit your heart to.

And this video actually comes from a story that came up with one of my clients just the other day, and I wanted to share it with you all.

So I was hosting a coaching session,

and one of my clients came on. She's maybe in her late 50s, early 60s. I've always learned,

never ever ask a woman her age. I've learned that lesson the hard way as a male coach,

helping women find love. But I'm going to guess she's in her late 50s, early 60s. And she came on the session and she was freaking out. It was like, Adam, I don't know what to do. The world is falling apart. I'm not sure. And this happens sometimes. It's okay. That's what we're here for. And she goes on to tell me, well, I've been working the process. I've been following the little love steps and I'm now in little love step number five. And I thought to myself, hmm, little love step number five is usually a good thing, right? That means that you're talking to multiple people at the same

time. You're pacing, you're evaluating, you're determining who you're going to commit your heart to.

So I ask her, what's the problem?

What's going on? She says, Adam, I have two amazing guys that are pursuing me who want to commit to me.

What do I do? And so everyone in the room took a big sigh of relief and thought to themselves,

well, this is a problem, but this is what we call a champagne problem. It's a good problem to have. It's kind of like when really rich people are complaining about how much they have to pay in taxes. Now, I get it. And I don't like paying taxes, just like the next person. But it's kind of like a champagne problem. Like, if you're making $30 million a year and you're complaining about your tax rate, like it's not the biggest problem in the world. You know what I'm saying?

Anyways, I digress. This is an equal champagne problem. You got two guys who are really interested in you,

who are pursuing you, they want to commit to you. How do you evaluate which guy to commit your heart to at this stage?

So I wanted to share with you all the exercise that I walked her through because I think it'll be really helpful for all of you.

As you determine which of these guys you might be getting out there talking to are going to be right for not just the next three weeks, three months or three years.

I'm talking the next 30 years because that's what we do around here at love strategies. We want to help you attract long-lasting love. Now, with all that said, I did mention the seven little love steps. If you want to learn all the seven little love steps, I'll leave a link in the description so you can watch a very special training. It's going to walk you through the exact process that we walk our client through.

Or you can head on over to the lovesteps.com to get that training.

So back to the client's story.

Now, when we're thinking about a lasting relationship, we want to look for three core qualities.

And I'm going to walk you through all three.

The first one is attraction.

Now, I talk about attraction first because it's what 95% of people spend 95% of their energy looking for.

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