Why Dating Your Type is Keeping Your Single

Love Strategies: Dating and Love Advice for Successful Women

Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski

Society & Culture, Adam Lodolce, Love Strategies, Why Men Pull Away, How To Find Love, Relationships, How To Find A Husband, Dating Advice, Relationship Advice, How To Improve My Relationship

4.7 • 719 Ratings

🗓️ 17 January 2026

⏱️ 34 minutes

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Are you tired of dating the "same guy, different name" with the same disappointing results? Take the free Attraction Archetype assessment and understand your patterns - https://go.lovestrategies.com/archetype Apply for a complimentary Love Strategy Session - https://go.lovestrategies.com/begin What if the very qualities you look for in a partner are actually keeping you single? This episode reveals how your "type" can be a cage, not a compass, and why breaking free might just lead you to the ...

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0:00.0	It is possible that your type is keeping you single. And today, Dr. Gary and I are going to make an
0:08.0	argument about why dating your type might be actually sabotaging your love life because you
0:13.2	probably met a lot of guys in your life. Maybe you've been dating for a while and you feel like
0:17.5	you know what you like and what you don't like. And there are certain guys you just click with. That might all be true. But at the end of the day, this could actually be a real problem in your love life because it's not optimizing for the right thing. Welcome to the Love Strategies podcast, where we help successful women attract high value men, date with a strategy, and improve their
0:37.5	relationships.
0:38.5	Now, whether you're single or dating or in a new relationship, we're here to help you dive
0:42.8	into the male mind and provide raw insights found nowhere else, backed by science, psychology,
0:47.3	and our own personal experiences.
0:49.0	Your host today are myself, Adam Lodulci, professional dating coach and founder of love
0:52.6	strategies, and Dr. Gary Lewandowski,
0:55.2	a relationship scientist, professor, and our head relationship coach here at Love Strategies.
0:59.3	Please share with a friend and enjoy.
1:02.7	What do you think, Gary?
1:04.0	This is going to be a big topic for us.
1:06.2	This is one that has come up so much recently, I feel, where it's like, but he's not my type, but he's not my type.
1:13.7	Okay.
1:14.6	Well, maybe your types is the problem.
1:17.0	And I get it.
1:17.7	It's like we pursue our type because it feels easier.
1:21.5	It feels familiar.
1:23.1	But let's be honest.
1:24.0	Like if this type of yours was good for you, you probably would have found it already.
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