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Love Strategies: Dating and Love Advice for Successful Women

10 Questions That Make Emotionally Distant Men Finally Open Up

Love Strategies: Dating and Love Advice for Successful Women

Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski

Society & Culture, Adam Lodolce, Love Strategies, Why Men Pull Away, How To Find Love, Relationships, How To Find A Husband, Dating Advice, Relationship Advice, How To Improve My Relationship

4.7719 Ratings

🗓️ 6 June 2026

⏱️ 30 minutes

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Summary

If you’re tired of hearing "fine" and "nothing" every time you ask a man how he’s doing, it’s time to change the input to get a better output. We’re breaking down the 10 power questions that bypass the "small talk trap" and get him to open up faster than years of hinting ever could. Want to stop getting one-word answers and start having real, vulnerable conversations with men that actually build connection? Book your free Love Strategy Session: https://go.lovestrategies.com/begin NEXT ...

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For all you beautiful ladies out there who've gone out with a guy and you try to get him to open up a little bit.

0:06.4

Maybe ask him a question like, what was your day?

0:09.2

And he responds, fine.

0:11.6

And then you ask, what's wrong?

0:13.9

He says, nothing.

0:15.9

Does that sound familiar?

0:16.9

Has that ever happened to any of you?

0:18.6

I'm guessing yes, it has.

0:20.8

And so in today's pod, we're going to be talking about 10 questions that you can ask to get a guy to open up fast. We're going to get these guys opening up in ways that perhaps you might even be like, whoa, he's opening up more than I've ever experienced before. Did I just open up a can of worms? I don't know. Gary, this is going to be a good one. Let's go. Welcome to the Love Strategies podcast, where we help successful women attract high-value men, date with a strategy, and improve their relationships. Now, whether you're single or dating or in a new relationship, we're here to help you dive into

0:54.3

the male mind and provide raw insights found nowhere else, backed by science, psychology, and our

0:59.0

own personal experiences. Your host today are myself, Adam Lodulche, professional dating coach

1:03.3

and founder of Love Strategies, and Dr. Gary Lewandowski, a relationship scientist, professor,

1:08.1

and our head relationship coach here at Love Strategies. Please share with a friend and enjoy.

1:14.3

I love this topic because I think one of the most common limiting beliefs that women have

1:19.8

around dating is guys don't open up. They're not emotionally vulnerable. They're emotionally

1:25.7

distant. They're just not interested at all in opening up.

1:29.1

And I would really love to push back against that because I just fundamentally do not

1:32.8

believe that it's true.

1:34.2

I think a lot of times guys are reluctant to open up.

1:37.6

But I think, well, I'm going to scratch that too.

1:40.1

I know for a fact that if you start asking guys the right kinds of questions, along with your own

1:46.5

willingness to be a little vulnerable yourself, guys will absolutely open up. And it's just a matter

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