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Love Strategies: Dating and Love Advice for Successful Women

Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski

Society & Culture, Adam Lodolce, Love Strategies, Why Men Pull Away, How To Find Love, Relationships, How To Find A Husband, Dating Advice, Relationship Advice, How To Improve My Relationship

4.7 • 719 Ratings

🗓️ 18 April 2026

⏱️ 13 minutes

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Summary

When I say “never settle,” I don’t mean what Instagram usually means by it. In this episode, I walk you through how I actually think about standards, trade-offs, and non-negotiables in a way that successful women rarely get told. If you’ve ever wondered whether your bar is high in the right places, this will give you a calmer, more strategic lens. And it might quietly explain why some very good men never make it past the first date with you. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Ses...

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0:00.0	What's up everybody? Adam LaDolte here from Love Strategies and this is a very special pod where I actually get to touch Gary.
0:07.2	Oh, easy. Yeah. Easy. In my hotel room because we are here. Easy. In Phoenix, Arizona. We have a very special podcast for all of you.
0:17.8	Welcome to the Love Strategies podcast where we we help successful women attract high-value men,
0:22.7	date with a strategy, and improve their relationships.
0:25.3	Now, whether you're single or dating or in a new relationship, we're here to help you dive
0:29.6	into the male mind and provide raw insights found nowhere else, backed by science, psychology,
0:34.1	and our own personal experiences.
0:35.9	Your host today are myself, Adam LaDolche, and professional dating coach and founder of Love
0:39.4	Strategies, and Dr. Gary Lewandowski, a relationship scientist, professor, and our head
0:44.3	relationship coach here at Love Strategies.
0:46.1	Please share with a friend and enjoy.
0:50.1	Why are we in Phoenix?
0:51.6	Well, we're here for a very special event with a select few of our clients where we get together for a very special retreat.
0:59.0	So Gary and I thought we'd hang out in the hotel room to a little touchy touch and talk about relationships.
1:07.3	To be fair, I did say my text back to you was this is a weird way to get me up to your hotel room.
1:12.4	It worked.
1:13.4	He knows how much I love a good podcast.
1:16.7	So Gary and I were talking.
1:18.2	We're going into the event.
1:19.4	We haven't actually hosted it yet.
1:20.9	But we wanted to talk to you all about what we think is the number one biggest mistake that a lot of very successful women make when they're finding
1:31.2	love. We wanted to share this with you all on kind of an off-the-cuff podcast. So, Gary, what would
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