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let's get to the podcast. So in today's podcast, we're going to be discussing the seven

seemingly nice things that guys do that are actually red flags because I get it. You meet a guy. He's cool. He's charismatic. He's romantic. You hit it off. Immediately the sparks are flying. You're getting those good morning, good night text, the compliments, all of that stuff. But in the end, are some of these actually red flags? So Gary and I are going to be jumping into this.

Gary, this would be a good topic for, I think, a lot of the audience to listen into. I think women want to date. I think everybody, right? I mean, everybody wants to date somebody that's cool. And so you want to be cool. You want to be interesting. You want to be like a little, like, give you a little wonder. But you also, I think for women, and I hear this from clients a lot, is they want to make sure he's a nice guy and not a jerk.

And so what I like about what we're talking about today is these are like nice guy red flags in the sense that nice guys will do this and they'll do it authentically.

But guys who are, we'll call them just wrong guys, also do some of these things and it's not a great

sign. And so we're going to do for listeners today what I feel like we do all the time for

our clients, which is just a little reality testing because we don't know for sure why a guy's

doing anything most of the time, right? But it's let's just make sure we're being as thorough and

thoughtful about each of these behaviors because sometimes these are perfectly good, benign,

helpful, positive things. And other times it's like, it's a move. It's a thing that this guy's

doing. Just watch out. Yeah. Yeah, there are some guys.

They know the rulebook.

There are some guys, actually.

I just went to a conference last week in Mexico, and there are a bunch of coaches there.

I'm certainly not going to name names, but there were some dating coaches for men there.

And I was walking by a conversation that one of these dating coaches for men was

having with just some woman. And he was explaining what he does. And he was also kind of doing it to

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