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Love Strategies: Dating and Love Advice for Successful Women

Men CHOOSE Women Based on These 5 Emotions

Love Strategies: Dating and Love Advice for Successful Women

Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski

Society & Culture, Adam Lodolce, Love Strategies, Why Men Pull Away, How To Find Love, Relationships, How To Find A Husband, Dating Advice, Relationship Advice, How To Improve My Relationship

4.7719 Ratings

🗓️ 20 April 2026

⏱️ 10 minutes

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Summary

When a man is ready to commit, it’s not about your résumé, your looks, or even how perfectly you check his boxes. It’s about how you make him feel—and there are five specific emotions that tip the scales from “she’s great” to “she’s the one.” Let’s break them down—and show you how to tap into the emotional blueprint that makes a man fall deeply (and lastingly) in love. Originally aired: Jun. 11, 2025 NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this ...

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Now, if you've been single for any amount of time, you might be wondering, do many even feel

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emotion? Yeah, we do sometimes. But if a man isn't ready for love, it's going to feel a little

0:35.6

bit robotic, almost emotionally detached. But if a man is ready to choose a woman for a lifelong committed relationship, he's going to do it based on these five emotions. Hey there, my name's Adam LaDolche. I'm an executive love coach and the CEO of Love Strategies, where we help successful single women get out there and attract love and do it with a proven strategy. And I would say a unique perspective that I tend to bring to the table when it comes to helping women attract love, is that I used to coach men on how to meet women just like you. So I used to coach guys on how to build their social confidence, how to be able to meet women, be able to flirt. And I help the guys that you would typically overlook when you were going out and meeting people. And I would help them build confidence to be able to attract a great woman. So yeah, you're welcome. And I think back to that time, I had this guy who was a client, and he was one of the most successful people I'd ever met. He was like a hedge fund finance guy, all of that stuff, had the big house, fancy cars,

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all that stuff. But I remember when I spoke with him about his love life and what it is he was

1:32.4

looking for, he had a list of all the attributes he wanted in a woman. It was a really long list.

1:38.2

And I remember it was like he wanted to be extremely into fitness. He wanted to make sure that

1:42.5

she was into climbing mountains, not just like hiking, but climbing mountains, like the real go-getter type, right? He had this huge long list. He was kind of ridiculous. Needless to say, I tried to tell him how ridiculous his list was and tried to build what I call a love vision with him, but he was ignoring it. He was like, no, this is what I want. this is what I'm going to get. That's it. Just help me find this woman. So I said, fine, whatever. Let me get you out there, at least meeting people. And a few months later, after he went through this process, he went out on his own and he randomly met a woman at a party. And she was the complete opposite of this list. I mean, she was artsy, she had tattoos. She had like a sleeve

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tattoos. Pretty had like a sleeve tattoos.

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Pretty cool. And she never even went to college. Like, he just wasn't his, no judgment there. It just wasn't his archetype of what he was trying to create with his sculpture of a perfect woman.

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And to the surprise of all of his friends and family, a year later, he married her.

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Now, you might be thinking, how the hell did that happen? Well, here's the reality of love.

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It's not about logic or a checklist. It's about how you make a guy feel. That's what matters most.

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So I want to break this process down for you. And these are the five emotions that I saw most when guys would make a somewhat illogical

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decision when it came to their love life for good or for bad because they felt one of

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