5 Ways To Stop Getting The Ick From The Man You Actually Need

Love Strategies: Dating and Love Advice for Successful Women

Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski

Society & Culture, Adam Lodolce, Love Strategies, Why Men Pull Away, How To Find Love, Relationships, How To Find A Husband, Dating Advice, Relationship Advice, How To Improve My Relationship

4.7 • 719 Ratings

🗓️ 2 May 2026

⏱️ 32 minutes

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Summary

Are you addicted to the "chase" but exhausted by the results? It’s time to talk about why the "boring" guy is actually the one who will make you happiest. Ready to stop chasing elusive players and start choosing a stable, “spicy vanilla” man who actually feels safe and long term? Apply for a complimentary Love Strategy Session here: https://go.lovestrategies.com/begin Discover why your brain is wired to give you "the ick" for the wrong reasons and how to find a "Spicy Vanilla" partner who can...

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0:00.0	This is a message to all of those successful single women out there who are dating the players.
0:07.3	There are two guys on this podcast right here who are your big brothers officially starting now.
0:13.7	And we're watching out for you.
0:15.6	And we're going to cut those guys out of your life and start attracting high quality men.
0:20.8	So today's podcast is all about
0:23.5	removing those playboys, removing those players so that we can focus our energy in the right direction.
0:31.9	Welcome to the Love Strategies podcast where we help successful women attract high value men,
0:37.0	date with a strategy, and improve
0:38.3	their relationships. Now, whether you're single or dating or in a new relationship, we're here to
0:43.1	help you dive into the male mind and provide raw insights found nowhere else, backed by science,
0:47.9	psychology, and our own personal experiences. Your host today are myself, Adam LaDolche,
0:51.9	and professional dating coach and founder of Love Strategies, and Dr. Gary Lewandowski, a relationship scientist, professor, and our head relationship coach here at Love Strategies.
1:00.3	Please share with a friend and enjoy.
1:04.3	What do you think, Gary? Are we here to protect these women from these guys?
1:07.6	Yeah, it's about realizing what you really want.
1:11.0	You want a solid good guy.
1:27.0	Stop with the players. Stop with the guy who maybe he's going to text. Maybe he's going to contact you. Maybe he's not. He says maybe we'll do something on Saturday and you don't hear from him until Saturday morning. And it's like, ooh, no, he texted. Now he does want to go out with me. It's like, no, no, no, no.
1:28.3	And it's also, though, making sure you don't fall into a bad pattern where when the guy does text routinely
1:34.6	every morning, good morning, you're not like, ick, gross, right? And just then to like only wonder
1:42.2	and stare at your phone, look into a guy who's been on red for eight hours, being like, is he gonna? Is he gonna?
1:47.8	Like that's, we just want to make sure we're not falling into really bad habits.
1:52.7	Definitely. Well, I think there's a difference between what people say that they want and what they actually do.
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